Thick & Thin
227 episodes - English - Latest episode: 12 months ago - ★★★★★ - 1.9K ratingsThe spoken diary of Katy Bellotte, a self-employed graphic designer living in New York. Each Thursday, Katy blends her personal experiences with stories from history, offering advice, laughs & some major epiphanies. She chats about living in full color, through the thick & the thin (with a dirty martini in hand).
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Instant gratification is ruining our lives
April 23, 2020 20:49 - 46 minutesThis week on Thick & Thin I talk about instant gratification and how it's ruining our lives, affecting our confidence and increasing our anxiety levels. I research the psychological and scientific reasons for this, as well as chat about my current Patreon content venture, a friend's clothing brand & the magic we can find once we slow down and accept that some projects and elements of our lives won't be instantly gratifying - and that's for the better. // Follow me on instagram: instagram.com/...
Why "almost" relationships hurt more than real ones & more
April 17, 2020 00:17 - 47 minutesIn today's episode of Thick & Thin I introduce the first "Dear Katy" segment, where I answer your juicy, personal questions anonymously. I discuss almost lovers put on hold because of quarantine, comparing ourselves to others, when to expose a cheater & more. // Follow me on Instagram & submit your questions: instagram.com/katybellotte Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/thick-and-thin/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices...
Why it's hard for us to be alone & productive right now
April 10, 2020 20:47 - 47 minutesIn this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss why it's hard to be productive in the same ways we're used to, given the anxieties we feel during this uncertain time. I also talk about the concept of being alone and why it's so hard for some of us to be alone with ourselves, and why we rely so much on external things like our friends & other distractions. // Follow me on Insta: Instagram.com/katybellotte Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/thick-and-thin/donations Advertising Inquirie...
Do I like them or am I just bored?
April 02, 2020 22:28 - 47 minutesIn this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss dating, revisiting old flames during this period of social distancing, and why we tend to obsess over the ones who don't love us back. I also tell a crazy story about the 1812 love affair between poet Lord Byron & Lady Caroline Lamb. Lord Byron is described as being one of the "first f*ckboys" largely documented in history & Lady Caroline Lamb was dubbed "the first crazy ex-girlfriend." It's an interesting story with many elements that still ring true...
Be careful what you wish for...
March 26, 2020 19:00 - 45 minutesIn this episode of Thick & Thin I chat more about the concept of history repeating itself, unearthing events of the early 1900's that are eerily similar to today's events with COVID-19. Many of us rang in the New Year 2020 wishing for another "Roaring 20's," - did we get our wish? I also tell the story of 1918 Flu Pandemic survivor and world famous artist, Georgia O'Keeffe. Georgia was dubbed "the mother of American Modernism," a style that emerged during the 1920's and brought forth a lot of...
When things don't go as planned
March 20, 2020 21:31 - 31 minutesThis short-but-sweet episode of Thick & Thin is meant to shed a bit of hopefulness & light on the current state of our world. The Coronavirus pandemic has upended a lot of lives, put a lot of things on hold and caused quite a bit of uncertainty. I speak a bit about that in this episode, as well as sharing some inspiring quotes, passages & goals I have for myself during this time. // Follow me on instagram: Instagram.com/katybellotte Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/thick-and-t...
Contagious fear & repeating history
March 13, 2020 00:40 - 43 minutesIn this episode of Thick & Thin I chat a little bit about the recent Coronavirus COVID-19 pandemic, my personal thoughts & how to remain positive during times of fear. I also discuss the story of American Red Cross founder Clara Barton, the Influenza outbreak of 1918 and Outdoor Voices founder Tyler Haney. // www.instagram.com/katybellotte Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/thick-and-thin/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad cho...
My unfiltered NYC dating life & story time
March 05, 2020 19:37 - 46 minutesThis episode of Thick & Thin is a healthy dose of dating GIRL TALK, inspired by a recent wine night I hosted at my apartment with friends. I discuss some recent NYC dating stories + answer listener questions pertaining to rejection, positivity with dating apps + paying for the first date. // Follow me on IG: @katybellotte Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/thick-and-thin/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcas...
