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Love Mastery

128 episodes - English - Latest episode: 8 months ago - ★★★★★ - 99 ratings

Welcome to the LOVE MASTERY, the show where we explore the fascinating world of love and share inspiring love stories. I'm your host Kanu, and I'm thrilled to have you join us on this journey of discovery, connection, and heartfelt tales.
Love is a universal language that transcends time, culture, and boundaries. It's a force that can bring people together, ignite passions, and transform lives. Throughout this podcast series, we'll delve deep into the various aspects of love, exploring its complexities, exploring the science behind it, and unraveling the mysteries that surround it.
Episodes, we'll feature captivating love stories from real people, showcasing the diverse ways love manifests itself in our lives. From heartwarming tales of enduring love to unexpected encounters that change everything, these stories will remind us of the incredible power of human connection.
We'll also be joined by experts in the field of relationships, psychology, and love, who will share their knowledge and insights. They'll provide us with valuable advice on navigating the ups and downs of love, fostering healthy relationships, and finding fulfillment in our romantic lives.
Whether you're seeking guidance, inspiration, or simply love a good love story, this podcast is for you. Join us as we explore the depths of love, unravel its mysteries, and celebrate the beauty of human connection. Get ready to open your heart and embark on a journey that will leave you feeling inspired and uplifted.
So, grab your favorite beverage, find a cozy spot, and get ready to dive into the world of love with the LOVE MASTERY. Let's spread the love, one story at a time.

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Episodes

Navigating Love Safely: Protecting Yourself from Romance Scams

November 11, 2023 02:58 - 15 minutes - 28 MB

Description: In this episode of "Dear Kanu," Kanu dives into the pressing concerns of a recently divorced woman in her 60s. A listener of the Love Mastery Podcast, reaches out with a poignant question about the rising threat of romance scams in 2023. Join Kanu as she addresses this crucial issue, sharing the latest insights, online dating scam statistics, and practical advice to empower individuals to safeguard their hearts and wallets. In a world where vulnerability can lead to heartbreakin...

Dear Kanu: Intimacy and Identity: Finding the right moment for the hair conversation

October 02, 2023 12:00 - 13 minutes - 24.9 MB

In this episode of the "Love Mastery Podcast," the Kanu addresses a listener's dilemma about when and how to share a significant aspect of her life with her new boyfriend. The listener is in a loving relationship and feels a strong connection with her partner. However, she hasn't yet disclosed that she wears wigs, and she's unsure about the right time to bring it up. The listener acknowledges the importance of honesty and openness in a relationship, but she also wants to ensure that the ti...

Dear Kanu: Reclaiming Trust: Overcoming My Insecurities About My Husband's Female Friends

September 15, 2023 12:00 - 13 minutes - 24.9 MB

In this "Dear Kanu" episode I am answering a listener's letter looking to better manage her emotions and be able to communicate her feelings to her husband of 5 years regarding his female friends. In this episode I answer her question using the following points: self reflection, using "I" statements, active listening and being non-judgemental, seeking to understand first, being vulnerable, building trust and seeking professional help from a therapist. This episode is brought to you by: Can...

Dear Kanu: How can I tell if a guy likes me or if he is just being friendly?

September 04, 2023 19:45 - 15 minutes - 28.1 MB

This episode is centered around answering a listeners question - " How can I tell if a guy likes me or if he is just being friendly?" I share the top most common signs most guys do if they are interested in a woman: 1) light physical touch 2) body language, compliments, he acts nervous, he opens up, he gives you his personal number, the initiates contact, he rembers details, he makes future plans, he teases you playfully, he is supportive, and he introduces you to friends and family This e...

Dear Kanu: Does age really matter?

