Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled
374 episodes - English - Latest episode: about 3 hours ago - ★★★★★ - 3.5K ratingsIn the 25+ years Janet Lansbury has worked with children and parents, she's learned a lot. She's here to share it with you. Each episode of Unruffled addresses a reader's parenting issue through the lens of Janet's respectful parenting approach, consistently offering a perspective shift that ultimately frees parents of the need for scripts, strategies, tricks, and tactics.
Janet is a parenting author and consultant whose website (JanetLansbury.com) is visited by millions of readers annually. Her work informs, inspires, and supports caregivers of infants and toddlers across the globe, helping to create authentic relationships of respect, trust, and love.
Janet's "No Bad Kids Master Course" is available at NoBadKidsCourse and JanetLansbury. Her best-selling books “No Bad Kids: Toddler Discipline without Shame” and "Elevating Child Care: A Guide to Respectful Parenting" are available in all formats at Amazon, Apple, Barnes & Noble, and free at Audible with a trial subscription.
Featured in The New Yorker, recommended 'Best Parenting Podcast' by The Washington Post, The New York Times, USA Today, The Cut, Fatherly, Today's Parent, and many, many more.
Please note: This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The views and advice presented on this podcast by Janet Lansbury and her guests are based on their training and experience. Opinions are offered in good faith but do not constitute professional, psychiatric, or medical advice, neither are they intended to be. You do not have to use this information, and it should not be substituted for qualified medical expertise.
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Episodes
Extremely Clingy and Whiny Since Grandma Moved In
March 12, 2017 03:10 - 22 minutes - 20.5 MBA mother who has tried to raise her 22-month-old daughter with a sense of confidence and independence says that since her mother-in-law moved into the house, her daughter has become “the epitome of dependent… clingy, whiny and stubborn.” She believes this new household dynamic is undermining her as a parent and “has ruined my girl.” For more of Janet's respectful care advice, please check out her new audio series SESSIONS, her recorded consultations with parents discussing their mo...
Peeing on the Floor is an Attention-Getter
March 02, 2017 02:12 - 14 minutes - 13.3 MBAn almost-3-year-old who seemed to have made the transition to using a toilet has started wetting his pants and peeing on the floor. His mom is confused (and annoyed) because she says he doesn't have “accidents” when he’s out and about, even for an entire day. She’s wondering why this is happening all of a sudden and why only at home. For more on transitions and other common parenting issues, please check out Janet's new audio series SESSIONS, her recorded consultations with parent...
When Children Ask About Death (or Other Heavy Topics)
February 22, 2017 16:29 - 10 minutes - 9.38 MBThe mother of an almost-4-year-old asks Janet if she’s responding appropriately to her daughter’s recent questions about death. She is trying to be open and honest and respectful of her daughter’s feelings, but she also doesn’t want her to “think or worry more about this than she should… I want her to be happy and not be scared of dying so much.” For more on other common parenting issues, please check out Janet's new audio series SESSIONS, her recorded consultations with parents di...
Shouldn't a 6-Year-Old Know Better?
February 15, 2017 20:07 - 14 minutes - 13.3 MBJanet answers a question about boundaries and limit testing from the mother of a 6-year-old. Her husband believes certain behaviors are unacceptable because their boy is old enough “to know better,” but this mom disagrees and is looking for some clarity about realistic expectations for a child their son’s age. For more advice on common parenting issues, please check out Janet's best-selling books on audio at Audible (https://adbl.co/2OBVztZ). Her exclusive audio series "Sessions" is also...
Handling My Toddler's First Tantrum
February 09, 2017 01:55 - 16 minutes - 15.6 MBA mom writes to describe her 13-month-old’s first tantrum, saying that after several gentle and respectful attempts to manage the situation, she “froze and didn't know what to do.” She’s wondering how she might have handled the situation differently so she can be better prepared for the inevitable ‘next time’. For more advice on common infant/toddler parenting issues, please check out Janet's books at Amazon and Audible (https://adbl.co/2OBVztZ). Also available for download, her a...
