It is important to be aware of the etymological origins of these words. The roots of many hurtful words are in violence, anger, and contempt. This suggests that these words have been used for centuries to inflict pain and to dehumanize others.


We can all do our part to create a more empathetic and compassionate world by choosing our words carefully and avoiding hurtful and non-empathic language.


Abrasive


Tending to irritate or wear away


From Latin abradere, "to scrape away"




Callous


Unfeeling, insensitive, or hardened


From Latin callosus, "hardened, callous"




Cynical


Distrustful of human nature or institutions


From Greek kynikos, "doglike"




Demeaning


Degrading, humiliating, or causing loss of self-respect


From Old English dēman, "to judge"




Derogatory


Disparaging or belittling


From Latin derogare, "to take away"




Disdainful


Feeling or showing contempt or scorn


From Old French desdain, "contempt"




Insensitive


Lacking the ability to feel or understand the feelings of others


From Latin insensatus, "unfeeling"




Mean


Ill-natured, spiteful, or unkind


From Old English mægen, "might, strength"




Malicious


Having or showing a desire to do evil to others


From Latin malus, "bad"




Nasty


Offensive, unpleasant, or disagreeable


From Old English nǣstig, "filthy"




Obnoxious


Highly offensive or disagreeable


From Latin obnoxius, "exposed to danger"




Pitiless


Having or showing no pity or compassion


From Latin impius, "unholy"




Rude


Discourteous, impolite, or ill-mannered


From Old English rūþ, "rough, harsh"




Spiteful


Feeling or showing malice or ill will


From Old English spiþig, "sharp, piercing"




Stigmatize


To mark or brand as disgraceful or taboo


From Greek stigma, "mark, brand"




Vicious


Aggressively violent or harmful


From Latin vix, "force"