Laid Bare with Anonymous X
46 episodes - English - Latest episode: over 2 years ago -Porn is a significant part of our culture today, influencing all aspects of young people's lives. Parents are largely unaware of how today's porn is vastly different from just one generation ago and the significant impact it is making in their children and teen's lives. The Laid Bare with Anonymous X podcast brings you the world's best experts on the topic of pornography, sexual health, and education as well as raw testimonies from young people about how porn has influenced their lives (anonymously of course). My goal is to combat the negative impact of “porn culture” on our emotional, physical and sexual health, especially that of young people and empower parents and teens with information to help them live their best lives.
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29. The Underbelly Of Big Porn with Ex Porn Actress, Felicity Feline
October 15, 2021 16:56 - 2 hours - 189 MBEx-porn actress discuss the ugly underbelly of 'Big Porn', lies, dehumanization, misogyny, and misconceptions. Is porn glamorous? Healthy? Can you make a lot of money? How are actors treated? Is there trafficking? Abuse? Is the sex great? What needs to change NOW? Does she regret her choice to go into porn?
28. Healing The Root Of The Porn Problem
September 07, 2021 18:54 - 1 hour - 83.5 MBSathiya Sam is the Founder of Deep Clean, a program for lasting recovery from porn. People of all walks of life and faiths struggle with porn. But there is a greater shame surrounding it in conservative circles. We need to break the sex/porn taboo, because shame and guilt create greater problems. How can we help our kids and those who struggle with porn habituation? Dig in with me and ex porn addict, Sathiya Sam.
28. Get To The Root Of The Porn Problem
September 07, 2021 18:54 - 1 hour - 83.5 MBSathiya Sam is the Founder of Deep Clean, a program for lasting recovery from porn. People of all walks of life and faiths struggle with porn. But there is a greater shame surrounding it in conservative circles. We need to break the sex/porn taboo, because shame and guilt create greater problems. How can we help our kids and those who struggle with porn habituation? Dig in with me and ex porn addict, Sathiya Sam.
27. Porn, Sexual Assault, & Restorative Justice - Anonymous "Nick"
June 28, 2021 16:00 - 1 hour - 132 MBWhat happens when your behavior is modeled on what you see in porn? Dysfunctional intimacy is what has been normalized after years of viewing, but when our moral compass feels out of alignment how can we change it? Anonymous "Nick" and I talk about how he is trying to understand the nuances of intimacy and consent.
26. "I Was Instantly Hooked By Porn" How One Addict Broke Free
June 16, 2021 20:43 - 1 hour - 120 MBCan you get addicted to porn straight away? Ex porn addict, Chris, says he did. We talk openly about an 11+ year addiction, escalation into porn that didn't reflect who he believed he was, what he felt would have given him pause to ever go back to porn after his first exposure and finally the steps he took to quit. This is a great and insightful interview for addicts, partners and care givers.
25.Escaping The Porn Trap with Wendy Maltz
May 21, 2021 02:16 - 1 hour - 111 MBWendy Maltz is an author, sex therapist and expert on porn addiction. Her influential book, The Porn Trap, is a must read for any person struggling with addiction or their loved ones. Today we dig deep into how to help young people addicted to porn. Quitting PMO is just the first step in healing.
24. Porn Addiction: Destroys Relationships & How To Achieve Real Recovery
March 18, 2021 21:23 - 1 hour - 127 MBIf you are or your teen is addicted to porn getting the right help first can make all the difference. Rose, ex-porn addict, talks about how she lost years of her life because she wasn't getting the right kind of help. How can you help your loved one achieve real healing early? A must listen for any struggling porn consumer or their loved ones.
23. They Do WHAT In Porn??!!*?$!
March 11, 2021 04:37 - 41 minutes - 94.2 MBDo you know what porn today depicts? If you say "porn has been around forever, it never harmed me", then you have no idea what young viewers see every time they land on a porn website. Have you heard of forced blowjobs? Facials? Gang bangs? Erotic asphyxiation? Then this is a podcast you must hear, frank exploration of porn genres, tropes, stereotypes and messages that accost the most innocent viewers.