My Toddler's Blankie Blues
February 02, 2017 00:32 - 11 minutes - 10.5 MBA mother writes that her 3-year-old was told that he could no longer bring his security blanket to preschool. The director of the school said that her son needed to "learn some independence from his blanket” and also suggested that “maybe he isn’t mature enough for preschool.” This mom is understandably upset. She fundamentally disagrees with the school’s director on a number of levels and has written to Janet for her “opinions and guidance.” For more on toddler transitions and oth...
When Your Child Seems Afraid of Other People
January 26, 2017 16:16 - 12 minutes - 11.6 MBA mom worries that her toddler has developed an irrational fear of people, both strangers and family friends. She says that in some situations her daughter will cry uncontrollably for 10 minutes or more. “It’s awful to see our daughter so upset, and I’m desperate to know the best way to handle this.” For more advice on common infant/toddler parenting issues, please check out Janet's books at Amazon and Audible (adbl.co/2OBVztZ). Also available for download, her audio series "Sessi...
My Daughter Is Never Satisfied (And It's Making Me Nuts)
January 19, 2017 16:08 - 12 minutes - 11.3 MBA mother is alarmed by her feelings of animosity towards her demanding 5-year-old. She admits that there have been a lot of transitions in the household, but she’s run out of patience with her daughter's constant complaints and is “turning into the kind of mother I’ve always hated… I want to hit the reset button but can’t find it.” For more advice on common infant/toddler parenting issues, please check out Janet's books at Amazon and Audible (adbl.co/2OBVztZ). Also available for d...
Managing the Conflicting Demands of Siblings
January 08, 2017 23:04 - 18 minutes - 17.1 MBA mother of three young boys is struggling to deal with their demands and the conflicts between them. If she accommodates one boy’s wishes, the other two react with jealousy and fighting. She’s wondering how to cope with her situation when “everything feels like a compromise.” For more advice on common infant/toddler parenting issues, please check out Janet's books at Amazon and Audible (https://adbl.co/2OBVztZ). Also available for download, her audio series "Sessions" -- recorded consul...
Helping Your Child Through a Difficult Transition
December 14, 2016 00:35 - 12 minutes - 11.7 MBA mom writes that her 3-year-old has become whiny, demanding, and clingy since her separation from the boy’s father and their move to a new home. At this point, she says, “I do not enjoy being with him at all” and she wonders if Janet has advice on how to re-establish their relationship so she can enjoy being with him again. For more advice on common infant/toddler parenting issues, please check out Janet's books at Amazon and Audible (adbl.co/2OBVztZ). Also available for download...
Coping with a High Needs Baby (special guest: Lisa Sunbury)
December 08, 2016 16:52 - 22 minutes - 20.9 MBJanet responds to a letter from a pregnant mom who struggled mightily with her first child, whom she describes as a Velcro baby. Though her daughter has developed into a “happy, confident and wonderful little girl,” the experience took a toll on this mother and left her feeling insecure as a parent and “frankly terrified of having the same experience again.” For more advice on common infant/toddler parenting issues, please check out Janet's books at Amazon and Audible (adbl.co/2OBV...
My Son Is Saying the F-Word
November 30, 2016 03:40 - 13 minutes - 12.2 MBA mother writes that her “kind, sensitive” boy has picked up the F-word and is using it frequently to test his parents’ patience. She says that she has tried a variety of responses, ranging from ignoring the word to disallowing it, but nothing has helped. Both parents are out of ideas and looking for some direction. For more advice on parenting issues, please check out this new audio resource -- "Sessions" -- my recorded consultations with parents: SessionsAudio.com Our Sponsors: ...
