Lessons of the Six Figure Woman
137 episodes - English - Latest episode: 12 months ago - ★★★★★ - 6 ratingsWelcome to Lessons of the Six Figure Woman! We are your hosts Chichi and NG, two Nigerian American women who are realizing there's so much more to us than our careers. We created this platform to dive into the lessons we’ve learned and are still learning. We break the mold of the perfect Nigerian Woman and get real, vulnerable and honest about our experiences in life. Join us as we have conversations about relationships, Nigerian culture and all the pressures that come with being a six figure woman!
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Episodes
Taboo Talks - The Anniversary Episode
June 23, 2022 05:00 - 1 hour - 49 MB#054 This episode marks the ONE YEAR ANNIVERSARY of Lessons of the Six Figure Woman Podcast!! In this episode Chichi and Ng celebrate one the best decisions they've made in starting this podcast! They discuss some of the best things about growing this podcast and community. They also reminisce on some of their juicy previous episodes and how those topics are related to some spicy current events. If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just wa...
Taboo Talks - The Anniversary Episode
June 23, 2022 05:00 - 1 hour - 49 MB#054 This episode marks the ONE YEAR ANNIVERSARY of Lessons of the Six Figure Woman Podcast!! In this episode Chichi and Ng celebrate one the best decisions they've made in starting this podcast! They discuss some of the best things about growing this podcast and community. They also reminisce on some of their juicy previous episodes and how those topics are related to some spicy current events. If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just wa...
The Unfiltered Truth About Marriage Counseling
June 16, 2022 05:00 - 58 minutes - 40.4 MB#053 In the episode Chichi and NG switch it all the way up! Chichi puts on her interview hat and NG takes on the guest role, answering questions all about her experience so far with marriage counseling! She opens up about going to marriage counseling as a Nigerian American woman married to a traditional Nigerian man. The ladies discuss all the ups and down of therapy as a couple and ultimately NG gives her final verdict on whether or not it's worth it thus far. You don't want to miss this on...
The Unfiltered Truth About Marriage Counseling
June 16, 2022 05:00 - 58 minutes - 40.4 MB#053 In the episode Chichi and NG switch it all the way up! Chichi puts on her interview hat and NG takes on the guest role, answering questions all about her experience so far with marriage counseling! She opens up about going to marriage counseling as a Nigerian American woman married to a traditional Nigerian man. The ladies discuss all the ups and down of therapy as a couple and ultimately NG gives her final verdict on whether or not it's worth it thus far. You don't want to miss this on...
There Are Many Men But Few Husbands
June 09, 2022 05:00 - 1 hour - 48.6 MB#052 In this episode Chichi and Ng discuss how slim the pickings are when it comes to finding a husband! They talk through what it actually means to be husband material. Of course from the male perspective there are many women but few wives, so they also discuss whether there is any truth to that. If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us on instagram @lessonsofthesixfigurewoman or email us at [email protected]. If ...
Strong Black Women Deserve the Soft Life
June 02, 2022 05:00 - 53 minutes - 36.9 MB#051 In this episode Chichi and Ng are talking all about the soft life! They explore why it's taken this long for black women to allow themselves to enjoy everything relaxation, peace, and good vibes. They discuss how the 'strong black woman' narrative has played such a significant role in their own difficulty with embracing the soft life. The ladies also go back to their origin stories and talk about how growing up Nigerian has contributed to their inability to sit down and rest! If you h...
The Problem With the "Modern Man"
May 26, 2022 05:00 - 1 hour - 42.5 MB#050 In this episode Chichi and Ng take a second to acknowledge their fiftieth episode!! This episode they discuss backlash black women get for being "modern women." Rather than being celebrated for their accomplishments and achievements in their single-hood, black women seem to be getting punished. They also delve into the problems they have noticed with the "modern man." If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us on...
The Problem With the "Modern Man"
May 26, 2022 05:00 - 1 hour - 42.5 MB#050 In this episode Chichi and Ng take a second to acknowledge their fiftieth episode!! This episode they discuss backlash black women get for being "modern women." Rather than being celebrated for their accomplishments and achievements in their single-hood, black women seem to be getting punished. They also delve into the problems they have noticed with the "modern man." If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us on...
Women Are Being Forced to Settle!
