What is your fear?

What’s your fear?

I’m talking about a time when I felt U.U.O.

Unappreciate 
Undervalued and 
Overlooked

I was having a pity party in my office, when I realized this has been a reoccurring story in my life.

I can’t change what I’m not willing to accept or become aware of.

I accepted that I possibly might be a contribution to my own misery.

As I did some reflection, I realized this feeling and these thoughts have been redundant since childhood… remembering a time specifically when I was in grade school and was afraid to stand out.

I remember feeling like I didn’t want to seem too smart, too pretty, or too much of anything. 

It was a new school year and I just wanted to fit in like everyone else.

Unfortunately, I didn’t realize that in trying to fit in with everyone else I was slowly losing myself, and my identity.

The more I focused on other people’s opinions of me and wanting to live for that; oppose to living from a space that supports who I am and what I like for myself; the more I loss my true self. Growing further from who I am and into a version I didn’t recognize.

I share an example of how fear created a false reality that I was acting from, that did not serve me.

What’s holding you back?

Is that the truth?

Could there be another story?

What would it take for you to take life seriously and decide to start creating a life that benefits you? 

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