My Toddler's Becoming a Bully
November 17, 2016 00:49 - 17 minutes - 16.1 MBA mom writes to Janet wondering if she should give her 2-year-old a reprieve from socializing, since she can’t seem to get through a play date without either hitting, kicking, or biting one of her peers. She wants to raise her daughter “to be kind and loving and safe around other people,” but at this point she feels that she has become a bully. For more on aggressive toddler behavior and other issues, please check out this new audio resource -- "Sessions" -- my recorded consultatio...
Overwhelmed by a Toddler's Constant Demands, Screaming and Testing
November 08, 2016 21:47 - 16 minutes - 15.2 MBJanet responds to a mother who is feeling utterly defeated by her 2.5-year-old’s round-the-clock demands for her attention. She and her husband are simply spent, feeling “tired, frustrated and miserable.” For more advice on common infant/toddler parenting issues, please check out Janet's books at Amazon and Audible (https://adbl.co/2OBVztZ). Also available for download, her audio series "Sessions" -- recorded consultations with parents discussing their most immediate and pressing concerns ...
When Play Seems Too Rough
November 01, 2016 23:28 - 12 minutes - 11.8 MBA mom with 4 and 6-year-old girls is worried that playdates at the park with friends are too rough, sometimes downright dangerous. She says that in many instances children get hurt and someone ends up in tears. This mom is wondering how, when, or if to intervene to protect her kids. For more advice on common parenting issues, please check out Janet's best-selling books on audio at Audible (https://adbl.co/2OBVztZ). Her exclusive audio series "Sessions" is also available for downlo...
Motivating Your Child
October 26, 2016 22:32 - 16 minutes - 15.5 MBJanet responds to a mother who describes her husband and herself as “very healthy, active people.” They have been trying to encourage their almost 5-year-old to pursue physical activities by providing lessons and classes but are frustrated because he loses interest. They are wondering whether to push their agenda or just let it go. For more advice on common parenting issues, please check out Janet's best-selling books on audio at Audible (https://adbl.co/2OBVztZ). Her exclusive au...
The Facts About Your Kids and Screen Time (with Dr. Meghan Owenz)
October 18, 2016 18:44 - 30 minutes - 27.6 MBJanet is joined by Dr. Meghan Owenz and her husband Adam to discuss some of the truths and misconceptions about children and screens. Meghan is a university professor teaching classes on counseling and infant and child development. She and Adam write about the latest research on their website ScreenFreeParenting and present a host of screen-free alternatives to keep children engaged and learning. For more advice on common infant/toddler parenting issues, please check out Janet's bo...
Too Much Jumping and Climbing in the House
October 11, 2016 14:28 - 16 minutes - 14.9 MBThe mother of a 16-month-old is climbing the walls because her daredevil boy insists on climbing the furniture and putting himself “in potentially dangerous situations.” She strives to maintain a respectful, trusting attitude and does not want to continually say ‘no’, but she feels her son is testing and trying to get a reaction out of her. For more advice on toddler parenting issues, please check out this new audio resource -- "Sessions" -- my recorded consultations with parents: ...
Stressed by a Child's Relentless Demands for Attention
October 02, 2016 15:35 - 17 minutes - 16.4 MBA frustrated mom who describes herself as “desperate for help” seeks advice about her persistent, high-energy 2.5-year-old, who dominates her and her husband's time and energy with relentless demands to be the focus of their universe -- all day, every day. For more advice on common infant/toddler parenting issues, please check out Janet's books at Amazon and Audible (https://adbl.co/2OBVztZ). Also available for download, her audio series "Sessions" -- recorded consultations with parents dis...
Should We Referee Toy Conflicts?
September 26, 2016 03:26 - 13 minutes - 12 MBThe parent of a 22-month-old seeks some clarification for toy-taking situations when her boy is in a public space -- if or when to intervene, and wondering if it’s better to weather the judgmental stares of other parents in favor of her son’s social development. For more on toddler conflicts and other common parenting issues, please check out this new audio resource -- "Sessions" -- my recorded consultations with parents: SessionsAudio.com. Our Sponsors: * Check out BabyQuip and u...
