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We are back after missing last weeks episode, Pixie was sick but she feels much better now. Tumblr bought again (0:36) If you remember we covered when Tumblr decided it didn't like smut on it's platform any more and has been systematically removing it. The large community that has grown around Tumblr thanks to it's open policies has left in droves thanks to it's decision to "clean up" it's platform. Turns out the plan hasn't worked out so well and this week it was sold to the company t...

Male rape is not a crime in the UK

Trigger warning: This weeks episode is talking about rape and the laws around it. Please don't listen if you are affected by such things. Theranos goes on trial next year [0:30] As we have previously talked about the Theranos court case starts next year and it is going to be very interesting to see how that plays out. Chatholic church paying victims with conditions [2:30] The Chatholic church is helping out victims of abuse even when their cases are out the normal window for being ta...

De-platforming - A discussion with Sluts & Scholars

We missed last week simply because we did the interview then I forgot to record an intro. Work got in the way then before you know it it's the weekend again. Discussion with Sluts & Scholars Sluts & Scholars is a sex education podcast where they talk to amazing people from all over the spectrum about sex and life. They have some amazing interviews and you need to check them out. Find them: Twitter Apple podcasts Podcast feed Patreon We talk about how they got de-platformed fro...

Is it OK to erase the past?

We missed last week because we were at Pride, but this week we are back. Puppy Pride [0:17] We missed last weeks episode because we were at Pride with Puppy Pride and Pups Out. They invited us along to their event so we could run the mini-flogger workshop for the pups. Loads made their own mini-flogger and I think they ended up being used for crowd control. It was a lot of fun. New Zealand charing an entry fee [7:12] Who does New Zealand think it is charging an entry fee to come in...

Yet more random bits

This week it is hot here in the UK, we are baking and if we can complain about it we can. Pork bellies about to go up [1:10] Want to get us to talk about something all you have to do is ask. This morning @DomSigns asked us to talk about pork bellies so happy to oblige. Turns out there are serious cases of swine flu in China and it looks like port prices are going to rise 40% soon and continue well into 2020. Get your money in now if ou are an investor, if you love bacon.. sorry but it ...

Crap is the new Black

Everything in the UK seems to be falling apart so we are going to do our best to fix that... well, talk about it at least. UK to delay Age Verification on Porn sites [1:37] The UK has delayed it's roll out of age verification checks for an unknown amount of time. There has been no word on what is actually going on, only that it is going to be delayed for some time. Who knows how much. If they can't sort this out how the hell are they going to deal with Brexit. 76% of people in the UK sti...

More random bits

LovingBDSM back on the air [0:30] The great podcast LovingBDSM are back on the air and well worth listening too. They have some great kink puns. This weeks episode was all about playing when you have no privacy. LovingBDSM Podcast US embassy's banned from flying the pride flag [2:20] US embassy's have been banned from flying the pride flag this year. But it isn't as effective as the Trump government wanted. Roman catholic bishop says catholics shouldn't support pride [6:40] A rom...

Random Round Up

Notes to follow

Random round up

There is a lot to talk about this week, notes coming.

Random Round Up

A random assortment of things around around the week this week from deep fakes being used for good to awful UK politicians

LGBT+, Rape, and Penguins... oh my

Let's get political

Catholic Abuse

Details to follow

Consent & Harm

Show some love for the people making some of our kinky paracord items. @Curious_Kitt and @Beacon_ropes made some amazing things, check them out. If you want to make your own kinky things check out or YouTube page and start making. I will be adding the next course soon. Check out @Curious_Kitt's own podcast @TrySexuals. This week I have been listening to "Against the rules with Michael Lewis" podcast, really interesting and well worth a listen. Is it OK for rugby players to say gay peo...

Despicable Brunei and LGBT rights in schools

Check out the new podcast by @GGGBPodcast on the 9th April. All about spanking, and who doesn't love that. Fat shaming with a great twist [1:20] A teenager was fat-shamed as she went into a bakery, her solution to the fat shaming was to bu every cake in the bakery. As she went into the bakery we hear voices behind her say "Let's hope this fat bitch doesn't buy all the cupcakes". So rather than buy the 6 she planned she bought every one in the shop. Find out more Grindr exposes natio...

