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Common Myths About Purity Culture ft/ Debra Fileta

February 05, 2021 14:00 - 38 minutes - 35.1 MB

Join Debra Fileta who is a licensed professional counselor who is focused on relationships, and an advocate for “healthy people make healthy relationships”. In this podcast Debra, Caitlin and Sloane dive into the common myths about purity culture and break the boxes surrounding them. “It isn’t a toxic purity culture, it’s toxic shame culture. Purity is not toxic, it is the shame, the isolation, the hiding.” Sex is so sacred and is created to be beautiful within the perimeters of marriage. In...

Common Myths About Purity Culture w/ Debra Fileta

February 05, 2021 14:00 - 38 minutes - 35.1 MB

Join Debra Fileta who is a licensed professional counselor who is focused on relationships, and an advocate for “healthy people make healthy relationships”. In this podcast Debra, Caitlin and Sloane dive into the common myths about purity culture and break the boxes surrounding them. “It isn’t a toxic purity culture, it’s toxic shame culture. Purity is not toxic, it is the shame, the isolation, the hiding.” Sex is so sacred and is created to be beautiful within the perimeters of marriage. In...

From Casual to Committed ft/ Damien Giacchino

January 08, 2021 14:00 - 43 minutes - 40 MB

Join Damien Giacchino, who is the associate pastor at Real Life Church in Sacramento California and has his masters degree in counseling. Damien joins Caitlin Zick and Sloane Wilson and shares his story of how the Lord restored his life from living a worldly life to encountering the Lord and having his story be redeemed. During his pursuit of the Lord, he was given the message of the importance of not awakening love too early. He talks about the effect of hookup culture, the impact of having...

Attachment Styles ft/ Dr. Margaret Nagib

December 04, 2020 16:01 - 30 minutes - 28.6 MB

"clarified statistic: parents only needs to be responsive and available 30% of the time to build a healthy attachment " Dr. Margaret Nagib, Christian Clinical Psychologist, joins Caitlin Zick and Sloane Wilson as they dive into attachment styles. Attachment styles the base of how you relate to people from childhood. They create patterns of how you think, feel, and respond to people in relationship based on what you learned when you were younger. Dr. Margaret talks about the different types ...

Marriage After Porn And Affairs ft. Gabriel and Debbie Mayes

November 17, 2020 20:34 - 52 minutes - 48.2 MB

Gabriel and Debbie Mayes share very vulnerably their story of porn and marital unfaithfulness. From a past of childhood exposure, church hurt, adultery, porn and sex addiction to radical restoration in their marriage and family Gabriel and Debbie walk us through how God redeemed their lives and brought freedom. Recovering Your Marriage | Marriage After Porn & Affairs: https://www.moralrevolution.com/recovering-your-marriage

The Science Behind Sex | Honest Talks pt. 2 ft/ Cole and Caitlin Zick

October 02, 2020 16:00 - 40 minutes - 37.3 MB

What causes you to get triggered? How do decisions you make pre-marriage impact your marriage? The pain or the pleasure during your first experience of an event creates a mental pathway that your brain later takes you down because it's the path of least resistance. This means EVEN if the situation isn't the same your brain/body can still react as if it is. This week's podcast feature's our directors, Cole and Caitlin Zick as they dive into the science behind sexuality and the scripture, and ...

The Science Behind Sex | Honest Talks pt. 2 w/ Cole and Cait

October 02, 2020 16:00 - 40 minutes - 37.3 MB

What causes you to get triggered? How do decisions you make pre-marriage impact your marriage? The pain or the pleasure during your first experience of an event creates a mental pathway that your brain later takes you down because it's the path of least resistance. This means EVEN if the situation isn't the same your brain/body can still react as if it is. This week's podcast feature's our directors, Cole and Caitlin Zick as they dive into the science behind sexuality and the scripture, and ...

Honest Talk - Sexual Histories pt.1 - Ft/ Cole & Caitlin Zick

August 21, 2020 21:18 - 42 minutes - 39.2 MB

Cole and Caitlin Zick invite us into a very raw and authentic take of their stories. What would it look like if parents healthily and intentionally talked about sex where they understand God’s full design for sexuality and that He said YES, not no? They’ll talk about helpful tools for taking an inventory on the impact your childhood had on your current perspective of relationship and sexuality. In that, the depth of your vulnerability will determine the completeness of your healing and wholen...