August 24, 2023 15:09 - 18 minutes - 33 MB

In this episode I read and answer a fan letter. Listener who I am referring to as Norman is in a age gap relationship and is looking to figure what to do. Norman describes the woman he is involved with to check off all the boxes. In this episode I also share the potential challenges and what to do about them.  This episode is brought to you by: www.candleconsulting.net 

Revolutionizing Connection: Andy and Kayla's Journey Through Depression

June 09, 2023 15:05 - 52 minutes - 95.5 MB

In this transformative episode, we welcome Andy and Kayla Izard, a dynamic duo on a mission to revolutionize human connection. Through their movement, The Raft Project, they're reshaping the narrative around support, making it a normal and expected part of our lives. As authors, speakers, and founders, their bestseller "Good, and You?" dives deep into the practical, lively exploration of genuine support and connection. The Izards' journey took a powerful turn when Andy faced a prolonged m...

Fighting for Love in the Depths of Depression

May 17, 2023 02:21 - 24 minutes - 44 MB

This episode is brought to you by www.candleconsulting.net  Covering what depression is, criteria for diagnosing, how you get depression, negative effects of depression on relationships, how to support a loved one with depression and protetive factors Patient Health Questionnaire -9 www.therapistaid.com  

What is love? Episode 100

May 01, 2023 16:07 - 24 minutes - 45.2 MB

Celebrating this milestone of episode 100. This episode is all about discussing what LOVE is / how we viewed love as children and how we think of it now. In this episode you will also here from: Tanner & Lauren, Jennifer, Kalisha, JoJo and Nick & Haley  This episode is sponsored by www.candleconsulting.net   

How Love Mystic Eleanor found love, and now helps neuro-divergent women find love too

November 15, 2022 12:00 - 49 minutes - 90.8 MB

Drawing upon her 15 years practical experience coaching women, Eleanor now specializes in helping women find lasting love.  As a neurodivergent woman (AuDHDer), she expertly guides women who experience the world differently through their challenges, namely social anxiety, communication difficulties, problems with boundaries (attracting narcissists) and feelings of not being good enough, so they can become the sought after, lovable woman they want to be in their heart. After struggling f...

A love story that started with a fake robbery and many twists and turns

October 15, 2022 12:00 - 57 minutes - 79 MB

Meet Sherman and Desiree based in Arizona... Desiree- In 2018, Sacred Circle Institute came to life. Desiree created the institute to serve as a portal that transports folks into a deep level of healing and pleasure using the creative arts as a process for discovery. www.sacredcircleinstitute.com Sherman's passion and joy for Lego has turned into an eBay business venture. You can find all things Lego in here in his ebay store Sherman's Ebay Sore 

From Fake Robbery to Forever: A Love Story of Unexpected Beginnings

October 15, 2022 12:00 - 57 minutes - 79 MB

Prepare for a rollercoaster ride of emotions in this extraordinary episode, where love takes center stage in the most unconventional way. Join us as we unravel the tale of a romance that kicked off with a fake robbery, setting the stage for a series of unexpected twists and turns. From heart-pounding moments to heartwarming revelations, this love story is bound to captivate your soul. Tune in for a journey that proves that love can emerge from even the most peculiar circumstances. Don't miss...

She is 35, beautiful, educated and a virgin - why are men running the other way?

October 01, 2022 12:00 - 41 minutes - 75.8 MB

Sonali Chandra is an accomplished Indian-American dancer, model, and comedian who has appeared on “The Dr. Phil Show” and Lifetime’s “5 Guys a Week.” Chandra graduated with a Finance degree from Rutgers Business School in New Jersey and worked in NYC's corporate finance/real estate sectors before moving to Los Angeles. She is leveraging her life experiences by developing various creative projects (studio feature film, comedy special, and memoir), so she can inspire and entertain audiences....

Breaking Stereotypes: Sonali Chandra's Journey to find love ... but why are men running the other way?

October 01, 2022 12:00 - 41 minutes - 75.8 MB

Join us for a captivating episode featuring Sonali Chandra, a remarkable Indian-American dancer, model, and comedian who is challenging societal norms and stereotypes. With a Finance degree from Rutgers Business School and a background in NYC's corporate finance and real estate sectors, Sonali's journey is one of empowerment and self-discovery. In this episode, we delve into a topic close to Sonali's heart - the misconceptions and judgments surrounding her choice to remain a virgin at 35. ...

