Real World Peaceful Parenting
256 episodes - English - Latest episode: about 11 hours ago - ★★★★★ - 204 ratingsAre you tired of yelling at your kids? Do you sometimes feel like they don’t listen or respect you? Do you feel like the worst parent EVER? You’re not alone, there is hope!
Join Lisa Smith -- Mom, Master Certified Parent Coach, Author and Speaker -- as she helps turn frustrated parents -- who regularly default to yelling, threatening and punishing -- into peaceful leaders within their households. As a former dominant parent, she has found the path to Peaceful Parenting and is dedicated to helping other parents find their way too!
But be warned, this is not a “foo-foo” podcast that’s going to tell you to let your kids do whatever they want without any rules or limitations. Each week Lisa will share the exact methods and step-by-step strategies she used to transform from an angry, controlling mom who was constantly upset with her son and husband, into a calm, confident, and connected leader in her home.
To connect with Lisa visit https://thepeacefulparent.com/
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Episodes
Ep #53: New Year, New Words
January 12, 2022 08:00 - 15 minutes - 13 MBThis week, I’m sharing why a different choice of words can be a gamechanger in your parenting. Hear some words you might be using and what you can replace them with instead, and discover how changing your words can lead to more connection and cooperation with your kids. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/53
53. New Year, New Words
January 12, 2022 08:00 - 15 minutes - 13 MBThis week, I’m sharing why a different choice of words can be a gamechanger in your parenting. Hear some words you might be using and what you can replace them with instead, and discover how changing your words can lead to more connection and cooperation with your kids. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/53
Ep #52: New Beginnings and a Look at What is Possible
January 05, 2022 08:00 - 21 minutes - 17.9 MBI’m helping you form a new habit that will allow you to get to the root cause of your child’s behavior, and I'm sharing a story of a real-life parent who used this tool to improve her connection with her son. Developing this habit is a total parenting gamechanger and will transform how your kids feel about themselves, so learn how to get curious, not furious, and understand why your kids are behaving in this way. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent....
52. New Beginnings and a Look at What is Possible
January 05, 2022 08:00 - 21 minutes - 17.9 MBI’m helping you form a new habit that will allow you to get to the root cause of your child’s behavior, and I'm sharing a story of a real-life parent who used this tool to improve her connection with her son. Developing this habit is a total parenting gamechanger and will transform how your kids feel about themselves, so learn how to get curious, not furious, and understand why your kids are behaving in this way. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent....
51. 10 Things I Know for Sure About Real World Peaceful Parenting
December 29, 2021 08:00 - 21 minutes - 17.7 MBThe holiday season is here, so wherever you are in the world, if you are getting ready to celebrate something, I’m here to help. This week, I’m sharing with you 10 things I know for sure about parenting that will help you stay cool, calm, collected over the holidays. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/51
Ep #51: 10 Things I Know for Sure About Real World Peaceful Parenting
December 29, 2021 08:00 - 21 minutes - 17.7 MBThe holiday season is here, so wherever you are in the world, if you are getting ready to celebrate something, I’m here to help. This week, I’m sharing with you 10 things I know for sure about parenting that will help you stay cool, calm, collected over the holidays. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/51
Ep #50: The Most Beautiful Gift You Can Give Your Kids This Holiday Season
December 22, 2021 08:00 - 9 minutes - 8.1 MBAs many of you know, I have a monthly membership called The Hive and we have a live call every week where parents can ask questions, receive coaching and support, and work through things. At the beginning of every call, I offer some inspiration, food for thought, or a weekly lesson. And to celebrate the 50th episode of the podcast, I’m sharing this week’s lesson to help you understand why your kids storm more around the holidays and how to deal with it. Get full show notes and more inf...
50. The Most Beautiful Gift You Can Give Your Kids This Holiday Season
December 22, 2021 08:00 - 9 minutes - 8.1 MBAs many of you know, I have a monthly membership called The Hive and we have a live call every week where parents can ask questions, receive coaching and support, and work through things. At the beginning of every call, I offer some inspiration, food for thought, or a weekly lesson. And to celebrate the 50th episode of the podcast, I’m sharing this week’s lesson to help you understand why your kids storm more around the holidays and how to deal with it. Get full show notes and more inf...
