Kinky Frame of Mind
171 episodes - English - Latest episode: 7 days ago -Come take a peek in the kinky minds of Don and Syn as we discuss all things kinky. We discuss kink, bdsm, poly, and swinging
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Episode 71 - Why is the community important
July 02, 2021 06:00 - 57 minutes - 42.9 MBEpisode 71 - Why is the community important - In this episode we look at an email question about why we say its important to get involved in your local community and how to get involved the best way. We share our views on why we feel its important to get involved Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind AltPlayGround Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at Shop Alternative Lifestyle Podcasters - FullSwapShop.com T...
Episode 70 - How we look at Leaders!
June 25, 2021 06:00 - 44 minutes - 33.7 MBEpisode 70 - How we look at Leaders! In this episode we discuss our New Orleans Trips. Then we get on a discussion on how we look at and hold out leaders to mix matched standard. Leaders are human and need to be treated like that Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind AltPlayGround Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at Shop Alternative Lifestyle Podcasters - FullSwapShop.com Then Check us out at Instagram ...
Episode 69 - why do you believe that
June 18, 2021 06:00 - 59 minutes - 45.8 MBEpisode 69 - why do you believe that - In this episode we talk about why we believe what we believe. we talk about getting our own point of view and being able to understand that and express it. Then we also talk about vetting again since it comes up in conversations so often Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind AltPlayGround Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at Shop Alternative Lifestyle Podcasters - FullSwap...
Episode 68 - Toxic am I in a that kind of dynamic?
June 11, 2021 06:00 - 1 hour - 44.7 MBEpisode 68 - Toxic am I in a that kind of dynamic? In this episode we have a email from a couple about am I in a toxic poly dynamic. We look at traits of a toxic person and we discuss from out past times how it looks and feels Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind AltPlayGround Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at Shop Alternative Lifestyle Podcasters - FullSwapShop.com Then Check us out at Instagram ...
Episode 67 - Breaking up is the hardest thing
June 04, 2021 06:00 - 54 minutes - 40.2 MBEpisode 67 - Breaking up is the hardest thing - In this episode we discuss a couple questions asked, the first is about what back up story you use for people you meet in the lifestyle to your family and friends. Then we have a question about handling a break up and how to move forward when both in the lifestyle. Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind AltPlayGround Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at Shop Alterna...
Episode 66 - Compliments give and receive
May 28, 2021 06:00 - 56 minutes - 41.9 MBEpisode 66 - Compliments give and receive - In this episode we talk about giving genuine compliments, we also discuss why we don't want to back handed compliments. Then we talk about how hard it is to accept or receive compliments Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind AltPlayGround Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at Shop Alternative Lifestyle Podcasters - FullSwapShop.com Then Check us out at Instagram...
Episode 65 - Do's and Don'ts at events
May 21, 2021 12:04 - 1 hour - 49.3 MBEpisode 65 - Do's and Don'ts at events. In this episode we go over a list of do's and don't at events since we are all getting back in the swing of events Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind AltPlayGround Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at Shop Alternative Lifestyle Podcasters - FullSwapShop.com Then Check us out at Instagram @kinkyframeofmind • Instagram photos and videos Twitter (1) kinkyf...
Episode 64 - They are trying to be to controlling
May 14, 2021 06:00 - 59 minutes - 43.9 MBEpisode 64 - They are trying to be to controlling - In this episode we look at a couple email questions, the first is a tough one about help some your dating with insecurities and with jealousy. Listen to our take on this and how we handle it in our self and our dynamics. They second question is about a poly partner being to controlling and how it address that. We need to go back to the negotiation part and relook at it Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind AltPlayG...
Episode 63 - Terms Term and more Terms
May 07, 2021 06:00 - 56 minutes - 40.4 MBEpisode 63 - Terms Term and more Terms - In this Episode we look at some common lifestyle terms that get used wrong the most. We discuss how people use terms to fit what they want or need a lot and not what they really mean. Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind AltPlayGround Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at Shop Alternative Lifestyle Podcasters - FullSwapShop.com Then Check us out at Instagram ...
Episode 62 - Syn's Past and how it has made her who she is
April 30, 2021 06:00 - 1 hour - 47.9 MBEpisode 62 - Syn's Past and how it has made her who she is - In this episode we talked about syn's past and her relationship with her mom. How she had a codependent relationship and how then that moved into Her and Don's marriage. We discuss how she has dealt with this and many our her early on concerns and views of the lifestyle. Then we discuss how this has effected some aspects of the lifestylefor her still today. Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind AltPlayGround ...