How to flirt more naturally, according to a dating coach and matchmaker

September 21, 2022 12:00 - 58 minutes - 106 MB

Ruth Marquez is not only a Matchmaker, she's also a Dating and Love Transformational Mentor. Using the knowledge she has attained over many years of matchmaking, and mentoring, she helps singles discover what it is that's stopping them from finding long lasting and true connection. https://www.ruthmatchmaker.com

Flirting Unmasked: Insights from a Dating Coach and Matchmaker

September 21, 2022 12:00 - 58 minutes - 106 MB

In this episode, we sit down with Ruth Marquez, a seasoned Matchmaker and Dating and Love Transformational Mentor, to unravel the secrets of natural, authentic flirting. Drawing from years of matchmaking and mentoring experience, Ruth guides singles on a transformative journey to uncover the barriers holding them back from deep and lasting connections. Tune in to discover the invaluable tips and insights that can revolutionize your approach to dating and relationships. Whether you're a seas...

How to avoid being swindled while online dating

September 01, 2022 13:00 - 16 minutes - 30.2 MB

In this episode as requested by listeners I share lessons learned from the Netflix series "Tinder Swindler" and some tools to avoid being a victim to romance scams. 

Unmasking Romance Fraud: 3 Vital Steps to Safeguard Your Heart and Wallet

August 22, 2022 18:32 - 19 minutes - 36.5 MB

Tune in to this eye-opening episode as we delve into the world of romance scams, a rapidly growing issue in online dating. According to the Federal Trade Commission, romance scams are the most frequently reported scams, with the US alone accounting for an estimated $1.3 billion in losses. In Canada, reported losses from romance scams have surged from $22 million in 2018 to a staggering $50 million. In this episode, I unveil three crucial steps that fraudsters use to manipulate and deceive ...

3 steps for online daters to watch out for that Romance fraudsters use to scam you

August 22, 2022 18:32 - 19 minutes - 36.5 MB

Romance Scams are the most reported scams according to the Federal Trade Commission. US reported an estimated $1.3Billion in romance scams. In Canada a reported $50 millions lost in romance scams which went up from $22 million from 2018 In this episode I share with you 3 steps fraudsters put you through in order to scam you out of money. 

An Invitation: Personal & Professional Goal Setting Work

January 13, 2022 03:16 - 3 minutes - 9.14 MB

https://www.kanujacobsen.com/service-page/pers-prof-goal-setting-workshop?referral=service_list_widget Live Virtual Goal Setting Workshop - January 29th 9am PST / 10 am MST/ and Noon EST A few spots left so please click the link to register before all spot are taken.  

How to stay friends after breakup or divorce

September 10, 2021 12:00 - 15 minutes - 21.1 MB

In this episode I share tips on what to do pre: breakup and post: breakup especially if you want to maintain the friendship that is the foundation of your relationship. I share my past experiences too as it relates to the tips I am sharing.  This episode is sponsored by: Wines for Humanity. Browse their wine selection at www.winesforhumanity.com/love Every selection made benefits our community members that are without a home currently. 

What to do should you be put in an uncomfortable place to choose between your pet or relationship

August 24, 2021 13:39 - 21 minutes - 29.1 MB

This is a followup episode to the "I fell in love with a cat named Summer" -  A listener asked "What should I do my partner is asking me to chose him or the cat?" In this episode I share results from my crowd sourcing regarding this question, I share reasons why a partner might ask you to do that and lastly what you can do avoid having to choose between your fur baby or partner. This episode is brought to you by: www.winesforhumanity.com/love - click this link to browse their selection and...