22. Delayed Ejaculation And Emotional Disconnection - Anonymous "Connor"
February 12, 2021 19:32 - 1 hour - 65.9 MBAfter just 3 years of watching porn, "Connor" says he had to quit. It changed: the way he thought, how he treated women, and his sexual performance. What does he wish he knew before he started watching porn? What tools does he now employ to keep him from going back to porn?
22. Delayed Ejaculation And Emotional Disconnection
February 12, 2021 19:32 - 1 hour - 65.9 MBAfter just 3 years of watching porn, "Connor" says he had to quit. It changed: the way he thought, how he treated women, and his sexual performance. What does he wish he knew before he started watching porn? What tools does he now employ to keep him from going back to porn?
21.The Truth about "Big Porn", Interview With Ex-Porn Actress CC
January 14, 2021 03:20 - 1 hour - 70.6 MB"BIG PORN" is big business. It is a ruthless and heartless as all the other BIGs. Go behind the camera as I sit down with ex-adult actress, CC, to hear about her experiences and how big porn victims are not just the young viewers but those in front of the camera as well.
20. "Sex Ed-volution" - From Medically Inaccurate To Pleasure Based
January 07, 2021 18:11 - 1 hour - 65 MBAn illuminating conversation with Justine Ang Fonte, a Sexuality Educator based in New York City. She shares with me her approach to teaching K-12 kids and why sex education thru a social justice lens with a pleasure filter has the power to transform the way teens understand themselves and approach intimacy and how it helps to reduce sexual assault.
19. Female Pleasure, A Conversation We Need Now!
December 21, 2020 06:02 - 1 hour - 143 MBLiz Mallers is a sexologist. We talk about female pleasure and why it is so important for healthy intimacy and satisfying relationships. We also talk about how the lack of this conversation contributes to everything from sexual assault and sexual disfunction to unsafe sex.
18. How To Get Teens Talking...Believe It Or Not, Sex & Ethics!
November 20, 2020 03:05 - 58 minutes - 53.6 MBTeens love to hash out their thoughts and what they value. They relish hearing from their peers and trusted adults and formulating their unique opinions on any number topics. Natasha Singh uses exactly this method to engage students in her sexuality education and healthy relationship workshops. Her powerful programs have spilled over into teaching parents how to do the same. If you want to be a teen whisperer, dive in with Natasha.
17. Gay Porn, Arousing or Abusive? What You Need To Know
November 12, 2020 04:18 - 1 hour - 144 MBWhat do you do if you are questioning your sexuality? Where do you go to "find out" if you are gay or bisexual? But who is making gay porn? Straight cis men, and the messages are often more harmful than they are helpful. Maddie is trans but her story is all too common for all sexualities. How can we make it safer and healthier for all sexually active persons?
16. Sex Work, Porn Literacy and Sexual Violence , Anonymous Morgan
October 21, 2020 04:00 - 42 minutes - 96.3 MB"Morgan" is articulate and bright. Now in her 20's she reflects back on her early sexual experiences and how pornography shaped her opinion of herself and her earliest sexual encounters. Additionally, she talks about how sex work is becoming more and more common. Does she think pornography is healthy?
16. Sex Work, Porn Literacy and Sexual Violence , Anonymous "Morgan"
October 21, 2020 04:00 - 42 minutes - 96.3 MB"Morgan" is articulate and bright. Now in her 20's she reflects back on her early sexual experiences and how pornography shaped her opinion of herself and her earliest sexual encounters. Additionally, she talks about how sex work is becoming more and more common. Does she think pornography is healthy?
15. Porn Is It More Violent And Deviant Today?
October 17, 2020 04:39 - 37 minutes - 86.7 MBEssential information to understand how porn impacts viewers. Sixty percent of porn users report escalating porn tastes into genres that are extreme or deviant. Why do experts say this isn't happening? Five perspectives on how porn changes your sexual tastes. You decide!
