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I Don't Get It

410 episodes - English - Latest episode: 13 days ago - ★★★★ - 3.5K ratings

The Bachelor's Ashley and Lauren Iaconetti and reality TV producer Naz Perez don't get a lot about this world. These three outspoken millennials discuss the most embarrassing topics openly and honestly. Relationships, men, sex, virginity, dating in the tech age, pop culture, and everyday annoyances, these ladies cover it all, and with no filter! Bachelor and Bachelorette alum frequently stop by and join in the racy discussions often sharing their deepest secrets!

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Episode 10: Holding in Your Farts w/ Jade Roper & Tanner Tolbert

March 07, 2017 05:09 - 27 minutes - 25.5 MB

Ashley gets bloated really easily and is so confused by how some couples keep in their farts around each other. It gets super uncomfortable! She and Lauren discuss if this is okay and their experiences holding in their farts around boys and boyfriends. They call their Bachelor in Paradise friends Jade and Tanner to see how they deal with farting...and pooping...in their marriage, along with other TMI bodily functions. Does being open about pooping and farting strip a relationship of...

Episode 9: Giving Guys Multiple Chances Guests Jared & Carly

February 28, 2017 04:06 - 58 minutes - 53.3 MB

Ashley recently went on four dates with the same guy. She gave him chances because he was good on paper and respectfully asked her out. She describes her third date when she felt it necessary to kiss a guy she didn't want to kiss for the first time. They then fast forward to their fourth date, on Valentine's Day, when she became officially grossed out. Jared joins in on the conversation and talks about the best moves to make in this situation, who should be paying, and transparent f...

Episode 8: I Don't Get How to Play the Game w/ Guest Jared Haibon

February 22, 2017 03:48 - 39 minutes - 36.3 MB

Ashley and her special guest, The Bachelor's Jared Haibon, discuss what guys really mean when they say “let’s take it slow” or what it probably happening when a girl is “confused” in a relationship. Jared discusses why “games” normally have to be played in dating. Jared tries to teach Ashley how to have confidence when a guy she likes makes her nervous. Ashley and Jared then reminisce about the most memorable moments of their relationship, like when she threw up in his car, when he ...

Episode 7: Why We Reject the Good Guys w/ Emily & Haley Ferguson

February 14, 2017 05:00 - 30 minutes - 28.1 MB

Haley and Emily Ferguson, best known as "the twins" from The Bachelor franchise join Ashley and Lauren this week as they discuss everything from blow up techniques to Valentine's Day gift giving. Their conversation surrounding chivalry and sweetness will certainly confuse male listeners. The old fashioned pursuit rarely works in the millennial era. The ladies discuss the common dating phenomenon among woman called "Being grosses out." Haley and Ashley reflect upon the anxiety of fir...

Episode 6: Finding Mutual Attraction

February 07, 2017 05:00 - 39 minutes - 35.7 MB

Has someone ever said "You're so pretty and smart... why are you still single?" Well, the Iaconetti sisters delve into reasons women tend to push away the nice guys and say come hither to the bad boys. Ashley analyzes her inability to crush often, and particularly crush on guys who reciprocate feelings towards her, while also asking for some advice in a current dating scenario. Lauren discusses her dislike for traditional courting. The girls also discuss the discomfort, nervousness,...

Episode 5: Puberty, Teenage Crushes, & Awkward Years

January 31, 2017 05:00 - 49 minutes - 45.5 MB

Ashley and Lauren Iaconetti don’t get why their magical childhood feelings have disintegrated with age. What happened to those enchanted times of daydreaming about Justin Timberlake and Leonardo DiCaprio without a care in the world? Now when a crush is formed in adulthood, those new whimsical crush feelings turn into worries and dare say it…REALITY. The girls also delve into their experiences with their first menstrual cycle and the terror/ embarrassment that ensued. Find out who st...

Episode 4: Beauty Rituals, Plastic Surgery, and Grooming

January 25, 2017 17:47 - 41 minutes - 38.1 MB

Ashely and Lauren Iaconetti just don't get why women have to go through a million steps just to get ready. Why do we have to wear makeup and pluck our eyebrows? They debate whether women should wear makeup everyday or whether they should let their skin breathe. They reveal what plastic surgery they've had and how much landscaping they have going on in the bikini area. And we're not sure how it came up, but Ashely admits to her obsession with Clay Aiken, but equally embarrassing was ...

Episode 3: Cool Girls, Fuck Boys, & Ghosting

January 17, 2017 05:00 - 25 minutes - 23.3 MB

Add cool girls to the list of things Ashley and Lauren Iaconetti don't get. You might think, wait, these chicks were on the Bachelor, they ARE cool girls, but believe it or not they don't agree. And while they're at it, they just don't get fuck boys...or is it fuckbois. Whatever. They don't get them. And what's up with ghosting? Who thinks it's ok to just abandon a friend or relationship without a trace. We discuss... Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.co...

Episode 2: Awkward Moments with Love Interests

January 10, 2017 05:00 - 26 minutes - 24.3 MB

Why does it seem like loving moments always invite awkwardness??? This week Ashley I brings in her sister Lauren to discuss sticky situations in dating. Ashley describes a crush she had on one of her teachers and why it went horribly wrong. We get to hear the unsavory details of the time she threw up around her long-time crush Jared from the Bachelor. Lauren and Ashely debate which stomach issues are the most embarrassing to have on a date, and so much more. It gets very...AWKWARD. ...

Episode 1: Boyfriends and Relationships

December 21, 2016 23:23 - 36 minutes - 33.1 MB

In the first episode of the I Don't Get it Podcast, Ashley I (Bachelor, Bachelor in Paradise) and her bestie, Naz Perez (producer, Bachelor, Bachelor in Paradise) talk about how they met and why they are kindred spirits. These two beauties realized they both were unlucky in love and had never had boyfriends, and then realized there were lots of things that baffled them about the world. They find themselves saying to each other, "I don't get it!" about all the other "normal" people a...

Guests

Amanda Stanton
2 Episodes
Nick Viall
2 Episodes
Hannah Berner
1 Episode
Heather McDonald
1 Episode
Olivia Caridi
1 Episode
Tanya Rad
1 Episode

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