EPS 368: Growing through what we’re going through with Chris Willard

My guest today is Dr. Chris Willard.  
Dr. Willard explains how trying to teach mindfulness to teens ended up being a learning opportunity for himself and why he wrote his new book, “How we Grow Through What We Go Through.” He explains the three types of trauma, then Casey & Chris connect on how much self-work needs to be done to parent teens. Casey asks what the first steps are for moving through triggers, and Dr. Willard shares how children & teens can be the catalyst for us to do that work. They dig into why we don’t punish adolescents and what tools to use when things do go sideways with your teen like pausing, responding vs. reacting, mindfulness, anticipating, co-regulating, building trust, & asking “what are both learning?” Dr. Willard and Casey wrap-up today by sharing some specific breathing strategies for all ages.
 
Key takeaways from the show

Post-traumatic growth 

The three types of trauma  

Doing the self-work to parent our teens

First steps for moving through triggers 

The benefits of making amends & repair with children 

Why we don’t punish adolescents

“Draw out their best, don’t punish out their worst” 

Tools for a dysregulated parent to stay connected & supportive 

Asking “what are both learning?” 

Starting early to build co-regulation strategies 

Breathing strategies for all-ages

 
For full show notes including transcripts, visit our website here. 
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My guest today is Dr. Chris Willard.  

Dr. Willard explains how trying to teach mindfulness to teens ended up being a learning opportunity for himself and why he wrote his new book, “How we Grow Through What We Go Through.” He explains the three types of trauma, then Casey & Chris connect on how much self-work needs to be done to parent teens. Casey asks what the first steps are for moving through triggers, and Dr. Willard shares how children & teens can be the catalyst for us to do that work. They dig into why we don’t punish adolescents and what tools to use when things do go sideways with your teen like pausing, responding vs. reacting, mindfulness, anticipating, co-regulating, building trust, & asking “what are both learning?” Dr. Willard and Casey wrap-up today by sharing some specific breathing strategies for all ages.

 

Key takeaways from the show

Post-traumatic growth 
The three types of trauma  
Doing the self-work to parent our teens
First steps for moving through triggers 
The benefits of making amends & repair with children 
Why we don’t punish adolescents
“Draw out their best, don’t punish out their worst” 
Tools for a dysregulated parent to stay connected & supportive 
Asking “what are both learning?” 
Starting early to build co-regulation strategies 
Breathing strategies for all-ages

 

For full show notes including transcripts, visit our website here. 

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices