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My Life My Choice

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Life Is A Choice:
Have you ever done something you didn’t want to do and did it in the name of love, or because you were told it’s your duty, or for a promotion or to keep your current job or because they would like you the best or to fulfill your need to belong or fit in? You are not alone.
This podcast takes a candid look at our choice making skills, where our choices have lead us. It evaluates where we place ourselves in our choice making process. It’s also takes a poignant look at the impact our choices have on our successes, perceived failures, health, wealth, relationships and happiness.
I'm Dr. Wendy Dearborne Holistic Life Coach and I'm your host and with my experience as a life coach and a holistic healing practitioner I will help you to create the life you want to live through the power of conscious personal choice.

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Is The Desire For Plenty Wrong?

April 09, 2014 20:00 - 1 hour - 24.5 MB

We have been indoctrinated socially, religiously, spiritually, emotionally, mentally, physically psychologically etc, to believe that having the desire for plenty is wrong.  Well, it’s not wrong to desire plenty. In fact, it’s part of our spiritual DNA. However, there is a spiritual caveat that is attached to having plenty.  All of the wealthiest and most prosperous people in life understand this Universal law and live within this law.  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and express...

What’s Your Body Telling You?

April 02, 2014 20:00 - 1 hour - 21.5 MB

Our bodies talk to us incessantly, just like a child calling, "Mummy over and over and over and over again."  One of the biggest travesties that we perpetrate against ourselves is not listening to self!    The body, your body is a barometer for where you are in your life.  It provides you with explicit directives on what pathway you should take.  So what’s your body telling you?  This show will give you insight into how to interpret what you are telling you.  And it truly is amazing. Join m...

What Is Your Plan For Spiritual Growth?

March 26, 2014 20:00 - 1 hour - 19.9 MB

Your spiritual growth is an intimate and personal relationship with self.  Far too often you give your power away to the latest guru or televangelist telling you what they will do for you and your spiritual growth.  I have found in my professional career as a choice expert that spiritual growth is one of the top three concerns that people have. Are you in this percentile?     Are you growing in spirit the way that you want to?  Can you recognize the signs that are telling you that you have g...

How To Use Your Wrecking Ball To Built Your Life

March 19, 2014 20:00 - 1 hour - 16.2 MB

Sometimes you need to break it down so you can build it up the way in which you want it.  And sometimes you just need to break it down and walk away taking with you the knowledge that this is not a foundation or architectural design that you will ever use in your life again.  Your wrecking ball is one of the tools in your golden tool box.  It’s used for create new foundations or new beginnings. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expressions coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we e...

How Did I Get Back Here Again?

March 12, 2014 20:00 - 1 hour - 14.4 MB

How did you get back there again?  Evidentially, you choose it!  Whether it’s bad relationships, ill health, financial distress, broken bank account, broken relatives and friends, drugs, addictions, back sliding, broken down vehicles, foreclosures, and the list goes on…that’s right, you choose it.  Let’s not focus on where you are, let’s give all our attention to where you want to go and what it looks like to get there. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expressions coach and art...

3 Reasons Why You Need A Mastermind Group?

March 05, 2014 21:00 - 1 hour - 20.2 MB

You, me and everyone who is in business, or an entrepreneur or have things they are wanting to achieve in life, must, and I repeat, must actively and consciously engage in a mastermind group.  Why?  The answer to that is simply. A mastermind group supports you in achieving attaining the success you are wanting in life. It helps you to clarify what you are wanting.Clarity allows you to make accurate decisions to achieve your goal. And who doesn’t want to make the right choices for their life? ...

Is Fate Or Destiny Controlling My Choices And My Life?

February 26, 2014 21:00 - 1 hour - 15.2 MB

Is fate or destiny in the driver’s seat of your life?  This is the billion dollar question.  If it’s fate or destiny how much control or ownership even responsibility do you have for your actions?  There is much to be said for the timing, contrast and parallels that destiny and fate bring into our lives.  Destiny and fate are tools in our golden spiritual tool box that will support us in achieving our desires. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne, choice expert and educator and expression coach Oliv...

Creating Your Spiritual Tool Box

February 19, 2014 21:00 - 1 hour - 16.4 MB

We all come into this life with everything that we need and or the spiritual tools to get what we need.  Today’s show is about becoming aware of your spiritual tool and the uniqueness of them.  It’s about how to use your tools effectively and efficiently so YOU can and will create the life that you want to live.  And do so with less fear, angst and stress.  This will free up that energy for you to move forward into the life that you want to live in ways that you cannot imagine.  People, place...

The Time To Live Your Life Is Always N.O.W!

