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Incessantly Seeking

119 episodes - English - Latest episode: about 1 month ago - ★★★★★ - 3 ratings

Incessantly Seeking is a weekly podcast with guests from a variety of disciplines and backgrounds discussing the pursuit that drives their lives. Here we self reflect and find inspiration as we adapt and look ahead into this brave new world.
Season 2 is here! Incessantly Seeking is about the pursuit that drives our lives. Romantic love has always been a main life pursuit and I have a feeling many people can relate. So this season we are taking a deep dive into major themes that help or hinder us in finding (and keeping) that forever love.
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EP 59: How do EXPERIENCES Shape Your PERSONALITY? with Khail Anonymous

March 18, 2024 08:00 - 45 minutes - 83.6 MB

Join me for this exhilarating conversation with extreme experientialist Khail Anonymous ! Khail is a content creator who during the pandemic found his true calling: Experiencing life to the MAX! Khail now travels the world sharing his experiences to inspire you to get out there.  Some of the themes discussed here include: AI, travel, personality, growth and much more.  Make sure to follow Khail for great adventure tips and some hilarious videos you don't want to miss. You can find him on...

EP 58: The POWER of INTENTION with Chris Pan

March 11, 2024 08:00 - 38 minutes - 70.3 MB

Today we welcome Chris Pan creator of MyIntent bracelets. Chris Pan is a former Facebook executive turned mental heath advocate and activist. Chris left the tech world to create a community for people who were working on themselves.  MyIntent is not a jewelry company but a service project. The intention of the bracelet is to connect people with their purpose. It is also a great daily reminder. This project is a catalyst for meaningful conversations and positive action. It was created on t...

EP 57: HOW TO START OVER and Heal Through Art with Sara Quiricone

February 12, 2024 16:00 - 47 minutes - 86.2 MB

Research shows that half of marriages end in divorce. With those odds, why are we still getting married and if we happen to get a divorce, how do we hear from it?  Today we welcome Sara Quiriconi to discuss her healing journey, how creating her film SOLAZ PERSONA gave her perspective and the journey to finding love again.  Sara Quiriconi is a New England born actress, writer, producer, host and entrepreneur with a deep passion for storytelling. Having been in the creative industry for ov...

EP 56: SPLASH - THE MOVIES THAT BROKE US WITH MALCOLM BARRETT

February 05, 2024 08:00 - 44 minutes - 81.1 MB

Do you ever look back at the movies of your childhood and see similarities with how you saw relationships? Movies have always being an expression of society's beliefs and influenced the creation of the future. It's clear more than ever how our misconceptions today have roots in the TV and FILM of the past as research shows.  We welcome actor and comedian Malcolm Barrett to discuss the film SPLASH and how it's tropes mirror a lot of the relational issues we see today. IT is is anything INCE...

EP 55: THE TRUTH about ATTACHMENT STYLES with Thais Gibson

January 22, 2024 08:00 - 1 hour - 128 MB

I am thrilled to welcome Thais Gibson on our podcast today! Thais Gibson is a best-selling author, counselor, speaker, and leader in the personal development field.  She has been recognized by Psychology Today, Time Business News, The New York Post, Yahoo! News, Success Magazine, CEO Weekly, and many other outlets for her cutting-edge research on the subconscious mind and personal transformation.  Thais has a Ph.D. and is certified in over 13 modalities, including Cognitive Behavioral ...

EP 54: ESCAPING TWIN FLAMES - WTF! with Adriana Bucci

January 15, 2024 08:00 - 1 hour - 126 MB

Welcome back to our NARCISSISM SURVIVAL COACH and expert Ariana Bucci!  We are discussing today to new series on the cult group TWIN FLAMES and we can't stop saying WTF! If you have seen the 2 series on the topic both on Amazon and Netflix you know what we are talking about.  Adriana brings her expertise to discuss how did this happen, who is this Jeff guy and did people just follow him blindly.  Join us for a riveting conversation and some tips on how to avoid this cautionary tale.  ...

