028 - Sunday - Disconnected Man, Disconnected Life

Today, I want to talk about something that has been on my mind a lot lately, and I believe it's something many of us can relate to. You see, I've been reflecting on a powerful message from the Bible, specifically Matthew 15:13, which says, "Every plant my Heavenly Father has not planted will be pulled up by the roots."

As I've been working with my clients and the people I serve, one topic that keeps resurfacing is the struggle with connection, especially in marriages. It's something I've witnessed and experienced firsthand. You know, when you're carrying a heavy burden, facing challenges in your relationship, it can feel incredibly isolating. You find yourself longing for that deep connection you once had with your spouse, but it seems to have slipped away.

For many men I've worked with, this lack of connection extends beyond their marriages. They feel a disconnection within themselves, as if they're drifting through life without any real purpose or grounding. They try to fill the void with distractions, escaping from the pain and difficulties they're facing. Whether it's addiction, running away from their problems, or simply feeling lost and alone, they're desperately seeking a way to navigate through the darkness.

It becomes a recurring pattern. We were created in the image of God, with the Holy Spirit within us, but somehow we lose sight of that connection. It's like we're constantly pulled between two opposing forces, constantly dancing between light and dark, good and evil. We can't escape this contrast, and it affects every aspect of our lives.

So, if you're in a place where you feel disconnected, know that you're not alone. There is hope for restoration and renewed connection. It starts with acknowledging the need for change, seeking guidance, and embarking on a journey of self-discovery. As we uproot the negative patterns and false beliefs, we can open ourselves up to a deeper connection with God, ourselves, and our loved ones.

Remember, this journey is not about reaching a destination where everything is perfect. It's about embracing the contrast. We have the power to break the cycle and not pass on these limiting beliefs to future generations. It starts with us, stepping out of victimhood and embracing a willingness to explore and seek. You have a pathway forward, my friend.

"Faith is to believe what we do not see, and the reward of this faith is to see what we believe. - Saint Augustine

Blessings on your path, 

Rev. Benjamin Norman

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