Episode 295 is about surviving the dark hole in pursuit of our true purpose and happiness.


Sometimes when things are going so perfectly in our life, that’s the exact moment we feel lost. We get consumed by fame, power and money, thinking all of it should be enough, that it is all that we need — that we forget what it truly feels to LIVE. We start asking ourselves, is this all life has to offer?


Today, a former MLB baseball player and MLB all star, Shea Hillenbrand gets to share with us his journey towards the pursuit of his true purpose and happiness. He hid all of his childhood dreams and then realized that none of them were his actual dreams, that all he was doing was chasing the money, fame and the identity of his popularity to appease his ego. So in this episode, we are going to dig deep into our childhood traumas, face our fears, and surpass all the hurdles we thought only the grand things could solve, and we are going to do this together.


As Shea says, “Don’t miss the meat of the method: POWER and PERSPECTIVE,” so rediscover yourself with us. We provide support for men in all walks of life. Follow us at https://ianlobas.com/podcast/.




Quick Timestamps


00:04:43 IAN GOLD Shedding the Identity


00:06:25 Shea’s Back Story


00:07:26 Finding Your Safe Space


00:08:43 Creating My Story from What Happened


00:13:34 The Pain That Stays After the Achievement


00:16:05 Is This All Life Has to Offer? 


00:16:42 Having Everything Except Fulfillment


00:17:57 Leaving All Behind


00:20:44 When You Are Empty Inside


00:21:11 Ego Can’t Bring Sustainable Success


00:23:03 Using Drugs and Alcohol to Numb and Run


00:23:29 The Aha Moment


00:24:18 You Must Rescue Yourself


00:25:09 3 Most Powerful Decisions in Life


00:25:48 Getting Started


00:27:00 The Need to Go Back to Level 1


00:28:26 Who Will Stand Guard for Your Mind


00:30:45 The Anger Resentment Story


00:32:21 Only Reaching a Fraction of Your Potential


00:32:44 The Emotions of Our Stories


00:34:54 Pain Not Transformed Is Transmitted


36:48-37:31 IAN GOLD I


00:38:03 Why Parents Must Communicate With Their Kids


00:42:38 Vulnerability & Sharing Powerfully


00:46:24 Fear of Past Self


00:46:53 3 Pillars of Life: Personal, Private & Professional


00:48:41 Not Present So We Buy Presents


00:49:41 How Do You Act On the Results You Have


55:19-55:57 IAN GOLD II


00:58:09 Serve From Your Heart Not Your Ego




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