EP 53: How to IMPROVE YOUR RELATIONSHIPS with MICHAEL BUNGAY STAINER

January 08, 2024 08:00 - 43 minutes - 80.4 MB

Happy New Year to all our lovely listeners! To help you start the year right we have an amazing guest today, best selling author, Michael Bungay Stainer.  Michael Bungay Stanier is best known for his book The Coaching Habit which is the best-selling book on coaching this century and is considered a classic His most recent book is How to Work with (Almost) Anyone. It shows how to create psychological safety by building the Best Possible Relationship with key people at work. Today he is g...

EP 52: "LA IS THE WORST CITY TO DATE!" with STEPH TOLEV with as we PLANES, TRAINS and AUTOMOBILE

December 23, 2023 15:10 - 51 minutes - 94.6 MB

One of my favorite episodes recorded to this day I am thrilled to share this entertaining episode with comedian STEPH TOLEV as we discuss common romantic comedies movie tropes and how they informed our idea of dating and relationships.  Today we discuss PLANE, TRAINS AND AUTOMOBILES from how DATING IN LA IS THE WORST, to break ups, make ups and farts. We really covered all grounds. Enjoy this gift as you travel in your holiday journeys.  You can follow and find Steph Tolev tour dates on ...

EP 52: HORROR DATING STORIES with STEPH TOLEV

December 23, 2023 15:10 - 51 minutes - 94.6 MB

One of my favorite episodes recorded to this day I am thrilled to share this entertaining episode with comedian STEPH TOLEV as we discuss common romantic comedies movie tropes and how they informed our idea of dating and relationships.  Today we discuss PLANE, TRAINS AND AUTOMOBILES from how DATING IN LA IS THE WORST, to break ups, make ups and farts. We really covered all grounds. Enjoy this gift as you travel in your holiday journeys.  You can follow and find Steph Tolev tour dates on ...

EP 51: LOVE (AND MUSIC), ACTUALLY with Brian McKnight Jr.

December 04, 2023 08:00 - 47 minutes - 86.5 MB

Today we chat with musician and performer Brian McKnight Jr. who shares with us how music has always been his life partner, how to stay kind and healing your inner child through raising your own children.  Brian is currently performing live on Love Actually Live! at the Wallis in Los Angeles thourgh December 22nd.  The drops of wisdom he shares with us are to be treasured as we go on our daily lives. You can follow Brian on instagram and facebook for more insightful conversation and n...

Ep 50: THE ART OF MANIFESTATION with Arian Samouie

November 21, 2023 08:00 - 55 minutes - 102 MB

Join me in welcoming the insightful intuitive trauma healer and transformation coach Arian Samoiue.  Arian Samouie empowers individuals to enhance their emotional intelligence by elevating their self-awareness. This fundamental skill enables them to gain a deep understanding of their inner workings and embark on an emotional healing journey. Through this journey, they can effectively address and integrate the aspects of themselves that harbor anxiety, anger, shame, fear, and guilt, ultimat...

EP 50: THE ART OF MANIFESTATION with Arian Samouie

November 21, 2023 08:00 - 55 minutes - 102 MB

Join me in welcoming the insightful intuitive trauma healer and transformation coach Arian Samoiue.  Arian Samouie empowers individuals to enhance their emotional intelligence by elevating their self-awareness. This fundamental skill enables them to gain a deep understanding of their inner workings and embark on an emotional healing journey. Through this journey, they can effectively address and integrate the aspects of themselves that harbor anxiety, anger, shame, fear, and guilt, ultimat...

EP 49: HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU and THAT'S A GOOD THING! with BRITTANY BRAVE

November 15, 2023 22:16 - 54 minutes - 100 MB

Today we welcome comedian Brittany Brave to discuss one of my favorite movies He's Just Not that Into You and what we took from it for our own daily lives. This one quickly became one of our most fun epsiodes!  Brittany Brave is a NYC-via-Miami based comedian, actress, writer, producer and host who’s been seen on TBS, MTV, Quibi, The Wendy Williams Show, SiriusXM and featured in The New York Times, ELLE, Ashton Kutcher’s A-Plus, TimeOut New York, Entrepreneur Magazine and more. In 2021, Br...