May 19, 2022 05:00 - 56 minutes - 39 MB#049 In this episode Chichi and Ng are discussing settling. Settling means something different for every woman but the question is, are women being forced to settle? Should women expect to get everything they want from a partner? These the are the questions that need answers and the ladies are not holding back! If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us on instagram @lessonsofthesixfigurewoman or email us at LOTSFW@g...
Women Are Being Forced to Settle!
May 19, 2022 05:00 - 56 minutes - 39 MB#049 In this episode Chichi and Ng are discussing settling. Settling means something different for every woman but the question is, are women being forced to settle? Should women expect to get everything they want from a partner? These the are the questions that need answers and the ladies are not holding back! If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us on instagram @lessonsofthesixfigurewoman or email us at LOTSFW@g...
How Do You Define Cheating?
May 12, 2022 05:00 - 1 hour - 46.9 MB#048 In this episode Chichi and Ng talk all about the trauma that is cheating! They get into some statistics about how many black men cheat vs how many black women cheat. They also talk about the surprising time line of how soon married men start to think about cheating vs how soon in crosses the mind of married women. If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us on instagram @lessonsofthesixfigurewoman or email us at ...
Men, Women Can't Read Your Mind!
May 05, 2022 05:00 - 1 hour - 46 MB#047 In this episode Chichi and NG talk about how in relationships, both parties are often guilty of expecting the other to read their mind. They discuss the biggest determinant of a good relationship, communication! And how hard it seems to effectively communicate with your partner. If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us on instagram @lessonsofthesixfigurewoman or email us at [email protected]. If you have a que...
Top Professions Woman Should Avoid in Relationships
April 28, 2022 13:00 - 59 minutes - 41.1 MB#046 In this episode Chichi and Ng talk through the top professions to avoid in a partner. They discuss the patterns and personality traits that men in these professions can sometimes have that are problematic in relationships. If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us on instagram @lessonsofthesixfigurewoman or email us at [email protected]. If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episo...
Top Professions Woman Should Avoid in Relationships
April 28, 2022 13:00 - 59 minutes - 41.1 MB#046 In this episode Chichi and Ng talk through the top professions to avoid in a partner. They discuss the patterns and personality traits that men in these professions can sometimes have that are problematic in relationships. If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us on instagram @lessonsofthesixfigurewoman or email us at [email protected]. If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episo...
Why Relationships With Lower Earning Men Don't Work
April 21, 2022 05:00 - 1 hour - 48.2 MB#045 In this episode NG and Chichi talk about relationships with low earning or no earning men. They get into what actions women take that emasculate men, resentment that can build and the difference between lack of ambition and laziness. The ladies also discuss the idea of prenups and whether they believe a prenup is necessary. If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us on instagram @lessonsofthesixfigurewoman or ema...
Lessons Learned From Young Famous & African
April 14, 2022 05:00 - 1 hour - 58.3 MB#044 In this episode the ladies talk about the ground breaking reality show, Young, Famous and African. This is the first time Africans have been put on a main stage like Netflix and NG and Chichi break down all the tea. They also discuss representation of Africans. If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us on instagram @lessonsofthesixfigurewoman or email us at [email protected]. If you have a question or comment th...
Lessons Learned From Young Famous & African
April 14, 2022 05:00 - 1 hour - 58.3 MB#044 In this episode the ladies talk about the ground breaking reality show, Young, Famous and African. This is the first time Africans have been put on a main stage like Netflix and NG and Chichi break down all the tea. They also discuss representation of Africans. If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us on instagram @lessonsofthesixfigurewoman or email us at [email protected]. If you have a question or comment th...
If You Hate Black Women, Just Say That!
April 07, 2022 07:00 - 1 hour - 41.6 MB#043 In this episode Chichi and NG talk about the scrutiny experienced by black women. They discuss the slap heard around the world and the blame Jada is experiencing, the first black woman supreme court justice and their personal struggles being forced to explain themselves in spaces where they are overqualified. If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us on instagram @lessonsofthesixfigurewoman or email us at LOTSFW...
Double Standards
March 31, 2022 05:00 - 1 hour - 47.4 MB#042 In this episode NG and Chichi are back with another interesting topic, Double Standards! Do you ever wonder what double standards favor women over men? These ladies will be digging into how these double standards impact both men and women and sharing their opinions. If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us on instagram @lessonsofthesixfigurewoman or email us at [email protected]. If you have a question or comme...
