The Argument Black Hole
Pairadocs
English - November 30, 2020 08:05 - 21 minutes - 29.1 MB - ★★★★★ - 184 ratingsChristianity Religion & Spirituality Kids & Family austintexas billymyers jimmymyers joshmyers julielylescarr pairadocspodcast timothycenter Homepage Download Apple Podcasts Google Podcasts Overcast Castro Pocket Casts RSS feed
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Have you or your spouse ever said something along the lines of, “We argue over little things.”, or “None of our arguments ever get resolved.” If you have, then you have fallen headfirst into the Argument Black Hole. Join them this week, as the guys talk about the biggest mistake couples make when they have a disagreement.
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PROBLEM:
Arguing over facts Arguing over who’s reality is correct Winning is more important than solving the problem My Side Bias skews facts Memories are NOT accurate recordings of events. Research suggests that that we remember what we WANT to believe happenedSOLUTION:
Realize that the argument is not about the facts The event is the surface problem to a root cause Chose the hill you will die on Must be able to agree to disagree-----
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