In a new mini-series, Paul and his special guest, relationship expert Kelly Brandli, talk in detail about the Ten Disciplines Of Love, the concept developed by Tony Robbins in order to allow us to build extraordinary relationships. 


In this week’s edition, Paul and Kelly discuss unconditional love and compassion, and how we can ensure that we are equipped to embrace both, so that we may build solid foundations...


KEY TAKEAWAYS

Unconditional love is known as affection without limitations, and with no conditions. Compassion is what motivates people to go out of their way to help the physical, emotional or mental well-being of another. 
Working on ourselves is the first step towards being able to share unconditional love. We cannot give away what we do not first possess. 
We must establish where we are in any relationship in order to re-calibrate our aims. We can do this by listening effectively instead of instinctively defending. 
It is useful in the beginning of a relationship, to set markers, that allow us each to recognize the types of conversations we are having, and how they should be heard. 

BEST MOMENTS


‘If you’re waiting for someone else to change before you love them, then you’ve set a condition’ 


‘You really feel what your partner’s feeling’ 


’The greater danger for most of us is not setting our aim too high and falling low, but aiming low and hitting that mark’ 


’Never let a problem to be solved become more important than a person to be loved' 


VALUABLE RESOURCES


Mastering The Game Of Life  


Kelly Brandli - https://www.kellybrandli.com 


Kelly Brandli Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/kellybrandli/ 


The Ten Principles Of Love at Kelly Brandli.com - https://www.kellybrandli.com/masteringthegameoflife 


ABOUT THE HOST


One thing that’s never been attached to Paul is the label ‘normal’ – something he is totally aware of.  He definitely subscribes to being one of those mentioned the iconic ‘Think Different’ Apple commercial narrated by Steve Jobs in 1977:


“Here's to the crazy ones, the misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers, the round pegs in the square holes... the ones who see things differently -- they're not fond of rules.  You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them, but the only thing you can't do is ignore them because they change things... they push the human race forward, and while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius, because the ones who are crazy enough to think that they can change the world, are the ones who do!” 


Paul has a long and distinguished history of coaching & mentoring – particularly focusing on helping people make the transition from pain to purpose; a journey he has made himself, from the depths of a deep dark existence, to now living a life of happiness and prosperity. 


Through this Mastering The Game Of Life podcast, and books he has been involved in – including being a best-selling co-author – Paul also helps others to get their own inspirational messages and stories out into the world; as well as offering support to many charitable organisations, in their development & fund-raising. 


“Remember – Mastering The Game Of Life Starts, By Embracing Our Hearts!” 


CONTACT METHODS


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