Episode 50: How Do I Manage Envy I Have for the New Supply

We feel envy when someone else has something we don't have. If all you were getting was crumbs or abuse, then odds are it's not so much him that you miss--it's the crumbs of attention and affection that you miss.

If you can get yourself into a place where you are getting affection and attention in a healthier way it can really help. This attention does not have to even be from a boyfriend (and ideally it wouldn't be--it would be through friends, hobbies, or new experiences). Meetup.com can be a great place to meet people in a non-dating type of environment.

#nomorecrumbs

From the full livestream October 5th, 2016

Do you have a narcissist, sociopath, or psychopath in your life, or think that you might? Are you in (or recently out of) of a relationship that you can only describe as crazy making, toxic, or like a lifetime TV movie? Then you are in the right place.

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Disclaimer: I am not a therapist, doctor, attorney, or expert in Narcissism...or anything at all really. If anything, I am a student of life, love, behavior and behavior change, and a woman who is dedicated to thriving.

Professionally, I worked as an advocate for victims of domestic violence at a domestic violence shelter, and currently I am a psychiatric nurse. Personally, I have been through two relationships with narcissists, and have been able to not only survive those, but have been able to move forward and thrive.

My goal with these videos is to share all of my lessons learned, as well as to start many important conversations about abuse, and recovery with the hopes that together we can provide the clarity, closure, and healing that we all deserve.

Remember: You are not crazy. You are not alone. And yes, you really can heal from this.