EP 49: HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU with BRITTANY BRAVE

November 15, 2023 22:16 - 54 minutes - 100 MB

Today we welcome comedian Brittany Brave to discuss one of my favorite movies He's Just Not that Into You and what we took from it for our own daily lives. This one quickly became one of our most fun epsiodes!  Brittany Brave is a NYC-via-Miami based comedian, actress, writer, producer and host who’s been seen on TBS, MTV, Quibi, The Wendy Williams Show, SiriusXM and featured in The New York Times, ELLE, Ashton Kutcher’s A-Plus, TimeOut New York, Entrepreneur Magazine and more. In 2021, Br...

EP 48: How to Listen to your Intuition with Maria Shapely

November 07, 2023 08:00 - 42 minutes - 78.6 MB

In this episode we chat with intuition coach Maria Shapley who walks us through some simple techniques we can use to connect with our own intuition when making decisions in every areas of our lives. We go into depth how that can be specially useful when dating. You can find Maria via her website or by following her on instagram.  You can find the previous epsiode mentioned Safety and Familiarity are NOT the Same Thing with Luis Mojica click here.     

EP 47: 3 TIPS TO BE SUCCESSFUL AT ONLINE DATING with Adriana Martinez Barrón

October 24, 2023 07:00 - 48 minutes - 88.7 MB

Today I invite executive Adriana Martinez Barrón to chat with us on how to success at online dating. She candidly opens up about her experices, good and bad, so our listeners can have a leg up when romantically engaging online. Have some horror online dating stories? This episode is for you. You can connect with Adriana on Instagram. 

EP 47: 3 TIPS TO SUCCEED AT ONLINE DATING with Adriana Martinez Barrón

October 24, 2023 07:00 - 48 minutes - 88.7 MB

Today I invite executive Adriana Martinez Barrón to chat with us on how to success at online dating. She candidly opens up about her experices, good and bad, so our listeners can have a leg up when romantically engaging online. Have some horror online dating stories? This episode is for you. You can connect with Adriana on Instagram. 

EP 46: SERENDIPITY with Sierra Katow

October 10, 2023 07:00 - 54 minutes - 100 MB

I don't know about you but I definetly see a relationship between the movies we watched growing up that modeled to us what relationships and love should look like and the relational chaos we are living in today. What did we learn from these movies? What ideas of normal relationship behavior did it project?  For our inalgural episode I invite stand up comic, TV writer and actor Sierra Katow to discuss the movie that impacted her: Serendipity.  Buckle up for this hilarious chat that is gon...

EP 45: The Psychology of CASUAL SEX with Dr. Rachel Greenberg

October 04, 2023 07:00 - 49 minutes - 91.5 MB

This week we welcome Dr. Rachel Greenberg to discuss what our sex habits are telling us about our emotional and psychological lives.  Dr. Rachel Greenberg is a licensed trauma-informed Clinical Psychologist & Teacher offering seekers from all over the world empowerment & relational practices inspired by various psychological and spiritual traditions. She’s passionate about personal and collective justice and liberation. She engages in local activism to deepen conscious engagement with the ...

EP 45: The Psychology of Casual Sex with Dr. Rachel Greenberg

October 04, 2023 07:00 - 49 minutes - 91.5 MB

This week we welcome Dr. Rachel Greenberg to discuss what our sex habits are telling us about our emotional and psychological lives.  Dr. Rachel Greenberg is a licensed trauma-informed Clinical Psychologist & Teacher offering seekers from all over the world empowerment & relational practices inspired by various psychological and spiritual traditions. She’s passionate about personal and collective justice and liberation. She engages in local activism to deepen conscious engagement with the ...

EP 44: REALITY HOUR - The Gabby Petito Case with Life Coach and Narcissistic Abuse Specialist Adriana Bucci

September 21, 2023 12:00 - 32 minutes - 59 MB

We welcome back Adriana Bucci to discuss the high profile murder of Gabby Petito. Gabby embarked on a roadtrip with her fiancé and long time friend Brian as she dreamed of becoming a travel influencer. Things didn't turn out and she hopes. After some alarming calls from bystanders alerting the police of a woman who was slapped in the face, this real life tragedy started to unfold bringing Gabby the same she so desired. Adriana chats with us the narcissistic signs, the emotional and mental ...