My unfiltered NYC dating life + story time
March 05, 2020 19:37 - 46 minutes - 42.9 MBThis episode of Thick & Thin is a healthy dose of dating GIRL TALK, inspired by a recent wine night I hosted at my apartment with friends. I discuss some recent NYC dating stories + answer listener questions pertaining to rejection, positivity with dating apps + paying for the first date. // Follow me on IG: @katybellotte
Doing more than one thing & my freelance career
March 02, 2020 21:24 - 48 minutesIn this episode of Thick & Thin I recap a recent trip to the University of South Carolina, an encounter with a parking lot attendant, & chat more about my freelance career. I also share the story of Mary Barra, the first female CEO of a major automobile company, General Motors. She has incredible leadership sentiments that are essential for us all to know! // Follow me on Instagram: @katybellotte Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/thick-and-thin/donations Advertising Inquiries:...
Self-doubt is killing your dreams
February 20, 2020 22:00 - 50 minutesIn this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss self-doubt, analysis paralysis & impostor syndrome. Shakespeare called doubt a traitor that makes us "lose the good we oft might win, by fearing to attempt." I offer advice on how to fight self-doubt, pulling in stories of the greats who once had doubt, like Madonna & Oprah. // Follow me on Insta: @katybellotte Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/thick-and-thin/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more abou...
The revenge dress
February 13, 2020 19:22 - 44 minutesIn this extra special Valentine's Day special of Thick & Thin I answer some light-hearted questions about love & also discuss the story of Princess Diana's 1994 "revenge dress." Valentine's Day can really stir up our emotions so I hope this episode will leave everyone feeling confident and hopeful. // Try Gladskin: http://gladskin.com/ // Follow me on Instagram: @katybellotte Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/thick-and-thin/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.co...
The power of words, black history month & Toni Morrison
February 06, 2020 22:01 - 42 minutesThis episode of Thick & Thin is all about the power of WORDS, books & written thought. I explore the life of Toni Morrison and the waves she made in literature, particularly in black American literature. We pay homage to Toni, her courage and her talent, as well as discussing my own personal experiences surrounding the power that books & words have in our world. // My keynote talk in South Carolina details: https://allevents.in/columbia/usc-fashion-week-keynote-speaker-katy-bellotte/200018950...
Let’s talk about the good stuff
January 30, 2020 20:56 - 37 minutesOn this episode of Thick & Thin I share some uplifting, positive stories submitted by listeners in hopes that it will brighten our week. 2020 has been quite rough so far and so I think it's very important to remember, and stay focused on, the "good stuff." So, I'm devoting this week's episode of Thick & Thin to this concept. // Follow me on insta: @katybellotte Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/thick-and-thin/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn ...
An honest sexy time chat
January 24, 2020 05:17 - 45 minutesOn this episode of Thick & Thin I opened the floor for some juicy listener questions! Nothing was too invasive or off limits. I chat honestly about sex, dating apps, leaving my job, tattoos, etc. // Follow me on Instagram: @katybellotte Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/thick-and-thin/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
When we don’t know what we’re doing
January 16, 2020 22:31 - 44 minutesToday on Thick & Thin I talk about the times when we admit to ourselves: "I don't know what I'm doing." I chat about the true power in not having all the answers and the room it truly makes for creativity & growth. Also mentioned: Refinery29 founder, Piera Luisa Gelardi, and the story of Hedy Lamarr, Hollywood actress turned inventor. // Follow me on instagram: @katybellotte // shop my temporary tattoos: https://www.inkedbydani.com/collections/new-designs/products/kb Support this podcast at ...
Ghosting & the SLOW FADE
January 09, 2020 19:35 - 43 minutesIn this episode of Thick & Thin I once again discuss ghosting and dive into a new concept: the slow fade. I chat about how to cope with unrequited feelings and gaps in communication. // Check out my temporary tattoos, in partnership with Inked by Dani: https://www.inkedbydani.com/collections/new-designs/products/kb // Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/katybellotte/ Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/thick-and-thin/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcirc...
Ghosting & the SLOW FADE
January 09, 2020 19:35 - 43 minutes - 38 MBIn this episode of Thick & Thin I once again discuss ghosting and dive into a new concept: the slow fade. I chat about how to cope with unrequited feelings and gaps in communication. // Check out my temporary tattoos, in partnership with Inked by Dani: https://www.inkedbydani.com/collections/new-designs/products/kb // Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/katybellotte/
Tough love & seasons of retreat
January 03, 2020 00:05 - 43 minutesIn this episode of Thick & Thin I welcome 2020 by chatting through my resolutions and the ways I hope to grow this year (and years to come!). I chat about subjects like tough love, seasons of retreat, Lyme disease, moving apartments and more. // Follow me on IG: @katybellotte Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/thick-and-thin/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Trying scary, new things & imposter syndrome
December 23, 2019 16:13 - 45 minutesIn this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss the anxiety surrounding trying scary, new things and how to carry on despite initial failure. Specifically I chat about my recent calligraphy class venture as well as a new photography gig. I also tell the stories of J.K. Rowling, among other greats with rough starts in their careers. // Follow me on Instagram: @katybellotte Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/thick-and-thin/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands L...
Work stress & date stories
December 14, 2019 00:40 - 40 minutesOn tonight's episode of Thick & Thin I discuss a recent date I went on, some fizzled-out flirtationships, some recent work stress and reflecting back on 'why I started.' I unearth a repressed memory from Elementary school and overall just share all the happenings from this month! // Follow me on insta: @katybellotte Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/thick-and-thin/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoic...
The truth about holiday stress
December 04, 2019 04:39 - 43 minutesIn this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss holiday stress & anxiety! I attempt to crack WHY we feel it so profoundly during the holiday season, amongst our families and people from our past. I reflect on my high school reunion and New Year's Eve, among other things. // Follow me on insta: @katybellotte Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/thick-and-thin/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
The truth about quitting my 9-5
November 21, 2019 03:43 - 48 minutesIn this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss my recent career change, quitting my 9-5 job to pursue my own brand, as well as answering listener questions. I get very raw and honest with my decision to not only quit my job but choose MYSELF - unearthing my innermost fears surrounding failure, people pleasing and financial insecurity. // Follow me on Insta: @katybellotte Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/thick-and-thin/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands L...
I 'like-like' him
November 14, 2019 05:56 - 45 minutesIn this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss the concept of 'like-liking' people and 'what that does to a person,' as the iconic Sex and the City quote goes. I chat about all of the anxieties surrounding crushes, flirtationships and situationships (a new word I discuss as well). No one teaches you how to combat the insecurities and terror surrounding new crushes in school, so here we are - talking about it on the pod! // follow me on insta: @katybellotte Support this podcast at — https://redcir...
Truth or dare & juxtaposition
November 06, 2019 19:12 - 42 minutesIn this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss my upcoming trip to London, the games my friends and I play when we go out, AS WELL as more serious topics surrounding juxtaposition & the highs + lows of life. I share my current insecurities surrounding a new romantic interest as well.. ;) // follow me on insta: @katybellotte Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/thick-and-thin/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastch...
Feeling hopeless & redefining yourself
October 30, 2019 02:36 - 45 minutesIn tonight's episode of Thick & Thin I reflect on my 24th birthday, discuss hopelessness and redefining who we are as we age. I offer some advice on how to feel less hopeless and find the courage to ask others for help in the process. We also chat about getting out of our own heads and accept that we are different now than we used to be, and that we eventually WILL be, down the road... // follow me on insta: @katybellotte Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/thick-and-thin/donatio...
People pleasing & life choices
October 24, 2019 03:36 - 45 minutesIn this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss the concepts of people pleasing, instant gratification, & how we rush through our lives when it comes to making choices. I also chat about my upcoming 24th birthday party and the ways I'm working on my stubbornness and obsessive planning tendencies in order to make moments more enjoyable! A lotta good stuff in this episode. // Follow me on insta: @katybellotte Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/thick-and-thin/donations Advertising Inqui...