Insanity in the UK

No time for pleasantries this week, we have a lot to cover. A shout out to Beacon_ropes, someone I talk to often they have just been invited to their first event and they are over the moon. Check them out on Instagram, they are from the homeland so Pixie is happy. First ever all female spacewalk cancelled In the news this week there was a lot of discussion about the all female spacewalk that got cancelled. With the fingers pointing back at NASA saying it isn't right that there isn't eno...

Eroticon 2019

We have just finished another Eroticon and being around so many creative fun people makes it hard not to want to be doing something with them again. So while it is still really hard to find the time we do want to bring back the podcast because there is so much to talk about. New Zealand Shooting [8:10] Our thoughts go out to everyone involved in the violence that has happened in New Zealand. Eroticon 2019 [10:10] Another year and Eroticon has come and gone, and it was as much fun as ...

Discussion - How I learned it was OK to hit a willing submissive

  This week we are talking about Souther Sir's article about how he came to terms with his kink and learned it was OK to hit someone if they asked for it. For those who don't know Souther Sir is one half of LovingBDSM a podcast where he and Kayla Lords discuss everything Kink and BDSM related. It is a brilliant show and they are well worth checking out. Rants Centre Parcs pulls ads from the Daily Mail over homophobic column Centre Parcs has pulled adverts from The Daily Mail after...

How I learned it was okay to hit a willing submissive

I was in my mid-twenties when I first dipped my toes into kink. At that time I had no idea there was a name for BDSM or that there was a community devoted to it. What I did know is that there were things I liked that were outside the norm of what I perceived relationships to be. What I wanted was wrong or deviant, but certainly not normal. During the mid-eighties I discovered I loved tying up my then-wife. I used whatever I had handy at the time - scarves, neckties, and even the tie from m...

We're back

It has been a while but we are back and things are a little different. No article this week just catching you up on what has been going on and what is coming Pixie praise [3:30] New Zealand police have shown off a police car repainted in pride rainbows rather than the normal blue and white. They are showing they support the LGBTQ community and are keen to help and understand where they can. As an organisation we look to enocourage staff to use who they are, not loose who they are when b...

Discussion: What are the best kinky podcasts?

This week we are talking about what are the best kinky podcasts out there. Rants Australia votes to allow same sex marriage [3:20] Over the last few months the Australian government have been having a postal vote on should they allow same sex marriage. That has finished and it was approved with over 61% of the vote. It is now up to the government to enforce the publics opinion and pass the laws required to make it officially sanctioned. Couple who opposed same sex marriage said they...

What is the best kinky podcast

Podcasting, as we know it today, is still a relatively new medium. The word itself is a portmanteau, devised by a BBC journalist named Ben Hammersley back in 2004 – pod (as in the brand name of that very familiar MP3 player) plus broadcast. Although others prefer using “Portable on Demand” to avoid a direct reference to the company behind that famous MP3 player – which makes sense as download and play isn’t restricted to it alone. And it is, in 2017, a medium in very rude health. Whether y...

Finding your way in a sea of information discussion

This week we are finally talking about our article by Molly Moore called Finding your way in a sea of information. Sorry for the delay in this weeks discussion, there have been a lot going on on top of a halloween photo shoot which means everything has been pushed out. Rants Australian exit polls look positive for gay rights [3.25] By the looks of it there is a good majority of people voting yes to gay marriage (64.3% as if the latest figures) but these things are always off the mar...

Finding your way in a sea of information

A long long time ago (OK not that long ago really in the scheme of things but when we are talking about the internet things have changed rapidly) if you wanted to learn about something then your choices were to go to school, read a book, find a community to educate you or learn on the job. Obviously there are lots of overlaps between these things and they didn't, and still don't, operate in isolation of one another but what if the subject you wanted to learn about or the community you wanted...

Discussion: How to unbridle your inner pony and love it

This week we are talking about the pony play article written by Emmeline Peaches. It was a little rant heavy but there is so much going on that it's hard to not do it. Hugh Hefner - The good and the bad This week Hugh Hefner died, while he isn't someone we have thought about much, digging into his life a little has revealed some surprises. The good It is easy to see Hugh Hefner as a dirty old man, and perhaps at the end of his life that is something he has earned. But it is worth loo...

How to unbridle your inner pony and love it

The Western relationship with horses, especially in the UK and Europe, is long-standing and very complex. Horses are technically 'domesticated' but no one would ever imagine cooing over a horse in the same way they might a dog or cat. Instead, there's a certain amount of dignity that comes with the human/horse dynamic: A sense of inherent respect for the ever-untameable spirit of the stallion and the eternal elegance of a show horse in dressage. Horses are, even when owned, a commanding ...

Discussion: How wrestling is the kink you have been missing

Rants Australian PM supports church that discriminates against pro-gay straight couple An Austrailian church has told a straight couple that cannot marry them because they support gay marrage. In letter to the couple, the church’s pastor had written: “By continuing to officiate it would appear either that I support your views on same-sex marriage or that I am uncaring about this matter. As you know, neither statement is correct. “Also, if the wedding proceeded in the Ebenezer St John...

How wrestling is the kink you have been missing

It truly is a thrilling job like no other. I get paid to beat up men, while they enjoy every last second of it - it really is as good as it sounds! For people not into the scene it might sound a little odd, but men with a fetish for wrestling fit gorgeous girls hire me - and other women like me - to fulfil their fantasies. It’s fun, it’s sexy, it’s great for keeping fit, it’s exciting and can be competitive. Wrestling is a kink of sorts and I think men wrestle women because they enjoy th...

The complete truth about about Daddy Doms and Little Girls Discussion

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The complete truth about Daddy Doms and Little Girls

When I first discovered I was submissive, I believed myself to be only that. A submissive partner who craved discipline from and the power of my Dominant partner. Those things are still true. What I found out along the way, as I began to explore the world of Dominance and submission more, was that there was another part of me. A part I was afraid to name. I’m not just a submissive, I’m also a babygirl. Babygirls, and their babyboy counterparts, fall within the little spectrum of what we mo...

Handled with love: Puppy play 101 Discussion

Each week we talk about an adult themed topic. This week we are talking about Puppy play 101 based on the article written for us by Emmeline Peaches. Rants Strictly come dancing star offended [4:21] Strictly come dancing star Susan Calman has said she is "offended" by the row over her dance partner on the show. The openly lesbian comedian has faced critisim online for agreeing to dance with a male partner. She also notes she is getting a lot more critisim than the fellow competitor The...

Handled with love: Puppy play 101

As I was walking my dog today I realized why observing him brought me so much joy. Dogs are carefree, adventurous, curious, and high-spirited. They are, in every sense of the word, boundless, and they live their life in the moment and to the fullest. Yet, although dogs may also enjoy independent exploration of the world they also happen to be loving, dedicated, and sweetly submissive. Who wouldn’t want to bring at least some of these traits into their sub/dom dynamic? What Is Puppy Pla...

Sex blogging

  This week we are talking about our article Sex blogging: Why gender makes absolutely no difference written by Innocent Lovetboy. Big thanks Big thanks to Hot Octopus for putting us on their top sex podcasts list  Rants John Lewis scraps 'boys' and 'girls' clothing As one of the leading UK department stores John Lewis has taken the surprising step of getting rid of gendered clothing. Their own lines will now no longer be aimed at a specific gender. Read more School student...

Sex blogging

  This week we are talking about our article Sex blogging: Why gender makes absolutely no difference written by Innocent Lovetboy. Big thanks Big thanks to Hot Octopus for putting us on their top sex podcasts list  Rants John Lewis scraps 'boys' and 'girls' clothing As one of the leading UK department stores John Lewis has taken the surprising step of getting rid of gendered clothing. Their own lines will now no longer be aimed at a specific gender. Read more School student...

Sex Invisible Discussion

This week we are talking about the article from our blog called "Sex Invisible" by KD Grace. Rants Donald Trump officially bans transgender people from the military [3.10] Donald Trump officially instructs the US Military to stop accepting transgender troops into service. Read more Far right leader Pauline Hanson wants a public vote on abbing the Burqa in Austrailia [9.15] To go along with a public vote on whether the country should allow gay marrage, they also want to ask if ...

Sex Invisible

In the age of pixels and videos, airbrushed ads and billboards, sex sells, but only glamourous sex, only the sex of youth and beauty. Let’s be honest, we live in a world where no one wants to see ‘mature sex.’ In fact, in our visually oriented lives, sex and age are not words that compliment each other. Sex between people over forty is something best kept out of sight, out of mind. When viewing scantily clothed people, we want them to be attractive. When reading a sexy novel, the character...