49. Become a Better Parent This Holiday Season
December 15, 2021 08:00 - 9 minutes - 8.21 MBI’m sharing the joy of the advent calendar and showing you how to use it as a basis to improve your parenting. I’m encouraging you to give yourself a new door to open every day as a parent, and showing you why this time of year is the perfect opportunity to embrace peaceful parenting. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/49
Ep #49: Become a Better Parent This Holiday Season
December 15, 2021 08:00 - 9 minutes - 8.21 MBI’m sharing the joy of the advent calendar and showing you how to use it as a basis to improve your parenting. I’m encouraging you to give yourself a new door to open every day as a parent, and showing you why this time of year is the perfect opportunity to embrace peaceful parenting. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/49
Ep #48: Are You Using Fear-Based Parenting During the Holidays?
December 08, 2021 08:00 - 14 minutes - 11.7 MBIn this episode, I’m sharing why using Elf on the Shelf as a tool to keep your kids behaving during the holidays is actually fear-based parenting. Learn how to stop using Elf on the Shelf as a tool for punishment and instead start using it to connect with your kids, and some tips to help you move away from fear-based parenting during the holidays. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/48
48. Are You Using Fear-Based Parenting During the Holidays?
December 08, 2021 08:00 - 14 minutes - 11.7 MBIn this episode, I’m sharing why using Elf on the Shelf as a tool to keep your kids behaving during the holidays is actually fear-based parenting. Learn how to stop using Elf on the Shelf as a tool for punishment and instead start using it to connect with your kids, and some tips to help you move away from fear-based parenting during the holidays. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/48
47. How to Use Technology to Connect with Your Kids: A Conversation with Troomi
December 01, 2021 08:00 - 43 minutes - 35 MBTune in this week for a positive conversation about technology and some tips to feel good about helping your kids dive into the phone world. It’s so easy to talk about all the dangers of technology, but there is so much good available through the internet, so discover what’s so amazing about Troomi, and how to feel empowered about giving your kids their first phone. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/47
Ep #47: How to Use Technology to Connect with Your Kids: A Conversation with Troomi
December 01, 2021 08:00 - 43 minutes - 35 MBTune in this week for a positive conversation about technology and some tips to feel good about helping your kids dive into the phone world. It’s so easy to talk about all the dangers of technology, but there is so much good available through the internet, so discover what’s so amazing about Troomi, and how to feel empowered about giving your kids their first phone. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/47
46. You Are Not Alone: Keep Calm and Parent On During The Holidays
November 24, 2021 08:00 - 11 minutes - 9.63 MBToday’s message is short and sweet yet full of impact. You deserve to have the family you want and always dreamed about, and things truly can be different. Join me this week and hear how you can take the first step towards making a permanent change in your parenting and create a life filled with peace, connection, and cooperation. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/46
Ep #46: You Are Not Alone: Keep Calm and Parent On During The Holidays
November 24, 2021 08:00 - 11 minutes - 9.63 MBToday’s message is short and sweet yet full of impact. You deserve to have the family you want and always dreamed about, and things truly can be different. Join me this week and hear how you can take the first step towards making a permanent change in your parenting and create a life filled with peace, connection, and cooperation. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/46
45. What is Parent Coaching? A Conversation with Kiva Schuler from the Jai Institute for Parenting
November 17, 2021 08:00 - 37 minutes - 30.8 MBThis week, I have the amazing Kiva Schuler, Founder and CEO of the Jai Institute for Parenting, on to tell us all about parent coaching. Hear what the Jai Institute for Parenting is about, what they do, and how they help parents everywhere. We discuss who should hire a parent coach and why coaching is required for any type of real human change. You don't want to miss this one! Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/45
Ep #45: What is Parent Coaching? A Conversation with Kiva Schuler from the Jai Institute for Parenting
November 17, 2021 08:00 - 37 minutes - 30.8 MBThis week, I have the amazing Kiva Schuler, Founder and CEO of the Jai Institute for Parenting, on to tell us all about parent coaching. Hear what the Jai Institute for Parenting is about, what they do, and how they help parents everywhere. We discuss who should hire a parent coach and why coaching is required for any type of real human change. You don't want to miss this one! Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/45
