Pure Desire Podcast
632 episodes - English - Latest episode: about 1 month ago - ★★★★★ - 609 ratingsA weekly podcast helping you take back your life from the effects of unwanted sexual behavior and betrayal trauma.
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362 - Staying Healthy For The Summer
June 11, 2024 09:30 - 51 minutes - 46.8 MBSummer months bring so much fun and excitement. But for those who are on the recovery journey, summer brings its own set of challenges. Warm weather means less clothing. This means more opportunities for temptations and triggers. On today’s episode, we talk about why summer can be so challenging, what we can do to be prepared for this season, and what it looks like to stay healthy! RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) GET STARTED Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma Fre...
361 - The Cyclone Of Addiction
June 04, 2024 09:30 - 52 minutes - 48.4 MBAddiction can be challenging to wrap our head around. What is addiction? How did this happen? Why me? Robert Vander Meer is on the podcast today to discuss the image and behavior of a cyclone and how this metaphor is helpful in understanding how and why addiction shows up in our life. RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) Bob Newhart “Stop It” Video Cyclone of Addiction (from Pillar Six, Lesson One of Seven Pillars of Freedom) Pure Desire Groups Pure Desire Counseling FASTER Scale ...
360 - Edging In Recovery
May 28, 2024 10:00 - 1 hour - 62.9 MBMatt Dobschuetz, host of Porn Free Radio and founder of Recovered Man, is back on the show today! Today, we talk about edging—non-relapse behaviors that follow our addictive patterns. We talk about what qualifies as edging, how to become more aware of any edging behaviors, the importance of check-ins with our community or group, and how to address these behaviors when we see them. RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) Pure Desire Groups Three Circles FASTER Scale Porn Free Radio Re...
359 - Helping Next Gen Navigate Healthy Relationships w/ Barb Winters
May 21, 2024 09:30 - 1 hour - 57.9 MBHelping the next generation is not only about teaching what NOT TO DO. It also includes teaching them what TO DO. On today’s episode, we’re joined by Barb Winters, founder of HopefulMom.net and author of Sexpectations. Barb talks us through her experience in helping her children break free of pornography addiction and equipping them with the tools they need for healthy relationships. Barb speaks from her personal experience: as a parent not knowing where to start and now an expert in the...
358 - Becoming Authentically You (Women's Takeover)
May 14, 2024 07:00 - 24 minutes - 22.2 MBIt’s here—a NEW group resource for single women! What does it look like to live sexually healthy as a single woman? Today, authors Heather Kolb and Ashley Jameson join us to talk through our new resource for single women, Authentically You. They talk through who is the target audience, what makes Authentically You unique, the differences between this new resource and other resources we have for women, and much more! RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) Behind the Mask (Recovery Re...
357 - Healthy Separation
May 07, 2024 07:00 - 54 minutes - 49.9 MB“Separation” is usually a swear word for church folk. This is understandable when it’s done wrong. But separation can actually be a healthy tool used for the restoration of a marriage. Today, we’re joined by a Pure Desire Clinician, Eileen Fagan, who defines a healthy or “therapeutic” separation and the benefits it can give a struggling couple. We talk through natural hesitations or fears with marital separation, when NOT to separate, and the importance of professional help and support i...
356 - Reconciling Addiction & Theology
April 30, 2024 09:30 - 1 hour - 70.3 MBWhen Christians are faced with the word “addiction,” there can be a significant reaction against something we don’t see clearly in Scripture. The word “addiction” doesn’t naturally seem to fit into our theological framework. Today, we’re joined by author and speaker, Ben Bennett, to give us a new framework for reconciling addiction and theology. We explore how Scripture speaks directly to addiction, how to integrate psychology and theology, and how the recovery and healing journey can enha...
355 - Porn & Mental Health
April 23, 2024 10:00 - 1 hour - 58.2 MBThe term “mental health” can be fuzzy. Are we talking about anxiety? Depression? Something more? All of the above? Ben Bennett joins us today to talk about the connection between viewing pornography and mental health issues. Ben speaks of porn’s role in his personal battle with depression, anxiety, and suicidal ideations and how recovery impacts our mental health, our faith in Jesus, and our ability to follow Him. RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) FASTER Scale Seven Pillars of Fre...