Episode 61 - All about Protocol
April 23, 2021 06:00 - 58 minutes - 44.8 MBEpisode 61 - All about Protocol - In this episode we have out first in studio guest, J7leatherwolf. In this episode we talk about protocol in a bdsm dynamic. We talk about what is protocol, how it works in a dynamic, different types of protocol. Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind AltPlayGround Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at Shop Alternative Lifestyle Podcasters - FullSwapShop.com Then Check us out ...
Episode 60 - A litte Q&A
April 16, 2021 06:00 - 54 minutes - 40.3 MBEpisode 60 - A little Q&A. In this episode we take a little break from the normal and spend some times going over a list of questions that got posted on a Facebook group. Sit back grab your pizza rolls and enjoy the conversation Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind AltPlayGround Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at Shop Alternative Lifestyle Podcasters - FullSwapShop.com Then Check us out at Instagram ...
Episode 59 - Don't be a Debbie Downer
April 09, 2021 06:00 - 50 minutes - 37.3 MBEpisode 59 - Don't be a Debbie Downer. In this episode we talk about not being a Debbie Downer. We all know one and know what its like when we see them. We talk about the different types of Debbie Downers. From the woe is me, to the over serious, the negative Nellie and so on. Then we talk a little why sometimes people act like this. Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind AltPlayGround Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchend...
Episode 58 - 9 questions to ask
April 02, 2021 06:00 - 1 hour - 49.3 MBEpisode 58 - 9 questions to ask - In this episode we look at an article that popped up on a couple Facebook groups about questions to ask future partners or dates. It goes from hierarchy to are certain dates special to are certain acts and even how will other relationships effect us. Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind AltPlayGround Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at Shop Alternative Lifestyle Podcasters...
Episode 57 - Hotwife vs Cuckold
March 26, 2021 06:00 - 1 hour - 46 MBEpisode 57 - Hotwife vs Cuckold In this episode we take a look at the difference in Hotwife play and Cuckold. We look at why people enjoy both of them and why they can be a benefit to your relationship, We talk about being educated and knowing terms when talking to people and if we dont know the importance of asking questions and finding mentors to show us and help us.
Episode 56 - Do you have a Hallpass
March 12, 2021 13:13 - 58 minutes - 46 MBEpisode 56- Do you have a Hall Pass In this episode we discuss how to ask people if they have a Hall Pass or play separate. Finding the best way for you to find out, is it asking upfront, watching them and seeing or paying attention to post on social media. Next we look at an email from a guy trying to control his partner to play more. Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind AltPlayGround Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merche...
Episode 55 - The Miami Trip
March 05, 2021 07:00 - 55 minutes - 45.3 MBEpisode 55 - The Miami trip, in this episode we talk about out little get a way to Miami, we hung out this weekend with a lot of the AltPlayground Podcast family. we discuss our travel days and our great time there. We discuss the culture differences in Kansas and Miami lol. we got to meet the people from https://www.jetsurf.com/us/ it was fun to watch them. Sit back and enjoy our fun story Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind AltPlayGround Its our site of choice ...
Episode - 54 Which one of US is going to handle that
February 26, 2021 07:00 - 42 minutes - 34.5 MBEpisode - 54: Which one of US is going to handle this - In this episode we discuss talk about some issues at a recent meet and greet, how a persons behaviors can set the tone and example. we also discuss having consent to do things. Then we discuss about a Facebook question on how we handle or who will handle issues when they come up with others. Have a plan on how things will go Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind AltPlayGround Its our site of choice join our Co...
Episode 53 - Stickers and Filters oh MY!!
February 20, 2021 02:20 - 1 hour - 55.7 MBEpisode 53 - Stickers and Filters oh MY!! Its our ONE YEAR!! In this Episode we have to email questions the first is about if stickers are ok on profile pics cause of work issues. We give our views and pointers on that. The next one is we look at a couple that has had a few issues in their path in the lifestyle with other couple and see if there is a common error Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind AltPlayGround Its our site of choice join our Community on there ...
episode 52 - switchy switch
February 12, 2021 13:34 - 44 minutes - 37.7 MBepisode 52 - switchy switch, welcome back to our fun show. In this episode we have a couple questions asked to us the first is about a sub that wants to become a switch for her partner, we share our views on switching. then we have a couple that has limited time to meet and we discus how they can make the best bang for their time. Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind AltPlayGround Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchend...
Episode 51 - How do we get out of this?
February 05, 2021 07:00 - 59 minutes - 48.6 MBIn this episode we look at a couple email questions, the first is is about how do i not come so fast. So we look at techniques and things that can help you slow down on cumming, we discuss edging a little. We talk about the old joke of thinking BASEBALL. The second question is about what to do when one of the couples is done and what is your out plan, how long do you wait or what is the plan, we discuss thing we have heard and experienced as for how to get out of this or ending the playtime....
Episode 50 - Vanilla Friend play? good or bad?