February 12, 2014 21:00 - 1 hour - 19.3 MB

You’ve heard that old adage strike while the iron is hot?  Because when it cools you will be unable to form it into what you want.  You will have to conform to it.  The time is N.O.W!  This is what life is all about, being in and realizing your N.O.W.  We go through life not recognizing the power of N.O.W!  The most powerful thing in your life at any given time is YOU and being in the present and acting N.O.W!  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne, choice expert and educator and expression coach Oli...

What Does It Take To Move Forward In My Life?

February 05, 2014 21:00 - 1 hour - 17.9 MB

What Does It Take To Move Forward In My Life?  This is a question that you may have asked yourself more than once in your life time, and I have every belief that you will ask yourself many time more.  Cast your mind back to the last time you asked yourself this question. "What Does It Take To Move Forward In My Life?"   Now, tell me, what was the first thing you did after your emotional out pouring was over?  I can guarantee you, the first thing you did was to make a CONSCIOUS choice, in ful...

Am I Contractually Bound To My Choices In Life?

January 29, 2014 21:00 - 1 hour - 17 MB

In a single word: YES!  Your life is a contractual agreement that is created by your choices.  The most empowering thing you can do for yourself in this life is have clear understanding what choice and your choice making process is all about.   If you don’t get a handle on this, you will be living a life that you don’t want.  This radio show, My Life My Choice and everything else that I do, is built on the foundation and belief that we create our lives based upon the conscious and in most ca...

Enough! No More Excuses For Your Life Choices

January 22, 2014 21:00 - 1 hour - 20.2 MB

Enough! No More Excuses.  An excuse is a permit issued by self (YOU) - giving YOU permission to self, to choose a pathway of non-accountability, non-ownership and irresponsibility.  In short an excuse is a license not to make changes where changes need to be made.  Is there such a thing as an excuse?  When you make an excuse you have declared a choice that you are making. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne, choice expert and educator and expression coach Olivia Lashley as we look at you and your e...

What Is Eclipsing Your Ability To Succeed?

January 15, 2014 21:00 - 1 hour - 19.4 MB

It’s time to take a serious look at YOU and what YOU are allowing to eclipse your ability to move forward in your life.  Many of you can give heart wrenching stories of things that have happened to you; horrible, unconscionable and heinous events, perpetrated against you by people, places and things.  Each event seems to have left YOU feeling broken, ravaged, hopeless and lifeless; creating an eclipse in your life.  The key word or the operating system that we are dealing with happens to be Y...

Where Are You In Relation To You?

January 08, 2014 21:00 - 1 hour - 18.4 MB

The theme for My Life My Choice radio show this year is “YOU!”  This year is all about you and experiencing “YOU” from a different perspective.  This year is about stopping the madness and using the tools and skills that you have, to get what you need, to create with total conscious awareness the life that you say you want to live.  This year is all about not waking up one morning to ask yourself that soul inspiring questions..."Oh My God!  How did I get here?"  So, as we move into 2014 my q...

Is time Our Most Precious Commodity ?

December 18, 2013 21:00 - 1 hour - 27.2 MB

There are 31,536,000 seconds in a year.  That is 525,600 minutes in a year.  That’s a whopping 1440.00 minutes in a day with 24 hours per day and of course, 60 minutes in an hour.  I could ask the question, “What have you done with the last 525,600 minutes of your life?”  As a choice expert, I believe that is counterintuitive.  The question to ask is, “What are you wanting to do with the next 525,600 minutes of your life?”  Time is the most precious commodity that we have.  Having a conscious...

A Discourse On The Potporurri Of Life

December 11, 2013 21:00 - 1 hour - 24.9 MB

Join me, choice expert, Dr. Wendy Dearborne and expression coach Olivia Lashley as we begin to wrap this year up by having a talk about the potpourri of our lives. Today, we'll explore life by discussing a variety of subjects, from the metaphysical aspects of life to the power of your conscious choice and any and everything in between. 

Life After Surviving A Life Shortening Illness

December 04, 2013 21:00 - 1 hour - 24.8 MB

If you have ever been told that you are not going to make “it”…but have, and you are now wondering where “do I” go from here, then this show is for you.  If you have a loved one that had been told by the medical powers to be that they are not going to make it, but they have, then this show is for you too.  If in the back of your mind you feel that one day your diagnosed illness will return, with a vengeance…then this show is for you too!  In fact it’s for all of you.    Today, we’ll explore ...