EP 44: Reality Hour - The Gabby Petito Case with Life Coach and Narcissistic Abuse Specialist Adriana Bucci

September 21, 2023 12:00 - 32 minutes - 59 MB

We welcome back Adriana Bucci to discuss the high profile murder of Gabby Petito. Gabby embarked on a roadtrip with her fiancé and long time friend Brian as she dreamed of becoming a travel influencer. Things didn't turn out and she hopes. After some alarming calls from bystanders alerting the police of a woman who was slapped in the face, this real life tragedy started to unfold bringing Gabby the same she so desired. Adriana chats with us the narcissistic signs, the emotional and mental ...

EP43: Safety and Familiarity are NOT the Same Thing with Luis Mojica of Holistic Life Navigation

September 12, 2023 16:20 - 43 minutes - 78.8 MB

Today I welcome Somatic practicioner Luis Mojica, creator of Holistic Life Navigation, to discuss love and relationships from a somatic lense.    In this epsiode you will learn about:  What somatic work is Somatic practices examples on how to understand your emotions Attachment theory from a Somatic lense Breath work  Childhood patterns  Trust  Coregulation Capacity Connection Trauma response Narcissism  Trauma Bonding Uncoupling  Safety vs Familiarity  Inner...

EP 43: Safety and Familiarity are NOT the Same Thing with Luis Mojica of Holistic Life Navigation

September 12, 2023 16:20 - 43 minutes - 78.8 MB

Today I welcome Somatic practicioner Luis Mojica, creator of Holistic Life Navigation, to discuss love and relationships from a somatic lense.    In this epsiode you will learn about:  What somatic work is Somatic practices examples on how to understand your emotions Attachment theory from a Somatic lense Breath work  Childhood patterns  Trust  Coregulation Capacity Connection Trauma response Narcissism  Trauma Bonding Uncoupling  Safety vs Familiarity  Inner...

EP 42: Amor Y Cultura - How Culture Can Influence Your Idea of Love with Rafael Agustin

August 29, 2023 15:42 - 33 minutes - 61.5 MB

In this episode I welcome Jane The Virgin TV writer and book author Rafael Augustin. In this epsiode we discuss how culture can affect the way you see love and relationships. Rafael opens up about his struggles growing up undocumented and how that shaped his life.  You can follow Rafael on instagram and purchase his book Illegally Yours. 

EP 41: What is SELF WORK and How it Can help YOU HEAL with Film & Television Director Lanre Olabisi

August 17, 2023 12:00 - 45 minutes - 82.9 MB

In this episode I welcome accomplished director and friend Lanre Olabisi to discuss what is self work and how it can help you heal. This is one of the most personal and candid episodes with wonderful nuggets of how knowing yourself better improves all your relationships. Catch it here first before it drops in audio form.    Here we Discuss: What is Self Work How it Can Help you Heal  Couples Counceling  Silent Retreats Meditation  Love & Relationships Dating trial and error...

EP 40:"You Deserve so Much Better Why Don't You Leave" - What is Somatic Work and How it Can Help You Heal with Sarah Baldwin

August 01, 2023 15:07 - 54 minutes - 99.3 MB

In this amazing episode discussing somatic work I welcome back somatic experiencing practicioner Sarah Baldwin! After my own experience dipping my toes in that work and feeling the massive impact it created, Sarah Baldwin returns to explain what it is and share a little bit on how it can help you heal.  Topics Discussed: Somatic Work  Trauma Healing Narcissism Impact of letting babies cry Developmental Somatics    If you'd like to work with Sarah you can find her through the ...

S2 EP29: How Narcissists Distract you from their Abuse and 3 Tips to avoid them with Adriana Bucci

July 25, 2023 11:50 - 50 minutes - 92.3 MB

Today I welcome life coach Adriana Bucci of Let's Get Your Shift Together to discuss how do we fall in love with a narcissists. We talk about how dating a narcisist is like your house is on fire a dn you are trying to find a way out to save your life...just as the fire alarm rings. This episode is so juicy and you will learn about: Love Bombing Gaslighting Grand gestures  Narcissistc Cycle  Tools of narcissistic control  Gray Rock concept  3 tips to avoid narcissitic relations...

