Married Into Crazy with Snooks and Lovey
268 episodes - English - Latest episode: 3 days ago - ★★★★★ - 47 ratings"Marriage Coaching for Love, Laughter, and Overcoming Adversity" - We met on a blind date and when we got engaged 4 months later, my heart was pierced...not by Cupid's arrow, but by a serrated steak knife and that's when our journey began. That's when we realized we both Married Into Crazy! We are just Real Folk sharing real talk about Love and Life while occasionally tackling a few taboos, stereotypes, and misconceptions confronting the institution of marriage (and relationships at large). Though we can't speak for everyone, we can offer our unique perspective. If you've ever wanted to be a fly on the wall and listen to another married couple’s random conversations, stick around and get your "ear hustle" on with a couple that truly Married Into Crazy!!!
Homepage Apple Podcasts Google Podcasts Overcast Castro Pocket Casts RSS feed
Episodes
Ep. 113 - Did you Vote For Your Marriage? #MIC
November 04, 2020 09:00 - 40 minutes - 75.7 MBDid you Vote for your Marriage? Do you vote for it every year, month, day? We campaign hard to win the election of love, but do we follow through on the promises we made to get that all important vote? All of that and more on this episode. TEXT questions, comments, and suggestions to us at 918-351-2799. Also, REGISTER for the November 28th LIVE Workshop on Zoom at https://webinar.marriedintocrazy.com/Workshop
Ep. 112 - Convenience and Marriage Don't Live on the Same Block #MIC
October 28, 2020 08:00 - 55 minutes - 104 MBThere is absolutely nothing convenient about Marriage. Convenience and Marriage don't kick it together, visit the same hang outs, or listen to the same music. One is about the quick fix and the other is about enduring happiness. Tune in and join the conversation. Also, Register for the Free MIC Communication Workshop scheduled for 10/31/20 at https://webinar.marriedintocrazy.com/Workshop
Ep. 111 - Is Your Marriage F.I.N.E.? #MIC
October 21, 2020 08:00 - 53 minutes - 99.7 MBWhen your spouse says "I'm fine" when you ask what's wrong....there's a small window of time to run and hide. Snooks and Lovey continue the previous conversation about establishing boundaries in your marriage. The earlier, the better. Be sure to register for the Free Marriage Communication Workshop being held via Zoom on 10/31/20 at https://webinar.marriedintocrazy.com/Workshop
Ep. 110 - This One's For The Single Folks #MIC
October 14, 2020 08:00 - 57 minutes - 107 MBThis discussion quickly morphed from one about boundaries to the differences between being single and dating and Married and cheating. Snooks and Lovey are going to need some Single help to continue this conversation. If you want to join the upcoming panel, text 918-351-2799. Register for the FREE webinar and Communication Workshop at https://webinar.marriedintocrazy.com/5-Star
Ep. 109 - 5 Keys To A Successful Marriage
October 07, 2020 08:00 - 59 minutes - 110 MBSnooks and Lovey review an article that's titled "The 5 Keys To A Successful Marriage" and add a little spin here and there. There's a special announcement and, as always, Love, Laughter, and Whole Lot of Love. Be sure to register for the FREE Webinar and FREE LIVE WORKSHOP held on October 31st at https://webinar.marriedintocrazy.com/5-Star
Ep. 108 - Interview with Joel and Tina Kibble (The Koala Chronicles)
September 30, 2020 08:00 - 1 hour - 214 MBHow does a touring, multi Grammy Award winning member of the musical group, Take 6, and a fiery, seasoned Project Management Professionalnavigate being home together in these CRAZY times? Joel and Tina Kibble share that and so much more in this entertaining and delightful conversation with Snooks and Lovey. Sit back, enjoy the conversation and share with everyone. Also, don't forget to check out our free webinar and sign up for the MIC Communication Workshop at https://webinar.marriedintocra...
