The SAP - Comedians Talk Motivation, Dating and Relationships
487 episodes - English - Latest episode: about 2 years ago - ★★★★★ - 268 ratingsSex Actually is a hilarious podcast discussing modern relationships. We dive into topics that are relevant to dating for today's generation. Dating apps like tinder and bumble, one night stands, ghosting, the friend zone, codependency, neediness and much more. The host, Dave Neal, is a stand up comedian and hopeless romantic. He interviews other comedians, self help guru's & dating coaches. The conversations are funny, sometimes dark, and very honest. Need help with dating & sex? Or just want some new friends to shoot the shit with? We got you covered. Past comics from HBO, Comedy Central, Showtime, Roast Battle, Corinne Fischer & Krystyna Hutchinson from 'Guys We F*cked', Nikki Glaser, Brian Moses, Bobby Lee, Akilah Hughes, Andie Bolt from Bunker Buddies, Matthew Broussard, Erica Rhodes and more!
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#34 Don't be a crazy bitch!
May 20, 2014 04:32 - 24 minutes - 11.1 MBFollow us on twitter @dnealz @gmconti @bradleypaul You Up The Podcast candidly discusses dating, relationships, sex and understanding members of the opposite sex through honest and funny dialogue. We are comics and hopeless romantics. Past episodes talk about one night stands, slut shaming, date rape, feminism, tinder, chemistry and match makng,lulu, okcupid, hinge, how to give blow jobs, social media game, using dating sites effectively, AND SO MUCH MORE. With over 40 hours of adv...
#33 Social Media Anxiety and Playing It Cool
May 12, 2014 06:04 - 30 minutes - 14 MBBradley Paul Growden joins us from NYC to talk about dealing with texting, how to overcome social media anxiety and how to use online dating in today's world to get old fashion results! Follow us on twitter @dnealz @gmconti @bradleypaul You Up The Podcast candidly discusses dating, relationships, sex and understanding members of the opposite sex through honest and funny dialogue. We are comics and hopeless romantics. Past episodes talk about one night stands, slut shaming, da...
#32 How to Date a Jerk & Keep Your Self Worth
May 05, 2014 05:21 - 54 minutes - 24.8 MBTiffany Phillips joins the crew to talk about her upcoming play, 'How to Date a Jerk' Tasha Courtney and Katie Haller join the podcast to discuss their experiences with jerks. Dave explains the benefits of fighting. Follow us all on twitter: @gmconti @dnealz @halleratyou @tiffanypTweets @tashacourtney You Up The Podcast candidly discusses dating, relationships, sex and understanding members of the opposite sex through honest and funny dialogue. We are comics and hopeless ro...
#31 Danielle Sepulveres- Losing your virginity, HPV and bad ways to get dumped
April 27, 2014 22:35 - 50 minutes - 22.9 MBDanielle Sepulveres joins us, author of 'Losing It- The Semi Scandulous Story of an Ex Virgin' We talk about losing our virginity, HPV, ways to not dump someone and much more! Gabi explains her saga, and why you shouldn't invite your ex to yoga. Follow us @ellesep @dnealz @gmconti You Up The Podcast candidly discusses dating, relationships, sex and understanding members of the opposite sex through honest and funny dialogue. We are comics and hopeless romantics. Past episodes...
#30 Earning Consistent Sex & Dating Coworker Do's & Don'ts
April 22, 2014 04:46 - 47 minutes - 21.8 MBGabi and Dave do a one on one, Kelsey Darragh calls in to discuss her break up and they talk about sex and stalking your ex. We gave dating advice to Stacey, and coach her through 'picking up her coworker' Follow us on twitter @dnealz @gmconti @youupthepodcast Thanks for supporting us! G&D Sex and Dating Advice in a Social Media World! You Up The Podcast candidly discusses dating, relationships, sex and understanding members of the opposite sex through honest and fu...
#29 The Mental Breakup, with Sachi Ezura (MTV's Girl Code) & Kelsey Darragh
April 15, 2014 06:43 - 1 hour - 30.6 MBKelsey Darragh joins us at the Tiki Lounge. On Day 8 of a bad breakup, Kelsey explains her 30 day project 'The Mental Breakup' http://thementalbreakup.blogspot.com and Sachi Ezura calls in from NYC. Sachi produces the MTV show 'Girl Code' and cowrote the book 'Girl Code'. She explains to us what that means. Follow us! twitter @gmconti @dnealz @kelseydarragh @misstrionics You Up The Podcast candidly discusses dating, relationships, sex and understanding members of the opposite...