January 29, 2021 07:00 - 1 hour - 50.9 MBEpisode 50: Vanilla Friend play? Good or Bad? So we made it to Episode 50!! In this episode we have two messages we look at, the first is a common problem in the lifestyle how to handle a guy that is to touchy and how people can judge you if you stop him. So we discuss why we need to stop this behavior. what to do if this happens to you ann who we should tell. The second question hits a little closer to home, a guy messages and says he is interested in his friend playing with his wife and...
Episode 49 - First solo play chaos
January 22, 2021 07:00 - 1 hour - 59.8 MBEpisode 49- First play chaos. In this episode we discuss a message about a couples first attempt at solo play. So many rules and communication issues that we reflect on and share our views on what could have been done to prevent and help this situation. Also there was some maybe hidden agenda on the part of the date and his girlfriend. So we talk about hidden agendas and how they can ruin a great opportunity. Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind AltPlayGround Its ou...
Episode 48 - First date play ?
January 15, 2021 07:05 - 49 minutes - 42 MBEpisode 48 - First date play ? In this episode Don talks about a few exciting upcoming things in their world. Then we look at some emails we got, first is playing on the first date or not? what your rules and how does it work for you. Then we get an email about how to tell someone its not working out. so we look at that and discuss ways but we also look at is their a reason this couple has a track record of only playing 2-3 times with couples Check out www.kinkyframeofmind.com ww...
Episode 47 - Damn that is to BIG
January 08, 2021 07:00 - 55 minutes - 46.7 MBEpisode 47 - Damn that is to BIG. In this Episode we have a listener question about how to tell someone their penis is to BIG. Then we have a discussion about its a new year and a good time to review rules and goals. Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kinkyfo...
Episode 46- end of year
January 01, 2021 07:05 - 39 minutes - 34.9 MBEpisode 46 - end of year in this episode we look back at the last year and talk about the good and bad. then we also talk about how we are all part of the same group no matter where we fall in our play Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kinkyfom Email ...
Episode 45 - Fair rules
December 25, 2020 07:05 - 1 hour - 58 MBEpisode 45 - Fair rules. In this episode we look at being fair on rules and keeping a balance. Also we discuss a question that came up on out Facebook group about numbers of partners. Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kinkyfom Email [email protected]...
episode 44- Let's educate new people
December 18, 2020 12:31 - 55 minutes - 47.5 MBEpisode 44 - Let's educate new people, in this episode Don goes on a rant about a post he saw on a site about someone getting mad when a new person questioned their dynamic. We talk about how to handle this type of interaction and how we need to help educate new people Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyfr...
Episode 43 : Just not feeling it
December 11, 2020 12:42 - 52 minutes - 46.5 MBEpisode 43 : Just not feeling it - In this episode we talk about a message we got about what to do when you are just not feeling it or feeling sexy. Then we have a question about what to do when the person just wants to talk sex all the time Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter ht...
Episode 42: how to get some interest
December 04, 2020 12:42 - 54 minutes - 48.1 MBEpisode 42: how to get some interest - in this episode we talk about a question on how can i get people interested in me and we take a look at getting started in your rope journey Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kinkyfom Email [email protected] ...
Episode 41 - Don't Judge
November 26, 2020 22:36 - 46 minutes - 39.2 MBEpisode 41 - Don't Judge In this episode we talk about judging and assuming people on personality Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kinkyfom Email [email protected] Facebook Don Kinkyfom
Episode 40 - That's a deal breaker dude!!
November 19, 2020 02:28 - 1 hour - 51.3 MBEpisode 40 - That's a deal breaker Dude! in this episode we look at what is a deal breaker for you and what you can deal we, we both discuss our deal breakers and then we discuss a few answers we go on our Facebook group. Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/ki...
Episode 39 - The hard Question
November 11, 2020 12:50 - 54 minutes - 46.2 MBEpisode 39 - The hard Question - In this episode we look at a couple questions. The first is about what is ok messaging and how to ask what is ok. The second Question is probably one of the hardest to bring up when was you last STI test and do you have anything Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeof...
Episode 38: What Party do I go to
November 05, 2020 02:57 - 51 minutes - 43.5 MBEpisode 38 - What Party do I go to? in this episode we talk about we are in the busy time of swinger parties Halloween to Mardi Gras is a busy time so many parties and options. We give you a few things to thing about when choosing what event to attend. What will increase your personal chances and enjoyment Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Insta...