Honest Talk - Sexual Histories pt.1 - Ft: Cole & Caitlin Zick

August 21, 2020 21:18 - 42 minutes - 39.2 MB

Cole and Caitlin Zick invite us into a very raw and authentic take of their stories. What would it look like if parents healthily and intentionally talked about sex where they understand God’s full design for sexuality and that He said YES, not no? They’ll talk about helpful tools for taking an inventory on the impact your childhood had on your current perspective of relationship and sexuality. In that, the depth of your vulnerability will determine the completeness of your healing and wholen...

Honest Talk - Sexual Histories - Ft: Cole & Caitlin Zick

August 21, 2020 21:18 - 42 minutes - 39.2 MB

Honest Talk - Sexual Histories - Ft: Cole & Caitlin Zick by Moral Revolution

How to Identify Trauma & When to Get Help - ft/ Caitlin Zick & Dr. Margaret Nagib

July 01, 2020 08:00 - 45 minutes - 42 MB

The negative stigma around going to counseling or therapy is finally starting to lift. Caitlin Zick interviews Dr. Margaret Nagib, Christian Clinical Psychologist, about how to know when or why to go to a counselor. If you find yourself still stuck after doing the best you know how, it may be time to find a counselor. Dr. Margaret and Caitlin also spend time digging into the topic of trauma. How to identify trauma in your life or from your past and the side effects you may be seeing in your l...

Long Distance Relationships - ft/ Michelle & Abram Goff

June 03, 2020 23:00 - 45 minutes - 41.6 MB

Relationships can be tricky, long distance relationships are even trickier. Abram & Michelle Goff share some tips and tricks of long-distance relationships from the first visit, to feeling connected in each others lives, to questions and even some adjustments after marriage. If you're in a long-distance relationship or cross cultural one, we hope adds hope and strategy as you navigate through it. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moral-revolution/support

Should We Get Married? - ft/ Danny and Sheri Silk & Cole Zick

May 01, 2020 20:00 - 25 minutes - 23.2 MB

Should We Get Married? - ft/ Danny and Sheri Silk & Cole Zick by Moral Revolution --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moral-revolution/support

Road to Recovery: Healing From Trauma In Marriage P1 - ft/ Dr. Russ Irwin and Cole & Caitlin Zick

April 03, 2020 20:00 - 25 minutes - 42.4 MB

What began as one podcast quickly developed into two. This is part one of a two part series with certified psychologist Dr. Russ Irwin in which we discuss the clinical effects of sexual experiences - first up, trauma on the brain. Dr. Irwin is the director of Bethel Church’s transformation center, and has a heart to bring science and research into the world of Christian inner healing ministry. This week we dive into the truth of how past trauma influences us in life and in marriage, and how w...

Spice Up Your Sex Life P2 - ft/ Adam and Karissa King & Cole and Caitlin Zick

February 19, 2020 19:22 - 28 minutes - 54.6 MB

Take 2 of the MR Podcast with Adam and Karissa King! We are excited to share more of our two part series for married couples with you, and we think that you'll love it as much as we do. Adam and Karissa even offer practical guidance counseling to Cole and Caitlin Zick in this episode, offering an example of what professional marital counseling often looks like. Enjoy! Get the Sexpectation Cards: shop.moralrevolution.com/products/sexpectations-cards-dear-young-married-couple Check out more f...

Spice Up Your Sex Life P1 - ft/ Adam and Karissa King & Cole and Caitlin Zick

February 19, 2020 18:16 - 36 minutes - 69.9 MB

Yep, you read that right. We are doing a podcast this month on bedroom talk for married couples! We partnered up with Adam and Karissa King, licensed marriage and family therapists, to do a podcast with the Zicks on what it looks like to pursue intimacy and connection in the marriage bed. Grab a cup of coffee, your spouse, and tune into this month’s podcast! Get the Sexpectation Cards: shop.moralrevolution.com/products/sexpectations-cards-dear-young-married-couple Check out more from Adam ...