Podcast Update in this 3rd Year

August 01, 2021 12:00 - 4 minutes - 6.33 MB

Providing you with an update. Real Love Real Stories is expanding to include all types of love going forward. So excited to be releasing and sharing with you this new content. Happy 3rd Birthday Real Love Real Stories 

I fell in love with a cat and her name was Summer

August 01, 2021 12:00 - 14 minutes - 19.3 MB

A cat purring on your lap is more healing than any drug in the world, as the vibrations you are receiving are of  pure love and contentment. I will be sharing top 5 things you should consider before getting a cat

10 tips from seniors on finding and keeping true love that will last

April 21, 2021 12:00 - 7 minutes - 10.1 MB

In this episode I am sharing 10 tips from seniors who gave valuable advice on how to find and keep true love.  The episode is brought by: The Ultimate Love Attractor Plan - helping high-achieving single women become love attractors. Book free Love Attractor Call Schedule Here

Lessons learnt from "The Ultimate Love Attractor Plan"

April 03, 2021 13:00 - 33 minutes - 46 MB

Book a free session with me: Click Here In the guest chair is Diana. She is published author of the highly acclaimed memoir called “Living up to a Legend” Available on Amazon She is a former journalist from Toronto and named the first fulltime female foreign correspondent for the Canadian Network CTV National News She is the 4th chapter of her life and is currently the blogger of her new project called “Woman of a Certain Age in Paris” www.womanofacertainageinparis.com

How to reduce sketchy encounters while online dating

March 13, 2021 15:29 - 19 minutes - 27.3 MB

Zach Schleien is the Co-founder/CEO of the video speed dating app, Filter Off. Filter Off has been featured in publications such as The New York Times, BBC, and hit #1 on ProductHunt. Previously he ran and sold the dating blog Top Romp, which covered dating hacks and apps for the modern dater. He is a TEDx speaker and his passions lie in technology, health, and creating authentic connections. When he is not working, Zach loves to travel the world, listen to podcasts, and workout.  Filter...

How she did not deny true love ...

February 10, 2021 12:00 - 31 minutes - 43.4 MB

In this episode you will hear Veronica's love journey. How she met her husband, how he showed up for their first date and how they became inseparable after. Veronica is a life coach, leadership coach and founder of Leadership Life Support.  She works with ambitious, driven women who have a strong desire to up their leadership game and make career moves that seem out of reach. Whether you're an aspiring leader or a manager seeking the e-suite, she helps women like you hone your leadership s...

How to live an adventurous life as a couple

January 10, 2021 12:00 - 42 minutes - 58.2 MB

Brian and Maryann Remsburg, certified life coaches and founders of Adventurous Life, seek to live the purpose adventure that God has designed them for, and help others to do the same. After living internationally for eighteen years, working in education and training, along with their four children, they have learned that stepping into your Zone of Challenge is the catalyst to learn and grow in sometimes very unexpected ways. They are ready to help you gain the adventurous mindset to reach ...

They connected on a love for fitness and love blossomed from them

December 13, 2020 12:00 - 19 minutes - 27.2 MB

Meet Debbie and Ernie Pitochelli. They share a common interest of exercise. They blended their families 10 years ago and their love is still going strong. 

They laugh, cook and pray together

November 01, 2020 12:00 - 27 minutes - 37.8 MB

Whitney and Donovan Williams share their love journey. They take us on a journey from when they met in college to their engagement and to now being a beautiful family of 3. Their marriage a christ centered marriage  Coming up soon - they are launching their Instagram Page called "fromthewilliams"

Stuck in a neutrally bad relationship

October 24, 2020 14:47 - 22 minutes - 30.5 MB

In the guest chair is a woman who asked to be kept anonymous for her safety. It's a candid conversation where she shares her relationship that has been bad from the beginning. If you are constantly demeaned, accused, shamed, blamed, bilittled, or verbally abused please seek help.

A guide to overcoming the urge to buy affection

October 15, 2020 04:37 - 9 minutes - 13 MB

Guide to Overcoming the Urge to Buy Affection It’s easy to fall into the habit of buying affection, but there are better ways to make your relationships run smoothly. These are some basic guidelines for relating to others in a healthier way so your inner qualities speak more loudly than your bank account. You deserve to be valued for who you are. It’s delightful to exchange gifts and favors with those you love, but set healthy limits. In the long run, you’ll strengthen your connections a...