#28 'How to text after sex' with The Social Man, Christian Hudson
April 05, 2014 15:59 - 45 minutes - 20.6 MBThis episode of You Up we are again joined by The Social Man, Jonathan Christian Hudson. Jonathan brought some questions from guys asking how to text a girl the day after sex. Dealing with relationships in today's social media world requires effort and thought. Whether it is how to use Tinder, getting a good rating on Lulu, which dating sites are effective, (okcupid, JDate, Match.com) or how to follow up with engaging text messages, we cover it all on this modern relationship podcast. ...
#27 Scout Durwood- Slut Shaming, Deadline Dating & Long Distance Relationships
March 31, 2014 05:06 - 1 hour - 27.6 MBScout Durwood and Patrick O'Sullivan join the You Up crew for another tiki bar podcast. We discussed breaking up and long distant relationships. Pleas subscribe and check out our past episodes! Follow us all on twitter @dnealz @gmconti @ladyscoutington @tricksully You Up The Podcast candidly discusses dating, relationships, sex and understanding members of the opposite sex through honest and funny dialogue. We are comics and hopeless romantics. Past episodes talk about o...
#26 The Perfect Blow Job & Rap Battles!
March 24, 2014 05:24 - 57 minutes - 26.5 MBWe discuss oral sex, and the etiquette of giving when one receives. Chris Rubio, stand up comedian and musical wizard, joins us with his 'looper'. We enter some vicious rap battles. Follow us, rate and review! www.twitter.com/dnealz Thanks!!! You Up The Podcast candidly discusses dating, relationships, sex and understanding members of the opposite sex through honest and funny dialogue. We are comics and hopeless romantics. Past episodes talk about one night stands, slut sham...
#25 The Social Man Christian Hudson Pt 2: Sex and being authentic
March 17, 2014 19:11 - 39 minutes - 18.2 MBThe Social Man Part 2! We talk Girlfriend Activation System by The Social Man, Jonathan Christian Hudson.
#24 The Social Man Christian Hudson returns with dating advice! Part 1
March 15, 2014 21:35 - 36 minutes - 16.8 MBThis was a great episode. We broke it down into two parts. Jonathan Christian Hudson, aka The Social Man, stop sby to answer questions his audience has been emailing him regarding his company. The Social Man offers seminars and advice to men who are looking to meet girls and find sustainable attraction. www.thesocialman.com Dave Neal @dnealz Gabi Conti @gmconti Write us your questions at [email protected] Thanks for listening, if you liked this episode, share it with y...
#23 Breast Implants, Lesbian Tinder, Threesomes Pt 2 & Domestic Violence
March 10, 2014 05:28 - 1 hour - 28 MBOur comedy pals Jamar Neighbors and Sara Mostajabi join us today! We talked all things sex, violence, boob jobs, breast implants and more... We discussed what constitutes a threesome versus a 'train'. Sara tries to convince Gabi to go after women. Jamar shares a threesome story. Dave came on a black woman. Hope you enjoy! Dave @dnealz Gabi @gmconti Jamar @jamarneighbors Sara @saradresses --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thesap/message
#23 Breast Implants, Lesbian Tinder, Threesomes Pt 2 & Domestic Violence
March 10, 2014 05:28 - 1 hour - 28 MBOur comedy pals Jamar Neighbors and Sara Mostajabi join us today! We talked all things sex, violence, boob jobs, breast implants and more... We discussed what constitutes a threesome versus a 'train'. Sara tries to convince Gabi to go after women. Jamar shares a threesome story. Dave came on a black woman. Hope you enjoy! Dave @dnealz Gabi @gmconti Jamar @jamarneighbors Sara @saradresses You Up The Podcast candidly discusses dating, relationships, sex and understanding m...
#22 The Social Man Christian Hudson shares dating and sex advice
March 05, 2014 18:03 - 59 minutes - 27.2 MBChristian Hudson joins us to talk about his company, The Social Man. Gabi labels him a pick up artist. We touched on some interesting topics, hope you enjoy! Dave Neal @dnealz Gabi Conti @gmconti You Up The Podcast candidly discusses dating, relationships, sex and understanding members of the opposite sex through honest and funny dialogue. We are comics and hopeless romantics. Past episodes talk about one night stands, slut shaming, date rape, feminism, tinder, chemistry and ma...
#21 The Wild Economics of Sex!