Double Standards
March 31, 2022 05:00 - 1 hour - 47.4 MB#042 In this episode NG and Chichi are back with another interesting topic, Double Standards! Do you ever wonder what double standards favor women over men? These ladies will be digging into how these double standards impact both men and women and sharing their opinions. If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us on instagram @lessonsofthesixfigurewoman or email us at [email protected]. If you have a question or comme...
Does That Turn You Off?
March 24, 2022 05:00 - 50 minutes - 34.6 MB#041 In this episode Chichi and NG attempt to debunk 5 of mens turn-offs. As the ladies get deeper into the discussion they begin to see some truth in the reason for these turn-offs. The ladies put themselves in the shoes of a man and further discuss their thoughts. If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us on instagram @lessonsofthesixfigurewoman or email us at [email protected]. If you have a question or comment th...
Financial Compatibility & Financial Infidelity in Relationships
March 17, 2022 05:00 - 1 hour - 46.9 MB#040 In this episode, NG and Chichi talk finances in relationships. Is it okay to ask how much your partner makes, do you have the right to know their credit score? The women discuss the importance of financial compatibility and the downfalls of withholding financial information from your partner. This is a great episode that you don’t want to miss! If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us on instagram @lessonsofthe...
Financial Compatibility & Financial Infidelity in Relationships
March 17, 2022 05:00 - 1 hour - 46.9 MB#040 In this episode, NG and Chichi talk finances in relationships. Is it okay to ask how much your partner makes, do you have the right to know their credit score? The women discuss the importance of financial compatibility and the downfalls of withholding financial information from your partner. This is a great episode that you don’t want to miss! If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us on instagram @lessonsofthe...
Let's Talk About Sexual Desire
March 10, 2022 06:00 - 56 minutes - 38.9 MB#039 In this episode NG and Chichi talk about the differences between high and low desire men and women. We are all human with sexual needs, but for many couples one person may have a higher desire for sex than the other. The ladies breakdown how this can have a negative impact on relationships and go into how you can talk to your partner about you sexual needs. If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us on instagram ...
Let's Talk About Sexual Desire
March 10, 2022 06:00 - 56 minutes - 38.9 MB#039 In this episode NG and Chichi talk about the differences between high and low desire men and women. We are all human with sexual needs, but for many couples one person may have a higher desire for sex than the other. The ladies breakdown how this can have a negative impact on relationships and go into how you can talk to your partner about you sexual needs. If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us on instagram ...
Lessons Learned from the Tinder Swindler
March 03, 2022 13:00 - 1 hour - 41.5 MB#038 In this episode, NG and Chichi breakdown the “Tinder Swindler” and why women are swept off their feet by men with perceived wealth. The ladies discuss their experiences in being victims of swindlers and what you can do to protect yourself if you’re dating. If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us on instagram @lessonsofthesixfigurewoman or email us at [email protected]. If you have a question or comment that y...
The Male Perspective on Being With a Six Figure Woman ft. Dr. Kelechi Ibe-Lamberts
February 24, 2022 06:00 - 1 hour - 53.7 MB#037 In this episode NG and Chichi feature their first collaboration! The ladies have a juicy conversation with Kelechi, from My Black is Transnational Podcast, about dating and relationships as a six figure woman. They also get the male perspective from Kelechi as man who married to a woman who makes six figures and is also the breadwinner. If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us on instagram @lessonsofthesixfigu...
The Male Perspective on Being With a Six Figure Woman ft. Kelechi Ibe-Lamberts
February 24, 2022 06:00 - 1 hour - 53.7 MB#037 In this episode NG and Chichi feature their first collaboration! The ladies have a juicy conversation with Kelechi, from My Black is Transnational Podcast, about dating and relationships as a six figure woman. They also get the male perspective from Kelechi as man who married to a woman who makes six figures and is also the breadwinner. If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us on instagram @lessonsofthesixfigu...
Is the "50/50" Relationship a Myth?
February 17, 2022 06:00 - 47 minutes - 32.5 MB#036 In this episode NG and Chichi discuss the idea of a 50/50 relationship. Is it realistic to expect your partner to contribute the exact same amount as you? What does 50/50 mean when you're both bread winners? The ladies breakdown these questions and more in this episode. If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us on instagram @lessonsofthesixfigurewoman or email us at [email protected]. If you have a question or ...