Ep #44: How to Keep Calm and Parent On During The Holidays
November 10, 2021 08:00 - 17 minutes - 14.5 MBThis week, learn how to become the parent you’ve always wanted to be and how to implement the change you want to see in your parenting. I’m inviting you to take the first step to transform your parenting and showing you how my upcoming 3-day challenge can help you influence the outcome you want for yourself and your family. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/44
44. How to Keep Calm and Parent On During The Holidays
November 10, 2021 08:00 - 17 minutes - 14.5 MBThis week, learn how to become the parent you’ve always wanted to be and how to implement the change you want to see in your parenting. I’m inviting you to take the first step to transform your parenting and showing you how my upcoming 3-day challenge can help you influence the outcome you want for yourself and your family. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/44
Ep #43: Respect and Parenting: Busting the Illusion
November 03, 2021 07:00 - 24 minutes - 20 MBThis week, I’m busting the illusion of respect and parenting and showing you how to stop using respect as a weapon. I’m challenging you to ask yourself if you are modeling respect to your kids at all times and how to cultivate more respect in your family. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/43
43. Respect and Parenting: Busting the Illusion
November 03, 2021 07:00 - 24 minutes - 20 MBThis week, I’m busting the illusion of respect and parenting and showing you how to stop using respect as a weapon. I’m challenging you to ask yourself if you are modeling respect to your kids at all times and how to cultivate more respect in your family. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/43
Ep #42: Big Feelings: 3 Steps to Hold Space for Yourself and Your Child
October 27, 2021 07:00 - 22 minutes - 18.8 MBI’m sharing some reasons our kids experience big feelings and what is and is not helpful for you to do when they experience them. I’m teaching you how to not take your child’s big feelings personally, and three steps you can use to hold space for your kids while they’re having big feelings. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/42
42. Big Feelings: 3 Steps to Hold Space for Yourself and Your Child
October 27, 2021 07:00 - 22 minutes - 18.8 MBI’m sharing some reasons our kids experience big feelings and what is and is not helpful for you to do when they experience them. I’m teaching you how to not take your child’s big feelings personally, and three steps you can use to hold space for your kids while they’re having big feelings. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/42
Ep #41: Is the Lego War Over? Real World Coaching Follow Up with Lyra
October 20, 2021 07:00 - 19 minutes - 15.9 MBTune in this week for a follow-up conversation with Lyra. We’re discussing what worked in creating more connection with her sons, and what she wants to work on in the future. And of course, the tools we’re discussing are applicable across all age groups, so I’m encouraging you to think about how you can implement these tools in your own home. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/41
41. Is the Lego War Over? Real World Coaching Follow Up with Lyra
October 20, 2021 07:00 - 19 minutes - 15.9 MBTune in this week for a follow-up conversation with Lyra. We’re discussing what worked in creating more connection with her sons, and what she wants to work on in the future. And of course, the tools we’re discussing are applicable across all age groups, so I’m encouraging you to think about how you can implement these tools in your own home. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/41
Ep #40: I Want My Child to Be…
October 13, 2021 07:00 - 14 minutes - 11.9 MBDiscover how can we introduce new energies to our children, not through our words, but through our modeling. We all think we have a good idea of what not to do, but I’m asking you this week to dig a little deeper and see if you’re walking your talk and setting the kind of example you want your kids to follow. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/40
Ep #39: The Lego War: Real World Coaching with Lyra
October 06, 2021 07:00 - 49 minutes - 40.4 MBTune in this week for some real-world coaching with Lyra as I share my tips and tools to help her deal with her strong-willed child. Hear how to make mundane tasks more appealing to your kids, and how to resist the urge to go into punitive mode when your child is behaving in a way that triggers you. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/39
39. The Lego War: Real World Coaching with Lyra
October 06, 2021 07:00 - 49 minutes - 40.4 MBTune in this week for some real-world coaching with Lyra as I share my tips and tools to help her deal with her strong-willed child. Hear how to make mundane tasks more appealing to your kids, and how to resist the urge to go into punitive mode when your child is behaving in a way that triggers you. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/39
38. The After-School Meltdown Is Real