354 - Healthy Communication
April 16, 2024 10:00 - 59 minutes - 54.4 MBWe all know communication is important. But what does healthy communication look like for a couple on the recovery and healing journey? Shari Chinchen, a Pure Desire Clinician, joins us today to discuss what makes communication healthy or unhealthy. We also discuss how to keep healthy communication a priority AND how to train our kids for healthy communication in their relationships. RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) The Four Horsemen (Blog by Gottman Institute) Pure Desire Counseli...
353 - Becoming A Compassionate Warrior
April 09, 2024 10:00 - 46 minutes - 43 MBMany men who’ve been through the Pure Desire recovery process have asked, “What’s after Seven Pillars of Freedom?” Well, today’s episode is all about answering this question. Clinician and speaker, Robert Vander Meer, joins us to talk about our new resource, The Compassionate Warrior (to which Robert contributed). We talk through what this resource is, how it helps men see their life and recovery through the lens of “story,” and how it helps create a lasting legacy of health. RESOURCES Ful...
352 - Stories From The Church: Faith Chapel
April 02, 2024 10:00 - 1 hour - 69.9 MBToday, we get to hear from Robert Nelson and Annie Burt (staff members at Faith Chapel in Billings, Montana). Robert and Annie talk us through their journey of implementing Pure Desire groups and resources at Faith Chapel. We talk through initial hurdles, challenges they’ve faced, the fruit they’re seeing from their efforts, and lots in between. RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) Betrayal & Beyond Unraveled Sexual Integrity 101 Conquer Series (Soul Refiner) Seven Pillars of Freedo...
351 - FAQ #17
March 26, 2024 10:00 - 56 minutes - 51.8 MBToday’s episode is one of our favorites! We have another Frequently Asked Questions episode where you, the listener, has sent in topical questions for us to discuss. We are joined by Traci Wright, one of our beloved clinicians, to talk about idolizing recovery, anniversaries of trauma, disclosure in dating and engagement, and more. RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) Pure Desire Online Groups Connected Pure Desire Counseling FREE 15 Minute Counseling Consultation Seven Pillars Of F...
350 - Slippery Slopes
March 19, 2024 10:00 - 1 hour - 55.4 MBThough true healing and freedom from sexual addiction and brokenness is possible, it doesn’t mean the journey will be easy. The world we live in is still hyper-sexualized and full of things that can pull us away from health. On today’s episode, we talk about slippery slopes—areas or aspects of our lives that can be problematic in our sexual health. And there may be some that surprise you! We talk about what can be a slippery slope, how to be mindful of them, and what to do to ensure we don’t...
349 - PTSD & Betrayal
March 12, 2024 07:00 - 56 minutes - 52.2 MBPost Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) is often associated with major trauma—wartime experiences, rape, and abuse. Studies increasingly show that PTSD is also experienced by betrayed partners. Rather than ignore or minimize it, let’s do something about it. RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) Betrayal & Beyond Dr. Steffens Research Stress Index The Body Keeps The Score Pure Desire Groups GET STARTED Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma Free eBook: 5 Steps to Freedo...
348 - 7 Lies That Will Ruin Your Life w/ Joshua Broome
March 05, 2024 08:00 - 51 minutes - 47.2 MBFor those who regularly listen to the show, we have a return guest. This guy has shared his story about the journey from porn star to a pastor. Today, we’re excited to have Joshua Broome back on the show to talk about his new book, 7 Lies That Will Ruin Your Life. We talk through all seven lies, identifying how they impact sexual brokenness and disrupt our healing. We also discuss some initial steps we can take to combat these lies and reclaim God’s truth in our lives. RESOURCES Full Epis...
347 - Living UnDEFILED w/ Matt McCaulley & Kevin Whisman
February 27, 2024 08:00 - 36 minutes - 33.1 MBWe know sex trafficking exists in our world and is a growing problem. But it’s not something that’s talked about in many faith communities. On today’s episode, we’re going to talk about it! We’re thrilled to have Matt McCaulley and Kevin Whisman on the show: two guys who have spent the last few years writing, directing, and producing a full-length feature film called unDEFILED. We’ll talk about Pure Desire’s involvement in creating a follow-up study to the film and how sex trafficking is co...
