Today I talk about the power of unity and standing strong. These past few weeks have been eye-opening and incredibly interesting as I've witnessed the couples we've worked with navigate the challenges we've guided them through. From the very beginning, my wife and I made a decision that we wouldn't face these battles alone but together. We adopted a mantra of sorts:

"We don't fight alone, we fight together. We don't go alone, we go together."

When we stand united, our home is filled with light, and we can rise above any adversity. But if we choose to fight alone and disengage from our marriage, darkness creeps in, dividing our house and jeopardizing everything we hold dear.

Each spouse blames the other for all their problems. The darkness that separates them prevents them from coming together in the light; instead, they remain divided.

If anyone claims their life is all rainbows and butterflies, beware. Stepping into their world will reveal the shallowness beneath the surface. Without a deep connection to faith and spirituality, someone lacking faith will struggle to fight back the darkness that tears their family apart. This message is different; it's a declaration of war. I'm not suggesting we create more conflict, but we need to realize that the true war is not against our spouse.

If you're listening to this and it resonates with you, consider this as a direct message from God. This is your moment, and if you let it slip away, it will be lost forever. Don't allow your family to be cursed by darkness, and don't let your spouse fight her battles alone. You must stand by her side. That's all I have for you today.

 

"It was pride that changed angels into devils; it is humility that makes men as angels." - St. Augustine

 

Blessings on your path, 

Rev. Benjamin Norman

 

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