In Search Of Purpose – Paul D. Lowe & Vanesha Patel

Paul is joined on this episode by Vanesha Patel to talk about her search for purpose in a conversation about following your dreams, not being a people-pleaser or following their opinions while remaining kind and much more.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

I’ve realised in the last couple of years that I need to be true to myself and do what I truly want to do, not what others’ perceptions of what I should be doing.
Sometimes you feel like your purpose is this one thing in life and you have to pursue it, and to a point it is. But as your journey through life, different things at different points in our life are our purpose at that time, depending on your priorities at that time. Perhaps ask: “What’s my purpose at the moment?”
I’m my worst critic. You can have 100 people telling you around you saying you’re this, that or the other and all positive, but you’ll still find one thing about yourself, at least, that you haven’t done correctly and you can go down a rabbit hole of this didn’t go right, I didn’t say this, I should have done that. It’s perfectly fine to take a step back sometimes to get back on an upward trajectory.
You are where you’re meant to be right now. Lean into your difficulties, I know it’s hard but we’ve all got the solutions in our heads, we’ve all got ample enough knowledge, it’s whether we’re ready to deal with them.

BEST MOMENTS

‘Having the ability to dream is a gift, that’s what gets us going and gives us a drive and purpose..’

‘A lot of people are so focussed on the long term that they aren’t enjoying the journey and aren’t looking at how far they’ve come.’

‘It’s OK to not be winning all the time, it’s OK to stop and have a reset, take some time out to figure out what it is that makes you happy, what do you really want. What is right for you, ultimately, will find you.’

‘Also, you don’t have to always help people who seem to need it. They don’t always want help, so just let them know you’re there for them when they need you.’

VALUABLE RESOURCES

Paul’s Story: Emerging From The Forest (UK): https://www.amazon.co.uk/Emerging-Forest-Pain-Purpose-Mastering/dp/1719373272

Paul’s Story: Emerging From The Forest (USA): https://www.amazon.com/Emerging-Forest-Pain-Purpose-Mastering/dp/1719373272

Mastering The Game Of Life Book (UK): https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mastering-Game-Life-Paul-Lowe/dp/1782227679

Mastering The Game Of Life Book (USA): https://www.amazon.com/Mastering-Game-Life-Paul-Lowe/dp/1782227679

Speaking From Our Hearts Books: Volumes 1-3 (Available on Amazon)
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ABOUT THE HOST

Paul has made a remarkable transformation from existing for many years in dark, desperate despair; to now living a really healthy, happy and fulfilling life.

From an early age, he was in the vice-like clutches of the demon drink and constantly embroiled within a dark cocktail of toxic beliefs, self-hate and destructive violence.

Along with his empathetic and dedicated team of world-class coaches and mentors, Paul’s purpose is deeply transformational:

Contributing Significantly To World Peace…

He is extremely passionate about helping others to find their purpose, have a voice and ultimately, make a real difference.  

This has been built on a long and distinguished history of heart-centred coaching and mentoring.  He has also been responsible for raising significant amounts of funds for many charities and good causes around the world; positively impacting and inspiring thousands of children – mainly from challenging backgrounds – within the UK & worldwide.

Through this World Game-Changers podcast and books, he has been involved in – including being a best-selling co-author – Paul also helps others to get their own inspirational messages and stories out into the world; as well as offering support to many charitable organisations, in their development & fund-raising.

CONTACT METHODS

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