September 29, 2021 07:00 - 25 minutes - 21.3 MBThis week I’m sharing what is really happening when your kid has an after-school meltdown and showing you how to manage these meltdowns with calm and empathy. Discover why the after-school meltdown is actually a compliment to you as a parent (yep - you read that right!) and hear 5 steps you can use to help your child work through the after-school meltdown. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/38
Ep #38: The After-School Meltdown Is Real
September 29, 2021 07:00 - 25 minutes - 21.3 MBThis week I’m sharing what is really happening when your kid has an after-school meltdown and showing you how to manage these meltdowns with calm and empathy. Discover why the after-school meltdown is actually a compliment to you as a parent (yep - you read that right!) and hear 5 steps you can use to help your child work through the after-school meltdown. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/38
Ep #37: A Look at What’s Possible: Peaceful Parenting Success
September 22, 2021 07:00 - 18 minutes - 15.2 MBTune in this week to hear five success stories from parents who have faced challenges with their children and used what they’ve learned on the podcast to turn things around and create peace and cooperation in their families. You can use these tools at any stage, any age, no matter how many kids you have, and these stories are evidence of this. Get ready to be inspired and motivated by what is possible for you, your kids, and your family. Get full show notes and more information here:...
37. A Look at What’s Possible: Peaceful Parenting Success
September 22, 2021 07:00 - 18 minutes - 15.2 MBTune in this week to hear five success stories from parents who have faced challenges with their children and used what they’ve learned on the podcast to turn things around and create peace and cooperation in their families. You can use these tools at any stage, any age, no matter how many kids you have, and these stories are evidence of this. Get ready to be inspired and motivated by what is possible for you, your kids, and your family. Get full show notes and more information here:...
36. Grandparenting Strong-Willed Kids: An Interview with Gail Sundell
September 15, 2021 07:00 - 26 minutes - 22 MBThis week, Gail shares her learnings, insights, and discoveries from the grandparent perspective on the journey to peaceful parenting. She is such a wonderful role model and shows us how she supports her daughter in parenting strong-willed kids and her advice for other grandparents in the same position. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/36
Ep #36: Grandparenting Strong-Willed Kids: An Interview with Gail Sundell
September 15, 2021 07:00 - 26 minutes - 22 MBThis week, Gail shares her learnings, insights, and discoveries from the grandparent perspective on the journey to peaceful parenting. She is such a wonderful role model and shows us how she supports her daughter in parenting strong-willed kids and her advice for other grandparents in the same position. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/36
35. Whaaatteeeverrrrrr!
September 08, 2021 07:00 - 17 minutes - 14.6 MBThis week I show you why you have the power to change the way you respond to your child’s actions without your child changing their behavior. Triggers hold a lot of power over us, but only if we let them, so I’m sharing a tool that immediately changed my parenting for the better, and that can do the same for you. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/35
Ep #35: Whaaatteeeverrrrrr!
September 08, 2021 07:00 - 17 minutes - 14.6 MBThis week I show you why you have the power to change the way you respond to your child’s actions without your child changing their behavior. Triggers hold a lot of power over us, but only if we let them, so I’m sharing a tool that immediately changed my parenting for the better, and that can do the same for you. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/35
34. Teaching Your Kids to Use Technology with Troomi
September 01, 2021 07:00 - 36 minutes - 29.8 MBHear how Troomi solves the problem of technology for kids, and the top 3 things Bill Brady, CEO of Troomi, wants every parent to know about kids and technology. Technology is here to stay, so we’re showing you how to create an environment to help your kids navigate it, and ensure your kids stay safe while using technology. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/34
Ep #34: Teaching Your Kids to Use Technology with Troomi
September 01, 2021 07:00 - 36 minutes - 29.8 MBHear how Troomi solves the problem of technology for kids, and the top 3 things Bill Brady, CEO of Troomi, wants every parent to know about kids and technology. Technology is here to stay, so we’re showing you how to create an environment to help your kids navigate it, and ensure your kids stay safe while using technology. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/34
Ep #33: Procrastinating Kids: Real World Coaching with Dani
August 25, 2021 07:00 - 31 minutes - 25.6 MBCoaching gives you the opportunity to create transformation in your family, so I want you to listen closely to this week's episode to learn what to do when you feel triggered by your kids’ procrastination. The tools I'm sharing are universal across all age ranges, so listen in and learn how to bring these tools to your own home to overcome procrastination and create cooperation. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/33
