Married A.F.
57 episodes - English - Latest episode: 6 days ago - ★★★★★ - 9 ratingsMarried A.F. (As Followers) takes a real and fun approach about all relationships from the viewpoint of a follower of Jesus. We will discuss all relationships, marriage, dating, friends, family, work, etc. There is no conversation that is off the table.
Homepage Apple Podcasts Google Podcasts Overcast Castro Pocket Casts RSS feed
Episodes
Flat Earth Husband
July 09, 2024 10:00 - 30 minutes - 20.7 MBSend us a Text Message. Ever wondered if conspiracy theories could tear a marriage apart? We share a heartfelt story of a wife struggling with her husband's flat earth beliefs, which have only intensified during the COVID-19 pandemic. As we navigate the complexities of dealing with a spouse’s extreme views, we examine whether such convictions are grounds for divorce from a biblical perspective. Plus, we lighten the mood with some nostalgic chatter about classic wrestling figures like Razor ...
Sex with Another Man
July 02, 2024 10:00 - 32 minutes - 22 MBSend us a Text Message. Ever found yourself haunted by past flames even while in a happy marriage? We dissect a real-life scenario where a newly married woman grapples with lingering emotions for a former friend with benefits, and how social media stirs the pot of jealousy and unresolved feelings. Should she come clean to her husband? We debate the pros and cons and give you actionable advice on fortifying your marital bond. Lastly, we stress the often overlooked yet crucial element of pers...
Cussing Kids
June 25, 2024 10:00 - 34 minutes - 23.8 MBSend us a Text Message. Trust and boundaries in marriage can be incredibly complex, especially when business and personal lives intertwine. This episode uncovers the subtle but significant difference between friendly behavior and actions that might erode trust. We emphasize the importance of open communication and discuss the controversial approach of giving a taste of one's own medicine. As we debate the idea of more drastic measures like firing an employee to resolve marital tensions, we ...
Seeking Advice
June 11, 2024 10:00 - 37 minutes - 26 MBSend us a Text Message. We share some thrilling news about our podcast's rapid growth—over 20,000 downloads and listeners spanning 36 countries and 713 cities! Can you guess which city has the highest number of our listeners? In our next segment, we dive deep into the heart of relationship struggles and communication issues. Listen to the powerful narrative of a husband feeling overwhelmed by household responsibilities and childcare, while his wife battles depression. We stress the critica...
Are Men Useless?
June 04, 2024 10:00 - 33 minutes - 22.7 MBSend us a Text Message. Are men becoming obsolete? This provocative question fuels our heated debate on gender roles and societal perceptions. Using a clip from “The View,” we dissect various opinions on the value of men and women in modern society. We examine how both genders excel in different ways, making each indispensable. Our conversation covers societal expectations, marital dynamics, and the indispensable role of community and friendships in sustaining long-term relationships. Ima...
Don't Do This...
May 28, 2024 10:00 - 25 minutes - 17.8 MBSend us a Text Message. Have you ever sat across from someone and wondered, "Is this the pinnacle of togetherness, or are we just ticking societal checkboxes?" Well, buckle up, because Matthew and I are ripping the lid off the marriage box in this unfiltered episode. As young adults increasingly question the institution's relevance, we're tossing in our own stories—from our son's dreams on the baseball diamond to the everyday hilarity that keeps our partnership afloat. Prepare to navigate t...
Why Can't We Be Friends???!!!
May 21, 2024 10:00 - 27 minutes - 18.7 MBSend us a Text Message. Buckle up as we mark our 51st flight through the podcasting universe, navigating through tumultuous debates on whether marriage has lost its sheen among millennials. With a dash of humor, we dissect the everyday oddities that bind us, like the dreaded post-meal teeth check or the silent gym selfie culture. We're peeling back layers of societal expectations, unearthing the roots of marital skepticism, and pondering if the promise of 'forever' is as enticing as it once...
Why We Don't Get Married
April 30, 2024 10:00 - 33 minutes - 22.8 MBSend us a Text Message. As we peel back the layers of modern relationship dynamics, one man's tale of open marriage regret becomes our springboard into the deeper waters of love, attraction, and the unforeseen complexities they bring into our lives. We pour over your comments, deep-diving into the quagmire of workplace crushes and the steps we can take to fan the flames of attraction within our own marriages. Our personal stories serve as a beacon of understanding, guiding us through the mu...
