Today, we’re getting a little vulnerable as I share my personal story of how a very shy young me transformed from someone who could barely talk or interact with anyone into a confident woman.

 

As a child, I was very shy and feared being an inconvenience, sounding silly, or being judged. I moved through many schools, not just within one country, but across different continents with different languages.



This experience played a big role in shaping my confidence.

 

Fast forward to adulthood, I realised that if I didn't learn how to treat myself with respect and understand my fears, I would always live under their control.

 

I began my journey towards confidence by learning how to say "no" to people and situations.

 

I started to navigate and understand how to stay true to myself, and how to separate what I really wanted from what my old programming wanted.

 

I also learnt that being “shy” and being an introvert are two COMPLETELY different things.

 

And although I’m still on this journey - I finally found my voice and I hope that this episode inspires you to find your voice, too.

 

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