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The SAP - Comedians Talk Motivation, Dating and Relationships

487 episodes - English - Latest episode: almost 2 years ago - ★★★★★ - 268 ratings

Sex Actually is a hilarious podcast discussing modern relationships. We dive into topics that are relevant to dating for today's generation. Dating apps like tinder and bumble, one night stands, ghosting, the friend zone, codependency, neediness and much more. The host, Dave Neal, is a stand up comedian and hopeless romantic. He interviews other comedians, self help guru's & dating coaches. The conversations are funny, sometimes dark, and very honest. Need help with dating & sex? Or just want some new friends to shoot the shit with? We got you covered. Past comics from HBO, Comedy Central, Showtime, Roast Battle, Corinne Fischer & Krystyna Hutchinson from 'Guys We F*cked', Nikki Glaser, Brian Moses, Bobby Lee, Akilah Hughes, Andie Bolt from Bunker Buddies, Matthew Broussard, Erica Rhodes and more!

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Episodes

I've Ghosted Ya But I'm Back With Updates!

June 10, 2022 16:54 - 27 minutes - 25.3 MB

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#454 Finding Your Creative Blueprints

October 08, 2021 21:09 - 31 minutes - 28.5 MB

The SAP is about excelling in dating and in life. We talk about relationships, finding the best way to love yourself and building a community that is attracted to that prosperity. Join the newsletter or patreon here: https://linktr.ee/daveneal

#453 Creatively Stumped? You Have o Start Somewhere

September 25, 2021 00:30 - 43 minutes - 39.8 MB

The SAP is about excelling in dating and in life. We talk about relationships, finding the best way to love yourself and building a community that is attracted to that prosperity. Join the newsletter or patreon here: https://linktr.ee/daveneal

#452 Building Creative Momentum After The Pandemic

September 10, 2021 13:08 - 33 minutes - 30.6 MB

The SAP is about excelling in dating and in life. We talk about relationships, finding the best way to love yourself and building a community that is attracted to that prosperity. Join the newsletter or patreon here: https://linktr.ee/daveneal

#451 A Chat About Overcoming Purity Culture

August 27, 2021 20:08 - 40 minutes - 36.8 MB

The SAP is about excelling in dating and in life. We talk about relationships, finding the best way to love yourself and building a community that is attracted to that prosperity. Join the newsletter or patreon here: https://linktr.ee/daveneal

#450 Overcoming Resistance Daily

August 13, 2021 19:21 - 47 minutes - 43.1 MB

A new episode

#449 Overcoming Anxious Attachment With Dr. Diane Strachowski

August 06, 2021 19:50 - 44 minutes - 41 MB

The SAP is about excelling in dating and in life. We talk about relationships, finding the best way to love yourself and building a community that is attracted to that prosperity. Join the newsletter or patreon here: https://linktr.ee/daveneal

#448 Finding Ways To Get Into Flow State Plus Answering Your Questions!

July 30, 2021 18:48 - 53 minutes - 48.8 MB

The SAP is about excelling in dating and in life. We talk about relationships, finding the best way to love yourself and building a community that is attracted to that prosperity. Join the newsletter or patreon here: https://linktr.ee/daveneal

#447 Dating Advice Shark Tank Style

July 16, 2021 18:40 - 42 minutes - 39.2 MB

The SAP is about excelling in dating and in life. We talk about relationships, finding the best way to love yourself and building a community that is attracted to that prosperity. Join the newsletter or patreon here: https://linktr.ee/daveneal

#446 A Chat With Bachelor Nation Blogger Reality Steve

July 08, 2021 18:44 - 1 hour - 65.3 MB

Reality Steve joins. the podcast to talk about the state of Bachelor Nation, ethical sourcing of information, spoilers etc. The SAP is about excelling in dating and in life. We talk about relationships, finding the best way to love yourself and building a community that is attracted to that prosperity. Join the newsletter or patreon here: https://linktr.ee/daveneal

#445 WHY CANCEL CULTURE ISN'T ACTIVISM

June 25, 2021 04:47 - 46 minutes - 42.2 MB

The SAP is about excelling in dating and in life. We talk about relationships, finding the best way to love yourself and building a community that is attracted to that prosperity. Join the newsletter or patreon here: https://linktr.ee/daveneal

#444 Motivational Friday- Leaps Of Faith

June 18, 2021 15:52 - 35 minutes - 32.9 MB

The SAP is about excelling in dating and in life. We talk about relationships, finding the best way to love yourself and building a community that is attracted to that prosperity. Join the newsletter or patreon here: https://linktr.ee/daveneal

#443 The Latest Car Battery Theft

June 10, 2021 22:41 - 59 minutes - 54.2 MB

The SAP is about excelling in dating and in life. We talk about relationships, finding the best way to love yourself and building a community that is attracted to that prosperity. Join the newsletter or patreon here: https://linktr.ee/daveneal

#442 Getting Out Of The Comfort Zone To Find Success & Happiness

June 03, 2021 19:37 - 47 minutes - 43.6 MB

The SAP is about excelling in dating and in life. We talk about relationships, finding the best way to love yourself and building a community that is attracted to that prosperity. Join the newsletter or patreon here: https://linktr.ee/daveneal  

#441 Treat Your Relationship Like Your Business- PROVIDE VALUE

May 25, 2021 18:44 - 45 minutes - 41.3 MB

The SAP is about excelling in dating and in life. We talk about relationships, finding the best way to love yourself and building a community that is attracted to that prosperity. Join the newsletter or patreon here: https://linktr.ee/daveneal  

#440 Avoid Settling In Life!

May 18, 2021 18:53 - 49 minutes - 45.3 MB

Solo episode, talking about Chris Harrison and Cancel Culture, plus answers dating and relationship questions. The Dave Neal Vlog channel is live here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdLQu6NWJOGCxlQInbxodlQ The SAP is a podcast about being authentic, living your best life, communicating in a healthy way and laughing along the journey. For all private episodes, and to support the podcast, head over to www.patreon.com/thesap

#439 Ways To Overcome Being A People Pleaser

May 11, 2021 19:21 - 47 minutes - 43.4 MB

Discussing how to overcome being a people pleaser on this weeks episode. Link to that article here: https://psychcentral.com/lib/21-tips-to-stop-being-a-people-pleaser#9 The Dave Neal Vlog channel is live here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdLQu6NWJOGCxlQInbxodlQ The SAP is a podcast about being authentic, living your best life, communicating in a healthy way and laughing along the journey. For all private episodes, and to support the podcast, head over to www.patreon.com/thesap

#438 Normalize Self Care & Mental Health Awareness Month

May 03, 2021 22:24 - 45 minutes - 41.8 MB

Mental Health is so important in today's world. I discuss how to survive online dating, obsessiveness and addiction to social media. The Dave Neal Vlog channel is live here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdLQu6NWJOGCxlQInbxodlQ The SAP is a podcast about being authentic, living your best life, communicating in a healthy way and laughing along the journey. For all private episodes, and to support the podcast, head over to www.patreon.com/thesap

#437 Answering Your Relationship & Dating Questions

April 23, 2021 16:54 - 52 minutes - 48 MB

Dave Neal here (@dnealz) this is a solo episode reading some relationship and dating questions from reddit, plus an update on the new home studio. The Dave Neal Vlog channel is live here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdLQu6NWJOGCxlQInbxodlQ The SAP is a podcast about being authentic, living your best life, communicating in a healthy way and laughing along the journey. For all private episodes, and to support the podcast, head over to www.patreon.com/thesap

#436 Upgrading To A Better Quality Of Living

April 15, 2021 19:27 - 52 minutes - 48.1 MB

Dave Neal here (@dnealz) this is a solo episode talking about upgrading to our new home, and what has happened in the last month. I also talk about communication in a relationship and read several relationship themed questions. The SAP is a podcast about being authentic, living your best life, communicating in a healthy way and laughing along the journey. For all private episodes, and to support the podcast, head over to www.patreon.com/thesap

#435 Now That's CRISP! with Kaitlin Mamie

April 06, 2021 16:08 - 1 hour - 68.5 MB

Kaitlin Mamie joins the pod to talk about her new sketch comedy album 'Now That's Crisp!' available anywhere you listen to music.  Kaitlin Mamie is a returning guest on The SAP, we talk about The Bachelor, comedy during the pandemic and so much more. Follow Kaitlin on instagram @kaitlinmamie

#434 How To Be The Most Likeable Person In The Room- Warmth & Competence

March 30, 2021 17:44 - 48 minutes - 44 MB

Discussing likability and how it applies to your dating life. Here's the article I reference: https://www.forbes.com/sites/briannawiest/2018/12/11/how-to-be-the-most-likable-person-in-the-room/?sh=6e051c246642 Also, check out my new vlog channel here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdLQu6NWJOGCxlQInbxodlQ The SAP is an open forum place to talk about dating, relationships, communication all while having fun and keeping things positive.  

#433 How To Improve Communication By Overcoming Assumptions

March 19, 2021 17:30 - 1 hour - 55.8 MB

This episode of The SAP was part of a 5 hour youtube livestream. I talked with Susan Rich about how toxic communication can be when we lead with our assumptions of a situation. The SAP is a podcast dedicated to better communication, overcoming obstacles and living a life of authenticity. We interview other comedians and self help gurus about living life freely.

#432 Unsharted Territory- How We Got Support From Bachelor Nation

March 11, 2021 06:18 - 52 minutes - 48 MB

Tasha Courtney @tashacourtney and Dave Neal @dnealz have a carcast episode. To WATCH the video versoin of this episode, head over to our Patreon. To sign up for our mailing list, http://eepurl.com/dnTogT The SAP is available on Patreon for bonus episode at www.patreon.com/thesap or if you'd like to donate, the venmo is @dnealz

#431 We Survived The Move

March 03, 2021 20:25 - 55 minutes - 50.5 MB

We moved studios and our life into a new home, and we discuss communicating expectations in a relationship, and how to properly use communication during challenging times. This episode is available in VIDEO on our Patreon. The SAP is available on Patreon for bonus episode at www.patreon.com/thesap or if you'd like to donate, the venmo is @dnealz

#430 We're Moving Out & Taking A Leap Of Faith

February 25, 2021 04:04 - 38 minutes - 35.6 MB

The SAP is upgrading to a new recording studio and living space. This is our final episode at our old home. Thanks so much for supporting us and thank you to all of our friends who subscribe to our premium memberships at www.patreon.com/thesap Thanks for being part of the family!

#429 Why We Crave Hard Work and When It Pays Off

February 16, 2021 20:52 - 40 minutes - 37.4 MB

Solo episode with Dave (@dnealz ig)- I talk about hard work and why its so good for the soul and why its important that we invest in ourselves in a world with deminished gatekeepers. How we work with a greater passion when the work is something we believe in and enjoy the creative process. The SAP is available on Patreon for bonus episode at www.patreon.com/thesap or if you'd like to donate, the venmo is @dnealz  

#428 Creating Opportunities With Shannon Dee

February 08, 2021 06:31 - 1 hour - 69.5 MB

Shannon Dee joins the podcast to talk about creating opportunities for herself within the entertainment world. Watch her webseries 'Not From Around Here' on youtube! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OWtb2ybN5_4&list=PLRGF3rrIULXdqDSdmsqVhCQldFTVg0ct9 The SAP is a dating, relationships and motivation podcast that centers around telling authentic stories about finding happiness, love languages and learning how to communicate effectively with others. All while having some laughs.

#427 Our Big Move!

February 01, 2021 23:53 - 59 minutes - 54.9 MB

How we decided to upgrade to a new home and all the support we've received along the way. This is a convo about shooting for the stars, betting on ourselves and all the great support we've received from everyone rooting us on. The SAP is a podcast about dating, relationships, marriage, self help and motivation along our journey to being the authentic self we are meant to be. For premium episode, head over to www.patreon.com/thesap

#426 Pandemic Dating Advice and Tips for Building Attraction!

January 25, 2021 20:45 - 52 minutes - 48.1 MB

Pandemic dating advice, solo episode from Dave. Reading reddit dating advice questions and offering some motivation on getting life together and becoming an attractive partner. The Sap is a collective of comedians, self help, motivated people and others talking about dating, relationships and getting to know ourselves in our most authentic ways. If you'd like to support the show, please visit www.patreon.com/thesap where we host hundreds of private membership only episodes of The SAP. ww...

#425 Why We Need To Stop Renting Out Our Time

January 19, 2021 01:24 - 58 minutes - 53.9 MB

A conversation about building equity in ourselves, overcoming the hurdles of our current economy, how Bachelor contestants become influencers and a chat with Meredith about her Onlyfans account. Find her at https://onlyfans.com/themeredith The SAP is a convo about dating, relationships and motivational topics like generating wealth, pursuing our dreams and self actualizing. Check out this episode on youtube at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpHHJHwi5kwPNBC7qNz_pUg

#424 Relationships Are Like Roommates

January 11, 2021 05:06 - 1 hour - 63.6 MB

How to communicate with your partner in the relationship. Learning to work as a team and checking in on everyone nearly a year into the pandemic. The SAP is a dating and relationship podcast. We interview comedians and other interesting people about their dating lives and have a raw and authentic convo about life.

#423 A Pandemic Breakup and Overcoming Codependency

January 04, 2021 06:19 - 1 hour - 73.6 MB

Lisa Read joins Dave Neal and Tasha Courtney to talk about her pandemic breakup. Plus we talk about The Bachelor franchise, and if we could handle going on the show. The SAP is an open conversation about dating, relationships, self help and motivation. We interview funny and heartwarming standup comedians about their dating and relationship lives.  

#422 How To Manifest Abundance In 2021

December 28, 2020 05:22 - 40 minutes - 37.3 MB

Dave and Tasha share their manifesting journal prepping for 2021.  Discussing manifesting, self actualization, sharing goals in a relationship and alot more! The SAP is an open conversation about dating, relationships, self help and motivation. We interview funny and heartwarming standup comedians about their dating and relationship lives.

#421 Merry Christmas!

December 21, 2020 16:03 - 1 hour - 60.3 MB

Merry Christmas everybody! Here's our latest episode from Los Angeles, wishing everyone a happy holidays! The SAP is a dating, relationship and motivational podcast, geared at opening up authentic conversation with friends and fellow standup comedians, self help experts and motivational authors.

#421 Merry Christmas!

December 21, 2020 16:03 - 1 hour - 60.3 MB

Merry Christmas everybody! Here's our latest episode from Los Angeles, wishing everyone a happy holidays! The SAP is a dating, relationship and motivational podcast, geared at opening up authentic conversation with friends and fellow standup comedians, self help experts and motivational authors.

#420 Nine Types of Non-Physical Cheating

December 14, 2020 20:10 - 1 hour - 55.7 MB

Today's solo episode I discuss an article titled '9 types of non-physical cheating' and discuss the types of physical cheating. A discussion about why people cheat and what it should tell them about their own unhappiness in a relationship. The SAP is a comedic relationships based podcast, we talk about dating and interview funny comedians about their personal lives.  

#419 Developing Social Skills During Pandemic

December 07, 2020 20:32 - 57 minutes - 52.7 MB

Hey friends, today I answer a few reddit questions about being ghosted on, developing social skills during a pandemic and knowing if your friend is into you. If you'd like to check out the premium memberships, head over to www.patreon.com/thesap or you can donate with venmo @dnealz Thanks so much! The SAP is a dating and relationships themed open conversation, geared at getting us all to express our authentic selves. We interview standup comedians, motivational and self help experts.

#418 Prepping for Vlogmas 2020

November 30, 2020 03:19 - 1 hour - 59.8 MB

We talk about the holidays, buying our first christmas tree and the resistance involced with proposing. We discuss the subreddit 'waiting to wed' and share a story about a Krispy Kreme disaster. The SAP is an open convo about relationship, self help, finding our path and pursuing an authentic life. For premium membership head to www.patreon.com/thesap and to watch our video episodes, go to https://www.youtube.com/davenealcomedian Our travel blog is www.WeAreTaDaTravels.com

#417 A Man's Guide To Defining The Relationship with Dan Paustian

November 23, 2020 03:15 - 1 hour - 72.5 MB

Comedian friend Dan Paustian joins the show to talk about his tenure on Master Chef, and taking the time to find out what life is all about. We also talk about defining the relationship and how men need more mentorship growing up. The SAP is an open convo about relationship, self help, finding our path and pursuing an authentic life. For premium membership head to www.patreon.com/thesap and to watch our video episodes, go to https://www.youtube.com/davenealcomedian Our travel blog is www...

#416 Managing Your Partner's Anxiety In A Relationship plus Netflix XMAS Movie Reviews

November 16, 2020 03:01 - 1 hour - 60.4 MB

In this episode we talk about The Bachelorette, and how anxiety and fear can be amplified in a relationship, how it can be managed as well. We also discuss our favorite new Netflix christmas movies. The SAP is an open convo about dating, relationships and communication. We discuss methods for building our authentic voices, self actualizing and living our best lives. www.patreon.com/thesap for premium membership content

#415 Why Humility Is Important After Election

November 09, 2020 02:18 - 1 hour - 58.3 MB

A solo episode, talking about why humility is important for the law of attraction and how our country can attempt to recover from such a political divide. The SAP is an open convo about dating, relationships and communication. We discuss methods for building our authentic voices, self actualizing and living our best lives. www.patreon.com/thesap for premium membership content https://kodybateman.com/2017/09/03/law-of-attraction/

#414 Prepping For Christmas Season 2020!

November 02, 2020 05:02 - 1 hour - 56.1 MB

Tasha makes the case for early November xmas music, plus we discuss Vanessa Hudgens and her netflix christmas empire. Also we talk about Colton Underwood's upcoming court case and how The Bachelor has failed to discuss domestic violence. The SAP is an open interview style podcast about dating, relationships and family dynamics. We interview funny comedians and talk about their dating lives in an honest way. If you want to contribute to our private Patreon community: https://www.patreon.com...

#413 Finding Ways To Extinguish Anxiety

October 26, 2020 05:10 - 1 hour - 60.6 MB

Tasha and Dave talk about anxiety, how to know when a flare up is coming and how to alleviate the anxious episode.  The SAP is an open interview style podcast about dating, relationships and family dynamics. We interview funny comedians and talk about their dating lives in an honest way. If you want to contribute to our private Patreon community: https://www.patreon.com/TheSAP www.WeAreTaDaTravels.com - check out our travel blog! For the youtube video episodes watch here: https://www.y...

#412 Overcoming Political Differences in 2020

October 19, 2020 02:57 - 1 hour - 101 MB

We speak with activist and lawyer David Loughnot about the political divide within our country. We discuss the use of fear versus faith and how campaigns and political identities try and pin us against each other. We also ask the question, can someone have a successful relationship in 2020 with someone of a different political party. The SAP is an open interview style podcast about dating, relationships and family dynamics. We interview funny comedians and talk about their dating lives in ...

#411 A Crockpot of Self Actualization

October 12, 2020 03:19 - 1 hour - 55.9 MB

Discussing stalking, domestic violence and the Colton Underwood/Cassie Randolph situation. We also discuss the idea of 'leaving California' and Graham Stephan's youtube. The SAP is an open interview style podcast about dating, relationships and family dynamics. We interview funny comedians and talk about their dating lives in an honest way. If you want to contribute to our private Patreon community: https://www.patreon.com/TheSAP www.WeAreTaDaTravels.com - check out our travel blog! Fo...

#410 Maintaining Empathy For Our Enemies

October 05, 2020 05:01 - 1 hour - 55.2 MB

Today we talk about having empathy for our enemies, like people that have different political and moral beliefs.  The SAP is an open interview style podcast about dating, relationships and family dynamics. We interview funny comedians and talk about their dating lives in an honest way. If you want to contribute to our private Patreon community: https://www.patreon.com/TheSAP www.WeAreTaDaTravels.com - check out our travel blog! For the youtube video episodes watch here: https://www.you...

#409 Health Care Solutions You Need To Know

September 27, 2020 23:03 - 1 hour - 65.8 MB

We discuss healthcare solutions with college pal Liz Deranja! We talk planning pregnancies during a pandemic, maternity leave, and how to negotiate hospital bills plus her work with Sidecar Health. The SAP is an open interview style podcast about dating, relationships and family dynamics. We interview funny comedians and talk about their dating lives in an honest way. If you want to contribute to our private Patreon community: https://www.patreon.com/TheSAP For the youtube video episodes...

#408 Restraining Orders and Jealous Exes

September 21, 2020 03:08 - 1 hour - 63.8 MB

We discuss domestic violence and the Colton Underwood Bachelor situation where Cassie Randolph filed for a restraining order after his harassing text messages and discovering a tracking device planted on her car. The SAP is an open conversation about all things dating, relationships and communicating. We talk about love languages, and being heard in a healthy way.   

#408 Restraining Orders and Jealous Exes

September 21, 2020 03:08 - 1 hour - 63.8 MB

We discuss domestic violence and the Colton Underwood Bachelor situation where Cassie Randolph filed for a restraining order after his harassing text messages and discovering a tracking device planted on her car. The SAP is an open conversation about all things dating, relationships and communicating. We talk about love languages, and being heard in a healthy way.   

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Leah Lamarr
1 Episode
Matt Ritter
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