How to fall in love when the color is off the rose

October 01, 2020 12:00 - 38 minutes - 53.5 MB

In this episode Valerie Fair who has been happily married for 49 years  shares her love story and she tells us the importance of finding your own happiness in your relationship.  Valerie is an artist based in Phoenix AZ. You can see her art in a magazine she runs called Artist on the Cutting Edge eMagazine HERE This episode is brought to you by: The Single Black Woman's Advantage ... Click Here for more information   

How to improve relationships using attachment language and style

September 20, 2020 12:00 - 30 minutes - 27.9 MB

Jennifer Lehr, MFT is an author, Marriage, and Family Therapist and the founder and creator of WeConcile® – an affordable online DIY relationship restoration program for couples. Jennifer's journey led her from self-growth to helping others grow. Her mission is helping others create a life and relationship of love and joy. Jennifer writes and talks about relational health and wellness as well as healing and living our best lives for various print and online publications as well as podcas...

How to feel more comfortable on a first date

September 10, 2020 11:21 - 12 minutes - 11.4 MB

With the right attitude, you can enjoy yourself on a first date. Dating is meant to be fun and exciting. In this episode I am sharing steps to take before, during and after your date. A first doesn't have to cause anxiety, especially if you take proactive approach to making things comfortable for you and you date. Let go of your worries and enjoy yourself.  Happy Dating and Love always! This episode is sponsored by: The Single Black Woman's Advantage: A game changing program that is he...

Benefits of LOVE

September 01, 2020 12:00 - 8 minutes - 7.44 MB

In the episode I share the real love relationship my parents had. I share types of love and health benefits The episode is brought to you by:  https://singlewomansadvantage.mykajabi.com/pl/186138

Love is ... when he always gives you the last bite of his delicious food

August 20, 2020 12:00 - 36 minutes - 33.1 MB

In this episode Andrea and Kevin share parts of their love story. They take us back to when they first met working together at ESPN. They share with us how they make their relationship in these different times. It's a beautiful story. Read their NYT article to learn even more about them https://www.nytimes.com/2020/01/10/fashion/weddings/adding-a-wedding-to-the-highlight-reel.html This episode is brought to you by: The Single Black Woman's Advantage: A game changing program that is help...

How to forgive yourself for past relationship mistakes in 5 steps

August 10, 2020 15:39 - 4 minutes - 4 MB

Share | Learn | Thrive in LOVE Forgive yourself for any relationship mistakes that might potentially be deeming your light to attract LOVE! Episode is sponsored by: The Single Black Woman's Advantage - A game changing e-course that is helping women change their narrative on how they are perceived into an advantage to find love  Copy and paste this link: shorturl.at/fzHOY

Love and Basketball with Briann & Tasha

July 01, 2020 01:42 - 39 minutes - 71.6 MB

June is Pride Month (this year marks 50th anniversary of annual Pride traditions) ... I was honored to sit down and interview Tasha and Briann January. Tasha is a Life Coach/ Author and Briann is a former Phoenix Mercury WNBA player who currently plays for Connecticut Sun. They have been in a relationship for 5 years now.  In this episode you will hear their love story/ how they support each other and how they make the relationship work when Bri travels a lot in her basketball career.  C...

Love and Basketball with WNBA player Briann January & Tasha

July 01, 2020 01:42 - 39 minutes - 71.6 MB

June is Pride Month (this year marks 50th anniversary of annual Pride traditions) ... I was honored to sit down and interview Tasha and Briann January. Tasha is a Life Coach/ Author and Briann is a former Phoenix Mercury WNBA player who currently plays for Connecticut Sun. They have been in a relationship for 5 years now.  In this episode you will hear their love story/ how they support each other and how they make the relationship work when Bri travels a lot in her basketball career.  C...

Their families friendship led them to a beautiful marriage!