Episode 37: Littles
October 28, 2020 12:05 - 50 minutes - 43 MBIn this episode we take a look at age play, we look at different aspects of the kink Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kinkyfom Email [email protected] Facebook Don Kinkyfom
Episode 36 - quench that thirst
October 20, 2020 15:04 - 53 minutes - 44.2 MBEpisode 36 -Quench that thirst. In this episode we discuss some do's and don'ts of meet and greets. We share incidents that happened at a recent meet and greet with us. Then we also take a look at what thirsty behavior is. What makes you appear to be thirsty Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ ...
episode 35: breaking in
October 08, 2020 02:13 - 1 hour - 52.6 MBEpisode 35: Breaking in. In this episode we look at an email question that ask about how to break into the scene and how to get invited to events. The the question also deals a little with body type issues so we jump into body shaming a little Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter ...
Episode 34: what on your fuck it list
September 30, 2020 23:31 - 53 minutes - 45.2 MBEpisode 34: What's on your fuck it list In this episode we talk about stuff that makes up or give idea on what's on different peoples fuck it list. We also go into detail about some of our top items on our list Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kinkyfom ...
Episode 33 Hymn 103 Comprehension
September 23, 2020 11:49 - 55 minutes - 46 MBEpisode 33 Hymn 103 Comprehension In this Episode discuss the importance of communication in our relationships, but not just how to communicate bit making sure our partner comprehends what we are saying that is the important part. We also discuss communication keyword or secrets words on dates. So we can know how the other is feeling during an outing Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchandise at WWW.fullswapshop....
Episode 32 - Come Prepared and Ready
September 15, 2020 20:22 - 53 minutes - 45.8 MBIn this Episode discuss a couple topics, the first is coming to a party prepared and ready. We discuss pointer on coming to a BDSM party prepared and ready for a scene. In the second half we discuss how hard bottoms can be on themselves when a scene gets cut short or does not go good. altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyfr...
Episode 31: What's your favorite Position
September 10, 2020 19:19 - 1 hour - 49.9 MBIn this episode we discuss our favorite position and why we like them. We chat about asking this question on some Facebook groups and the odd answers we got. This the brings up the discussion of being an active and attentive partner Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://...
Episode 30 - This break brought to you by
September 01, 2020 21:48 - 1 hour - 51.3 MBEpisode 30 - This break brought to you by, we take a look at causes of lifestyle burnout and why taking a break is ok and important. we discuss some of the top reason we have seen burn out. The we look at how to fix burnout and what we need to do to prevent it and have a great lifestyle experience Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there check out our merchandise at https://www.fullswapshop.com/ Instagram https://www.instagram...
Episode 29 -The MAN Show
August 27, 2020 04:19 - 1 hour - 56.3 MBEpisode 29 The MAN Show. In this episode we take a peek into Men issues. We look at men's health and performance. We also give lots of male tips in the lifestyle. Don share about many of his health issues and how finding them has helped his overall performance and life. Its some real time with him Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter http...
Episode 28 Manners, I know your momma taught you better
August 19, 2020 12:01 - 56 minutes - 46 MBEpisode 28 Manners, I know your momma taught you better In this episode we look at manners and how to talk to and treat potential playmates. So many times we get carried away when we are talking to a potential playmate and we can ruin our chances off the start. We also talk about not judging people on who they play with Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeo...
Episode 27 - Be a MF'ing Rockstar at being you
August 12, 2020 01:10 - 36 minutes - 31.3 MBIn this episode we talk about how the lifestyle becomes a family and how family helps its members. We also talk about finding your place and what you are in the community and doing it the best you can. Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kinkyfom Email [email protected] Facebook Don Kinkyfom
Episode 26 - I'd squirt in your FACE!!
August 06, 2020 12:16 - 43 minutes - 35.7 MBEpisode 26 - In this episode we discuss a couple funny stories this week about squirting and then we take a look at how we talk about our other halves on social media. Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kinkyfom Email [email protected] Facebook Don Kinkyfom
Episode 25: questions to ask potential playmates
July 29, 2020 11:55 - 49 minutes - 41.4 MBEpisode 25: In this episode we take a look at some questions to start conversations with potential playmates to get the best results Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kinkyfom Email [email protected] Facebook Don Kinkyfom
Episode 24 - FWB what's this all about
July 23, 2020 11:38 - 55 minutes - 44.8 MBIn this episode we take a look at what FWB really is and then have a little fun with some would you rather questions Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kinkyfom Email [email protected] Facebook Don Kinkyfom
episode 23 - Misconceptions of the lifestyle
July 15, 2020 11:42 - 50 minutes - 41.5 MBIn this episode we look at some major misconceptions of the lifestyle and also we discuss first meets one on one Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kinkyfom Email [email protected] Facebook Don Kinkyfom
Episode 22 - Are you PRICK?
July 07, 2020 15:43 - 48 minutes - 41.4 MBEpisode 22 - Are you PRICK? in this episode we look at the 3 basic Safety Mindsets in the BDSM community. Are you SSC, RACK or PRICK. We take a look at each of these are discus what they mean and what the differences are. We hope to help you play safe and paly hard and have fun Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kink...