Episode 294 is about diving deep into the human experience.


When we deal with our emotions, especially when it comes to love, it’s helpful to identify our patterns. This could resolve a lot of issues when it comes to intimacy, traumas, and even grief. After all, the opposite of love is grief. You love somebody you can lose. That’s an unforgettable line we got from Dr. Thomas Jordan — whose clinical specialty is treating adults who are depressed and anxious about past or present unhealthy relationship experiences, people who are struggling with low self-esteem, feelings of loss, or an unhealthy love life.


Today, Dr. Thomas will be with us to talk about the psychology around love, and how you can change your love life by changing your psychology.


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Quick Timestamps:


00:01:09 Guest Intro & Background: Dr. Thomas Jordan


00:05:46 How Thomas Got Started


00:07:39 What You Need to Work On to Have a Great Relationship


00:09:08 What Love Is


00:10:00 Examples of Sabotage


00:14:25 Variation in Attraction


00:15:35 Consciousness Is the Key


00:16:48 Will Is a Decision That You Have to Act On 


00:18:42 The Differences in Women: Independence, Control, Intimacy


00:21:19 How the Psychology of a Person Affects Their Experience


00:22:51 Change Your Love Life by Changing Your Psychology 


00:23:39 Healthy and Unhealthy Attachment to Thoughts


00:26:28 The Idea You Could Be in Love and Not Get Hurt


00:31:21 Parentified Child


00:32:02 Sharing Your Emotions With Your Child


00:34:12 Starting the Journey of Self-Healing


00:34:42 The Greatest Gift You Can Give Your Kids


00:38:54 What Wakes People up From Old Patterns


00:39:59 Dealing With Loneliness


00:43:34 Stop Wasting Your Time


00:44:05 The Importance of Intimacy


00:46:49 Getting Trust Back in a Relationship


00:50:45 The Psychology of Caution and Paranoia


00:53:19 Letting Go of the Past


00:55:39 The Opposite of Love


00:58:03 Schools Should Teach Love and Grief




Connect with Guest (Relevant Links to be provided)


❤️ Website:https://lovelifelearningcenter.com/


📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lovelifelearningcenter/


📩 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drthomasjordan/


📚 Book: https://www.amazon.com/Learn-Love-Guide-Healing-Disappointing/dp/1543987877/ref=sr_1_1




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