Understanding The Pain Your Spouse Feels After Cheating On You

How does your spouse feel after cheating on you? Is it guilt or remorse? Maybe they don't even care. Discovering your spouse has cheated is like being on an emotional roller coaster. You feel like you have no control and no way to understand what went wrong in your relationship altogether. There are many reasons for an affair, something feels off, falling out of love, the absence of affection, and more. 

Regardless of the reason, your spouse's affair doesn't mean he's having the time of his life or looking to start a new life with someone else. Many times we ask ourselves How. "How could my spouse do this to me?" "How could they betray our relationship like this?" Instead of the how's, think about what.

What was it that compelled them to do this, and what was missing in your relationship? People make their own choices, so your spouse's affair is not your fault. There are stages of grief, guilt, and denial your spouse is going through, and cheating is the long-term issue of something lacking in your relationship. Even as victims, we all play a role in something. At Marriage Helper, we help guide you to these answers to learn more about yourself, your spouse and, in due time, save your marriage.

In this episode, we cover:

-How does a spouse feel after cheating on you 

-Emotional reasons why people cheat

-Vulnerability leads to Possibility

-Limerence (the feeling of being in love) and guilt

-Ways to overcome your spouse's infidelity

-Free resources to help you save your marriage  

Marriage isn't perfect, and the ideal relationship does not exist. There are many ups and downs when we merge our lives with another, but with the effort of both people, you can have an excellent and lasting relationship. 

We have tools and free resources to help you save your marriage and find your way to falling in love again. Contact Marriage Helper to find out how we can help you. Like, subscribe, and turn on notifications to hear more helpful videos and unique stories of reconciliation from other people going through the same situations you're in right now. 

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