Someone once told me that I would know when I was done having kids. After each pregnancy, I still felt as if there were more to come. That is, until my fourth and last child was born. I held him in my arms in the hospital and looked at my husband. “That’s it! Can’t do that again!” Here are three things that helped me come to that realization: 1. Feeling outnumbered Being so outnumbered makes me often feel overwhelmed and out of control.