Spice Up Your Sex Life - ft/ Adam and Karissa King & Cole and Caitlin Zick

February 18, 2020 19:47 - 28 minutes - 54.6 MB

Yep, you read that right. We are doing a podcast this month on bedroom talk for married couples! We partnered up with Adam and Karissa King, licensed marriage and family therapists, to do a podcast with the Zicks on what it looks like to pursue intimacy and connection in the marriage bed. Grab a cup of coffee, your spouse, and tune into this month’s podcast! Check out more from Adam and Karissa King: www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com More from Cole and Caitlin Zick: www.moralrevolution.com

Soul Ties - ft/ Tom Crandall & Cole Zick

January 30, 2020 18:00 - 24 minutes - 46 MB

Tom Crandall and Cole Zick address the reality of what happens when you form an intimate sexual connection outside of marriage, and the strong influence that can have on us and our life choices. How can we become free from shame? What can we do to move past attachments that we have with people from our past that we’re tied to because we’ve had sexual experiences with them? --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moral-revolution/support

Brave Communication - ft/ Dann Farrelly & Cole Zick

December 19, 2019 18:00 - 27 minutes - 52 MB

Dann Farrelly and Cole Zick dive into the importance of open and healthy communication in families, marriages, and relationships. Dann gives useful tips for conflict resolution, navigating emotions, and practical insight on how to create a new normal from unhealthy communication habits in the past. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moral-revolution/support

Sharing Truth In Love - ft/ Eric & Candace Johnson

November 22, 2019 17:58 - 22 minutes - 42 MB

Eric and Candace Johnson discuss influence and culture this week, and address the importance of meeting people where they’re at with love while staying committed to truth. How can we follow the model of Jesus’ ministry in leadership and discipleship in today’s generation? What does this mean for our lives? Tune in this week on the MR podcast. (For more resources visit us at www.moralrevolution.com) --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moral-revolution/support

How To Develop A Relationship: The Intimacy Ladder - ft/ Jason Vallotton & Cole Zick

October 28, 2019 15:02 - 37 minutes - 52.1 MB

This month Jason Vallotton and Cole Zick discuss the value of trust-building, intentionality, and core values in relationship. Jason and Cole give practical tools for success, and address the importance of knowing who you are, what your needs are, and what steps to take and look for as you pursue healthy intimacy in dating and marriage. LADDER STEPS: 14 - Forever isn't long enough. 13 - Win-Win 12 - Unconditional Love? 11 - Do they know how to care for me? 10 - How do we do with conflict? ...

Sex After Kids - ft/ Cait Zick, Eric & Kristy Upton

September 28, 2019 16:22 - 1 hour - 153 MB

Caitlin Zick dives into her personal story of sexual wholeness and freedom with Eric and Kristy Upton, hosts of The Mommy and Daddy Time Podcast. Caitlin shares about her transformation from being a teenage party girl into a believer, wife, and mother of 4, and opens up about the power of God’s redemption in her life and marriage. In today’s podcast you’ll learn about what the Bible says about sex, God’s heart for marriage, how to intentionally build your sex life after having kids, and findi...

Healthy Masculinity - ft/ Cole Zick & Justin Stumvoll

August 30, 2019 21:01 - 48 minutes - 111 MB

Healthy Masculinity - ft/ Cole Zick & Justin Stumvoll by Moral Revolution --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moral-revolution/support

Accountability for Couples - ft/ Cole & Caitlin Zick

July 26, 2019 16:24 - 21 minutes - 48.1 MB

Accountability for Couples - ft/ Cole & Caitlin Zick by Moral Revolution --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moral-revolution/support

Sex for Sale: Gaining Understanding from a Survivor Leader - ft/ Rebecca Bender

June 14, 2019 16:27 - 39 minutes - 89.4 MB

Sex for Sale: Gaining Understanding from a Survivor Leader - ft/ Rebecca Bender by Moral Revolution --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moral-revolution/support

Navigating Your Sex Drive and Self-Control - ft/ Abram Goff & Sloane Wilson

April 26, 2019 22:12 - 57 minutes - 133 MB

Navigating Your Sex Drive and Self-Control - ft/ Abram Goff & Sloane Wilson by Moral Revolution --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moral-revolution/support

What To Do When You've Gone Too Far - ft/ Sloane Wilson & Emily Lynch

March 29, 2019 19:33 - 39 minutes - 90.4 MB

What To Do When You've Gone Too Far - ft/ Sloane Wilson & Emily Lynch by Moral Revolution --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moral-revolution/support

Principles of Fatherhood - ft/ Kris Vallotton

February 28, 2019 03:17 - 51 minutes - 118 MB

Principles of Fatherhood - ft/ Kris Vallotton by Moral Revolution --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moral-revolution/support

