S6-E128: Raising Strong Boys

As we are driving north to start a new chapter of our lives, Matthew will soon be a University of Arkansas Razorback.  Reflecting on these past few weeks as we pack him up, and sort through his bedroom of 18 years, what is a MUST to bring along, what can be passed onto his brothers, and what can head to Goodwill - it dawned on me that I have raised some pretty strong and independent boys.Family is the nucleus of all we do together.  We've always made it a point and priority to be involved in the boys' lives.  From sports to school activities, either my husband or I, or ideally both of us, would always be in attendance.  When the boys would scan the bleachers or crowded room of onlookers, they would always be able to find us as we supported their every success and struggle.  We vacation together, spend holidays together, and travel together.  Hopefully one day these values will continue on and be passed along to their future families.Growing up with a strong church foundation has helped shape the boys into the young men they have become.   Spending their entire youth in Boy Scouts has also shaped their independence.  Each of my 4 boys have stories to tell about challenges along the trail and overcoming adverse weather or stressful campouts.  They never left early or called home for a ride.  They stuck it out and have become stronger and tougher because of these life-shaping events.Matthew may be starting a new chapter in another state, several hours away, but the rest of us back home in Texas are starting a new chapter too.  We'll continue to nurture the remaining brothers and make sure they stay strong and tough through their teens and beyond.Enjoy! 
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As we are driving north to start a new chapter of our lives, Matthew will soon be a University of Arkansas Razorback.  Reflecting on these past few weeks as we pack him up, and sort through his bedroom of 18 years, what is a MUST to bring along, what can be passed onto his brothers, and what can head to Goodwill - it dawned on me that I have raised some pretty strong and independent boys.

Family is the nucleus of all we do together.  We've always made it a point and priority to be involved in the boys' lives.  From sports to school activities, either my husband or I, or ideally both of us, would always be in attendance.  When the boys would scan the bleachers or crowded room of onlookers, they would always be able to find us as we supported their every success and struggle.  We vacation together, spend holidays together, and travel together.  Hopefully one day these values will continue on and be passed along to their future families.

Growing up with a strong church foundation has helped shape the boys into the young men they have become.   Spending their entire youth in Boy Scouts has also shaped their independence.  Each of my 4 boys have stories to tell about challenges along the trail and overcoming adverse weather or stressful campouts.  They never left early or called home for a ride.  They stuck it out and have become stronger and tougher because of these life-shaping events.

Matthew may be starting a new chapter in another state, several hours away, but the rest of us back home in Texas are starting a new chapter too.  We'll continue to nurture the remaining brothers and make sure they stay strong and tough through their teens and beyond.

Enjoy!

 

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