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#101 - Is It Weird To Study Sexuality

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#101 - Is It Weird to Study Sexuality?

This is going to be a controversial episode, skip this one if can’t handle that.

I just got off a call with a client and I felt compelled to make this episode.

For those listening you are already apart of the small percentage of people that want to expand your own understanding and I commend that.

But I know for a fact, this won’t be something you talk to all your friends about out of some sort of fear.

Some of the things we have spoken about in the past if taken out of context can cause real issues for those not in the know.

The biggest thing I want to point out before going into the nitty-gritty is that at SQL we preach 100% consent between 2 adults.

Now if you have only just started listening to the podcast then this next statement may come as a bit of a shock.

Women do have r*pe fantasies & a lot of women are attracted to murderers, rapists, and serial killers, obviously not all women, but certainly a large percentage (check out “My Secret Garden” by Nancy Friday)

It’s not actually the person or the act they are attracted to, but the traits that these types of men have in common: power, control, doing what he wants when he wants & willing to do whatever it takes.

These traits are highly attractive and that is why you will have women falling in love with these criminals (if you don’t believe me check out “Love After Lockup”).

There is a heap of evidence and proof out there (documentaries, psychological studies, etc.) and I have studied this exact phenomenon for years, and have dedicated quite a big section about this in my upcoming book that explains how to use this create a stronger & deeper relationship.

That’s enough for now though, in today’s episode keep an ear out for:
- The 3 S’s of sexuality
- How to bring up sexuality talks to your friends
- What those who talk about sexuality and money have in common
- Plus more

Check out Andrews Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/andrew_mioch/
Check out the Youtube Channel | http://www.youtube.com/c/SexualQuantumLeap
Learn more about SQL | https://www.sexualquantumleap.com
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Timestamps:
[1:08] Client call that made me want to record this episode

[4:05] Controversial fantasy a lot of women have

[4:48] The 3 S’s of sexuality

[5:55] Check out the book of fantasies called ‘My Secret Garden’ by Nancy Friday

[6:31] When someone does open up about sexuality

[7:14] If you are an avid listeners of the podcast you are far ahead of the mainstream matrix of sex

[8:32] Caveat when talking to the everyday person about sexuality

[9:01] A glimpse into our Ignite event

[11:50] Everyone has their own story about sexuality

[13:01] Really discerning who you talk to and what you talk about in terms of sexuality

[15:17] How to start talking to your friend about sexuality

[15:41] What is actually weird…

[16:25] Society has been built around sex

[17:55] This is why I put myself out there

[18:55] The ones that talk about these topics are the ones that are most free

[19:52] The sad reality of not learning about sexuality

[20:44] It’s weird if you don’t study sexuality

[23:40] Most people don’t get it

[24:56] What to do moving forward