346 - Myth Busters: Marriage Will Fix It
February 20, 2024 08:00 - 46 minutes - 42.3 MB“Just wait until I get married, then it will all get better.” These words have either been said or thought by many of us in the church. We assume being married and having sex with our spouse will rid us of our sexual brokenness or compulsive behaviors. Unfortunately, this is a myth. On today’s episode, our Clinical Director, Tyler Chinchen, joins us to talk through why this myth exists, the damage it creates, and how to work against it. RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) Seven Pilla...
345 - In Sickness & In Health
February 13, 2024 08:00 - 1 hour - 62.5 MBWhen addiction, brokenness, and betrayal enter a marriage, it can significantly impact a couple’s sexual relationship. Unfortunately, sexual brokenness and betrayal are not the only things that can hijack a couple’s sex life. On today’s episode, we’re joined by Brent and Nicole Breining, who are part of the Pure Desire family. Brent, a clinician for Pure Desire, and his wife, Nicole, share how some major life events limited their sexual relationship. They talk through how to stay committed...
344 - The Order Of Intimacy w/ Phil & Priscilla Fretwell
February 06, 2024 08:00 - 51 minutes - 46.8 MBFor many of us who are on the recovery and healing journey, understanding the full scope of intimacy can be confusing. If you’re in this camp, you won’t want to miss this episode! We are excited to have Phil and Priscilla Fretwell on the show today! They are co-founders of Savage Marriage Ministries and authors of Savage Marriage: Triumph Over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction —their story of addiction, betrayal, and freedom that they use to help others find healing. They join us to talk through...
343 - Preventing Relapse (Principles of Recovery)
January 30, 2024 08:00 - 49 minutes - 45.6 MBRelapse is returning to the place we promised God, ourselves, or others we wouldn’t go back to. So preventing relapse is a worthy goal. But can relapse be prevented proactively and practically? The answer: yes. On today’s episode, Mike Maxwell leverages his many years in recovery and leading Pure Desire groups to help us learn tools and techniques for preventing relapse. RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) The Compassionate Warrior Three Circles (Tool) FASTER Scale (Tool) GET STARTE...
342 - Honesty In Community (Principles of Recovery)
January 23, 2024 08:00 - 52 minutes - 48.1 MBIt’s difficult to understate the importance of community in recovery. But honesty in community isn’t easy. It requires intention and a willingness to be fully known. Dishonesty leads to shame and isolation. Honesty leads to freedom. Brent Breining, a Pure Desire Clinician, joins us today to discuss how to break secrecy, how to be honest in daily life, and why this actually matters. RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) Recovery Resource For Women Recovery Resource For Men Resource for...
341 - Healing Our Trauma (Principles of Recovery)
January 16, 2024 08:00 - 54 minutes - 50 MBUnprocessed trauma has a way of making itself known. Triggers reveal areas in our life where something isn’t quite right. If we’re not willing to address these areas, they can become a major obstacle in our relationships, workplace advancement, and breaking free from addiction. Heather Kolb is on the podcast today to talk about how the brain processes trauma and how we heal from trauma. RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) Altogether You (Book) GET STARTED Free eBook: 7 Keys To Under...
340 - Addressing Our Shame (Principles of Recovery)
January 09, 2024 08:00 - 51 minutes - 47.1 MBShame is often used as a motivator. But shame only motivates us to do one thing: hide. Shame causes us to hide because we start to believe the lie that our mistakes and missteps are proof that we are disqualified to receive love and acceptance. But Jesus’ life, death, and resurrection are evidence of the immense worth and value of humans. Rodney Wright joins us today to talk about why shame perpetuates the cycle of addiction and how we can break free from its grip. RESOURCES Full Episode V...
339 - Breaking Free From Isolation (Principles of Recovery)
January 02, 2024 08:00 - 41 minutes - 38.1 MBSolitude is an intentional time alone for renewal and centering yourself on God. Isolation is a pattern of disengaging from or intentionally not engaging in relationship with others. In this episode, we identify what isolation is, how it’s different from solitude, and why isolation is like gasoline on the addictive fire. RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) Recovery Resource For Women Recovery Resource For Men Three Circles GET STARTED Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Tr...
338 - 'Tis The Season: Attainable Goals
December 26, 2023 08:00 - 41 minutes - 38.4 MBWhen we get toward the end of the year, setting new goals perpetually comes up. Why is this? And how can we create goals we’ll actually stick to? Our clinical director, Tyler Chinchen, joins us on today’s episode to talk about yearly goals, how to set them, how to maintain them, and why they matter on the recovery and healing journey. RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) The Compassionate Warrior Unraveled Kit (Resource for women who struggle) Find An Online Group Start Counseling G...
