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Nothing In Common

126 episodes - English - Latest episode: over 3 years ago - ★★★★★ - 14 ratings

Soon2BeCatLady, Conal, and BenJamin discuss dating, online dating, relationships, etc. and answer listener questions every Monday.

Soon2BeCatLady is best known for her online dating blog: soon2becatlady.com
Conal lives in Philadelphia.
Benjamin Kruse is the co-host of Minnesota’s morning podcast Up and at ’Em.

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Episodes

Adulting, Matchmaking, and Getting Dumped

January 24, 2017 00:24 - 51 minutes - 35.6 MB

How to get back out there when you don’t want to get back out there.

Why don’t men get as excited as women after first dates?

January 17, 2017 00:28 - 48 minutes - 33.5 MB

Karaoke Party. [01:15] Up and at ’Em Facebook Event Ben’s Book Club: Chapter One. [06:09] Singled Out: How singles are stereotyped, stigmatized, and ignored, and still live happily every after. Getting too excited after the first date.[14:03] Why millennials aren’t fornicating. [28:17] Cat Lady, a millennial, considers herself to be an honorary Gen-X. [39:02]

Weight loss, Sexy Lingerie, and Dating Desperation

January 10, 2017 00:49 - 54 minutes - 37.4 MB

CatLady, Conal give Ben assignments, as he is ready to find a mate.   They also answer many dating questions

Short Men Dating and Cute Girls on Twitter

January 03, 2017 00:17 - 42 minutes - 29.3 MB

Happy 2017! We’re back with lots of dating questions!!

Why don’t women message back online?

December 13, 2016 00:33 - 38 minutes - 26.7 MB

CatLady, Conal and Ben answer the age old question "Why don't women respond to nice messages they receive online dating?"  and "Why do women get way more messages than men?"    

Responding When Not Interested

December 06, 2016 00:28 - 40 minutes - 28 MB

CatLady, Conal and Ben talk about responding online when you're not interested.  And do men only want 20 year olds?   

Women are Impossible to Please!

November 22, 2016 01:34 - 38 minutes - 26.6 MB

CatLady, Conal and Ben discuss how dating is like job hunting,  an update regarding Ben's love life, and how women are impossible to please!

Sleep Cheating

November 14, 2016 16:00 - 36 minutes - 25.1 MB

Conal, Ben and CatLady discuss a listener's concern about her boyfriend declaring love for another woman in his sleep! And - did a girl hit on Ben!?

The Reset!

November 08, 2016 01:08 - 37 minutes - 25.9 MB

CatLady is joined by @ConalRadio and @BenjaminKruse for an all-new Nothing In Common!

The Break-Up

October 24, 2016 15:17 - 6 minutes - 2.88 MB

A Nothing In Common Update

Wannabe Relationship Driver

October 03, 2016 15:38 - 18 minutes - 16.5 MB

Dating while unemployed, and being the relationship driver.

Pre-Conceived Notions, First Dates and Bridesmen

September 26, 2016 16:19 - 29 minutes - 13.3 MB

CatLady and DrewLee talk about all sorts of stuff.

Breakin up via video

September 12, 2016 16:16 - 24 minutes - 45.4 MB

CatLady totally misconstrues an article Drew Lee sent to her. 

Douchebag List and Making New Friends

September 01, 2016 00:44 - 41 minutes - 76.5 MB

CatLady and JayJay are joined by Diamond and Kate from Champagne Babble.   They talk Diamond's love life,  Douchebag lists, and answer two listener questions.

Nothing In Common 8/15/16 - Marriage Myths

August 15, 2016 17:34 - 30 minutes - 27.9 MB

CatLady, DrewLee and JayJay talk marriage myths, referring friends professionally and planning dates

Attractive 20 Year Olds

August 09, 2016 16:40 - 21 minutes - 39.5 MB

CatLady, Andrew and Jay Jay talk about attractive 20 year olds and how to lure them into your lair.

DON'T SEND YOUR BUDDY'S GIRLFRIEND LINGERIE!

August 01, 2016 16:54 - 22 minutes - 41.4 MB

CatLady and DrewLee are joined by Samantha (a.k.a Lump) to answer questions about questionable gifts your girlfriend receives from your male buddies, and how to keep someone's interest

Talking Politics on a First Date

July 26, 2016 16:54 - 19 minutes - 35 MB

CatLady got a SecretDare review, politics & dating, and dating a habitual late arrival!

WE'RE ELOPING!!

July 18, 2016 16:10 - 22 minutes - 41.8 MB

CatLady and DrewLee talk about eloping, and answer a question a dating question regarding choosing between two fellas.

Deadbeat Boyfriends

July 11, 2016 16:32 - 23 minutes - 42.9 MB

CatLady and JayJay talk about Tinder and answer a question about a guy who seemingly only plays video games

Naughty Snapchats

July 04, 2016 15:00 - 39 minutes - 72.9 MB

Due to the holiday, this week's episode is an episode of Champagne Babble -- BUT IT'S STILL DATING ADVICE RELATED!!! CatLady stole a Nothing in Common question for the ladies of Champagne Babble, because this one was best answered by many women

Chicken Tenders

June 27, 2016 16:42 - 14.5 MB

A recap of DrewLee's vacation, SecretDare updates, and CatLady's Tinder experience. Chicken tenders.

Truth or Dare Dating

June 13, 2016 19:07 - 24 minutes - 44.6 MB

CatLady was emailed a press-release for an... interesting ... new dating website concept.  

On Again Off Again Relationships

June 06, 2016 16:17 - 16 minutes - 29.8 MB

CatLady, DrewLee and JayJay answer questions about setting up close friends, how many messages to send without seeming desperate, and on again/off again relationships.

Bad Taste in TV and Apologies

May 30, 2016 14:50 - 15 minutes - 28.3 MB

CatLady and JayJay are DrewLee-less, and answer questions about TV watching skills and apologizing for being a creeper #BringAndrewBack

Instagram, Flowers & Birthdays

May 23, 2016 16:39 - 21 minutes - 39.5 MB

CatLady, DrewLee and JayJay answer lots o' listener questions this week regarding advertising your social media on your online dating profile,  flower questions and "We just got engaged, do I have to get her a bday present?"