When a Child Can't Get Her Act Together in the Morning
September 16, 2016 04:13 - 15 minutes - 14.3 MBA mom is frustrated that her 4-year-old daughter has suddenly decided she’s helpless in the mornings, pretending to be overwhelmed and confused by the most basic tasks. This mom is expecting a new baby and is going to need her daughter’s cooperation when the child arrives. For more on common parenting issues, please check out this new audio resource -- "Sessions" -- my recorded consultations with parents: SessionsAudio.com See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and Califo...
Choosing Your Battles with a Controlling Child
September 07, 2016 21:32 - 14 minutes - 12.9 MBA mom is struggling with her 3.5-year-old’s “controlling and oppositional behavior.” She’s trying to find reasonable boundaries to avoid big confrontations over minor issues when her daughter insists on calling the shots. For more advice on common infant/toddler parenting issues, please check out Janet's books at Amazon and Audible (https://adbl.co/2OBVztZ). Also available for download, her audio series "Sessions" -- recorded consultations with parents discussing their most immedi...
4-Year-Old Has Emotional, Aggressive Responses to Limits
August 30, 2016 14:17 - 15 minutes - 14.5 MBA mom describes her daughter as “super easy, independent and happy” at school but emotional and defiant at home. She suspects her child is going through a “development leap” that will pass (she hopes!) but wonders how to handle her behavior in the meantime. For more advice on common infant/toddler parenting issues, please check out Janet's books at Amazon and Audible (https://adbl.co/2OBVztZ). Also available for download, her audio series "Sessions" -- recorded consultations with ...
Frazzled by Baby’s Frustrated Noises
August 23, 2016 23:21 - 13 minutes - 12.8 MBA mom is confused by her one-year-old’s loud grunts and screeches and isn’t always sure what he needs in these situations. For more on common parenting issues, please check out this new audio resource -- "Sessions" -- my recorded consultations with parents: SessionsAudio.com Our Sponsors: * Check out BabyQuip and use my code UNRUFFLED for a great deal: http://www.babyquip.com See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privac...
When Toddlers Take Toys
August 10, 2016 03:55 - 15 minutes - 14.3 MBJanet responds to a question from a mom whose 15-month-old is constantly taking toys from his peers on the playground. She describes him as “very physical and stronger and taller than most of the other kids.” She’s tried many approaches to moderate his behavior, but none of them have worked. She’s looking for some new strategies. (Here's the article that Janet and the parent refer to in the podcast: http://www.janetlansbury.com/2011/02/what-to-do-about-a-toddler-toy-taker/) For mo...
My Two-Year-Old Won't Behave in Class
August 02, 2016 12:15 - 10 minutes - 9.91 MBJanet weighs in with a concerned mom whose toddler is having trouble sitting and listening in his enrichment class. "Sessions" is Janet's collection of private phone consultations with parents. Check out episodes here: SessionsAudio.com Our Sponsors: * Check out BabyQuip and use my code UNRUFFLED for a great deal: http://www.babyquip.com See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Should I Teach My Child to Say 'No'?
July 26, 2016 15:03 - 7 minutes - 7.01 MBJanet responds to a mother who has avoided using words like ‘no’ and ‘stop’ when interacting with her child, and she’s now concerned that her toddler doesn’t have the social vocabulary to establish her own boundaries. For more on boundaries and other common parenting issues, please check out this new audio resource -- "Sessions" -- my recorded consultations with parents: http://sites.fastspring.com/jlmlpress/product/sessions Our Sponsors: * Check out BabyQuip and use my code UNRUF...
Intense Difficulties with a Defiant, Resistant Child
July 19, 2016 19:22 - 21 minutes - 19.5 MBIn this episode: Janet responds to a letter from a single working mother who describes her relationship with her 4-year old as close and respectful, yet her daughter’s chronically defiant behavior is exhausting and concerning. This mum is overwhelmed and is desperately seeking advice and hope. For more advice on common infant/toddler parenting issues, please check out Janet's books at Amazon and Audible (https://adbl.co/2OBVztZ). Also available for download, her audio series "Sessions" -- ...