Nurturing the Unique Passions of Our Children
April 16, 2024 10:00 - 32 minutes - 22.6 MBSend us a Text Message. With a blend of humor and heartfelt discussion, we share a snapshot of our own life as Monica mends from oral surgery, bravely battling the world of soft foods, while also rejoicing in Cody Rhodes's epic victory at WrestleMania. And for those of you who've ever scratched your heads at the frenzy over solar eclipses, we're right there with you, wondering why a few minutes of celestial shadow play seem to turn the world upside down. Ever witnessed the intense gaze of ...
My Spouse was on Tinder!!!???
April 02, 2024 10:00 - 35 minutes - 24.5 MBSend us a Text Message. Buckle up as we venture into the bedroom—where the heart meets the heat. We're candidly discussing the challenges that can arise after infidelity shakes the foundations of a relationship. With a mix of personal stories and listener contributions, we're diving into the nitty-gritty of maintaining intimacy, harmonizing mismatched desires, and—most importantly—the art of forgiveness. It's a fine balancing act between humor and depth, as we navigate the waters of sexual ...
Jealous Much
March 19, 2024 10:00 - 38 minutes - 26.5 MBSend us a Text Message. Have we slapped an expiration date on the institution of marriage without even realizing it? Tackling the weighty question of matrimonial relevance, this episode wades into the perspectives of young adults who label marriage as passé and scrutinizes the significance of lifelong vows amidst the backdrop of soaring divorce rates. As your hosts, we don't shy away from the tough topics. We return from a week-long hiatus, a sabbatical spent nurturing our own marital bonds...
Money Troubles...Only Fans isn't the Answer
March 05, 2024 11:00 - 41 minutes - 28.3 MBSend us a Text Message. It's one thing to manage your money, but it's another to manage it together. Stick with us as we tackle the gritty, often avoided conversations about fiscal stress and how faith can shine a light in the darkest of times. We're not just talking dollars and cents. We're talking about what it means to be wealthy in love and life. Discover how our own journey through unexpected expenses, and the need to differentiate wants from needs, has strengthened our bond and our be...
Bumpin' Uglies
February 27, 2024 11:00 - 32 minutes - 22.3 MBSend us a Text Message. Join us as we unpack new research pointing to a generational shift in mindset, and share our heartfelt thanks to you, our listeners, from every corner of the globe—from the buzzing streets of Los Angeles to the sun-kissed shores of Miami. Your voices and stories fuel our passion, and for that, we're eternally grateful. Let's strip back the layers of intimacy, peeling away the physical to reveal the beating heart of communication that defines it. We're here to trade ...
Situationships & Body Counts
February 20, 2024 11:00 - 31 minutes - 21.9 MBSend us a Text Message. Amidst the bloom of bouquets and Valentine's Day blitz, we're stepping out to question if society's grand romantic gestures are overshadowing the true essence of lasting partnerships. As we navigate through the maze of modern dating, from the adrenaline rush of the first crush to the sobering moment of a breakup text, our discussion lays bare the humor and humanity of seeking connection in the digital age. Sharing our personal misadventures and triumphs, we uncover ...
Waiting Sucks, The Gen Z Bible, and Theo Epstein's Return
February 06, 2024 11:00 - 30 minutes - 21 MBSend us a Text Message. I can't contain my enthusiasm as we discuss the return of Theo Epstein to the Red Sox and the fresh hope he brings to our beloved team. The story of Joseph has always been a testament to patience and perseverance, but its relevance hits home as we draw parallels with our own relational sojourn. We muse over the enduring virtues that saw us through trials and tribulations, and the profound influence of these qualities on realizing our dreams. Our reflections extend ...
Marriage Debates, YouTube Dreams, and the Art of Self-Care
January 23, 2024 11:00 - 35 minutes - 24.2 MBSend us a Text Message. Let's talk about the secret sauce to any robust relationship—taking care of yourself. We're getting real about the sweaty tales from the gym and the quirkiness of our mutual grooming sessions (nose hairs, be gone!). Discover how staying fit together isn't just about chiseled abs but forging an ironclad partnership that thrives through pandemics and life's curveballs. We're getting into the nitty-gritty of how a little discomfort during a workout or a skincare regimen...
How Bad Has It Gotten
January 16, 2024 11:00 - 32 minutes - 22.4 MBSend us a Text Message. We take a raw and humorous look at the complexities of marriage, serving up our truths alongside a side of laughter, as we unpack what it means to be hitched in the modern age. Now, don't think we've skipped over the bread and butter of married life—the daily grind, the quirks of growing older together, and the surprises that life tosses your way like confetti. From entertaining tales of "fat eyelids" to the less giggly reality of communication breakdowns, we tackle...