EP 39: How Narcissists Distract you from their Abuse and 3 Tips to avoid them with Adriana Bucci

July 25, 2023 11:50 - 50 minutes - 92.3 MB

Today I welcome life coach Adriana Bucci of Let's Get Your Shift Together to discuss how do we fall in love with a narcissists. We talk about how dating a narcisist is like your house is on fire a dn you are trying to find a way out to save your life...just as the fire alarm rings. This episode is so juicy and you will learn about: Love Bombing Gaslighting Grand gestures  Narcissistc Cycle  Tools of narcissistic control  Gray Rock concept  3 tips to avoid narcissitic relations...

EP 38: "They are Gonna Wake Up and See My Worth" - How Hope Keeps us in Narcissistic Relationships with Dr. Ingrid Clayton

July 11, 2023 12:00 - 36 minutes - 66.9 MB

Today I wecome back clinical psychologist, author and survivor Dr.Ingrid Clayton. In Part 2 of our chat Dr. Clayton explains what Trauma Reenactment means and how that can keeps us in an endless loop of abusive relationships. We also talk about those "butterflies" and of we do in fact just "like who we like" without being able to control those feelings and why.  We discuss intermittent reinforcement in narcissistic relationships, how that strategy keeps us coming back, how hope can be da...

EP 37: "We Want It to Work" - How Narcissists are Master Manipulators with Dr. Ingrid Clayton - PART 1

July 04, 2023 12:00 - 25 minutes - 47.5 MB

Dr. Ingrid Clayton is the author of "Beliving Me: Healing from Narcissistic Abuse and Complex Trauma" where she brilliantly shares with the world her experience surviving a narcissistic relationship in her youth, the impacts of complex trauma and how to use all of that for growth and transformation.  This is such a dense and informatitive chat that I broke it up into two episodes so you can have time to process, consider and create change in case you find yourself in this kind of relations...

S2 EP27: "We Want It to Work" - How Narcissists are Master Manipulators with Dr. Ingrid Clayton - PART 1

July 04, 2023 12:00 - 25 minutes - 47.5 MB

Dr. Ingrid Clayton is the author of "Beliving Me: Healing from Narcissistic Abuse and Complex Trauma" where she brilliantly shares with the world her experience surviving a narcissistic relationship in her youth, the impacts of complex trauma and how to use all of that for growth and transformation.  This is such a dense and informatitive chat that I broke it up into two episodes so you can have time to process, consider and create change in case you find yourself in this kind of relations...

EP 36: NARCISSISTS AND THE GAMES THEY PLAY with Singer Carmen Royale

May 09, 2023 12:00 - 59 minutes - 109 MB

In this episode I welcome Carmen Royale to tell her experience dating a Narcissist. So many of us have fallen into these terrible dating experiences that feel like you've met "the one" just to shortly after be met with "the real one": a callous manipulator who doesn't care about anyone's feelings but their own.  Throughout the week I will be sharing some of the dating profile of this man with how he pitched himself and the truth of who he turned out to be in real life. Make just to check i...

S2 EP26: NARCISSISTS AND THE GAMES THEY PLAY with Singer Carmen Royale

May 09, 2023 12:00 - 59 minutes - 109 MB

In this episode I welcome Carmen Royale to tell her experinece dating a Narcissist. So many of us have fallen into these terrible dating experineces that feel like you've met "the one" just to shortly after be met with "the real one": a callous manipulator who doesn't care about anyone's feelings but their own.  Throughout the week I will be sharing some of the dating profile of this man with how he pitched himself and the truth of who he turned out to be in real life. Make just to check i...

EP 35: STANDARDS or DEAL BREAKERS with Therapist and Author Vanessa Bennett

April 25, 2023 12:00 - 38 minutes - 71.1 MB

In this epsiode therapist and author Vanessa Bennett and I discuss what standards are, red flags and how we show people how we want to be loved by how we love ourselves.  Vanessa Bennet is the author of IT'S NOT ME IT'S YOU  which she narrates the audio version with her life partner and co-author John Kim also known as the angry therapist on instagram. Whatever version of the book you choose please make sure to do the exercises at the end of each chapter because they will create shifts an...