Ep. 107 - He's Wrong and He Knows It #MIC
September 23, 2020 08:00 - 54 minutes - 101 MBIn this episode, Lovey admits he was being a "man baby" earlier in the week. The good news is their nightly pickle ball workout was more intense than usual. Snooks also take time to explain the difference between aggressive and assertive communication. Order your copy of "Sistah Knit" by R. L. Chisolm at https://www.amazon.com/Sistah-Knit-R-L-Chisolm/dp/B08F65S2XX/ref=sr_1_2?crid=35OH3MUWBKNZD&dchild=1&keywords=sistah+knit+by+r.l+chisolm&qid=1600835966&sprefix=sister%2Caps%2C197&sr=8-2
Ep. 106 - Fixed or Growth Mindset
September 16, 2020 08:00 - 52 minutes - 97.4 MBDo you have a Fixed or Growth Mindset when it comes to your marriage or relationship? This hot topic will determine the health of your relationship so pull up a chair and join the conversation. Register for the Free 5 Star Marriage Webinar by going to www.MarriedIntoCrazy.com and clicking the orange button.
Ep. 105 - Trust or Bust
September 09, 2020 08:00 - 56 minutes - 108 MBDo you and your spouse know each other's passwords for phones, social media, etc? Is it a big deal or a deal breaker? A listener sent in a challenging question and we tackle it in typical Snooks and Lovey style. Register for our Free, On Demand Webinar at www.MarriedIntoCrazy.com and then join us for the MIC Communication Workshop by clicking here: https://webinar.marriedintocrazy.com/Workshop
Ep. 104 - Wakanda Icon Are you?
September 02, 2020 08:00 - 56 minutes - 108 MBRest In Power, Chadwick Boseman! We honor Mr. Boseman by reflecting on lessons gleaned from the manner in which (we perceive) he lived his life. Become an Icon in your relationship by viewing the Free Webinar at https://webinar.marriedintocrazy.com/5-Star
Ep. 103 - Crucial Expectations
August 26, 2020 08:00 - 1 hour - 115 MBWhat expectations do you have for your relationship. The wrong ones can be devastating! Snooks and Lovey discuss Crucial Expectations for Marriage Success and a few that will cause major damage. Be sure to register for the webinar and workshop at www.MarriedIntoCrazy.com
Ep. 102 - Top 10 Reasons to NOT get Married
August 19, 2020 08:00 - 1 hour - 115 MBThe #1 Podcast for Couples that Married Into Crazy discusses the Top 10 Reasons to NOT get Married based on an excerpt from "The Purpose and Power of Love & Marriage" by Myles Munroe. It's a fun, lighthearted look at some serious subject matter. Check out our FREE 5 Star Marriage Webinar https://webinar.marriedintocrazy.com/5-Star
Ep. 101 - A United Front
August 12, 2020 08:00 - 53 minutes - 102 MBSnooks and Lovey address a question from the MIC Text Community (918-351-2799) that came in this week. How do you stay united when your kids can potentially drive you apart. This was a loaded question and quite timely based a recent development in the MIC household. Also, check out the FREE (on demand) Webinar and Self Audit Tool at www.MarriedIntoCrazy.com. As always, we observe 8 minutes and 46 seconds of silence at the end of the podcast to reflect on how we can be better neighbors within...
Ep. 100 - Born Into CRAZY
August 05, 2020 08:00 - 51 minutes - 95.1 MBWoohoooo! Our One Hundredth Episode is a Family Affair! The C.R.A.Z.Y. Kids get to interview their parents and celebrate marriage from a different angle. Text us at 918-351-2799 to share your feedback.
Ep. 99 - Zombies, Monsters, and Marriage
July 29, 2020 08:00 - 54 minutes - 100 MBThe fictional monsters in movies present quite real in our marriages. We've all faced zombies, vampires, mummies, werewolves, and frankenstein's monster if we're being honest. Listen and text our Irontribe Text Community at 918-351-2799(CRZY) and let us know what monsters have been around your marriage. Also, be sure to vote Team Snooks or Team Lovey. Lastly, be sure to visit www.PrettyWomenPrayNotPrey.com to learn how you can enlighten, inspire, and illuminate these young women.
Ep. 98 - Change Your Zipcode
July 22, 2020 08:00 - 55 minutes - 101 MBSnooks and Lovey draw some interesting comparisons between where you live and where you love! Treat your Marriage or relationship like real estate. The most important thing is location, location, location. Change your zip code when its time to go from average to good or good to great. Also, sign up for the Free MIC Communication Webinar on 7/25/20 at bit.ly/crazyfabk
Ep. 97 - Bury The Dead
July 15, 2020 08:00 - 56 minutes - 104 MBDo you live in the present among the living or are you spending too much time in the past (among the dead)? Your past can't be affected by what you do now, so it's dead. We go deep on focusing on where we are going with our relationships instead of dwelling on where we've been (good or bad)! Join us every week and in the MIC Communication Workshop found at www.MarriedIntoCrazy.com/coaching
Ep. 96 - Keeping The Fire Lit
July 08, 2020 08:00 - 48 minutes - 88.7 MBA loyal listener in France asks how we keep our fire lit after being married for almost 24 years. The discussion is serious, lighthearted, and full of nuggets that we hop others can use and learn from. Don't forget to visit marriedintocrazy.com/coaching to register for the Free MIC Communication webinar/workshop on July 25th. We observe 8:46 minutes of silence at the end of each podcast for time to reflect on how we can positively impact our communities.
Ep. 95 - The Bank of US
July 01, 2020 13:31 - 53 minutes - 97.3 MBWhere are you investing your Love Currency? Have you ever thought about the deposits and withdrawals you make daily in your marriages and relationships? Don't get caught with insufficient Love funds. Make daily or weekly deposits with the I CAN Can for Couples found exclusively at MarriedIntoCrazy.com
Ep. 94 - Stop, Yield, and Merge
June 24, 2020 08:00 - 56 minutes - 103 MBThe signs of a relationship going bad are all over the place if you take the time to read them. Snooks and Lovey discuss how Lovey misread or avoided all the signs until the head on collision with divorce was inevitable. Join us at the end of the podcast for 8 minutes and 46 seconds of silence.
Ep. 93 - Opposites Attract
June 17, 2020 08:00 - 53 minutes - 97.8 MBWhat makes a good couple? Do we need to completely into what our partners are doing, or is it better if we are complete opposites? This topic stems from last week's 5 Myths episode and begs to be addressed. Let us know your thoughts at MarriedIntoCrazy.com
Ep. 92 - The 5 Myths of Marriage
June 10, 2020 08:00 - 59 minutes - 110 MBSnooks shares a conversation she had with some ladies and sparks a dive into the The 5 Myths of Marriage. Entertaining to say the least. We also invite our listeners to observe 8:46 minutes of silence in observance of George Floyd's senseless murder.
Ep. 91 - It's Still Your Season
June 03, 2020 08:00 - 43 minutes - 79.4 MBAfter addressing the civil unrest across the land, Snooks and Lovey discuss why It's Still Your Season even in the midst of chaos and adversity. Get Exclusive MIC Gear here: https://teespring.com/gold-ring-
Ep. 90 - The Covid Couple Recap
May 27, 2020 08:00 - 44 minutes - 81.5 MBEvery adversity has a silver lining and the pandemic of 2020 is no different. We discuss some of the underlying themes and lessons learned from the amazing couples highlighted in the Covid Couple Series. If you want to participate in the the Married Into Crazy Online Communication Workshop on 5/30/20, go to www.MarriedIntoCrazy.com/coaching and register for the workshop. Registration includes access to our Extreme Execution DISC Assessment.
Ep. 89 - The COVID Couple Series, The Haynes
May 20, 2020 08:00 - 1 hour - 123 MBWe close out the COVID Couple Series with Aaron & Kara Haynes. They make the average long distance relationship look like "Shelter in Place". Love, Laughter, and Overcoming Adversity has been a way of life for this young couple and we can't wait for you to meet them. Be sure to visit MarriedIntoCrazy.com/Coaching to learn about the many ways we help couples and individuals be the best version of themselves.
Ep. 88 - The COVID Couple Series, The Kinseys
May 13, 2020 08:00 - 1 hour - 130 MBEveryone's story is as unique as their fingerprint, and the Kinseys are a prime example. Their story is one of Redemption, Perseverance, Joy, and Pain. There's something for everyone in our 4th installment within the series. Be sure to visit www.MarriedIntoCrazy.com to get your Crazy Gear and I CAN Can for Couples.
Ep. 87 - The COVID Couple Series, The Hurlings
May 06, 2020 08:00 - 1 hour - 118 MBWe are so excited to introduce everyone to The Hurlings. Better known to the Youtube World as Snappa and CBOW, this couple has developed quite the following for their hilarious Reaction Videos. We learn about them as a couple and how they travelled across the country to finally discover themselves.
Ep. 86 - The COVID Couple Series, The Taylors
April 29, 2020 08:00 - 1 hour - 158 MBThe 2nd Installment of The Covid Couple Series introduces Derrick and Aisha Taylor, a pair of talented health care professionals whose Love Story began in college. 3 children, 1 fur baby, and whole lot of prayer and dedication keeps this couple grounded during this pandemic season.
Ep. 85 - The COVID Couple Series, The McDaniels
April 22, 2020 08:00 - 1 hour - 159 MBThe times we live in are unprecedented, but if you look around you will find Extraordinary examples of Love & Leadership like Montay and Arrickia McDaniels. We highlight this humorous, deeply spiritual, and dedicated couple in our first installment of the COVID Couple Series.
Ep. 84 - The Marriage Audit
April 15, 2020 08:00 - 39 minutes - 72.9 MBIt's Tax Season and everyone wants to avoid getting audited. Well, we want you to get audited...by yourself. Snooks and Lovey introduce The Relationship Audit "Freebie" on their website www.MarriedIntoCrazy.com . We also remind everyone about the Domestic Violence Hotline and Suicide Prevention Helpline numbers to help those in need during the Shelter In Place.
Ep. 83 - Don't Wait For The Dummy Lights
April 08, 2020 08:00 - 37 minutes - 69.2 MBAre you a person that waits for the dummy lights to come on or do you follow the schedule for your routine maintenance on your car? What about your relationship? Snooks goes in about making sure your don't end up on the side of the relationship road waiting to be rescued.
Ep. 82 - Don't Blame It On the Rona
April 01, 2020 08:00 - 42 minutes - 77.7 MBAll the issues at home right now can't be blamed on the "Rona". Snooks and Lovey dive in on what the real challenges might be as they share some of their challenges dealing with 'Rona.
Ep 81 - Back to Basics
March 25, 2020 08:00 - 35 minutes - 65.4 MBEveryone is stuck indoors in an effort to "flatten the curve" of the coronavirus. That means it's a perfect time to get Back to Basics and rekindle a few fires at home. Snooks and Lovey share some ideas for reconnecting and rediscovering each other during your surprise Staycation.
Ep. 80 - T.H.I.N.K.
March 18, 2020 08:00 - 39 minutes - 72.3 MBThere's a lot of tension in the world right now. If we take a moment and ensure we T.H.I.N.K. before we respond to our spouses, neighbors, kids, family, and co-workers everything will be O.K.
Ep. 79 - International Women's Day Tribute
March 11, 2020 08:00 - 44 minutes - 81.3 MBSnooks and Lovey pay tribute to International Women's Day by discussing the women that shaped how they model their marriage.
Ep. 78 - Marriage of Clay
March 04, 2020 06:19 - 36 minutes - 66.7 MBHave you ever felt like your relationship is getting stretched, pulled, punched, kneaded, poked, and under intense heat? Thats usually what happens when a work of art is being sculpted from clay. In order for our relationships to become Masterpieces, they need to be molded like clay. Join us for the conversation.
Ep. 77 - The Blob
February 26, 2020 09:00 - 44 minutes - 82.2 MBHow do you deal with uncomfortable situations or issues? Do you sweep them under the rug or confront them head on? We share some of our early challenges and discuss how to "rip the bandaid off".
Ep. 76 - The Funk, The Whole Funk, And Nothing But The Funk
February 19, 2020 09:00 - 41 minutes - 77.1 MBSometimes each of us bring a funk into the relationship. At that point our counterpart can match that funk or create a new and better energy. This podcast is about the funk, the whole funk, and nothing but the funk... and a few suggestions to change it.
Ep. 75 - Corduroys, Afros, and Valentines
February 12, 2020 09:00 - 45 minutes - 84.2 MBSnooks and Lovey go WAYYYY down memory lane to Lovey's Valentine Trauma from his youth. Then they fast forward to this past weekend's speaking engagement. Good Laughs for Valentine's week.
Ep. 74 - What's Your Motivation?
February 05, 2020 09:00 - 32 minutes - 60.1 MBEveryone has different motivators for different stages and things in their lives. What's the motivation driving your relationship? Snooks and Lovey dive into the 3 main motivators that drive most decisions. Visit www.MarriedIntoCrazy.com/shop get your I CAN Can for Couples.
Ep. 73 - The Vows are The Grind
January 29, 2020 09:00 - 39 minutes - 72.3 MBHow many of us remember our Wedding Vows? Do you commit to them every day like you do to the rules of the sport you play or the traditions and expectations of work? Snooks and Lovey go hard in the paint on this topic while also paying tribute to Kobe's Mamba Mentality toward Marriage. Do you have the tools you need to improve your Marriage Grind? Learn more at www.MarriedIntoCrazy.com/coaching
Ep. 72 - DiSCovering The Keys to Communication
January 22, 2020 09:00 - 35 minutes - 65.6 MBSnooks and Lovey DiSCover how many facets of their lives are positively impacted by using DISC. Whether it's Volleyball , casual conversations, raising kids, or dealing with each other, knowing DISC makes communicating easier. Learn more at www.MarriedIntoCrazy.com/coaching
Ep, 71 - As Ready As I'm Gonna Be
January 15, 2020 09:00 - 39 minutes - 72.4 MBSnooks speaks to a situation she recently encountered regarding the Iron Tribe. Lovey nerds out with Newton's Law of Marriage (he made that up) and that's just where the conversation begins. Be sure to visit MarriedIntoCrazy.com to learn more about the MIC Coaching Program or to get your own I CAN Can for Couples.
Ep. 70 - Gender Bender
January 08, 2020 09:00 - 50 minutes - 93.1 MBWho said he is supposed to mow the lawn and she is supposed to cook dinner? When and who established these rules and roles? Snooks challenges the gender roles placed on us by society by calling Lovey out...just a little. Enjoy the podcast and stop by MarriedIntoCrazy.com/coaching to learn why you must take the Assessment to have your best year ever.
Ep. 69 - Rent or Own Your Relationship?
January 01, 2020 09:00 - 44 minutes - 82.5 MBHappy New Year! There's a distinct difference between owning and renting. We see it in vehicles, homes, and equipment. But what about relationships? Is there a difference here, too? We start the year off with a head scratcher..... Visit www.MarriedIntoCrazy.com to learn more about our coaching and consultations.
Ep. 68 - The AND Proposition
December 25, 2019 09:00 - 27 minutes - 50.2 MB"&" is way of life for us at Married Into Crazy. We struggled early on to grasp the AND mindset of marriage versus the "single" way of thinking. A healthy marriage is always an AND proposition and never and OR. Visit www.marriedintocrazy.com/coaching to take advantage of the year end sale.
Ep. 67 - Happy Meetaversary
December 18, 2019 09:00 - 46 minutes - 84.5 MBWhat do you call the anniversary of when you and your spouse met? Happy Meetaversary, of course! 24 years to the day of this recording and we tie in our early conversations to the future of our marriage. Do you have a vision for where your marriage is going. If not, take notes and let us know how your planning is coming along. MIC Assessment with Consultation price is reduced for the remainder of 2019. Visit the Coaching tab at www.MarriedIntoCrazy.com
Ep. 66 - Don't be a Bitter Quitter
December 11, 2019 09:00 - 48 minutes - 89.4 MBLovey returns from an Intense Weekend with some of the Top Extreme Execution Coaches in the world and Snooks reflects on the anatomy of a Quitter. The discussion about using the DISC Assessment to help with personal transformation intensifies. Visit www.MarriedIntoCrazy.com to take your assessment.
Ep. 65 - Unconditional Love with Ray and Fatai Langi
December 04, 2019 09:00 - 1 hour - 160 MBWe are so excited to share the story of Ray and Fatai Langi and their "Labor of Unconditional Love". Enjoy this incredible testament about love, sacrifice, adversity, and growth. Get your personal copy of Fatai's book at www.LaborOfUnconditionalLove.com
Ep. 64 - To Whom Much is Given...
November 27, 2019 09:00 - 36 minutes - 66.5 MBHappy Season of Giving Thanks. Snooks and Lovey reflect on the phrase, "To Whom Much is Given, Much is Expected," as they discuss the changing dynamics within the house. Also, don't forget about the 40% Black Friday Savings using code "Thankful" at www.MarriedIntoCrazy.com now through December 2nd.