What Do You Expect?
December 19, 2023 11:00 - 34 minutes - 24 MBSend us a Text Message. Ever imagined what it's like to break free from the daily grind and jet off to Hawaii with your partner? Well, buckle up because that's exactly what we're doing! After 15 years of marriage, my wife Monica and I, Matthew, are set to embark on an adventure that includes surfing, volcano exploration and much more! But this episode isn’t just about our exotic plans, we also take a moment to celebrate the success of our podcast. Thanks to you, dear listeners, we've seen a...
Freaking Laugh Already!
December 12, 2023 11:00 - 41 minutes - 28.8 MBSend us a Text Message. Imagine being married for 20 years, still sharing laughter and playful touches as if you're back in high school. That's our reality, and we want to share with you how we keep our marriage fun and vibrant. We've learned through our personal experiences that laughter truly is the best medicine. Even when we faced a pushy salesperson, we found humor in the situation and it brought us closer. Have you ever felt the pressure to be perfect? You're not alone. We discuss ...
Overcoming Jealousy in Relationships
December 05, 2023 11:00 - 36 minutes - 24.9 MBSend us a Text Message. Have you ever considered how jealousy works in relationships and marriages? We'll be stripping this complex emotion down to its bare bones, sharing personal anecdotes that expose the reasons behind jealousy, from lack of self-confidence and feelings of inadequacy to the fear of losing one's partner. You'll hear how we've navigated the murky waters of jealousy in our relationship, even laughing at the absurdity of celebrity crushes and their impact on relationships. I...
The Art of Vacationing
November 14, 2023 11:00 - 33 minutes - 22.8 MBSend us a Text Message. Vacations, those magical times that create memories for a lifetime. Do you ever wonder what makes them memorable? Is it the people we journey with, the meticulously planned itinerary, or the thrill of last-minute adventures? Join our discussion where we delve into the heart of this matter. We also share our perspectives on the intriguing spectrum of vacation styles - each unique and potentially life-altering. From our experiences, we also take a closer look at the su...
Q&A: Another Round
November 07, 2023 11:00 - 37 minutes - 25.6 MBSend us a Text Message. Does your marriage seem more like a series of negotiations than a sacred union? Are you losing sleep over home safety or the pressure of parenthood? Join us as we unravel the complexities of modern relationships and discuss how to navigate them with grace and understanding. We promise that by the end of this episode, you'll have fresh insights and practical advice to help you find balance and fulfillment in your marriage. Remember when marriage was less about the we...
Q&A: We Have Thoughts!
October 31, 2023 10:00 - 37 minutes - 26.1 MBSend us a Text Message. Think back to your first roller coaster ride - the anticipation, the thrill, the exhilaration. That’s where we are taking you in today's episode, as we navigate the roller coaster journey of modern relationships and adventure. We're peeling back the layers on the enigma of declining marriage rates and sharing one listener's deeply personal struggle with a 15-year marriage, strained by anger and controlling behavior. Remember that breathtaking leap of faith you took ...
Your Kid Isn't Going Pro...Sorry!
October 24, 2023 10:00 - 33 minutes - 23.3 MBSend us a Text Message. Our latest adventure had us packing up our bags and heading out to Los Angeles, where we walked through the sets of Friends at the Warner Brothers studio, made our daughter's day with Barbie props, and ended up at a Laker game out of the blue. But amidst all the fun, we found ourselves reflecting on the beautiful complexity of family life, the highs and lows of marriage, and the impact sports has on all of it. Our son Cash's love for baseball gets its well-deserved...
The Sex Menu: Candid Conversations on Sex
October 03, 2023 05:00 - 43 minutes - 30 MBSend us a Text Message. What if we told you that openly discussing the delicate topic of sex could be the key to a thriving marriage? In our latest podcast episode, we pull back the covers on this often-taboo subject. We'll first dive into the surprising statistics around dwindling satisfaction in our sex lives. Unraveling the fear many couples harbor around expressing their sexual needs, we provide insights on how to initiate these crucial conversations. We delve into a fascinating study ...
True Resilience: Overcoming a Health Scare
September 26, 2023 06:00 - 41 minutes - 28.7 MBSend us a Text Message. What if your marital bond was tested with a potential life-altering health diagnosis? What if the joy of a newborn was overshadowed by a shocking revelation of cervical cancer? As a couple, we faced this harrowing ordeal, and we are here to share our journey with you. This episode is a candid narrative of our challenging journey. The diagnosis led to a hysterectomy, a surgery that left Monica grappling with immense pain and a recovery period that was longer than we ...
Exploring Secrets, Honesty, and Communication in Relationships
September 19, 2023 05:00 - 39 minutes - 27 MBSend us a Text Message. Ever wonder why your partner didn't reveal something about their past until much further into the relationship? Or why marriages seem to be an outdated concept for many young adults? Well, you're not alone. Join us in this enlightening conversation as we unravel the mysteries of secrets, honesty, and communication in relationships. We kick off the discussion with a personal anecdote about a unique anniversary surprise – a hidden secret that landed Matthew on the show...
Season 3 Trailer
September 05, 2023 00:00 - 6 minutes - 4.53 MBSend us a Text Message. Season 3 is here! New Episodes coming September 18th
I Knew It Was Over When...
April 25, 2023 18:00 - 37 minutes - 25.7 MBSend us a Text Message. We discuss some of the top reasons and moments when people realized when their marriage was over.
Advice From Married People To Unmarried People
April 03, 2023 05:00 - 39 minutes - 26.8 MBSend us a Text Message. We discuss an article where married people give advice to people who have yet to get married. We picked the highlights that are really great advice for not just people who are not yet married, but even those who are married can take a look at their relationship and begin to put this into practice.
I Love You...But I Don't Want To Sleep With You!
March 21, 2023 23:00 - 43 minutes - 30.1 MBSend us a Text Message. We are discussing a new trend of spouse's who no longer sleep with each other. Giving various reasons for more alone time, not having their late night scrolling interrupted, and better sleep...we aren't buying it.
Secrets Married Men Are Keeping From Their Wives - Part 2
March 06, 2023 06:00 - 26 minutes - 18.1 MBSend us a Text Message. We are continuing our conversation of the secrets married men are keeping from their wives. We talk double lives, money, lies, and a whole lot of cheating between these couples.
Secrets Married Men Are Keeping From Their Wives - Part 1
February 20, 2023 06:00 - 23 minutes - 15.9 MBSend us a Text Message. This is part one of a conversation we had on an article where men shared the secrets they have been keeping from their wives. There are double lives, affairs, lies, sheltering feelings, threesomes, and all sorts of chaos to discuss. One thing we can learn, secret secrets are no fun, secret secrets hurt someone...
Trampolines Can Cause Divorce
January 02, 2023 06:00 - 37 minutes - 26 MBSend us a Text Message. If we had to put together a trampoline, in below freezing temperatures, on Christmas Eve, late a night...we realized it wouldn't end well. Everyone that has kids has experienced this high level stressful moment. Why does this always seem to happen? We dive into those reasons and why men especially are not allowed to have emotions. What would it look like if we just admitted we don't have all the answers and instead consulted the instructions for everything we encount...
Is Submission a Bad Word?
December 12, 2022 06:00 - 38 minutes - 26.7 MBSend us a Text Message. How difficult is it to forgive each other? How difficult is it to forgive yourself? Today we discuss grace in your marriage. Men, how are your wives suppose to submit to you as the bible instructs if you will not submit to Jesus first...simple answer, they can't. We talk about the importance and impact full submission to Jesus will have not just in your marriage but your life.
Microwaveable Relationships
October 17, 2022 05:00 - 38 minutes - 26.5 MBSend us a Text Message. We love immediate gratification and crave satisfaction, but we will never achieve it when our relationships are microwaveable. We talk about why we want it now and how we can prevent the destruction it causes.
The Kelley's - Part 2
October 12, 2022 05:00 - 45 minutes - 31.5 MBSend us a Text Message. In this episode we finish our conversation with Jeremy and Brittany Kelley. We lay out the importance of finding people to do life with.
"He Is Faithful, Even When We Are Not"
October 03, 2022 05:00 - 44 minutes - 30.9 MBSend us a Text Message. Special guests Jeremy and Brittany Kelley are on the show this week. This is going to be part 1 of our conversation because we lost track of time and went much longer than expected. We talk about how God brought these two together and the Jeremy was an HR nightmare. We also discuss the value strong friendships have on your marriage.
Why Are You The Way That You Are?
August 26, 2022 00:00 - 50 minutes - 35 MBSend us a Text Message. From snoring to sheet stealing to bad driving to mismatched socks to bad habits...why is your spouse the way that they are? This may be a question you ask yourself on a daily basis. We let it out to begin this episode to explore the things that may drive us crazy, but how to not let those things become actual problems in our lives and relationships.
They Aren't Wearing Any Clothes
August 15, 2022 05:00 - 38 minutes - 26.6 MBSend us a Text Message. Monica was out of the country in Juarez, Mexico last week. Matthew decided he would go to the gym after dropping the kids of for their first day of school. He was not expecting to see what he saw when he got there. As he described it, "No one was wearing any clothes". This lead to the conversation of temptation being all around us all the time. How can a marriage successfully navigate the temptation from the enemy attacking us every single day.
I Don't Have Time For That
August 08, 2022 05:00 - 1 hour - 41.8 MBSend us a Text Message. We are running everywhere we go. We are rushed, anxious, and stressed. After we had been living with a rushed mentality for the last few months, we came to a realization of "why are we running everywhere we go, when Jesus walked everywhere he went". We are missing so much because we are going too fast. How much could your life, career, family, health, and relationships benefit if we just slowed down?
No Idea What We Are Doing
May 02, 2022 05:00 - 50 minutes - 34.8 MBSend us a Text Message. Our first show in nearly two months. We talk about what we have been up to the last couple months. How we unexpectedly became little league baseball coaches, spring break at Universal Studios, golfing in Colorado, and everything in between.
Phone Servants
March 06, 2022 00:00 - 47 minutes - 32.6 MBSend us a Text Message. Is our phone our master or our servant? We uncover the truth of the addiction we have with our phones, social media, and technology. Social media takes away from actual social interaction and our marriages, relationships, and families are suffering because of it. Also, please don't be a 10%'er...
Why Do We Divorce?
February 07, 2022 06:00 - 59 minutes - 41 MBSend us a Text Message. Half of all marriages end in divorce...HALF!!! If your best friend is married and so are you, according to statistics one of you will be getting divorced. Why do we think that happens? On this episode we break down why people get divorced, discuss the needs of men and women, our experience with our viral video, and the importance of homework!
A Firm Foundation
January 17, 2022 06:00 - 1 hour - 45.8 MBSend us a Text Message. How sturdy is your relationship's foundation? When storms come is everything still standing? Is everything still in one piece? One constant we know for sure is that in this life we will all face storms. The only way for us to survive these storms is to have a rock solid foundation. In this episode we talk about priorities. What that should look like not just for our relationships but for us as individuals.
Water Your Flowers
January 10, 2022 06:00 - 1 hour - 47.8 MBSend us a Text Message. Do you like what you see when you look in the mirror? The majority of us do not. We compare ourselves to how others physically look, how fat someone else's wallets may seem, how happy that couple always looks, or how someone is killing it at the parenting game when in REAL reality it does NOT matter. So stop it! It's time to make a change! God created YOU! God does not make mistakes! Whatever reasons we may have to not like what is looking back at us in the mirror we...
Right vs. Real
December 13, 2021 06:00 - 1 hour - 58.6 MBSend us a Text Message. Today's episode we talk about relationships with differing opinions and viewpoints. It is ok to have a different thought or idea than someone else and not attack them for thinking differently that you. We learn that LOVE conquers all, that we are called to love all people.
Happy Thanksgiving
November 25, 2021 22:00 - 41 minutes - 28.8 MBSend us a Text Message. Special Thanksgiving Day Episode...It is a family affair! Monica is BACK!!! We are also joined by our children Cashman and Elke. We talk about our day, Christmas presents, Fortnite, Monica's organized preparedness, and just a fun family conversation.
Married AF / Monica Update!
November 23, 2021 06:00 - 14 minutes - 10.2 MBSend us a Text Message. We know, we know, we know it has been a few weeks...we are sorry! So we recorded this short update episode as Matthew updates everyone on Monica's recovery from shoulder surgery. We will be back very very soon with new episodes.
Real Friends w/ Mark & Jenn Browning
November 01, 2021 05:00 - 56 minutes - 38.6 MBSend us a Text Message. We had the honor of hosting our dear friends Mark and Jenn Browning on the podcast this week. We dig a little into their faith journey and the impact community has had in their lives. How true and all healing comes from other people in your life. We learn what it is like to be friends with us and how important it is to find people who do not want anything from you, but want everything for you.