The loneliness epidemic
October 11, 2019 04:03 - 42 minutes - 76.2 MBOn this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss the loneliness epidemic; how and why the most connected humankind, in the realms of social media, can also be the most lonely. I talk about my own experiences (and internal battles) with loneliness and how I've learned to combat it - ultimately finding a home within myself and learning to give other people a chance. // Follow me on instagram: @katybellotte
The loneliness epidemic
October 11, 2019 04:03 - 42 minutesOn this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss the loneliness epidemic; how and why the most connected humankind, in the realms of social media, can also be the most lonely. I talk about my own experiences (and internal battles) with loneliness and how I've learned to combat it - ultimately finding a home within myself and learning to give other people a chance. // Follow me on instagram: @katybellotte Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/thick-and-thin/donations Advertising Inquiries...
Whiskey shots & commitment
September 24, 2019 02:54 - 41 minutes - 35.7 MBIn this almost-not-released episode of Thick & Thin, I discuss the concept of 'not being everyones' cup of tea,' but with a spicy, sweet little twist. I also discuss a past story about commitment (or the lack thereof) and how obsessed we become with preserving our egos in romantic situations. // Follow me on Insta: @katybellotte
Whiskey shots & commitment
September 24, 2019 02:54 - 41 minutesIn this almost-not-released episode of Thick & Thin, I discuss the concept of 'not being everyones' cup of tea,' but with a spicy, sweet little twist. I also discuss a past story about commitment (or the lack thereof) and how obsessed we become with preserving our egos in romantic situations. // Follow me on Insta: @katybellotte Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/thick-and-thin/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit...
The truth about influencers
September 17, 2019 02:57 - 46 minutesIn this episode of Thick & Thin I get REAL and spill some tea about influencers, influencer culture and the in's and out's of being a paid content creator online. I answer listener questions & assumptions as well as dish my own opinions on the evolution of the influencer industry. // follow me on insta: @katybellotte Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/thick-and-thin/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoi...
The truth about hustle culture
September 09, 2019 02:55 - 44 minutesOn tonight's episode of Thick & Thin, I do a deep dive into hustle and burnout culture, identifying what it is and why it's so detrimental to our health. I discuss the motivations we have for hustling and working hard, and how we should rethink our priorities. // follow me on insta: @katybellotte Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/thick-and-thin/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Losing can be sexy
August 31, 2019 00:59 - 45 minutesIn this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss the concept of, 'you have to lose to win,' and what this looks like it my life. I share an embarrassing event that happened to me at the 2017 Golden Globe award show along with some other instances of loss in my life, and how, despite the loss, I truly won. // Follow me on insta: @katybellotte Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/thick-and-thin/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices....
Bad days & bad dates
August 21, 2019 01:36 - 46 minutesIn this episode I get real about a recent bad day I experienced, a bad DATE I experienced and some unexpected moments that happened along the way. I also unpack the life of Vincent Van Gogh, the world famous artist who only sold 1 painting during his lifetime, and how success truly is around the bend for each of us - we just have to stick around long enough to see it happen. // follow me on insta: @katybellotte Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/thick-and-thin/donations Adverti...
Where has the magic gone?
August 13, 2019 02:37 - 41 minutesIn this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss magic, or the lack thereof, in our lives as we age.. or so we think! I talk about the magic I experienced when I first visited Manhattan, the lack of magic I've felt in my romantic relationships as well as how to look for magic in new places by doing things that scare you. // Follow me on insta: @katybellotte Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/thick-and-thin/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about ...
Dealing with criticism & taking things personally
July 30, 2019 02:47 - 43 minutesIn this episode of Thick & Thin I detail the many ways that we deal with criticism on a daily basis, and how its SO hard *not* to feel an immense blow to your ego while dealing with it. I tell some stories from my childhood and my earliest recollection of criticism, as well as debunking the reasons we feel this way. Finally I offer some advice and learnings on how to take criticism less personally, professionally and just in LIFE. // follow me on insta: @katybellotte Support this podcast at ...