Being Thankful Is All We Got

November 27, 2013 21:00 - 1 hour - 15.4 MB

Being thankful is all we got.  At the end of the day when all the dust settles, when your emotions stop raging, when the tears are gone, when the fears have been chased away; what you are left with is…you.  And YOU get to choose what you do with the “WHAT’S LEFT.” Simple in theory, yet has a complexity that sometime obscures our ability. Being thankful is a state of mind that creates a state of being!  And you create that state of mind. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne, choice expert and expres...

Discipline: Who Needs It The Parent or The Child?

November 20, 2013 21:00 - 2 hours - 27.4 MB

When it comes to raising a happy healthy and socially integrated child and being a happy parent too, there is without a doubt one tool that can support you in achieving both goals.  When you mention the word discipline in the same breath as children, most people think in terms of punishment.   There is so much more to that word than punishment.    Parenting expert coach, author, lecturer, teacher educator and trainer Heather Criswell will be joining us today to share her thoughts on “How To R...

Understanding Your Yes or No!

November 13, 2013 21:00 - 1 hour - 19.4 MB

Understanding the  power of your yes and no and which power base you come from is can denotes the trajectory of your life. Where have your Yes's and NO's taken you...more importantly where do you want them to take you. Join me Choice Expert, Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach & Artist Olivia Lashley as we look at letting your yes be yes and your no be no...NOW

Green Smoothies 4 Weight Loss

November 06, 2013 21:00 - 1 hour - 20.4 MB

Would you like to shed unwanted pounds without feeling deprived and restricted?  Would you like to enjoy all your holiday favorite foods and enter into the New Year a few pounds lighter?  Well you can by join us in a 2 day or 48 hour green smoothie fast.  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Expression Coach and Artist Olivia Lashley  as we go over the details on what to do and where to get all the how to information.  

Is There Such A Thing As Co-creation With God?

October 30, 2013 20:00 - 1 hour - 17.5 MB

I've heard the phrase and have used the phrase myself, often, that I co-create with God?  In last week show I had an "aha moment" or an epiphany, if you will that lead me to ask myself this question, "is there such a thing as co-creation with God?"  What percentage of your choice making is yours and what percentage is God's? Join me,Choice Expert Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we explore the subject of you, choices, creation, co-creations and  God.

No Man Is An Island True or False?

October 23, 2013 20:00 - 1 hour - 26 MB

Are we marooned on an Island by ourselves or are we living collective, yet individual lives? Do we co-create or create our lives? Join me, Choice Expert Dr. Wendy Dearborne as Expression Coach and Artist Olivia Lashley gives us a new perspective on the phrase “No Man Is An Island.”

BAM vs Abracadabra Prosperity Part III

October 16, 2013 20:00 - 58 minutes - 13.1 MB

BAM has a special meaning where prosperity is concerned and creating all that you desire.  But does BAM mean the same thing as Abracadabra? Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert as I explore what BAM can mean in your life.

Understanding True Prosperity Part II

October 09, 2013 20:00 - 1 hour - 25.8 MB

What does prosperity mean to you?  Your answer is key in how prosperity shows up in your life.   In today's show we are going to look at attaching the Universal Laws to what prosperity means to you.  Being prosperous is more than JUST having money.  Prosperity is your state of being.  We’ll also look at tithing and what that may or may not mean. Join me, Dr. wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Expressions Coach Olivia Lashley as we continue exploring prosperity.

How To Become Prosperous Using Energy And Efficiency: Part 1

October 02, 2013 20:00 - 1 hour - 20.6 MB

What do energy and efficiency have to do with being prosperous?  Everything!  Energy is the creative process and efficiency helps to anchor and direct intention.  These are the first two foundational stones, in a series of eight Universal Laws that we’ll be exploring.  Join me, Dr Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley.     

Do You Have Your D.A.W.N Yet?

September 25, 2013 20:00 - 1 hour - 23.5 MB

Do you have your D.A.W.N yet?  Do you know what D.A.W.N means?  There is a spiritual meaning behind the acronym D.A.W.N.  As the sun rises and set so it is with your life.    Artist Olivia Lashley and creator of The Little Box Boutique will be talking about her creations and how the rise of your D.A.W.N can support and assist you on your spiritual journey through life. 

There Are No Mistakes In Life

September 18, 2013 20:00 - 1 hour - 20.4 MB

There are no mistakes in your life, there is only how you view to look at a situation, person or event.  And how you choose to let your view influence what you do.  There are no mistakes.  There are only CHOICES!   Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne as we explore how to create something positive out of a perceived negative situation.

The Choice Is Now

September 11, 2013 20:00 - 53 minutes - 12 MB

Not yesterday.  Not tomorrow.  Not later.  It NOW.  The time that you are in is NOW this moment.  What you choose in this moment will create the rest of your life...so what's it going to be. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne as I talk about The Choice Is Now and our new prosperity series starting in October.

