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Nothing In Common

126 episodes - English - Latest episode: over 3 years ago - ★★★★★ - 14 ratings

Soon2BeCatLady, Conal, and BenJamin discuss dating, online dating, relationships, etc. and answer listener questions every Monday.

Soon2BeCatLady is best known for her online dating blog: soon2becatlady.com
Conal lives in Philadelphia.
Benjamin Kruse is the co-host of Minnesota’s morning podcast Up and at ’Em.

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Episodes

Toxic Relationship Expert: Matthew Phifer

December 14, 2020 16:00 - 30 minutes - 42.1 MB

CatLady chats with Matthew Phifer on narcissism - what it is, and what to look out for. Matthew Phifer, M.Ed., is a therapist, speaker, trainer, and toxic relationship, narcissism, trauma, and emotional abuse expert. Visit him at https://www.mattphifercoaching.com/

Covid Dating Terms

December 07, 2020 17:00 - 29 minutes - 39 MB

Does CatLady know the alleged new "covid dating terms" that Conal found on the internet?

Star of the Show: Conal

November 30, 2020 00:50 - 21 minutes - 29.3 MB

CatLady is very protective of her brand is not okay people mistaking her for Conal.

Bumbling Voice Messages

November 09, 2020 17:00 - 17 minutes - 23.4 MB

CatLady updates Conal (with facts and figures!) on how voice memo-ing on Bumble is going.

BONUS: Hot Mic!

November 03, 2020 16:00 - 5 minutes - 7.68 MB

After we stopped recording, another message came through from CatLady's future husband, and Conal comes to a terrible realization. With special guest, Conal's girlfriend Beth.

He's SO Good at Online Dating

November 02, 2020 17:00 - 20 minutes - 27.8 MB

Conal gives us an update on how Tinder is going

Challenge Accepted

October 26, 2020 16:30 - 24 minutes - 31.9 MB

CatLady accepted Suborno's challenge from 2 weeks ago and redownloaded Bumble and used only voice memos.

You Will Find Me a Husband

October 19, 2020 16:30 - 22 minutes - 30.5 MB

CatLady helps Conal get set up on Tinder to swipe for her.  

Special Guest: Suborno AKA Brown Bear

October 12, 2020 16:00 - 46 minutes - 63.6 MB

CatLady and Conal talk with Suborno (Brown Bear) from the Online Dating Laid Bear podcast about his dating experiences over in the UK.    Check out his podcast at:  https://www.onlinedatinglaidbear.com/podcast/

Dating on the Road

October 05, 2020 16:00 - 17 minutes - 23.3 MB

One of us has tips on how to date on the road.

Pro Tip: Don't Buy Used Condoms

September 28, 2020 14:26 - 18 minutes - 25.5 MB

You'd think it would go without saying..

BONUS!! Conal's Girlfriend

July 29, 2020 18:30 - 6 minutes - 8.28 MB

On Monday, we didn't know Conal's girlfriend was secretly listening in and taking the quiz herself.  She came in after the fact and had a few things to say about it.

Are We Actually Any Good At Dating

July 28, 2020 00:40 - 32 minutes - 44.5 MB

CatLady and Conal take a very official Buzzfeed quiz to find out if they are actually any good at dating.

I Could Be a Sugar Baby

July 14, 2020 00:53 - 31 minutes - 42.5 MB

Everything In Common

July 07, 2020 02:49 - 23 minutes - 33.3 MB

CatLady and Conal talk about made up holidays and Hamilton.

You Can Never Be TOO Careful

June 30, 2020 00:28 - 31 minutes - 42.6 MB

CatLady and Conal discuss online dating safety!

Dating is like Buying a House - Part 2

June 22, 2020 19:30 - 25 minutes - 34.1 MB

CatLady and Conal are once again joined by Brian Belefant to talk about rules of real estate that apply to dating as well! http://spousehunting.net

Dating Is Like Buying a House - Part 1

June 16, 2020 00:29 - 24 minutes - 33 MB

CatLady explains how to get a guest spot on her show after getting an email from Brian Belefant, author of "Spouse Hunting:  How To Use the Rules of Real Estate to Find the Love of Your Life". Brian tells us how dating is like buying a house. Buy the book on Amazon - or at spousehunting.net!  Part 1 of 2.