March 03, 2014 04:24 - 1 hour - 31 MBJoy Greene joins us for this Friday Night edition of 'You Up' We discuss the video 'The Wild Economics of Sex' Hope you enjoy! Dave Neal @dnealz Gabi Conti @gmconti Joy Greene --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thesap/message
#21 The Wild Economics of Sex!
March 03, 2014 04:24 - 1 hour - 31 MBJoy Greene joins us for this Friday Night edition of 'You Up' We discuss the video 'The Wild Economics of Sex' Hope you enjoy! Dave Neal @dnealz Gabi Conti @gmconti Joy Greene http://policymic.com/articles/82899/this-animated-video-shows-the-wild-economics-of-sex You Up The Podcast candidly discusses dating, relationships, sex and understanding members of the opposite sex through honest and funny dialogue. We are comics and hopeless romantics. Past episod...
#20 The 5 day relationship and LULU strikes again with Brett Dier and John McKay
February 24, 2014 06:34 - 1 hour - 37.9 MBBrett Dier joins us from ABC Family's Ravenswood and comic John McKay finds out his LULU score live on air! We also did a set at Hooters in Hollywood! And at the end of the episode a squirrel may or may not have attacked us all. Listen here and find out! @brettdier @johnlmckay @gmconti @dnealz You Up The Podcast candidly discusses dating, relationships, sex and understanding members of the opposite sex through honest and funny dialogue. We are comics and hopeless romantics. Past e...
#19 'how to be dumped' with comic Bread Foster
February 19, 2014 08:22 - 31 minutes - 14.6 MBBread Foster called in for a special one on one mid week special! We discussed break ups, 'taking a break' and lowering expectations with your significant other. Please check out the show and share with your friends! On this episode: Bread Foster @breadfoster Dave Neal @dnealz You Up The Podcast candidly discusses dating, relationships, sex and understanding members of the opposite sex through honest and funny dialogue. We are comics and hopeless romantics. Past episodes ...
#18 Dan Dunn, Playboy writer, keeping girls satisfied and sex with porn stars
February 17, 2014 08:18 - 1 hour - 34.8 MBDan Dunn, former columnist for Playboy Magazine, and author of 'Living Loaded'. We traveled to Dan's place in Marina Del Rey to grab some great advice on dating, and keeping girl's satisfied. Dan Dunn @theImbiber Dave Neal @dnealz Gabi Conti @gmconti Sex Actually The Podcast candidly discusses dating, relationships, sex and understanding members of the opposite sex through honest and funny dialogue. We are comics and hopeless romantics. Past episodes talk about one night stan...
#17 Dating advice from 10 year old genius
February 14, 2014 05:29 - 30 minutes - 13.9 MBDave interviews his baby brothers Jack (10 years old) and Jameson (16 years old) on dating advice. Hear what happens! Thanks for sharing our podcast on your social media, we appreciate you helping us spread the word! @dnealz Sex Actually The Podcast candidly discusses dating, relationships, sex and understanding members of the opposite sex through honest and funny dialogue. We are comics and hopeless romantics. Past episodes talk about one night stands, slut shaming, date rape,...
#16 Should you text your ex? THE 3 SECOND RULE, manage jealousy, cheating, pick up lines
February 10, 2014 00:20 - 1 hour - 36 MBGabi and Dave are joined by LA comic, Ari Mannis for this week's episode! We talk about being cheated on, cheating, managing jealousy in a social media environment, and pick up lines that work and that don't work. Dave explains the three second rule. Please share this episode with your friends, and rate/review on itunes! Thanks for the support! Dave Neal @dnealz Gabi Conti @gmconti Ari Mannis @arimannis You Up The Podcast candidly discusses dating, relationsh...
#15 Advice from a gay man, Heteronormative society, living with your girlfriend
February 03, 2014 07:19 - 1 hour - 39.5 MBWe are joined by Allen Strickland Williams and Pat Lambert. We talk heteronormative society, being gay, homophobia and men in society. Follow us! @dnealz @gmconti @totallyallen @pat_lambert Thanks for supporting the podcast, please rate/review and subscribe to the show! Sex Actually The Podcast candidly discusses dating, relationships, sex and understanding members of the opposite sex through honest and funny dialogue. We are comics and hopeless romantics. Past episodes t...
#14 Dave gets stranded in an airport
January 31, 2014 14:44 - 30 minutes - 14.2 MBI did a podcast-umentary on my experience flying home during a snow storm. I think it's funny. It could be very unfunny. Let me know... @dnealz Sex Actually The Podcast candidly discusses dating, relationships, sex and understanding members of the opposite sex through honest and funny dialogue. We are comics and hopeless romantics. Past episodes talk about one night stands, slut shaming, date rape, feminism, tinder, chemistry and match makng,lulu, okcupid, hinge, how to give blow...