I'm Looking For God. Can You Help Me?

September 04, 2013 20:00 - 1 hour - 26.5 MB

So, you are looking for God.  Before we start out discussing this I have one question that I want you to answer, "Where have you been looking?" Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we explore looking for God.

What Do You Want Your Eulogy To Say About You?

August 28, 2013 20:00 - 1 hour - 20.3 MB

What do you want people to say about you on your passing?  What kind of conversation do you want to have on your transition or deathbed?  Or when you meet up with the eternal you that never dies.  What conversation do you want to have with you then?  The conversation that you want to have with you or how you desire to be eulogized is predicated on the choices that you are making in your life today, this minute, this second…in the now.  So think about the carbon foot print that you’ll l...

What Kind of Life Coach Are You?

August 21, 2013 20:00 - 1 hour - 19.4 MB

A life coach, is a title, much like a doctor, lawyer, nurse etc.  You know what they do...in a general sort of way, but, unless they specify you won't know what their specialty is and if their expertise, is something that can help you.  Today, we’ll speak with two coaches Coach Heather Criswell and Coach Karen Campbell who will talk about their coaching styles and specialties.  Join me Choice Expert Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we take a look at coaching styles. 

It's My Life It's My Choice

August 14, 2013 20:00 - 1 hour - 19.5 MB

Today we are going back to basics.  We'll be looking at our connection with our foundation...CHOICE...and what that means.  Join me Dr Wendy Dearborne choice expert, and expression coach Olivia Lashley as we look at life and  your ability to choose.

Can A Life Coach Help Me To Straighten Out My Life?

August 07, 2013 20:00 - 1 hour - 20.5 MB

That is a million dollar question that is fully loaded.  Last week we spoke about what a life coach does.  This week we’ll look at your role as the client seeking a life coach.    So do you…need a life coach?   As a choice expert and coach, you might be surprised by my answer.  In the interim, there are 10 things that you may want to consider, before you answer that question. Join me Choice Expert Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach and Artist Olivia Lashley as we explore the 10 ques...

So You Think You Want To Be A Life Coach?

July 31, 2013 20:00 - 1 hour - 20.1 MB

So you think you want to be a life coach?  In today’s show we are going to discuss in detail what a life coach does and doesn’t do.  We’ll look at different types of training and examine what it takes to become a certified life coach.  We’ll talk about the earning capacity and establishing a successful coaching practice.  If you have ever thought about becoming a life coach, then this show is a must for you.  Join me Choice Expert, Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach and artist Olivia ...

The Spirit Within U

July 24, 2013 20:00 - 1 hour - 20.6 MB

Karen Campbell is an amazing woman whose spiritual awakening and journey lead her to the creation of “The Spirit Within U.”  She built a spiritual community learning center right here in Las Vegas and for the global community she established an online learning center.  Her core concept for the Spirit Within U is dedicated to supporting people who are on their own spiritual pathway. Every day people who need a spiritual home, a safe place of learning and understanding, or who just need to f...

How Do I Put Me Back Together?

July 17, 2013 20:00 - 1 hour - 25.7 MB

Your life has shattered into a million different pieces. Divorce, death, disease, disaster disillusionment and disappointment we’ve all experience something in our lives that has left us saying, “this isn’t what I signed up for.”   What happened isn’t what you had expected, you didn’t plan it this way.  But the reality is that it has…and…it did, happen that way and now you are standing in the middle of the debris that IS your life.   How do you put you...your life  back together?  This is a ...

The Master Key For Success

July 10, 2013 20:00 - 1 hour - 20.6 MB

You hold the master key for your own success.  The key is simplistic by design and easy to use.  All you need to do is use it.  Your key opens the way for more than personal empowerment or the manifestation of things, which is all a part of using your key. Your key blasts opens the portal between the subconscious and conscious minds.  This gives you direct access to all that you require to attain your highest potential.  Join me, Choice Expert Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expressions Coach Oliv...

How Does Your Life Story Benefit You?

July 03, 2013 20:00 - 1 hour - 20.1 MB

Is it possible that your life story (the current life that you are living) is YOUR personal “who dunnit? designed by you for you to get you want in life?  Who is writing you chapters in your book of life…if not you? Who has written the current script that you are working from?  There is a lesson in every story.  So what is your life story teaching you?  Join me Choice Expert and Life Coach Educator Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach & Artist Olivia Lashley as we explore the benefit...

Are Living Life Looking In Your Rear View Mirror?