Intense Difficulties with a Child's Defiance and Resistance
July 19, 2016 19:22 - 20 minutes - 19.1 MBJanet responds to a letter from a single parent who describes her relationship with her 4-year-old as close and respectful, yet her daughter’s behavior is exhausting and concerning. This mum is overwhelmed and is desperately seeking advice and hope. For more advice on common infant/toddler parenting issues, please check out Janet's books on Amazon and Audible (https://adbl.co/2OBVztZ). Also available for download, her audio series "Sessions" -- recorded consultations with parents ...
Am I Giving My Baby Enough Attention?
July 12, 2016 15:53 - 15 minutes - 14 MBJanet offers advice to a mother of nine-month-old twins. The boy is physically active and social and seeks her engagement. The girl is content to play independently without much interaction or feedback, and the mom is worried that she may not be giving her enough attention. For more advice on common infant/toddler parenting issues, please check out Janet's books at Amazon and Audible (adbl.co/2OBVztZ). Also available for download, her audio series "Sessions" -- recorded consultati...
Encouraging Your Baby's Independent Play
July 08, 2016 04:32 - 22 minutes - 20.2 MBA working mom writes that her 3-month-old is not happy when left on the floor to play by himself. He quickly begins “screaming and crying to be saved,” and the situation is causing problems both at home and at the child’s daycare. Check out Sessions, my recorded consultations with parents: SessionsAudio.com Our Sponsors: * Check out BabyQuip and use my code UNRUFFLED for a great deal: http://www.babyquip.com See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy N...
When Parents Separate
June 28, 2016 14:44 - 14 minutes - 13 MBJanet receives a letter from a mom who’s been separated from her husband for six weeks and is about to make the arrangement permanent. She wonders how much, and how best to communicate with her four-year-old about the situation and how to handle the changes in their lives. "Sessions" is Janet's exclusive collection of private phone consultations with parents. Check out episodes here: SessionsAudio.com Our Sponsors: * Check out BabyQuip and use my code UNRUFFLED for a great deal: h...
Help! My Daughter Has Become A Hitter And Shover
June 22, 2016 14:40 - 12 minutes - 11.4 MBJanet advises a worried mother whose child's behavior seems to have taken a turn for the worse. For more advice on common infant/toddler parenting issues, please check out Janet's books at Amazon and Audible (adbl.co/2OBVztZ). Also available for download, her audio series "Sessions" -- recorded consultations with parents discussing their most immediate and pressing concerns (SessionsAudio.com). Our Sponsors: * Check out BabyQuip and use my code UNRUFFLED for a great deal: http://...
Sensitive Boy Doesn't Like Hearing "No"
June 07, 2016 15:30 - 14 minutes - 13.2 MBA father is concerned about his 3-year-old’s sensitive reaction to hearing the word ‘no’. He senses that his boy feels punished or that he has done something wrong, so he wonders if there’s something he can adjust in his delivery. For more advice on common infant/toddler parenting issues, please check out Janet's books at Amazon and Audible (adbl.co/2OBVztZ). Also available for download, her audio series "Sessions" -- recorded consultations with parents discussing their most immed...
What To Expect From Your Older Child When You're Expecting (And Thoughts About Classes For Toddlers)
May 31, 2016 19:04 - 15 minutes - 14.3 MBJanet answers a letter from an expecting mother whose 2.5-year-old daughter has become wantonly defiant, especially during various extracurricular classes, and her antics are leading to some potentially dangerous situations. This mom feels like she’s being baited and wants the testing to stop. For more advice on common infant/toddler parenting issues, please check out Janet's books at Amazon and Audible (adbl.co/2OBVztZ). Also available for download, her audio series "Sessions" --...