#13 Picking up girls in bars, Pro dick pics, Bisexuality and Being Psychotic
January 26, 2014 19:27 - 1 hour - 27.8 MBPLEASE RATE, REVIEW AND SHARE our show on itunes! https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/you-up-sex-dating-advice-in/id744156889?mt=2 Comics talk about living in NYC versus LA. "I couldn't pay a hooker to come up here" Dave living in the Valley. Stripper stories. 'Unsolicited Dick Pics' Picking up girls in bars Seperate bedrooms Fucking on the first date FOLLOW US ON TWITTER! Gaby Dunn @gabydunn Justin Masterson Marina Santos @rinabrazil Dave Neal @dnealz...
#12 Ethics of sleeping around and hand jobs.
January 20, 2014 07:16 - 54 minutes - 25 MBWe had a blast drinking mimosa's and talking shit. The sound is funky but hang in there, we all had a blast. Special thanks to our guests!!! David Lucas @davidlucascomic Amy Cheapho @amycheapho Whitney Rice @whitneyleerice Dave Neal @dnealz --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thesap/message
#12 Ethics of sleeping around and hand jobs.
January 20, 2014 07:16 - 54 minutes - 25 MBWe had a blast drinking mimosa's and talking shit. The sound is funky but hang in there, we all had a blast. Special thanks to our guests!!! David Lucas @davidlucascomic Amy Cheapho @amycheapho Whitney Rice @whitneyleerice Dave Neal @dnealz Sex Actually The Podcast candidly discusses dating, relationships, sex and understanding members of the opposite sex through honest and funny dialogue. We are comics and hopeless romantics. Past episodes talk about one night stands, slut shami...
#11 A Compilation Episode! The best of the best. Sex and Dating advice
January 15, 2014 07:05 - 22 minutes - 10.3 MBYou Up The Podcast candidly discusses dating, relationships, sex and understanding members of the opposite sex through honest and funny dialogue. We are comics and hopeless romantics. Past episodes talk about one night stands, slut shaming, date rape, feminism, tinder, chemistry and match makng,lulu, okcupid, hinge, how to give blow jobs, social media game, using dating sites effectively, AND SO MUCH MORE. With over 40 hours of advice, stories and industry interviews, you're sure to learn an...
#10 How to get over your Ex with David Breitman and Ms. South Carolina Erika Powell
January 13, 2014 07:35 - 1 hour - 34.9 MBDavid Breitman joins us in studio! Danny Mahar, NYC Comic calls in. Erika Powell, Ms. South Carolina, calls in from Nashville, TN! You Up The Podcast candidly discusses dating, relationships, sex and understanding members of the opposite sex through honest and funny dialogue. We are comics and hopeless romantics. Past episodes talk about one night stands, slut shaming, date rape, feminism, tinder, chemistry and match makng,lulu, okcupid, hinge, how to give blow jobs, social...
#9 New Years Eve tips, Stories of good & bad NYE parties
December 30, 2013 07:19 - 37 minutes - 17 MBDave and Gabi share stories of past New Years Eve successes and failures. Follow usssssss www.twitter.com/youupthepodcast www.twitter.com/dnealz www.twitter.com/gmconti You Up The Podcast candidly discusses dating, relationships, sex and understanding members of the opposite sex through honest and funny dialogue. We are comics and hopeless romantics. Past episodes talk about one night stands, slut shaming, date rape, feminism, tinder, chemistry and match makng,lulu, okcupid, hi...
#8 Anna David- Am I an alcoholic? Sober Sex, XMas presents and Dave lied on Radio
December 23, 2013 08:00 - 48 minutes - 22.1 MBWe talk about sobriety, and much more! HAPPY HOLIDAYS EVERYBODY! Please send us love by rating and reviewing us on itunes and subscribing!! Click here--> https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/you-up-sex-dating-advice-in/id744156889?mt=2 www.twitter.com/dnealz www.twitter.com/gmconti You Up The Podcast candidly discusses dating, relationships, sex and understanding members of the opposite sex through honest and funny dialogue. We are comics and hopeless romantics. Past episodes ...
#7 What makes a relationship official? Matthew Broussard and Erica Rhodes join us
December 15, 2013 18:56 - 1 hour - 29.3 MBWe tackle how to determine if a relationship is official. Erica Rhodes (it's complicated) joines Gabi (I'm in love) and Dave and Matthew Broussard (we coulnd't be more single, you up?) Enjoy the show! Got questions? Ask us on www.twitter.com/YouUpThePodcast and we will help ya! Please support the show by spreading the word with your friends. We appreciate itunes reviews and ratings and MAKE SURE TO SUBSCRIBE for future episodes. @dnealz @gmconti @ericarhodes @mondaypund...
#6 Bobby Lee offers dating advice, conquering adversity, challenging self, photo vault for nudies
December 10, 2013 04:14 - 1 hour - 33.1 MBBobby Lee joins us on the podcast, as seen on Mad TV, Chelsea Lately, and films such as 'Harold and Kumar' and 'The Dictator'. He offers advice from the perspective of an accomplished comedian. 'Little lotteries in life'. Watch season 2 of "The Awesomes" on HULU "Anger is a necessity. Pain is a necessity. Failure is a necessity". Listen to this shit guys! Amy Cheapho also joins us! She discusses the ethics of donkey shows, and photos of her father. Subscribe to us on itunes and rate...
#5 Thanksgiving Recap, RIP Paul Walker, TMZ, LULU tricks for men, 1st date advice
December 02, 2013 02:25 - 1 hour - 28.5 MBA post thanksgiving recap. Dave complains about hosting, Gabi made a bad dish. Special guest Summer Malone, comedian from Texas joins us in the studio. Joey Rosa calls in from NYC. www.joeyrosastudio.com He tells us how he got around the LULU system! Subscribe on itunes!!! Please share, retweet, spread love. Follow us @ www.twitter.com/dnealz www.twitter.com/gmconti www.twitter.com/summermalone THANKS FOR LISTENING!!! You Up The Podcast candidly discusses dating, relati...
# 4- Thanksgiving Eve Sucks, Advice to virgins, Booty Calls, sharing nude pics, Kendall Jenner is 18!
November 25, 2013 07:42 - 57 minutes - 26.3 MBWe jumped around in Episode 4! Dave and Gabi were joined in studio by comic Josh Morris. Kelly Fastuca and Tyler Gildin called in from NYC. Advice we would give our virgin self. Email us with questions, comments, suggestions! [email protected] Please subscribe, rate and review our podcast on iTunes, thanks for listening!! Follow us on Twitter! @DNealz @GMConti @JoshuaDaMorris @TylerGildin @KellyFastuca You Up The Podcast candidly discusses dating, relationships...
#3 Threesomes, Getting over an ex, Dave is friend zoned, girls share pickup lines,
November 17, 2013 11:49 - 59 minutes - 54.7 MBWe are talking about sex, being put in the friend zone, getting over your ex, Gabi has a crush on Dave, pickup lines, threesomes. We are comics, Generation Yers, lost in translation. We are joined by special guests, Kelsey Darragh, Sara Mostojabi, and 'Just Juice' aka Jamar Neighbors. Laura Fortunato of 'Elite Daily' calls in. 23m - Sarah and Kelsey Darragh want Gabi to have sex with Dave. 27m - Phone call with Laura Fortunato, "7 Fool Proof Ways To Get Over Your Ex" on DailyElite....
# 2- Gabi got assaulted on stage, drunk emojis, comic Kat Timpf calls in
November 10, 2013 09:26 - 1 hour - 73.3 MBGabi explains how she was heckled and assaulted during a recent show. Dave recaps a rather uneventful weekend. Katie Haller calls in from NYC to discuss codependency and how social media is ruining relationships. www.twitter.com/halleratyou Dara Laine calls in to discuss the 'Gabi assault' and being a female comic www.twitter.com/daralaine Kat Timpf calls in from NYC to discuss drunk emojis, being heckled as a female comic, working on 'Fox and Friends' @kctimpf Dave Neal www.twi...
#1 The INTRO EPISODE- Sex, tinder and Why lulu will end dating forever
November 08, 2013 03:40 - 1 hour - 35.2 MBYou Up is a podcast about relationships, or lack thereof. Gabi Conti and Dave Neal are friends, comedians, and failures at relationships. What we do know is what doesn't work. We share our stories, our dating lives and our misery all while trying to help others navigate this hostile and chaotic world of modern dating. Today's episode features a discussion on the new app 'LuLu', which is a site where women can anonymously post reviews on men they have dated. Dave Neal, (@dnealz) and Gabi Cont...