If God Can Do THAT: A Once Gay Man's Journey: ft/ Ken Williams

January 29, 2019 22:24 - 54 minutes - 62 MB

If God Can Do THAT: A Once Gay Man's Journey: ft/ Ken Williams by Moral Revolution --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moral-revolution/support

How We've Created a Sexual Assault Culture - ft/Benji Nolot

November 30, 2018 07:55 - 39 minutes - 45.7 MB

How We've Created a Sexual Assault Culture - ft/Benji Nolot by Moral Revolution --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moral-revolution/support

Sex And The Voice Of The Church - ft/Cole Zick

October 31, 2018 21:55 - 23 minutes - 27.4 MB

Sex And The Voice Of The Church - ft/Cole Zick by Moral Revolution --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moral-revolution/support

Is Masturbation Okay? - ft/Abi Stumvoll & Caitlin Zick

September 21, 2018 19:33 - 35 minutes - 40.1 MB

Is Masturbation Okay? - ft/Abi Stumvoll & Caitlin Zick by Moral Revolution --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moral-revolution/support

Leaving Homosexuality? - ft/Ken Williams & Elizabeth Woning

August 17, 2018 09:54 - 29 minutes - 33.6 MB

Leaving Homosexuality? - ft/Ken Williams & Elizabeth Woning by Moral Revolution --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moral-revolution/support

Dating, Sex, and Emotional Connection - ft/Jason Vallotton

June 09, 2018 00:13 - 29 minutes - 26.6 MB

Jason Vallotton joins us to talk about emotional prosperity and the emotional connections made through dating and sexuality. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moral-revolution/support

Proactive Parenting: Stopping Porn Before It Starts - ft/Graeme Morris & Doug Boyd

May 02, 2018 21:05 - 31 minutes - 29 MB

Unfortunately, the question is not “what do I do IF my child finds pornography?” but “what do I do WHEN my child finds pornography?” How do we help them stay connected and stay or get free in a world of sexually charged images? With special guests Graeme Morris of BraveTestimony and Marriage & Family Therapist Doug Boyd, the team talks about the dangerous effects of pornography and what steps to take when your son or daughter discovers pornography. --- Support this podcast: https://podcast...

Healthy Mindsets for Marriage - ft/Curtis Zackery

April 05, 2018 17:55 - 30 minutes - 27.5 MB

Cole Zick and special guest, Curtis Zackery, teaching pastor at Church of the City in Franklin Tennessee, dialogue honestly about marriage’s ups and downs. Curtis shares great wisdom on how to strengthen your marriage in any season. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moral-revolution/support

To All The Singles With A Sex Drive - ft/Abram Goff & Andrea Alley

March 09, 2018 23:46 - 40 minutes - 37 MB

This one is for all our singles who are hoping this singleness thing is not forever... Two members of the Moral Revolution team, Abram and Andrea, share their experience of being single in Christian culture, talk about the heart of purity beyond finding a spouse, and give some practical things they've learned along the way for walking out purity and pursuing health and wholeness. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moral-revolution/support

What They Didn't Tell Me (Recorded Live at JesusCulture -My City 2018) - ft/Cole & Caitlin Zick

February 09, 2018 00:15 - 51 minutes - 46.9 MB

Cole & Cait Zick share their story of dating and marriage. Caitlin shares how the pain of her past impacted their marriage and how God brought healing. They share vulnerably and openly about their process in a way that brings light to God's design for sex as well as highlights the importance to guard your heart in the process. Please forgive the sound quality because it is low but hopefully you will find the content powerful. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sho...

Worth the Fight - ft/Kris Vallotton

January 04, 2018 18:04 - 20 minutes - 39.2 MB

As we relaunch the Moral Revolution podcast, Kris Vallotton shares how this movement started. With a real story of transformation, we capture the heart of this movement. Join us as we journey to purity and seek to discover God's design for sexuality.

Worth the Fight - ft/Kris Vallotton

January 04, 2018 18:04 - 20 minutes - 39.2 MB

As we relaunch the Moral Revolution podcast, Kris Vallotton shares how this movement started. With a real story of transformation, we capture the heart of this movement. Join us as we journey to purity and seek to discover God's design for sexuality. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moral-revolution/support

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