Secrets within your marriage will cause great sorrow. Since God puts us with our perfect spouse we need to recognize this and become the great friend they deserve. Paul Speed, from Whatever it Takes Ministries, leads workshops for men; and his wife, Jenny, leads workshops for women. Steve Cook attended the 4 Days to Freedom for men event in Florida and was forever changed. He wanted to make his wife his accountability partner and to find the freedom to be open with her so she could see his true self.  Following God’s path is not always easy but if you attend an event you will see that you are not in it alone. Your sins are no worse than anyone else’s sins. Together we can heal our life and our marriages to come closer to God’s grace.


 


Key Takeaways:


[2:38] Opening prayer


[4:15] 4 Days to Freedom retreat is for men to share the Lord’s principles


[5:49] I had to conquer the lust and pornography in my life


[8:12] I was an area leader for men’s ministries


[12:18] 4 Days to Hope for women


[15:43] Steve’s takeaways from the weekend


[19:34] Should your wife be your accountability partner?


[22:20] Accountability starts with yourself


[25:00] I wanted my wife to be my best friend but I was hiding things


[27:34] Grace gives us the power to change and to do God’s will


[32:41] Finding freedom in confession


[38:07] Bringing things to the light so they no longer have power


[40:00] There is no hierarchy in sins


[42:13] God has each one of us with the perfect spouse


[44:25] Contact Paul


[44:47] There is hope if you follow God’s path


[46:00] Be open with your spouse and go to the 4 Days to Freedom event


[47:08] Jason wants to know if singles are invited - Of course, they are


[49:16] Tim wants to know where the seminars take place - Florida and Georgia


[52:15] The whole weekend was $750 including food and lodging


[53:54] Enemies of men squelch their desire to better themselves


 


Mentions:


Whatever it Takes Ministries


Paul@witministries.com


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