15. Porn, Is It More Violent And Deviant Today?
October 17, 2020 04:39 - 37 minutes - 86.7 MBEssential information to understand how porn impacts viewers. Sixty percent of porn users report escalating porn tastes into genres that are extreme or deviant. Why do experts say this isn't happening? Five perspectives on how porn changes your sexual tastes. You decide!
14. Family Dynamics: Deal With Your Crap, So Your Kids Don't Have To
October 01, 2020 18:21 - 41 minutes - 66.8 MBTom Gagliano is a respected expert and best selling author on Family Dynamics. He has appeared on The Jenny McCarthy and Dr. Oz Shows. Tom talks with me about how our earliest childhood relationships impact how much we like ourselves and how we parents, need to wake up! Your kid is watching and learning. Tom explains how he engages easily with teens and adults around the most difficult topics to bring healing.
13. HELP! Porn FU*KD Up My Brain!
September 12, 2020 17:55 - 23 minutes - 42.5 MBWhen you see porn especially from a young age it can really FU*K up your brain and relationships. It feeds you lies that causes many to spiral into despair and self hatred. Porn lies can only destroy you when they stay in the dark...Here is light and truth about the lies porn tells you. Don't fall in the porn lie trap! XX
12. Brave Parents Dig In Deep to How The Porn Industry Harms Our Kids
September 03, 2020 16:47 - 1 hour - 43.7 MBIt takes a village to raise healthy kids. Zareen and Rob Cope from New Zealand spent a year plus investigating how to keep their kids safe on line, and are sharing it with the larger "village". From filters to experts and suggestions on how to approach conversations with your teens….this is an eye opening conversation.
11. What Is It Like To Be A Girl Addicted To Porn? Rose's Story
August 27, 2020 17:17 - 1 hour - 39.5 MBAn unflinching conversation about a young one girl’s porn use. Rose says she had a trifecta of circumstances that led to her compulsive porn usage: very religious household, home schooling and all girl family where where porn was believed to be a "boy" problem. She has done an immense amount of personal work to deal with her porn “addiction”. Compulsively watching from age 11 to 18, and clean for 2 years. Her insight and understanding of how completely and profoundly porn takes over your...
10. How Drastically Today’s Porn Impacts Viewers VS Pre Pornhub - Anonymous “Ryan”
August 15, 2020 20:00 - 43 minutes - 39.8 MBRyan is one of my "older" subjects. Because he is in his early 30's he has amazing insight. He only got on line porn in college, high school was Playboy magazines and videos. He shares how drastically different on-line porn effects your sexual function and overall relationship happiness. As well, how his recovery has taught him about true pleasure and the really helpful steps he has employed to make his recovery stick.
10. How Drastically Today’s Porn Impacts Viewers VS Pre Pornhub - Anonymous “Ryan”
August 15, 2020 20:00 - 43 minutes - 39.8 MBRyan, 32 yrs, got on line porn in college, high school was Playboy magazines and videos. On-line porn devastated his sexual function and overall relationship happiness, a concerning difference from Playboy Magazine days. Recovery has taught him about true pleasure and really helpful tools he employs to make his recovery stick.
9. An Invitation To Quit Pornography
August 05, 2020 04:00 - 42 minutes - 77.8 MBIf you have a feeling that porn is not benefiting you and you want to walk away...LISTEN. Here is an invitation to change your life and start getting control. These are tips I have learned from the last several years of talking to reformed porn addicts and experts as well as the best research out there. Don't let porn control you, you deserve to live the best life...and have great sex until you are 90. You are invited!
Episode #9 An Invitation To Quit Pornography
August 05, 2020 04:00 - 42 minutes - 77.8 MBIf you have a feeling that porn is not benefiting you and you want to walk away...LISTEN. Here is an invitation to change your life and start getting control. These are tips I have learned from the last several years of talking to reformed porn addicts and experts as well as the best research out there. Don't let porn control you, you deserve to live the best life...and have great sex until you are 90. You are invited!