The truth about loving yourself
July 22, 2019 01:54 - 46 minutesIn this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss the difficulty of loving yourself in all of your forms, and the struggle of being a protagonist in your own story. // Follow me on insta: @katybellotte Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/thick-and-thin/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Breakups & mercury in retrograde
July 09, 2019 03:54 - 41 minutesOn this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss MERCURY IN RETROGRADE as well as "uncuffing season," and this 'season of moving on.' I discuss break-ups and how to never stop settling, never accept completion and abandoning the obsessive lists that we create for our lives and our relationships. // follow me on instagram: @katybellotte Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/thick-and-thin/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit...
Feeling Fat
June 26, 2019 02:49 - 42 minutesIn this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss the "I feel fat" epidemic that plagues many of us, despite the fact that I've tried REALLY HARD not to talk about it, for risk of sounding cliche or whiny. I chat about ways to confront this insecurity, and deal with the many ways that we criticize ourselves on a daily basis. // follow me on insta: @katybellotte Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/thick-and-thin/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more abo...
POST-GRAD STRESS & finding happiness
June 14, 2019 03:22 - 43 minutesIn this episode of Thick & Thin I chat about post-grad stress, as well as the highly popular Korean trend of "small but certain happiness" and ways to practice it in your daily life. I also chat a little about my scary experience with Lyme disease. // follow me on insta: @katybellotte Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/thick-and-thin/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
FEAR OF MISSING OUT
May 17, 2019 03:28 - 42 minutesThis episode of Thick & Thin is all about the Fear of Missing Out, or FOMO, and alternatively, the Joy of Missing Out. I discuss finding balance, managing your time & finding peace with missing out and focusing on yourself. // follow me on insta: @katybellotte Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/thick-and-thin/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Red lipstick & femininity
May 13, 2019 04:02 - 41 minutesOn this episode of Thick & Thin I take a crack at describing the concept of femininity and how we can fully rock ours - or what it means to us. I discuss Hazel Bishop, a chemist who created a long-wearing lipstick, as well as some other pioneers in the discussion of femininity. // insta: @katybellotte Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/thick-and-thin/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Red lipstick & femininity
May 13, 2019 04:02 - 41 minutes - 74.3 MBOn this episode of Thick & Thin I take a crack at describing the concept of femininity and how we can fully rock ours - or what it means to us. I discuss Hazel Bishop, a chemist who created a long-wearing lipstick, as well as some other pioneers in the discussion of femininity. // insta: @katybellotte
The fear of change in your twenties
May 03, 2019 02:22 - 43 minutesThis episode of Thick & Thin unpacks the fear of CHANGE that we experience in our twenties. I talk about the importance of infusing your life with small moments of discomfort and facing our fears, telling stories about times where I've encountered pain with change & timing. // follow me on insta: @katybellotte Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/thick-and-thin/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com...
Love letters & face masks
April 27, 2019 00:28 - 43 minutesOn this special episode of Thick & Thin I answer a variety of listener questions! / follow me on insta: @katybellotte Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/thick-and-thin/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
When things aren't "right"
April 23, 2019 02:10 - 33 minutesOn this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss the feeling when things, in a relationship, friendship, etc., aren't "right." I also talk about how we tend to fantasize about elements of our lives, resulting with us feeling unsatisfied with who we're with. // Follow me on insta: @katybellotte Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/thick-and-thin/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Is college ACTUALLY the best four years?
April 17, 2019 02:37 - 40 minutesOn this episode of Thick & Think we tackle the topic of AGING and sometimes feeling like we're wasting our time in certain moments of life. I discuss the life of Iris Apfel and some misconceptions that come with defining older people. / follow me on insta: @katybellotte Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/thick-and-thin/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
How to deal with stress
March 29, 2019 02:24 - 40 minutesOn this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss STRESS and how to deal with it in its many forms. I also discuss the concept of: "hot water hardens the egg but softens the potato." It's about what we're made of - not the circumstances. This & more! // follow me on insta: @katybellotte Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/thick-and-thin/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
My fake life
March 22, 2019 01:14 - 41 minutesIn this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss the way we portray ourselves - online, and in 'real life' - and how that story might conflict with who we truly are. I also discuss the work of René Magritte, Ngozi Adichie, & Oprah Winfrey. / follow me on instagram: @katybellotte Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/thick-and-thin/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices