Saddergay
84 episodes - English - Latest episode: almost 2 years ago -Saddergay is a podcast on internet culture, history, and humor as told by a sad gay. Kinda Kyle looks at social media through the lens of queer theory with a glass of rosé. Through interviews with TikTok creators, scholars, and friends, Saddergay is shallow dive into the sad gay online world.
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Permanently Banned from TikTok and Totally Not Bitter About It
February 20, 2021 19:00 - 20 minutes - 14 MBKinda Kyle: I'm not here to talk about censorship on social media Also Kinda Kyle: *dedicates entire episode to censorship on social media* Find Kinda Kyle on: YouTube Instagram Music by: Verano Sensual by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5049-verano-sensual License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
Gay Witches and Stories, Bitches!
February 06, 2021 17:00 - 36 minutes - 25 MBKinda Kyle reads from a story written in childhood and tries to find queer coded characters along the way--(spoiler alert, they're there!). In "The Witches Curse" Nicholas is a 10 year old boy in 18th century England. After Agatha bullies him one too many times, Nicholas decides to cast a spell on her. There's just one little thing. She's a witch! And now Nicholas is doomed for all eternity with the Witches *Witch's* curse! Find Kinda Kyle on: YouTube Instagram Music by: Verano Sensua...
You Are the Bitch You Seek: Self-Help is Self-Hell
January 23, 2021 16:00 - 21 minutes - 14.5 MBKinda Kyle writes a letter to Kinda Kyle on self-care, self-love, and what that really means. What is the *healthy* balance between self-care and caring for others? How do we learn the language of self-love when we have never been taught it? Kinda Kyle grapples with a love language that doesn't involve 3 am booty calls. Learn how to enact the "you are the bitch you seek" philosophy into your life! Find Kinda Kyle on: YouTube Instagram Music by: Verano Sensual by Kevin MacLeod Link: ...
You Are the Bitch You Seek: Self-Help is Self-Hell
January 23, 2021 16:00 - 21 minutes - 14.5 MBKinda Kyle writes a letter to Kinda Kyle on self-care, self-love, and what that really means. What is the *healthy* balance between self-care and caring for others? How do we learn the language of self-love when we have never been taught it? Kinda Kyle grapples with a love language that doesn't involve 3 am booty calls. Learn how to enact the "you are the bitch you seek" philosophy into your life! Find Kinda Kyle on: YouTube Instagram Music by: Verano Sensual by Kevin MacLeod Link: ...
Things and Stuff: Queer Content Creators Part II
January 09, 2021 18:00 - 31 minutes - 21.3 MBKinda Kyle talks more about queer content creators, this time while drunk in a basement! Writing and creation is a marker of privilege. Our depressed homosexual host talks about this plus Virginia Woolf, Alice Walker, Susan Sontag, and the newest children's story Mitch on a Bitch. How are our stories told and who frames the narrative? STRAIGHT WHITE MEN NAMED TAYLOR! Find out more in this soul crushing, ass tearing episode of Saddergay! The things and stuff talked about: Alice Walker "...
Things and Stuff: Queer Content Creators Part II
January 09, 2021 18:00 - 31 minutes - 21.3 MBKinda Kyle talks more about queer content creators, this time while drunk in a basement! Writing and creation is a marker of privilege. Our depressed homosexual host talks about this plus Virginia Woolf, Alice Walker, Susan Sontag, and the newest children's story Mitch on a Bitch. How are our stories told and who frames the narrative? STRAIGHT WHITE MEN NAMED TAYLOR! Find out more in this soul crushing, ass tearing episode of Saddergay! The things and stuff talked about: Alice Walker "...
Queer Content Creators
December 26, 2020 15:00 - 30 minutes - 20.8 MBKinda Kyle talks about creativity in a digital space. What is queer creative content? And how do we qualify certain queer creative content as more valuable than others? Kinda Kyle describes their own experiences as a queer artist, questioning the role of marketing and gathering a following as a digital creator. Also, a new catchphrase is made: sad gay rubber chicken. Find Kinda Kyle on: YouTube Instagram Music by: Verano Sensual by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/so...
Flapper Priestess: Sad Gay Holiday Episode
December 12, 2020 19:00 - 52 minutes - 36 MBIn this week's spooky Christmas adventure, Kinda Kyle and Galen discuss the possible gay alignments of the ghosts of A Christmas Carol, and dish on Sir Arthur Conan Doyle's tragic fascination with séances and fairies. They delve into Boston's murky history of spiritualism and séances to unlock Harry Houdini's efforts to expose the witch of Lime Street, the mysterious Mina Crandon- and get a little spooky and a little gay along the way. Sources: Jaher, David. The Witch of Lime Street: Séa...
Flapper Priestess: Sad Gay Holiday Episode
December 12, 2020 19:00 - 52 minutes - 36 MBIn this week's spooky Christmas adventure, Kinda Kyle and Galen discuss the possible gay alignments of the ghosts of A Christmas Carol, and dish on Sir Arthur Conan Doyle's tragic fascination with séances and fairies. They delve into Boston's murky history of spiritualism and séances to unlock Harry Houdini's efforts to expose the witch of Lime Street, the mysterious Mina Crandon- and get a little spooky and a little gay along the way. Sources: Jaher, David. The Witch of Lime Street: Séa...
Gay Liberation or Gaycation?
November 28, 2020 15:00 - 28 minutes - 19.4 MBWhen gays go "back-to-the-land," who really benefits from it? How does a four-day retreat in the woods create longterm social change? Who else wears a dress other than Harry Styles? Feminist Killjoy, Kinda Kyle talks about the Radical Faeries, the gay white ghetto, and the future of queer liberation. Find Kinda Kyle on: YouTube Instagram Music by: Verano Sensual by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5049-verano-sensual License: http://creativecommons.org/license...
Gay Liberation or Gaycation?
November 28, 2020 15:00 - 28 minutes - 19.4 MBWhen gays go "back-to-the-land," who really benefits from it? How does a four-day retreat in the woods create longterm social change? Who else wears a dress other than Harry Styles? Feminist Killjoy, Kinda Kyle talks about the Radical Faeries, the gay white ghetto, and the future of queer liberation. Find Kinda Kyle on: YouTube Instagram Music by: Verano Sensual by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5049-verano-sensual License: http://creativecommons.org/license...
The Purge: Gay Stoner Election Edition
November 07, 2020 15:00 - 16 minutes - 11.6 MBWelllllll shit. Kinda Kyle gets high (again) and talks about election things and stuff. Would 2020 have even happened if more people listened to My Chemical Romance? Rhetorical question: no! Find Kinda Kyle on: YouTube Instagram Music by: Verano Sensual by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5049-verano-sensual License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/ Protofunk by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/4247-protofunk License: ht...
The Purge: Gay Stoner Election Edition
November 07, 2020 15:00 - 16 minutes - 11.6 MBWelllllll shit. Kinda Kyle gets high (again) and talks about election things and stuff. Would 2020 have even happened if more people listened to My Chemical Romance? Rhetorical question: no! Find Kinda Kyle on: YouTube Instagram Music by: Verano Sensual by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5049-verano-sensual License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/ Protofunk by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/4247-protofunk License: ht...
Gay Christmas: Halloween for Sads and Gays
November 03, 2020 01:00 - 1 hour - 42.9 MBHappy Belated All Hallow's Eve! Kinda Kyle puts on Halloween makeup and talks about our cultural obsession with the "GOTHIC," horror, and all things Halloween! How did we go from pretending to be ghosts and asking for winter fruits to dressing as Joe Exotic? Kinda Kyle thinks of an answer before the Fireball shots kick in. View the video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/OgKSHxJUguw Instagram: https://bit.ly/35VXpz3 Outro Music by: Verano Sensual by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.fil...
The Ratchet Whore Podcast Show: A Rocky Horror Episode
October 24, 2020 14:00 - 52 minutes - 36.3 MBKinda Kyle (Asshole!) and guest host Roxanne (Slut!) discuss The Rocky Horror Picture Show, cult films, camp, and queerness. Is Rocky Horror a good movie without audience participation? What's the difference between Rocky Horror, Showgirls, and The Room? Are they all equally campy and queer cult films? What makes a good cult film? Join Kinda Kyle and Roxanne as they answer none of these questions and take shots of Dr. McGillicuddy. Music: Song: "Rose Tint My World" Artist: Rocky Horror S...
The Ratchet Whore Podcast Show: A Rocky Horror Episode
October 24, 2020 14:00 - 52 minutes - 36.3 MBKinda Kyle (Asshole!) and guest host Roxanne (Slut!) discuss The Rocky Horror Picture Show, cult films, camp, and queerness. Is Rocky Horror a good movie without audience participation? What's the difference between Rocky Horror, Showgirls, and The Room? Are they all equally campy and queer cult films? What makes a good cult film? Join Kinda Kyle and Roxanne as they answer none of these questions and take shots of Dr. McGillicuddy. Music: Song: "Rose Tint My World" Artist: Rocky Horror S...
Fanfics and Feminist Killjoys
September 26, 2020 12:00 - 33 minutes - 23.1 MBBonus episode! Yay! Kinda Kyle talks about fanfic tropes, Tumblr, pro-ana, pro-mia, gay porn, non-con (sorry *warning*), drug inducing fruit, and Goblin Kings! Yay! Social Media: Instagram: @Kinda_Kyle Twitter: @Kinda_Kyle Music by: Verano Sensual by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5049-verano-sensual License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/ Protofunk by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/4247-protofunk License: http://cre...
Fanfics and Feminist Killjoys
September 26, 2020 12:00 - 33 minutes - 23.1 MBBonus episode! Yay! Kinda Kyle talks about fanfic tropes, Tumblr, pro-ana, pro-mia, gay porn, non-con (sorry *warning*), drug inducing fruit, and Goblin Kings! Yay! Social Media: Instagram: @Kinda_Kyle Twitter: @Kinda_Kyle Music by: Verano Sensual by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5049-verano-sensual License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/ Protofunk by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/4247-protofunk License: http://cre...
The Empire Strikes Bareback: AKA My Origin Story
September 05, 2020 16:00 - 36 minutes - 25 MBIt's episode 10 bishes! Kinda Kyle tells the origin story of Saddergay. From being a theater kid to developing OCD and falling for emotionally unavailable men time and time again. Kinda Kyle talks about what it truly means to be sad and gay and why it all matters. Find out how it all began! Social Media: Instagram: @Kinda_Kyle Twitter: @Kinda_Kyle Music by: Verano Sensual by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5049-verano-sensual License: http://creativecommons.org...
The Empire Strikes Bareback: AKA My Origin Story
September 05, 2020 16:00 - 36 minutes - 25 MBIt's episode 10 bishes! Kinda Kyle tells the origin story of Saddergay. From being a theater kid to developing OCD and falling for emotionally unavailable men time and time again. Kinda Kyle talks about what it truly means to be sad and gay and why it all matters. Find out how it all began! Social Media: Instagram: @Kinda_Kyle Twitter: @Kinda_Kyle Music by: Verano Sensual by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5049-verano-sensual License: http://creativecommons.org...
The Gay Test: This Is Not A Test
August 29, 2020 12:00 - 46 minutes - 32.3 MBKinda Kyle takes the gay test. What are the results? Find out in this riveting episode of Saddergay! Social Media: Instagram: @Kinda_Kyle Twitter: @Kinda_Kyle Music by: Verano Sensual by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5049-verano-sensual License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/ Protofunk by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/4247-protofunk License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
A Date with My Eating Disorder
August 16, 2020 03:00 - 25 minutes - 17.4 MBKinda Kyle's eating disorder (Amanda) is a really great dinner date! No seriously...he really is! The best <3 Social Media: Instagram: @Kinda_Kyle Twitter: @Kinda_Kyle Music by: Verano Sensual by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5049-verano-sensual License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/ Protofunk by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/4247-protofunk License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
A Date with My Eating Disorder
August 16, 2020 03:00 - 25 minutes - 17.4 MBKinda Kyle's eating disorder (Amanda) is a really great dinner date! No seriously...he really is! The best <3 Social Media: Instagram: @Kinda_Kyle Twitter: @Kinda_Kyle Music by: Verano Sensual by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5049-verano-sensual License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/ Protofunk by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/4247-protofunk License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
Drunk Literature: The Bell Jar
August 01, 2020 14:00 - 41 minutes - 28.3 MBKinda Kyle drinks and talks about the most appropriate and uplifting subject for quarantine...suicide, Sylvia Plath, and The Bell Jar. Visit website for more: http://kindakyle.com Social Media: Instagram: @Kinda_Kyle Twitter: @Kinda_Kyle Music by: Verano Sensual by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5049-verano-sensual License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/ Protofunk by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/4247-protofunk Licen...
Werewolves Don't Pee in Bottles
July 11, 2020 21:00 - 1 hour - 44.7 MBKinda Kyle and guest co-host Roxanne talk about why men are trash, what constitutes as trash, vampire ex-boyfriends, and why werewolves don't pee in bottles. Visit website for more: http://kindakyle.com Social Media: Instagram: @Kinda_Kyle Twitter: @Kinda_Kyle Music by: Verano Sensual by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5049-verano-sensual License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/ Protofunk by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song...
Werewolves Don't Pee in Bottles
July 11, 2020 21:00 - 1 hour - 44.7 MBKinda Kyle and guest co-host Roxanne talk about why men are trash, what constitutes as trash, vampire ex-boyfriends, and why werewolves don't pee in bottles. Visit website for more: http://kindakyle.com Social Media: Instagram: @Kinda_Kyle Twitter: @Kinda_Kyle Music by: Verano Sensual by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5049-verano-sensual License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/ Protofunk by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song...