337 - ‘Tis The Season: Proactive Self-Care
December 19, 2023 08:00 - 53 minutes - 49 MBSelf-care isn’t selfish. Yet, establishing rhythms of self-care can impact the people around us both positively and negatively. If we want to practice proactive self-care, it will require an intentional, thought-out plan that is communicated to our loved ones. Kelly Johnston, our Online Women's Groups Coordinator, is on the podcast today discussing how to maintain self-care, how to find things that qualify as self-care, and why all of this is especially important during the holiday season. ...
336 - ‘Tis The Season: Healthy Conflict
December 12, 2023 08:00 - 1 hour - 58.1 MBWhat is it about the holiday season that makes conflict more likely? It seems inevitable. So how can we engage in conflict in a healthy way? In today’s episode, Ashley Jameson helps unpack strategies for healthy conflict (even if you’re conflict-avoidant), how to help our loved ones engage in healthy conflict, and why this matters to our recovery. RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) Necessary Endings (Dr. Henry Cloud’s Book) Unraveled (Women's Recovery Resource) GET STARTED Free eBo...
335 - ‘Tis The Season: Being Assertive
December 05, 2023 08:00 - 45 minutes - 42.1 MBThe holidays are packed with clashing expectations in relationships. Assertiveness is one of the tools we can use to navigate these challenging situations. Being assertive doesn’t mean being aggressive—it simply means clearly communicating your needs to others. In this episode, Heather Kolb joins us to discuss how to be assertive, the benefits of being assertive about your needs, and how to navigate the moments when someone might respond negatively. RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) ...
334 - Healthy Sex Life (REPLAY)
November 28, 2023 08:00 - 45 minutes - 41.6 MBThis week’s episode wraps up our “oldy but goody” episodes. Today, we revisit our conversation with Heather Kolb on a healthy sex life. Everyone wants a healthy sex life. Period. But what does it actually mean to have one? How often should married couples have sex? What qualifies as good sex? How do you improve the health of your sex life? We talk about ALL of this on today’s episode. RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) GET STARTED Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma ...
333 - Making A Better Commitment to Change (REPLAY)
November 21, 2023 08:00 - 28 minutes - 25.9 MBWe’re in week two of our three-week “oldy but goody” series of episodes. We revisit our conversation with Ashley Jameson on making a better Commitment to Change. The Commitment to Change (CTC) is a weekly tool that Pure Desire groups use on the road to recovery. But how do we unlock the vast potential of this tool? What makes a CTC effective? How can it help us develop holistic health? Listen in to find out! RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) GET STARTED Free eBook: 7 Keys To Underst...
332 - Father Wound (REPLAY)
November 14, 2023 08:00 - 50 minutes - 46.4 MBThis episode starts three weeks of “oldy but goody” episodes from the podcast. This week, we revisit our conversation with our founder, Dr. Ted Roberts on father wounds. We discuss what a father wound is, how it compares to a mother wound, and how to recognize if you have one. We also talk through where in Scripture we see the father wound, how we address it, and how not to pass it on to our kids. Note: In some cases, it’s necessary to process trauma and wounds with the help of a clinician....
331 - Happily Even After w/ Dannah Gresh
November 07, 2023 08:00 - 48 minutes - 44 MBWhen discovery happens in a marriage, a bomb goes off. Life is shattered into a million pieces and you question, “Is redemption even possible?” Author of the new book, Happily Even After, Dannah Gresh, joins us on the podcast today. She answers that question emphatically, “YES!” Redemption is not only possible, but probable when God is central in a marriage AND both partners are getting the proper help they need. RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) Happily Even After (Book) Dannah’s B...
330 - Stories From The Church: Eastview Christian Church
October 31, 2023 07:00 - 59 minutes - 54.5 MBChurches new to Pure Desire and interested in launching groups often face hurdles and feel intimidated. Yet, there are hundreds of churches helping men and women find hope and healing through Pure Desire groups. In this episode, Eastview Church leadership shares the challenges they still face, how many groups they’re currently running (Note: it’s lower than you’d expect for a large church), and why they’ve seen the success they’ve seen. RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) Brain, Heart...
329 - Discipling Our Kids Sexually w/ Kristen A. Jenson
October 24, 2023 07:00 - 1 hour - 63.1 MBWe teach our kids how to clean their teeth and eat food. Yet when it comes to teaching healthy sexuality, we often feel lost. Author Kristen Jenson has worked to help parents teach their kids about the dangers of pornography, how to navigate these tough conversations as they come up, and how kids can “forget” things they’ve seen. RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) Good Pictures Bad Pictures (book) Brain Defense: Digital Safety (course) Kristen’s Website Kristen’s Books How To Talk...
328 - How To Find A Counselor
October 17, 2023 07:00 - 55 minutes - 50.8 MBSome people have a difficult time reconciling therapy with their faith. They see it as personal weakness at best and distance from God at worst. But Christians who become healthy through counseling are a gift to the world! Rodney Wright is on the podcast today sharing about how he found a counselor, how the experience impacted his faith and relationships, and gives practical advice for anyone considering entering into therapy. RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) Pure Desire Counseling ...
327 - Recovery & Healing Milestones
October 10, 2023 07:00 - 1 hour - 56.4 MBMilestones are really important to those recovering from addiction or healing from betrayal trauma. But Milestones aren’t always helpful or beneficial. In this episode, Ashley Jameson joins us to discuss how to identify and measure milestones, which milestones might be particularly dangerous, and which milestones fly under the radar but should really be celebrated. RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) Find A Pure Desire Group Pure Desire Online Groups FASTER Scale FANOS Check-in Bic...
326 - Telling Your Story Effectively
October 03, 2023 07:00 - 55 minutes - 51.1 MBEveryone has a story that is uniquely theirs. When we hear someone’s story we begin to understand how pain and trauma entered their life. We can connect the dots in their story from pain to healing and realize–we’re not alone. If they can heal, so can I. John Begeman joins us today to discuss a three category approach to sharing our story, when and how to share, and why it even matters. RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) Unwanted (Jay Stringer’s Book) Pure Desire Online Groups Pure ...
325 - The 5 Brain Bugs
September 26, 2023 07:00 - 46 minutes - 42.8 MBRelapse can happen anytime. Whether you’re in year two or 25 of recovery. In The Compassionate Warrior, this is attributed to 5 Brain Bugs. Rich Moore joins us today to discuss what these 5 Brain Bugs are, how to identify them, and what it looks like to address them. RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) FASTER Scale 1 Peter 5:8 The Compassionate Warrior Seven Pillars of Freedom (Prerequisite to The Compassionate Warrior) Pure Desire Online Groups The Soul of Shame w/ Curt Thompson ...
324 - Help! I’m In A Sexless Marriage.
September 19, 2023 07:00 - 59 minutes - 54.1 MBWhen your spouse doesn’t want to have sex, you likely feel alone and lost. When you’re the one who is uninterested in sex, you may not even understand why. However, in a healthy marriage where addiction and betrayal aren’t present, sex is a beautiful gift. This episode with Heather Kolb gets into the challenging questions about how, when, and why people may be living in a sexless marriage and what they can do about it. RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) FASTER Scale FANOS Check-in ...
323 - Myth Busters: I Can Do This Alone
September 12, 2023 07:00 - 1 hour - 60.6 MBIt’s common for people to think they can recover from their addiction or stop their behaviors on their own. Unfortunately, that just isn’t how recovery works. Community is a necessity for lasting healing and freedom. Harry Flanagan joins us today to debunk this myth and provide a path for those struggling with this harmful belief. RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) Pure Desire Summit Online Groups Pure Desire Counseling GET STARTED Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trau...
322 - Recovery & Healing From The Heart
September 05, 2023 07:00 - 43 minutes - 39.7 MBIn this episode, we talked about the theme of the Pure Desire Summit 2023, From The Heart. Why we chose this theme, its importance to the recovery journey, why people should attend, and more. We hope you’re planning to join us online or in-person for our biggest event of the year! RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) Pure Desire Summit GET STARTED Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma Free eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From Porn Schedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling Con...
321 - The Toxic War On Masculinity w/ Nancy Pearcey
August 29, 2023 07:00 - 1 hour - 63.5 MBIf you ask 1000 people what it means to be masculine, you’ll likely get 1000 different answers. Masculinity is often associated with strength, anger, and dominance. But that’s not at all how Jesus modeled masculinity. Nancy Pearcey is back with us to discuss differences between toxic masculinity and biblical masculinity and compare James Bond with Jesus. RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) Nancy’s Website The Toxic War on Masculinity: How Christianity Reconciles the Sexes (Nancy’s Bo...
320 - Growing Our Emotional Intelligence
August 22, 2023 07:00 - 53 minutes - 49.1 MBEmotional awareness and emotional intelligence go hand-in-hand. But emotional intelligence can feel elusive. In today’s episode, Heather Kolb helps us understand how to grow in emotional intelligence and its importance in the recovery process. RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) Seven Pillars Of Freedom (Men's Recovery Resource) Betrayal & Beyond (Women's Betrayal Resource) Unraveled (Women's Recovery Resource) Pure Desire Online Groups FASTER Scale (Free Tool) GET STARTED Free e...
319 - Talking With Your Young Kids About Sex
August 15, 2023 07:00 - 1 hour - 58 MBMany parents have a genuine desire to teach their kids how to navigate their sexuality in a way that is more helpful than they were taught. But most parents don’t even know where or how to begin talking with their kids about sex. This episode with Rodney and Traci Wright is packed with practical examples and advice, resources to protect kids and grow personally, and the encouragement parents have been looking for. RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) How To Talk With Your Kids About Sex...
318 - Stories Of Healing: Josh & Shawna Putnam
August 08, 2023 07:00 - 58 minutes - 53.4 MBJosh was no stranger to the limelight as a worship leader and musician. But being caught with pornography was a type of exposure that wasn't invited. Yet it was the beginning of a journey toward true healing and freedom that ultimately impacted his entire family. Josh and Shawna Putnam share their story of healing, what they learned along the way, and the new ministry that it is fueling for both of them. RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) Josh’s Music (Spotify) Seven Pillars Of Freed...
317 - Reparenting Our Inner Child with Dr. Eddie Capparucci
August 01, 2023 07:00 - 1 hour - 60.8 MBThe concept of reparenting your inner child strikes people in different ways. Some are skeptical and others are raving fans of the approach. On today’s podcast, we’re joined by Dr. Eddie Capparucci to discuss his work in this area. We talk about the importance of reparenting your inner child, the relationship of faith and psychology in this area, and more. RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) Why Men Struggle To Love (Eddie’s Book) Going Deeper Eddie’s website Pure Desire Online Gro...
316 - The Power Of Sharing Our Story w/ Ashley Sears
July 25, 2023 07:00 - 54 minutes - 49.5 MBOur stories have incredible power. But why is that? What is it about sharing our stories that is so impactful? On today’s episode, we are joined by the founder of Stories Unveiled, Ashley Sears. Ashley helps us understand why stories are so powerful, how to find the courage to share them, and the healing stories carry for us all. RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) Stories Unveiled Conference (Ashley's Conference) Stories Unveiled Facebook Page Stories Unveiled Instagram Page Storie...
315 - Marriage, Relationships, & Sex w/ Dr. Les Parrott
July 18, 2023 10:00 - 38 minutes - 34.9 MBRelationships are at the center of each part of our lives. And few things impact our relationships like unwanted sexual behavior and betrayal trauma. In this episode, best-selling author, speaker, and professor, Dr. Les Parrott joins us with practical tools to create fulfillment in our relationships. We talk about trends in dating and marriage relationships, when and how to share our history with our partner, and how to improve communication around sex and everything else. RESOURCES Full ...
314 - FAQ #16: Church
July 11, 2023 07:00 - 50 minutes - 46.6 MBChurches and volunteers passionate about Pure Desire Groups face a number of challenges when starting out. Today, Rodney Wright joins us to share best practices from his experience launching and maintaining a thriving Pure Desire Groups ministry. From preaching tips to managing group members from other churches to navigating a leadership team that isn’t open to a “recovery ministry,” this episode has it all. RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) Betrayal & Beyond (Women's Betrayal Resour...
313 - From Co-Addict Model To A Partner-Sensitive Approach
July 04, 2023 07:00 - 52 minutes - 48.6 MBAs new research emerges and becomes mainstream, it’s important that our approach remains current. This is the heart behind the recent update to our resource for women, Betrayal & Beyond. In this episode, Heather Kolb and Ashley Jameson share the “why” behind the update, they highlight the major changes (and what stayed the same), and who should go through this updated resource. RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) Betrayal & Beyond Kit—including NEW video companion (Women's Betrayal Re...