Shooting Your Shot
February 10, 2022 06:00 - 1 hour - 43.4 MB#035 In this episode NG and Chichi discuss some relevant topics from the media to social media. The ladies talk about men who wait until we've moved on to express their feelings, social media's recent colorism debacle and the struggles of an amicable divorce. If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us on instagram @lessonsofthesixfigurewoman or email us at [email protected]. If you have a question or comment that you ...
Shooting Your Shot
February 10, 2022 06:00 - 1 hour - 43.4 MB#035 In this episode NG and Chichi discuss some relevant topics from the media to social media. The ladies talk about men who wait until we've moved on to express their feelings, social media's recent colorism debacle and the struggles of an amicable divorce. If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us on instagram @lessonsofthesixfigurewoman or email us at [email protected]. If you have a question or comment that you ...
Taboo Conversations About Sex
February 03, 2022 06:00 - 1 hour - 41.7 MB#034 In this episode Chichi and NG discuss more taboo topics related to sex and sexuality. Chichi breaks down what she is learning in the sex positive space about sex clubs, swinging and fetish culture. The ladies discuss their stance on these and whether this is something they would explore themselves. They also touch on dating men who are figuring out their sexuality. If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us on in...
Are All Women Going After the Top 10% of Men?
January 27, 2022 06:00 - 56 minutes - 38.8 MB#033 In this episode NG and Chichi “take it there!” The ladies discuss the decades old questions “Where are all the good men at!” It seems as though all women are going after the top 10% of men, leaving the other 90% behind. The ladies discuss why this occurs and go into detail about why they think 90% of men are overlooked by women. You don’t want to miss this one! If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us on instag...
Being in a Relationship With a Narcissist
January 20, 2022 06:00 - 57 minutes - 39.5 MB#032 In this episode, Chichi and NG dive into the topic of narcissistic partners. They open up about their experiences in relationships with narcissists and how they were able to identify the toxic behavior. Do you think you’re in a relationship with a Narcissist? This episode will help shed light on some of the patterns a narcissist follows in relationships. If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us on instagram @le...
Being in a Relationship With a Narcissist
January 20, 2022 06:00 - 57 minutes - 39.5 MB#032 In this episode, Chichi and NG dive into the topic of narcissistic partners. They open up about their experiences in relationships with narcissists and how they were able to identify the toxic behavior. Do you think you’re in a relationship with a Narcissist? This episode will help shed light on some of the patterns a narcissist follows in relationships. If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us on instagram @le...
The Hard Questions
January 13, 2022 10:00 - 1 hour - 44.5 MB#031 In this episode, Chichi and NG set out to ask each other the "hard questions." These inspire conversations that are uncomfortable but are necessary. This new year they are re-committing themselves to being vulnerable and honest on this podcast and this episode is no exception. You don't want to miss this one! If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us on instagram @lessonsofthesixfigurewoman or email us at LOTSF...
Taboo Talks
January 06, 2022 06:00 - 1 hour - 50.8 MB#030 In this episode NG and Chichi have a Taboo talk. They are talking about topics that are typically off limits. Should you date if you’re broke, can you date a friend's ex, what about customizing your relationship? These ladies break these questions down and give their unfiltered opinions. If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us on instagram @lessonsofthesixfigurewoman or email us at [email protected]. If you ha...
Reality Stars and Reality Checks
December 30, 2021 06:00 - 53 minutes - 36.5 MB#029 In this episode Chichi and NG close out the year by discussing some of the year's biggest social media topics. From cheating celebrities to the role social media plays in our perception of real life issues. The ladies close the year out by sending their condolences to all the people we have lost this year and wish all the listeners peace and happiness in the new year. If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us o...
Reality Stars and Reality Checks
December 30, 2021 06:00 - 53 minutes - 36.5 MB#029 In this episode Chichi and NG close out the year by discussing some of the year's biggest social media topics. From cheating celebrities to the role social media plays in our perception of real life issues. The ladies close the year out by sending their condolences to all the people we have lost this year and wish all the listeners peace and happiness in the new year. If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us o...
The Unfiltered Truth About Marriage
December 23, 2021 06:00 - 54 minutes - 37.6 MB#028 In this episode, NG puts the tribe up on the game of Marriage. Will things change after saying I do, when do you know you’re ready to get married, will you lose your identity? These are all questions NG and Chichi discuss in this episode. NG gets vulnerable as she discusses some of the difficulties of marriage and provides great advice to those out there looking for their life partner. If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to ...