I'm High
June 20, 2020 16:00 - 15 minutes - 10.6 MBKinda Kyle gets high. Yup...that's the fucking episode. Visit website for more: http://kindakyle.com Social Media: Instagram: @Kinda_Kyle Twitter: @Kinda_Kyle Music by: Verano Sensual by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5049-verano-sensual License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/ Protofunk by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/4247-protofunk License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
hOw tO bE a gOoD wHiTe pErSoN
June 06, 2020 21:00 - 26 minutes - 18.2 MBKinda Kyle googles “how to be a good white person” to explain anti-blackness to lazy white ppl. Joe Biden and the Clintons are dragged...all are warned. Sources Cited On the Prison Industrial Complex: https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2020/05/06/black-imprisonment-rate-in-the-u-s-has-fallen-by-a-third-since-2006/ https://www.naacp.org/criminal-justice-fact-sheet/ http://criticalresistance.org/chapters/ https://www.prisonpolicy.org/reports/pie2020.html https://www.prisonpo...
hOw tO bE a gOoD wHiTe pErSoN
June 06, 2020 21:00 - 26 minutes - 18.2 MBKinda Kyle googles “how to be a good white person” to explain anti-blackness to lazy white ppl. Joe Biden and the Clintons are dragged...all are warned. Sources Cited On the Prison Industrial Complex: https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2020/05/06/black-imprisonment-rate-in-the-u-s-has-fallen-by-a-third-since-2006/ https://www.naacp.org/criminal-justice-fact-sheet/ http://criticalresistance.org/chapters/ https://www.prisonpolicy.org/reports/pie2020.html https://www.prisonpo...
Poor Unfortunate Holes!
May 23, 2020 16:00 - 15 minutes - 10.6 MBKinda Kyle talks about Disney villains and their sexuality. Why do gays love villains so much? Why wasn't Scar invited to the Timon and Pumba orgy? All this and more in today's episode of Saddergay! Visit website for more: http://kindakyle.com Social Media: Instagram: @Kinda_Kyle Twitter: @Kinda_Kyle Articles referenced: "Autosexual: What it means to be sexually attracted to yourself" by Tijen Butler https://www.pinknews.co.uk/2019/03/06/autosexual-sexually-attracted-yourself/ Mus...
Poor Unfortunate Holes!
May 23, 2020 16:00 - 15 minutes - 10.6 MBKinda Kyle talks about Disney villains and their sexuality. Why do gays love villains so much? Why wasn't Scar invited to the Timon and Pumba orgy? All this and more in today's episode of Saddergay! Visit website for more: http://kindakyle.com Social Media: Instagram: @Kinda_Kyle Twitter: @Kinda_Kyle Articles referenced: "Autosexual: What it means to be sexually attracted to yourself" by Tijen Butler https://www.pinknews.co.uk/2019/03/06/autosexual-sexually-attracted-yourself/ Mus...
Say Maybe to Drugs
May 16, 2020 14:00 - 20 minutes - 13.8 MBOn this Saddergay, Kinda Kyle talks about drugs and why you should do them...sometimes and then never do them again. Taking a walk down memory lane in the year 3005, Kinda Kyle talks about recovery, an acid trip, and death threats by a dear friend. Guest appearances by a Seth Rogen doorknob and a passive aggressive carpet rug! Visit website for more: http://kindakyle.com Social Media: Instagram: @Kinda_Kyle Twitter: @Kinda_Kyle Verano Sensual by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech...
Say Maybe to Drugs
May 16, 2020 14:00 - 20 minutes - 13.8 MBOn this Saddergay, Kinda Kyle talks about drugs and why you should do them...sometimes and then never do them again. Taking a walk down memory lane in the year 3005, Kinda Kyle talks about recovery, an acid trip, and death threats by a dear friend. Guest appearances by a Seth Rogen doorknob and a passive aggressive carpet rug! Visit website for more: http://kindakyle.com Social Media: Instagram: @Kinda_Kyle Twitter: @Kinda_Kyle Verano Sensual by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech...
Go Fuck Yourself
May 09, 2020 16:00 - 19 minutes - 13.6 MBFor the first Saddergay episode Kinda Kyle talks about intimacy in the time of social distancing. How can we fuck ourselves and fuck each other in the process? Kinda Kyle will take you over the rainbow with recommendations for self-satisfaction: erotica, vibrators, and phone sex with Oscar the Grouch. Discover the endless possibilities! Warning! Random yelling, don't listen to this on full volume. Visit website for more: http://kindakyle.com Social Media: Instagram: @Kinda_Kyle Twitter...