33. Procrastinating Kids: Real World Coaching with Dani
August 25, 2021 07:00 - 31 minutes - 25.6 MBCoaching gives you the opportunity to create transformation in your family, so I want you to listen closely to this week's episode to learn what to do when you feel triggered by your kids’ procrastination. The tools I'm sharing are universal across all age ranges, so listen in and learn how to bring these tools to your own home to overcome procrastination and create cooperation. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/33
32. Setting Limits: Stop Punishing and Start Guiding Part 2
August 18, 2021 07:00 - 25 minutes - 21.1 MBIf you’re ready to stop threatening and punishing your kid every time they misbehave, you need this episode. I tell you exactly how to set empathetic limits and how to enforce them with love and guidance. I give you specific examples that show you what this looks like, and share some tools to use while setting limits. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/32
Ep #32: Setting Limits: Stop Punishing and Start Guiding Part 2
August 18, 2021 07:00 - 25 minutes - 21.1 MBIf you’re ready to stop threatening and punishing your kid every time they misbehave, you need this episode. I tell you exactly how to set empathetic limits and how to enforce them with love and guidance. I give you specific examples that show you what this looks like, and share some tools to use while setting limits. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/32
Ep #31: Setting Limits: Stop Punishing and Start Guiding Part 1
August 11, 2021 07:00 - 28 minutes - 23.4 MBI explain the problem with punishing your child and how to create a safe environment where they can learn from their mistakes. I’m sharing a useful peaceful parenting tool to help guide your children without punishing them and showing you the importance of setting limits and connecting with your child. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/31
31. Setting Limits: Stop Punishing and Start Guiding Part 1
August 11, 2021 07:00 - 28 minutes - 23.4 MBI explain the problem with punishing your child and how to create a safe environment where they can learn from their mistakes. I’m sharing a useful peaceful parenting tool to help guide your children without punishing them and showing you the importance of setting limits and connecting with your child. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/31
30. Walk Back into the Classroom with Confidence with Aimee Buckley
August 04, 2021 07:00 - 30 minutes - 25 MBWe're sharing three strategies to help you prepare for the return to the classroom and some tips and advice about how to best support your kids with the transition. Hear all about the incredible work Aimee does and how her work impacts the lives of so many children, and what you can do to ease the anxiety you may be facing as your child returns to the classroom. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/30
Ep #30: Walk Back into the Classroom with Confidence with Aimee Buckley
August 04, 2021 07:00 - 30 minutes - 25 MBWe're sharing three strategies to help you prepare for the return to the classroom and some tips and advice about how to best support your kids with the transition. Hear all about the incredible work Aimee does and how her work impacts the lives of so many children, and what you can do to ease the anxiety you may be facing as your child returns to the classroom. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/30
29. 3 Ways to Become a Great Sports Parent with 4D Athletes
July 28, 2021 07:00 - 56 minutes - 46 MBWe're discussing the endless benefits of kids being involved with sports and how to ensure they have the best experience throughout their lives. So many life lessons can be learned through sports and this episode will show you how you can use sports to teach your kids about failure, teamwork, resilience, and the importance of hard work. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/29
Ep #29: 3 Ways to Become a Great Sports Parent with 4D Athletes
July 28, 2021 07:00 - 56 minutes - 46 MBWe're discussing the endless benefits of kids being involved with sports and how to ensure they have the best experience throughout their lives. So many life lessons can be learned through sports and this episode will show you how you can use sports to teach your kids about failure, teamwork, resilience, and the importance of hard work. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/29
28. The 3 Steps to Keep Your Cool While Parenting
July 21, 2021 07:00 - 16 minutes - 13.5 MBI’m sharing the magic with you and giving you my go-to repeatable process to help you stop reacting negatively to your kids’ behavior or storming. Nobody gets it right all the time, but these 3 steps I’m sharing will help you keep your cool while parenting and make your parenting experience a whole lot easier. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/28