What To Do About Your Screeching Child
May 17, 2016 23:01 - 8 minutes - 8.01 MBA mom writes that her toddler’s constant screeching is “driving me crazy!” and is hoping Janet has some advice before she loses her mind. For more on toddler parenting issues, please check out Janet's new audio series SESSIONS, her recorded consultations with parents: SessionsAudio.com Our Sponsors: * Check out BabyQuip and use my code UNRUFFLED for a great deal: http://www.babyquip.com See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19...
Help With A Toddler Who Bites
May 12, 2016 23:04 - 16 minutes - 14.9 MBA parent writes to Janet about her two-year-old’s habit of biting her playmates when she’s frustrated or angry. The parent has been employing a respectful approach to these situations, which has helped somewhat, but it hasn't completely alleviated the issue. For more on common parenting issues, please check out this new audio resource -- "Sessions" -- my recorded consultations with parents: SessionsAudio.com Our Sponsors: * Check out BabyQuip and use my code UNRUFFLED for a great ...
Toddler Tattoo Artist (Why Limit Creativity?)
May 04, 2016 14:00 - 9 minutes - 8.83 MBA mom asks Janet whether she should put the kibosh on her daughter’s body painting or just accept it as healthy artistic exploration. For more on common parenting issues, please check out this new audio resource -- "Sessions" -- my recorded consultations with parents: SessionsAudio.com. Our Sponsors: * Check out BabyQuip and use my code UNRUFFLED for a great deal: http://www.babyquip.com See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art1...
Helping Your Child Say "I'm Sorry"
April 27, 2016 20:39 - 13 minutes - 12.1 MBIn this episode: The mother of a four-year-old is frustrated that her child will never say “I’m sorry" when he's done something wrong. She has tried both gentle and more forceful approaches, as well as attempting to help him understand the spirit and intent of an apology, all to no effect. For more advice on common infant/toddler parenting issues, please check out Janet's books at Amazon and Audible (https://adbl.co/2OBVztZ). Also available for download, her audio series "Sessions" -- reco...
My Child Is Too Passive
April 20, 2016 00:27 - 17 minutes - 15.6 MBA parent describes her 26-month-old as “too passive” and is confused about how to react when she witnesses other children taking his toys, hitting, or yelling at him. For more on common toddler parenting issues, please check out Janet's new audio series SESSIONS, her recorded consultations with parents: SessionsAudio.com Our Sponsors: * Check out BabyQuip and use my code UNRUFFLED for a great deal: http://www.babyquip.com See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and Califo...
Childhood Fears
April 12, 2016 23:01 - 12 minutes - 11.7 MBA worried mom asks Janet what she can do to guide and support her 2-year-old daughter through an irrational fear. For more advice on common infant/toddler parenting issues, please check out Janet's books at Amazon and Audible (adbl.co/2OBVztZ). Also available for download, her audio series "Sessions" -- recorded consultations with parents discussing their most immediate and pressing concerns (SessionsAudio.com). Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https...
Aggressive Toddler Behavior (Hitting, Biting, Spitting)
April 05, 2016 23:32 - 15 minutes - 14.2 MBJanet responds to a father whose 2.5-year-old is acting out at home and at school by biting, hitting, and sometimes spitting when she doesn’t get her way. The toddler’s dad says he’s tried a respectful approach to curb her behavior, but it seems to be getting worse. For more advice on common infant/toddler parenting issues, please check out Janet's books at Amazon and Audible (https://adbl.co/2OBVztZ). Also available for download, her audio series "Sessions" -- recorded consultati...
Encouraging Kids To Play By Themselves
March 30, 2016 00:21 - 18 minutes - 16.5 MBJanet addresses a parent’s concerns about her daughter’s unwillingness to play independently. She seems to need constant stimulation and entertainment. For more advice on common infant/toddler parenting issues, please check out Janet's books at Amazon and Audible (adbl.co/2OBVztZ). Also available for download, her audio series "Sessions" -- recorded consultations with parents discussing their most immediate and pressing concerns (SessionsAudio.com). Advertising Inquiries: https://redcir...