May 21, 2020 12:00 - 29 minutes - 54.8 MB

Priya and Rohit are both from India but grew up in Zambia. Their families were really close which led to them being suggested they get married. They now live in Arizona and have 2 wonderful daughters.  In this episode they share their love journey, and how they make their relationship work since one partner travels a lot for work.

They came into the relationship whole and their love is overflowing

May 15, 2020 12:00 - 48 minutes - 88.7 MB

Meet Britt and Brotha Anthony. In this episode they take us back to when they met. They share how they started to dating, got engaged, bought a house together and got married all in one year. Connect with the Glovers Facebook: Anthony Glover/ Instagram: Brotha Anthony  Facebook: Britt Glover/ Instagram: brit_tuh_nay  

He doesn't believe in the institution of marriage ... find out why!

May 01, 2020 12:00 - 47 minutes - 43.5 MB

An interview with Chris discussing dating, and how he doesn't believe in the institution of marriage. He is single, 42, and lives in Arizona.   

A personal story on sexual violence #metoo

April 22, 2020 12:00 - 14 minutes - 13.3 MB

In honor of April being sexual violence awareness month I am sharing my own story. It has taken me over 20 years to get to this point. The numbers of cases of documented sexual violence have been on the rise in the last decade and that's not even thinking about those that go unreported. Let's talk about and educate each other about this topic. What happened to me was terrible and I don't wish that on anyone. Let's stop it once and for all especially for generations following 

A 7 year journey of self love led her to marrying THE ONE!

April 20, 2020 12:00 - 30 minutes - 49.3 MB

In the guest chair is: Jacqueline J Holness is a seasoned journalist with 15 years of professional experience writing and working for an assortment of newspapers, magazines, websites and other publications. She is a correspondent for "Courthouse News Service," an online, national news service for attorneys. Prior to working for "Courthouse News Service," Jacqueline worked primarily as an education reporter for the "News Daily" newspaper. She also worked as a reporter for the "Clayton Neighbo...

A love of music and arts led to a beautiful love story!

April 10, 2020 13:00 - 1 hour - 131 MB

Meet Colette and Brian Watson the owners of Black River life Media. The create media that celebrates Black life. They help small businesses reach their communication goals. Brian is a NewJersey born actor, poet and filmmaker son of Jamaican immigrants. Colette is a musician and creative director from the low country of South Carolina. She is also a co-host of a Venus Clapback In this episode they share their love journey from meeting in the arts world in NYC to moving to Arizona where ...

An empty tank of gas leads to a beautiful love story!

April 01, 2020 22:45 - 49 minutes - 78.8 MB

Meet Shirley who lives in Phoenix and is married to Dennis. The couple got married many years ago and are looking to get connected with a man who took pictures of their wedding back in 1965. John Brown who was married to Betty Brown back then used his camera to capture images of the weeding but since Dennis and Shirley left town after the wedding they did not stay in contact with John. Shirley gave me permission to use this platform to cast a wider net in search of John and Betty or their fa...

10 tips to preserve your relationship (s) during COVID-19 quarantine/ social distancing

March 19, 2020 19:18 - 13 minutes - 20.9 MB

Sharing some tips that I feel will help you deal with each other during these difficult and uncertain times.  1) Choose joy in the 5 mins of being awake 2) Get Moving  3) Use safe words  4) Make a list of what is annoying  5) Use headphones  6) Take a shower and wear nice comfortable clothes 7) Clean up after yourself  8) Limit news intake  9) Finish unfinished projects  10) Take turns cooking 

Why we marry partners similar to our parents/ caregivers

March 10, 2020 18:45 - 12 minutes - 20.1 MB

Researchers have explored this and concluded that there seems to be an association between our attachment styles as infants to the romantic relationships we choose. There are 4 basic attachment styles: 1) Secure attachment 2) anxious resistant attachment 3) avoidant attachment 4) disorganized attachment  Do you know which you are?

Is love blind?

March 01, 2020 13:00 - 35 minutes - 57.5 MB

Cori shares how she met and married her husband after 3 weeks of meeting. Cori is the host and producer of "That's Not Proper" podcast. 

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