June 26, 2013 20:00 - 1 hour - 20.2 MB

If you choose to drive looking your rear view mirror or get into a vehicle with someone who operates a vehicle like that chances are…you will crash.  Chances are…you will not stay on your pathway.  And chances you will not stay in your lane.  The only way you can experience life is by moving forward.  Whatever you are focused on that is where your forward momentum will carry you.  That’s the direction that you will be moving in. So what are you focused on?  Your destiny or your history? Jo...

How To Stay Positive

June 19, 2013 20:00 - 1 hour - 20.6 MB

Staying positive when your life is evolving in ways that you don’t want can be a challenge.  The loss of a loved one, things, job, self worth etc. you name it all create a paradigm for the spiral downward into our self created abyss. Finding a single technique that can be used for all situations to keep you on track and in alignment with your goals, is the key that you need for attaining and succeeding in life. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we look at...

Are You A Good Neighbor?

June 12, 2013 20:00 - 1 hour - 19.6 MB

Are you good to your neighbor?  Do you even know your neighbor?  Do you know what’s going on in your neighborhood?  Do you speak to your neighbor?  When was the last time you went out of your way to help your neighbor?  And do you know who your closest neighbor is?   As we explore the metaphysical nature of this question, it brings a different perspective to the words, "Thou Shalt Love Thy Neighbor As Thyself." [Roman 13:9] Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley ...

What Do You Want Your Eulogy To Say About You?

June 05, 2013 20:00 - 1 hour - 20.3 MB

What do you want people to say about you on your passing?  What kind of conversation do you want to have on your transition or deathbed?  Or when you meet up with the eternal you that never dies.  What conversation do you want to have with you then?  The conversation that you want to have with you or how you desire to be eulogized is predicated on the choices that you are making in your life today, this minute, this second…in the now.  So think about the carbon foot print that you’ll leave ...

What Is The Point Of Choice?

May 29, 2013 20:00 - 1 hour - 25.6 MB

What role does choice…your choice, other people’s choices, the mass mind or collective consciousness play in the evolution of your life?   Can conscious choice and the awareness of your choices support you in creating the life that you want to live?  As a choice expert, I know personally and professionally the role that choice plays in my life and how the role of choice impacts the lives of people.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we reconnect with th...

Green Smoothie Fasting

May 01, 2013 20:00 - 1 hour - 18.3 MB

Our 30 day greens smoothie challenge/fast officially ended yesterday.  The journey has been amazing.  I want to share some of the benefits and highlights with you.    

What's Should Or Shouldn't I Be Eating?

April 24, 2013 20:00 - 1 hour - 25 MB

Trying to eat the “right thing” can create untold challenges in your life.  Being environmentally and politically correct, along with trying hard to  fit in with the current social trends, can place a serious strain on your wallet and more importantly, place a hazardous strain on your physical, mental and emotional well being.  Yoyo dieting, fad dieting, rollercoaster dietary scientific findings and suggestions, fashion designers, corporations and the media play a huge role in our state of...

Do You Believe!? Or Do You Believe?

April 17, 2013 20:00 - 1 hour - 19.5 MB

Do you believe!?  Or do you believe? Or are you  just a believer?  How do you know that you believe?  Would you choose to live for your beliefs?  How do you know that that which you profess to believe in is real? I'm back on the power of belief again.  Join us as we, that's me Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley C.C  explore this dynamic subject.

When Wrong Is Really The Right Way

April 10, 2013 20:00 - 1 hour - 22.7 MB

Can you see the silver lining in the thunder cloud?  Sometimes in life it has to go all wrong so that life can set you on the right pathway.  Finding the good and being grateful for it the good in the bad situation can transform your life.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we explore the silver lining that enshrouds our lives.

You Are What You Eat?

April 03, 2013 20:00 - 1 hour - 24.1 MB

What if the old axiom "you are what you eat" is really true?"  Based on that fact alone, who are you.  This is something to ponder and discuss.  The spirituality of food and the multiple ways in which it can and will affect your life is nothing short of amazing.  Use food as a tool to support your mind body and spiritual connection and growth.   Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we talk about the hidden wonders of food.  

Angel Speake Reading

March 27, 2013 20:00 - 1 hour - 22.1 MB

Do you know how to communicate with your Angels?  Today, we are joined by Denise Stefan, an intuitive oracle reader and facilitator of Angelspeake.  Denise will be talking about her life her experiences and how they ultimately created the paradigm for her to be able to communicate with her Guardian Angel Claire.   Denise will discuss how she talks with her Angels, Masters and Spirit Guides.  She will also be conducting live mini oracle readings.  Denise says, “you will never feel alone and...

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