Motor Development, Praise, Motivation, Emotional Health (More RIE Parenting Basics)
March 22, 2016 15:19 - 12 minutes - 11.9 MBJanet continues the introduction to RIE parenting she began in her previous podcast by briefly discussing ways parents can foster natural motor development, emotional health, intrinsic motivation, and inner direction. These are basics 4-6 from her article "RIE Parenting Basics - 9 Ways To Put Respect Into Action." For more audio on common parenting issues, please check out this new resource -- "Sessions" -- my recorded consultations with parents: SessionsAudio.com Our Sponsors: * ...
3 RIE Parenting Basics
March 15, 2016 17:49 - 16 minutes - 15 MBJanet responds to a frequent reader request to introduce and summarize the RIE parenting approach. She begins in this podcast by discussing the first 3 basics she shared in her article "RIE Parenting Basics - 9 Ways To Put Respect Into Action". For more advice on common infant/toddler parenting issues, please check out Janet's books at Amazon and Audible (https://adbl.co/2OBVztZ). Also available for download, her audio series "Sessions" -- recorded consultations with parents discu...
Toilet Training Isn't Working
March 09, 2016 15:22 - 13 minutes - 12.5 MBJanet responds to a mother whose son seems to grasp the concept of using the toilet, but he isn’t cooperating. She’s trying to be patient and understanding but also worried his resistance is becoming entrenched, so she’s looking to Janet for some potty pointers. For more advice on common infant/toddler parenting issues, please check out Janet's books at Amazon and Audible (adbl.co/2OBVztZ). Also available for download, her audio series "Sessions" -- recorded consultations with par...
When A Child's Hugs Aren't Welcome
March 02, 2016 05:05 - 15 minutes - 14.2 MBA mother worries about her daughter’s displays of affection toward her friends, who aren’t always appreciative. She’s wondering how to explain the limits of physical love to her huggy daughter. For more advice on common infant/toddler parenting issues, please check out Janet's books at Amazon and Audible (adbl.co/2OBVztZ). Also available for download, her audio series "Sessions" -- recorded consultations with parents discussing their most immediate and pressing concerns (SessionsA...
Hard To Feel Compassion For Unreasonable Emotions
February 24, 2016 15:00 - 15 minutes - 14.3 MBA concerned mother writes that her 3-year-old seems to be in a constant state of frustration or anxiety, making outlandish demands and crying when she doesn’t get her way. While this mom tries to be compassionate, it’s getting more and more difficult, and she worries that her own postpartum anxiety may have modeled the behavior. She’s looking for healthy ways to help them both cope. For more advice on common infant/toddler parenting issues, please check out Janet's books at Amazon and Audi...
Alternatives To Time Out
February 17, 2016 04:55 - 15 minutes - 14 MBIn this episode: Janet shares a recent exchange with a mom requesting "alternatives to time out when natural consequences aren’t appropriate." The parent wonders how to intervene with her toddler when she is possessive and aggressive around other kids. For more advice on common infant/toddler parenting issues, please check out Janet's books at Amazon and Audible (https://adbl.co/2OBVztZ). Also available for download, her audio series "Sessions" -- recorded consultations with parents discuss...
Sibling Conflicts (In This Case, Twins)
February 10, 2016 15:27 - 24 minutes - 22.5 MBA mother of toddler twins is frazzled by her children’s constant conflicts, which often deteriorate into what she describes as hand-to-hand combat. While she makes every effort to be respectful and patient, she’s exhausted by the relentless discord and is wondering how she might diffuse future struggles before they become altercations. For more on siblings and other parenting issues, please check out this new audio resource -- "Sessions" -- my recorded consultations with parents: S...