Asexuality and kink discussion

This week we are talking about Asexuality and Kink based on the article written by The Pagist. If you have not read it you can listen to it here on the podcast or read the article. Last week we made a little mistake. We said it was all quiet and there was little to report. Just as the Nazi's came out in Charlottesville. We recorded that episode a bit earlier than normal so we could go to a super secret meeting that weekend. Out hearts go out to the victoms in Charlottesville and Barcelon...

Asexuality and Kink

I’ve previously written here about some of the questions asexuals receive about our sexuality (or lack thereof). One I didn’t cover was the responses we receive when we come out as kinky. Kinksters are generally considered to be people with a PhD in sex, so it’s understandable that when the average person finds out someone who doesn’t experience sexual attraction is kinky it would cause gears to grind to a halt in their head and the words: ‘But, I thought you were asexual?’ to come flying ...

Body Positivity Discussion

This week we are talking about Body Positivity based on Candy Snatch's article (listen to the previous episode to hear the audio version). It is something we all encounter every day. For some it is a non-issue, they are at ease with who they are. But for many feeling positive about their own body is something they find hard to do.

Body Positivity

This week CandySnatch has written an article about body positivity and what it means to her. Why you need to stop being so critical of how you look and concentrate on how you feel. You might be able to control how you look, you might not. But it doesn't define who you are, you get to decide that.

Protectors discussion

This week we are doing something a little different. We have two very special guests: Kayla Lords and John Brownston from the amazing LovingBDSM podcast. We are talking about this weeks article on protectors. Are protectors a good thing? A lot of people coming into the kinky scene (female subs especially) can think it is a good idea to have someone look after them. There are plenty in the scene who are willing to help them. But are they really doing it for the right reasons and is it r...

Protectors

This is the reading of this weeks article "Proctors" by Zak Jane Keir.

Colour my kink

This week we are talking about our article Colour my kink written by Emmeline Peaches. Colour can have such a huge affect on your mood, so getting it right is very important. This week we are also sticking to the new format of 30 minutes. Keeping it trimmed down as much as possible but that doesn't mean we don't have time for some rants. Rants Little Shop of Horrors is being remade There are a few films that I think should never be touched. Among them is the musical version of Little...

Colour My Kink

Colour has a huge affect  on how you feel, but you don't always notice it. 

Sex on film

This week we are talking about Sex on film. From this weeks blog post by LadyLaidBear. We are trying something new this week, we are going to keep the length of the episode down to around 30 minutes. Mainly in an attempt to stop Andrew rambling on for ever. Let us know what you think. Rants These State Attorneys Are Demanding Betsy DeVos Keep Campus Rape Rules In Place Taxpayers on the hook for Kim Davis legal battle after judge rules she doesn’t have to pay Tories to update tran...

What can you expect at a munch?

Ever wanted to go to a munch but just don't know where to start or if it's even for you? This week we are talking all about them, what they are, and why you need to check one out. Rants Activity Mommy Buring Teen Vogue US Porn producers can now be sued for harm to minors Jeff Sessions Parallels Anti-LGBTQ Campaigns to the Work of Martin Luther King, Jr. Judge tosses conviction for activist who laughed at Sessions Police Shoot Unarmed Batman Cosplayers at Australian Sex Party ...

Intimacy and end of life care

This week we are talking about how to manage end of life care for people who want to be intimate. Based on the article from our blog written by Jetsetting Jasmine. If you find this a difficult subject then I would suggest you don't listen. Rants London Pride Week Mayor of London Sadiq Khan condemns Donald Trump for not recognising LGBT people at Pride in London Church of England to vote on transgender services Tans boy sues school distrct after being denied bathroom rights Germ...

Do you have the right to be kinky?

What are your rights? Is being allowed to enjoy your kinks one of those rights? Surprisingly the answer to these questions isn't clear. Here in the UK you can not agree to assult, and of course spanking someone is a form of assult. So technically you can never agree to it, and the one doing the spanking can be prosecuted. This week we are talking about the article written for us by Kayla Lords. Kayla writes about BDSM and other sexy matters, and has her own podcast Loving BDSM that is well...

Dress Codes

Notes coming soon

Kink & Religion

This week we are talking about our article by Victoria Blisse called Kink & Religion. Rants Grenfell Tower This week we have to talk about the tragedy that is Grenfell tower. How it is possible for the refurbished tower block can go up in flames like it did with so many lives lost is totally beyond us, and shouldn't have happened. Our thoughts go out to all the families affected. Amazon doesn't want you looking up the price of books on Amazon [12:08] Amazon has filed for a patent ...