Paul talks to dating & relationship expert Kelly Braendli about the fascinating topic of vulnerability in dating, and why allowing yourself to lower those defences might well be the key to finding true, and long-lasting love.


KEY TAKEAWAYS

Expectation plays a big part in how vulnerable we feel. The expectations of society, or even from potential partners, affects how we act, and how much of ourselves we reveal.
Tapping into vulnerabilities and past experiences can allow matchmaking to take place on a far more natural level. Often we subconsciously carry baggage from previously painful relationships that can affect our prospects.
In early dating, people often become stuck in a rut when it comes to discovering about potential partners. We can break this train of thought by asking a random question.
The four levels of connections we, as humans, use to form bonds are physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual.

BEST MOMENTS


‘Vulnerability is about taking a risk; it’s about putting ourselves out there’


’Today this is a completely open playing-field for us’


‘Vulnerability is at the core when you want to build a loving relationship’


‘We’ll be different people a year from now'


‘Vulnerability is your power’


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Kelly Brandli - https://www.kellybrandli.com


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ABOUT THE HOST


One thing that’s never been attached to Paul is the label ‘normal’ – something he is totally aware of.  He definitely subscribes to being one of those mentioned the iconic ‘Think Different’ Apple commercial narrated by Steve Jobs in 1977:


“Here's to the crazy ones, the misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers, the round pegs in the square holes... the ones who see things differently -- they're not fond of rules.  You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them, but the only thing you can't do is ignore them because they change things... they push the human race forward, and while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius, because the ones who are crazy enough to think that they can change the world, are the ones who do!”


Paul has a long and distinguished history of coaching & mentoring – particularly focusing on helping people make the transition from pain to purpose; a journey he has made himself, from the depths of a deep dark existence, to now living a life of happiness and prosperity.


Through this Mastering The Game Of Life podcast, and books he has been involved in – including being a best-selling co-author – Paul also helps others to get their own inspirational messages and stories out into the world; as well as offering support to many charitable organisations, in their development & fund-raising.


“Remember – Mastering The Game Of Life Starts, By Embracing Our Hearts!”


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