8. Teens Need More Than Our Inadequate Cultural Stories Around Sex
July 23, 2020 16:26 - 56 minutes - 38.5 MBBernard Beckett, award-winning author, playwright & teacher, is intuitive and smart, looking at life and the stories that form us. What are kids learning about sex from the stories our culture and porn has told them? Sex should be pleasurable, fun and mutually desired, but that is not the story we teach teens. Ultimately that anemic narrative does not serve them because the best parts of sex are left out of the conversation. We need to talk about the pleasure of sex too.
Episode #8 Teens Need More Than Our Inadequate Cultural Stories Around Sex
July 23, 2020 16:26 - 56 minutes - 38.5 MBBernard Beckett, award-winning author, playwright & teacher, is intuitive and smart, looking at life and the stories that form us. What are kids learning about sex from the stories our culture and porn has told them? Sex should be pleasurable, fun and mutually desired, but that is not the story we teach teens. Ultimately that anemic narrative does not serve them because the best parts of sex are left out of the conversation. We need to talk about the pleasure of sex too.
Episode #7 Anonymous “Clare” – Sexual Curiosity, Cultural Compliance and Consent
July 16, 2020 19:32 - 38 minutes - 34.8 MBClare tells an all too familiar story of the cultural compliance of girls and how it can lead to not standing up for themselves even in the face of sexual assault. This is a story parents and girls MUST hear!
7. Sexual Curiosity, Cultural Compliance and Consent - Anonymous “Clare”
July 16, 2020 19:32 - 38 minutes - 34.8 MBClare tells an all too familiar story of the cultural compliance of girls and how it can lead to not standing up for themselves even in the face of sexual assault. This is a story parents and girls MUST hear!
6. Revelations Of A 3- Month Research Project On Porn
July 08, 2020 18:06 - 1 hour - 45.6 MBStephanie sits with Jo Robertson to talk about the results of a extensive study on porn content today, how porn sites function and how they advertise to children. Monthly, Jo spends time on all of the social media platforms and porn sites to understand how the content is evolving. She reveals what she believes is more common and harmful than porn induced erectile dysfunction and why Instagram is porn’s best friend.
#6 Jo Robertson, Sex Therapist, Speaker, Porn Researcher
July 08, 2020 18:06 - 1 hour - 45.6 MBStephanie sits with Jo Robertson to talk about the results of a extensive study on porn content today, how porn sites function and how they advertise to children. Monthly, Jo spends time on all of the social media platforms and porn sites to understand how the content is evolving. She reveals what she believes is more common and harmful than porn induced erectile dysfunction and why Instagram is porn’s best friend.
Episode #6 Jo Robertson, Sex Therapist, Speaker, Porn Researcher
July 08, 2020 18:06 - 1 hour - 45.6 MBStephanie sits with Jo Robertson to talk about the results of a extensive study on porn content today, how porn sites function and how they advertise to children. Monthly, Jo spends time on all of the social media platforms and porn sites to understand how the content is evolving. She reveals what she believes is more common and harmful than porn induced erectile dysfunction and why Instagram is porn’s best friend.
5. Violent porn turns me on- Anonymous "Dave”
July 02, 2020 21:46 - 41 minutes - 39.2 MBDave tells his story about the devastating fallout of early exposure to and heavy use of on-line pornography. Porn decimated his sexual performance, his self-confidence, his feelings about his body and how it ultimately lead to the destruction of the relationships he wanted most.
5. The Fallout From Early Exposure to Porn - Anonymous "Dave”
July 02, 2020 21:46 - 41 minutes - 39.2 MBDave tells his story about the devastating fallout of early exposure to and heavy use of on-line pornography. Porn decimated his sexual performance, his self-confidence, his feelings about his body and how it ultimately lead to the destruction of the relationships he wanted most.
#5 Anonymous ‘Dave” –The Fallout From Early Exposure to Porn
July 02, 2020 21:46 - 41 minutes - 39.2 MBDave tells his story about the devastating fallout of early exposure to and heavy use of on-line pornography. Porn decimated his sexual performance, his self-confidence, his feelings about his body and how it ultimately lead to the destruction of the relationships he wanted most.
