Parenting Today: A Look at Masculine and Feminine Dynamics

Why are we telling little boys to be “less aggressive”? Why are we encouraging young women to “not need a man”? And how as a parent can you navigate through these shifting gender norms?
In today’s episode, Albert and I explore the dynamics of masculinity and femininity, particularly in the context of parenting. We discuss how societal expectations for boys to be less assertive and for young women to assume multiple roles, including provider and protector, are shaping childhood development and adult relationships. We delve into the implications of these shifting gender norms, including the rise in adult loneliness and the challenges of navigating less defined relationships.
Key Moments
0:00 - Intro
1:04 - Defining masculine and feminine
4:43 - Thoughts on raising boys
7:45 - Why are we teaching boys to be less competitive, aggressive, or assertive?
15:20 - Adult loneliness is on the rise
17:30 - Rejection and chase are core components in relationship-building
22:50 - How you talk about your partner matters
25:02 - Advice for women who want a partner more successful than them
28:00 - What agreement are you in with your partner?
30:35 - Trust your gut and don’t let in the noise
38:14 - #1 Advice: Teach your kids not to fear losing
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Why are we telling little boys to be “less aggressive”? Why are we encouraging young women to “not need a man”? And how as a parent can you navigate through these shifting gender norms?

In today’s episode, Albert and I explore the dynamics of masculinity and femininity, particularly in the context of parenting. We discuss how societal expectations for boys to be less assertive and for young women to assume multiple roles, including provider and protector, are shaping childhood development and adult relationships. We delve into the implications of these shifting gender norms, including the rise in adult loneliness and the challenges of navigating less defined relationships.

0:00 - Intro

1:04 - Defining masculine and feminine

4:43 - Thoughts on raising boys

7:45 - Why are we teaching boys to be less competitive, aggressive, or assertive?

15:20 - Adult loneliness is on the rise

17:30 - Rejection and chase are core components in relationship-building

22:50 - How you talk about your partner matters

25:02 - Advice for women who want a partner more successful than them

28:00 - What agreement are you in with your partner?

30:35 - Trust your gut and don’t let in the noise

38:14 - #1 Advice: Teach your kids not to fear losing

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