S2 EP25: STANDARDS or DEAL BREAKERS with Therapist and Author Vanessa Bennett

April 25, 2023 12:00 - 38 minutes - 71.1 MB

In this epsiode therapist and author Vanessa Bennett and I discuss what standards are, red flags and how we show people how we want to be loved by how we love ourselves.  Vanessa Bennet is the author of IT'S NOT ME IT'S YOU  which she narrates the audio version with her life partner and co-author John Kim also known as the angry therapist on instagram. Whatever version of the book you choose please make sure to do the exercises at the end of each chapter because they will create shifts an...

EP 34: STANDARDS PART 2: LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH with Louise Rumball

April 11, 2023 12:00 - 37 minutes - 67.8 MB

I welcome back podcast host and all around great human Louise Rumble. Louise and I met in Tulum when I went across the world for love and was met with silence. Listen to this story and what it means to have standards when dating. This chat was so delicious that Louise and I could have chatted for hours but we kept it short enough for 2 episodes. This episode goes deep into the aftermath and how we can grow from hurtful situations.  Make sure to listen to her podcast The Openhouse with Loui...

S2 EP24: STANDARDS PART 2: LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH with Louise Rumball

April 11, 2023 12:00 - 37 minutes - 67.8 MB

I welcome back podcast host and all around great human Louise Rumble. Louise and I met in Tulum when I went across the world for love and was met with silence. Listen to this story and what it means to have standards when dating. This chat was so delicious that Louise and I could have chatted for hours but we kept it short enough for 2 episodes. This episode goes deep into the aftermath and how we can grow from hurtful situations.  Make sure to listen to her podcast The Openhouse with Loui...

EP 33: STANDARDS PART 1: We Are NOT Dating Low Value Men Anymore - with Louise Rumball

April 04, 2023 12:00 - 34 minutes - 63 MB

For the next two episodes I welcome podcast host and all around great human Louise Rumble. Louise and I met in Tulum when I went across the world for love and was met with silence. Listen to this story and what it means to have standards when dating. This chat was so delicious that Louise and I could have chatted for hours but we kept it short enough for 2 episodes.  Make sure to listen to her podcast The Openhouse with Louise Rumball  that is rising the charts of most listened podcasts in...

S2 EP23: STANDARDS PART 1: We Are NOT Dating Low Value Men Anymore - with Louise Rumball

April 04, 2023 12:00 - 34 minutes - 63 MB

For the next two episodes I welcome podcast host and all around great human Louise Rumble. Louise and I met in Tulum when I went across the world for love and was met with silence. Listen to this story and what it means to have standards when dating. This chat was so delicious that Louise and I could have chatted for hours but we kept it short enough for 2 episodes.  Make sure to listen to her podcast The Openhouse with Louise Rumball  that is rising the charts of most listened podcasts in...

S2 EP22: Codependency with Luciana Faulhaber - SOLO ROUND

March 28, 2023 12:00 - 23 minutes - 43.1 MB

What would be better than a solo epidose on codependency? Oh the irony. After my chat with therapist Vanessa Bennett in our previous episode I found myself having many realizations and thought it was time to get close and personal about my own codependency recovery.  WARNING: This episode discusses loss, death and grief.  If those topics might be triggering for you please proceed with caution and seek help if a mental health professional if needed.  If you haven't listened to episode 2...

EP 32: Codependency with Luciana Faulhaber - SOLO ROUND

March 28, 2023 12:00 - 23 minutes - 43.1 MB

What would be better than a solo epidose on codependency? Oh the irony. After my chat with therapist Vanessa Bennett in our previous episode I found myself having many realizations and thought it was time to get close and personal about my own codependency recovery.  WARNING: This episode discusses loss, death and grief.  If those topics might be triggering for you please proceed with caution and seek help if a mental health professional if needed.  If you haven't listened to episode 2...