The Unfiltered Truth About Marriage
December 23, 2021 06:00 - 54 minutes - 37.6 MB#028 In this episode, NG puts the tribe up on the game of Marriage. Will things change after saying I do, when do you know you’re ready to get married, will you lose your identity? These are all questions NG and Chichi discuss in this episode. NG gets vulnerable as she discusses some of the difficulties of marriage and provides great advice to those out there looking for their life partner. If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to ...
The Aftermath of the Breakup
December 16, 2021 06:00 - 1 hour - 44.8 MB#027 In this episode, Chichi and NG talk through the aftermath of the breakup. They dissect whether men find it more difficult to date a woman who is financially and emotionally stable. Do men have a tough time quantifying whether they are meeting the needs of a stable woman? They also discuss what types of men are actually ready for marriage. If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us on instagram @lessonsofthesixfi...
The Aftermath of the Breakup
December 16, 2021 06:00 - 1 hour - 44.8 MB#027 In this episode, Chichi and NG talk through the aftermath of the breakup. They dissect whether men find it more difficult to date a woman who is financially and emotionally stable. Do men have a tough time quantifying whether they are meeting the needs of a stable woman? They also discuss what types of men are actually ready for marriage. If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us on instagram @lessonsofthesixfi...
The Breakup Episode
December 09, 2021 06:00 - 1 hour - 48.2 MB#026 In this episode, Chichi and NG get real vulnerable in discussing a recent “breakup” of a situationship. Chichi tells her story and the talks through the mistakes she made along the way. NG offers her interpretation of what happened as the ladies breakdown what really went down in this situation. This is a juicy episode that you don’t want to miss! If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us on instagram @lessonsof...
The Breakup Episode
December 09, 2021 06:00 - 1 hour - 48.2 MB#026 In this episode, Chichi and NG get real vulnerable in discussing a recent “breakup” of a situationship. Chichi tells her story and the talks through the mistakes she made along the way. NG offers her interpretation of what happened as the ladies breakdown what really went down in this situation. This is a juicy episode that you don’t want to miss! If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us on instagram @lessonsof...
The Honest Truth About Adulting
December 02, 2021 06:00 - 1 hour - 43.2 MB#025 In this episode NG and Chichi discuss what it means to be an adult. They get into the good, bad, and the ugly when you begin “adulting”. They talk about their life changes and the about the importance of finances, health, and relationships in your adult years. They also have the uncomfortable conversation about aging parents and highlight the difficulty in talking to your parents about their end of life desires. If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future epis...
The Honest Truth About Adulting
December 02, 2021 06:00 - 1 hour - 43.2 MB#025 In this episode NG and Chichi discuss what it means to be an adult. They get into the good, bad, and the ugly when you begin “adulting”. They talk about their life changes and the about the importance of finances, health, and relationships in your adult years. They also have the uncomfortable conversation about aging parents and highlight the difficulty in talking to your parents about their end of life desires. If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future epis...
Why Friendships Change in Your 30's
November 25, 2021 06:00 - 1 hour - 45.5 MB#024 In this episode NG and Chichi talk all things friendship. They get into the different levels of friendships, being vulnerable with those closest to you, and why it's so hard to make new friends in your 30's. They open up about current and previous friendships and get into how they handle confrontations in their friendships. If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us on instagram @lessonsofthesixfigurewoman or e...
High Value Woman vs High Value Man
November 18, 2021 06:00 - 1 hour - 47.7 MB#023 In this episode Chichi and NG dissect Kevin Samuel's definition of a high value man and a high value woman. If you listen to these ladies regularly, you know that they are going to tear apart the Kevin Samuel's ideals of what a high value woman and man are. They also discuss whether they think women have realistic expectations in the type of man they choose to date. If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us on i...
High Value Woman vs High Value Man
November 18, 2021 06:00 - 1 hour - 47.7 MB#023 In this episode Chichi and NG dissect Kevin Samuel's definition of a high value man and a high value woman. If you listen to these ladies regularly, you know that they are going to tear apart the Kevin Samuel's ideals of what a high value woman and man are. They also discuss whether they think women have realistic expectations in the type of man they choose to date. If you have a question or comment that you want featured on a future episodes OR if you just want to say hello DM us on i...