Have you ever felt like you betrayed yourself?


We live in a culture that teaches us to forsake our own wants in favor of serving others. We operate from a place of “I’m fine,” and get stuck in functional freeze, even when from the outside it appears we’re successful.


María-Victoria Albina joins Erica for a discussion about resentment and obligation, setting and holding standards, and tending to your nervous system as you pursue embodiment and change.

In this discussion:

Changing the narrative on obligationWhy setting standards and boundaries is a part of a self-reclamationHow our nervous systems get stuck in functional freezeWhy pushing too hard for ourselves to change can backfire



Connect with María Victoria Albina:

WebsiteInstagram: @victoriaalbinawellnessFeminist Wellness PodcastAnchored: Overcoming Codependency


Resources:
Embodiment, Agency, and Choicefulness with María-Victoria Albina

Download María-Victoria’s Free Meditations and ExercisesRatchet and Respectable PodcastBittersweet: How Sorrow and Longing Make Us Whole, Susan Cain


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