EP 31: We are ALL Codependent - With Therapist and Author Vanessa Bennett

March 21, 2023 12:00 - 44 minutes - 81 MB

In this episode is a juicy one! We discuss codependency while traveling through ADDICTION, RESENTMENT, BOUNDARIES and whether we should block someone.  Vanessa Bennet is the author of IT'S NOT ME IT'S YOU  which she narrates the audio version with her life partner and co-author John Kim also known as the angry therapist on instagram. Whatever version of the book you choose please make sure to do the exercises at the end of each chapter because they will create shifts and help you get insi...

S2 EP21: We are ALL Codependent - With Therapist and Author Vanessa Bennett

March 21, 2023 12:00 - 44 minutes - 81 MB

In this episode is a juicy one! We discuss codependency while traveling through ADDICTION, RESENTMENT, BOUNDARIES and whether we should block someone.  Vanessa Bennet is the author of IT'S NOT ME IT'S YOU  which she narrates the audio version with her life partner and co-author John Kim also known as the angry therapist on instagram. Whatever version of the book you choose please make sure to do the exercises at the end of each chapter because they will create shifts and help you get insi...

S2 EP20: Are Dating Acronyms the New Horoscope and the 4Cs to Improve any Relationship with Associate Marriage and family Therapist Paul Backlund

March 14, 2023 12:00 - 44 minutes - 80.7 MB

In this episode we welcome back associate marriage and family therapist Paul Backlund discussing ENM and other non-traditional relationship structure from a psychological perspective. Paul gives us the 4Cs which great tools to improve any relationship you are in and listen as I dive deeper into my own short comings in my last romantic relationship. This one gets real ... real quick.  If you would like to work with Paul you can find him here. 

EP 30: Are Dating Acronyms the New Horoscope and the 4Cs to Improve any Relationship with Associate Marriage and family Therapist Paul Backlund

March 14, 2023 12:00 - 44 minutes - 80.7 MB

In this episode we welcome back associate marriage and family therapist Paul Backlund discussing ENM and other non-traditional relationship structure from a psychological perspective. Paul gives us the 4Cs which great tools to improve any relationship you are in and listen as I dive deeper into my own short comings in my last romantic relationship. This one gets real ... real quick.  If you would like to work with Paul you can find him here. 

EP 29: "What the heck is ENM?" with Guest Alicia Catelli

February 28, 2023 18:32 - 28 minutes - 52.6 MB

Today we welcome Alicia Catelli, a long time friend, to discuss ENM and other forms of non-tradicional relationhsips. As a non-traditionalist, Alicia has been able to give her friends objective insight into their relationships which sucessfully remaining single poly. More on polyamory on the next episode. Join me now as we discuss What the heck is ENM?

EP 29: ENM RELATIONSHIPS with Guest Alicia Catelli

February 28, 2023 18:32 - 28 minutes - 52.6 MB

Today we welcome Alicia Catelli, a long time friend, to discuss ENM and other forms of non-tradicional relationhsips. As a non-traditionalist, Alicia has been able to give her friends objective insight into their relationships which sucessfully remaining single poly. More on polyamory on the next episode. Join me now as we discuss What the heck is ENM?

S2 EP19: "What the heck is ENM?" with Guest Alicia Catelli

February 28, 2023 18:32 - 28 minutes - 52.6 MB

Today we welcome Alicia Catelli, a long time friend, to discuss ENM and other forms of non-tradicional relationhsips. As a non-traditionalist, Alicia has been able to give her friends objective insight into their relationships which sucessfully remaining single poly. More on polyamory on the next episode. Join me now as we discuss What the heck is ENM?

S2 EP18 - What if I am dating an ADDICT? Three actions you can take with Marriage and Family Associate Therapist Paul Backlund

February 21, 2023 13:00 - 36 minutes - 66.9 MB

Have you ever questioned if the person you are dating has an addiction issue? After discussing sober dating and dating under the influence I welcome back Associate Marriage and Relationship Therapist Paul Backlund to discuss dating and addiction. With extensive experience dealing with recovery, Paul gives us 3 important things to focus on if you might be dating an addict.  If you would like to work with Paul Backlund you can find him here.