Episode #5 Anonymous "Dave” –The Fallout From Early Exposure to Porn
July 02, 2020 21:46 - 41 minutes - 39.2 MBDave tells his story about the devastating fallout of early exposure to and heavy use of on-line pornography. Porn decimated his sexual performance, his self-confidence, his feelings about his body and how it ultimately lead to the destruction of the relationships he wanted most.
Episode #4 Interview with Cindy Pierce, Porn Culture and the Problem with Toxic Masculinity
June 24, 2020 14:15 - 1 hour - 44 MBCindy Pierce has been talking with boys for decades. Her humorous storytelling approach magnifies her impact as a sexuality educator. We sat down to have a talk about a term we both hate “Toxic Masculinity” and how parents can help their boys survive in today’s culture.
4. Porn Culture and the Problem with Toxic Masculinity
June 24, 2020 14:15 - 1 hour - 44 MBCindy Pierce has been talking with boys for decades. Her humorous storytelling approach magnifies her impact as a sexuality educator. We sat down to have a talk about a term we both hate “Toxic Masculinity” and how parents can help their boys survive in today’s culture.
Episode #2 Anonymous “Gabby” – Easy Accessibility of Pornography and "Friends"
June 13, 2020 17:12 - 41 minutes - 37.6 MBIt is more important than ever that we talk to our daughters about pornography. Most people believe it is a boy issue, but statistics show 30% of habitual users are female. Moreover, the ubiquitous exposure to pornography is fostering unhealthy gender norms and sexual expectations. Gabby’s story highlights some less obvious consequences of porn and the need to give our daughters the permission and openness to come to us with anything.
2. Easy Accessibility of Pornography and "Friends" - Anonymous “Gabby”
June 13, 2020 17:12 - 41 minutes - 37.6 MBIt is more important than ever that we talk to our daughters about pornography. Most people believe it is a boy issue, but statistics show 30% of habitual users are female. Moreover, the ubiquitous exposure to pornography is fostering unhealthy gender norms and sexual expectations. Gabby’s story highlights some less obvious consequences of porn and the need to give our daughters the permission and openness to come to us with anything.
Episode #1 Introducing: Laid Bare With Anonymous X
June 13, 2020 17:02 - 10 minutes - 9.84 MBEvery Wednesday, join me, Stephanie Boye, as I explore the sexual culture today. Pornography has become the number one sex educator in the United States. What does that mean for our kids? How are they impacted by seeing it? How does it change their relationships, ideas about their bodies, their sexual health, and our culture at large? How can parents step up and become the primary sexuality educator to their kids? What do teens who have had a challenging porn habit have to say? How h...
1. Introducing: Laid Bare With Anonymous X
June 13, 2020 17:02 - 10 minutes - 9.84 MBEvery Wednesday, join me, Stephanie Boye, as I explore the sexual culture today. Pornography has become the number one sex educator in the United States. What does that mean for our kids? How are they impacted by seeing it? How does it change their relationships, ideas about their bodies, their sexual health, and our culture at large? How can parents step up and become the primary sexuality educator to their kids? What do teens who have had a challenging porn habit have to say? How h...
3. Porn Related Sexual and Erectile Dysfunction
June 03, 2020 21:20 - 1 hour - 41.9 MBI talk to so many kids that understand the power pornography has over their generation. Here is straight talk from a leading urologist, Dr. Tarek Pacha, on the topic of porn today. They will learn about the 4 C's of addiction, what I call "red flags" for anyone who is concerned about a troubling porn habit, 5 ways porn today is vastly different from the parent generation, tips and tricks you can try if you have PIED to begin to heal your body and so much more.
Episode #3 Leading Urologist, Tarek Pacha, on Porn Related Sexual and Erectile Dysfunction
June 03, 2020 21:20 - 1 hour - 41.9 MBI talk to so many kids that understand the power pornography has over their generation. Here is straight talk from a leading urologist on the topic of porn today. They will learn about the 4 C's of addiction, what I call "red flags" for anyone who is concerned about a troubling porn habit, 5 ways porn today is vastly different from the parent generation, tips and tricks you can try if you have PIED to begin to heal your body and so much more.