Liking Yourself and Listening to Your Gut!

June 08, 2020 18:53 - 23 minutes - 30.7 MB

Another week, another show!

Women have Boobs?!

June 01, 2020 19:20 - 25 minutes - 35.8 MB

CatLady and Conal talk about when it's appropriate to acknowledge a female has chesticles, double standards, among other things.

It's the BEST TIME to be Online Dating!!

May 25, 2020 19:00 - 24 minutes - 33.1 MB

Do you even truly know ANYONE!?

May 19, 2020 00:50 - 23 minutes - 31.7 MB

Comedienne Wendy Maybury!

April 29, 2020 00:53 - 42 minutes - 56.7 MB

Comedienne Wendy Maybury joins Soon2BeCatLady to commiserate about online dating, and talk about her debut comedy album!   https://wendymayburycomedy.com/

Beats me!

April 13, 2020 23:13 - 24 minutes - 32.9 MB

I don't even remember what we talked about..

Things for Singleton's To Do While Quarantined

March 30, 2020 21:00 - 21 minutes - 27.9 MB

CatLady and Conal make up 10 things that single people can do while quarantined. And is Facebook Dating any good?

Dating in Quarantine

March 28, 2020 23:40 - 16 minutes - 22.5 MB

After the longest break ever, CatLady and Conal are back to talk about dating in quarantine!

Oblivious

December 04, 2018 00:57 - 49 minutes - 34.2 MB

Alternative Dating Apps

November 27, 2018 00:26 - 37 minutes - 25.9 MB

My Ex was Crazy

November 07, 2018 23:21 - 45 minutes - 31.5 MB

We Need to Talk

October 23, 2018 20:15 - 39 minutes - 27 MB

Bonus: Manly Makeup

October 21, 2018 01:00 - 11 minutes - 8.19 MB

Relationship Subreddit Roulette

October 15, 2018 23:45 - 41 minutes - 28.7 MB

Blind Dates and Set-Ups

October 01, 2018 23:36 - 36 minutes - 25.2 MB

Her Proposing to Him

September 24, 2018 23:39 - 41 minutes - 28.3 MB

Common Sense Red Flags

September 17, 2018 23:37 - 40 minutes - 27.8 MB

Machine Learning for Dating

September 03, 2018 23:30 - 46 minutes - 32.2 MB

Dating Game Theory

August 21, 2018 23:07 - 30 minutes - 20.7 MB

No Chill

August 06, 2018 23:27 - 41 minutes - 28.6 MB

Fart Date

July 17, 2018 02:27 - 59 minutes - 40.6 MB

Bonus: I Bought a *** House and Now I Hate My *** Life

July 08, 2018 01:00 - 5 minutes - 3.51 MB

Independence Day Explosion

July 02, 2018 23:38 - 37 minutes - 26 MB

Mixed Messages and Spanx

June 20, 2018 02:03 - 38 minutes - 26.7 MB

Bonus: Benjamin Kruse’s Saturday Night DInner Party

June 17, 2018 01:00 - 2 minutes - 1.46 MB

Stop Hitting on Me

June 11, 2018 23:27 - 52 minutes - 35.7 MB

Bonus: Cat Lady, Show Me Your T*ts

June 04, 2018 23:09 - 1 minute - 1.06 MB

Taking a compliment

June 04, 2018 23:09 - 39 minutes - 27 MB

Obsessive Maintenance Texts

May 22, 2018 19:50 - 38 minutes - 26.5 MB

To Whiz or Not To Whiz

May 14, 2018 23:15 - 32 minutes - 22.2 MB

Casual Relationship

May 07, 2018 23:33 - 46 minutes - 32 MB