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I Definitely Do

91 episodes - English - Latest episode: 8 months ago - ★★★★★ - 4 ratings

Join Mrs. Renai, author of the BecomingWifeyBlog and her husband, Mr.B (your favorite teacher) as they discuss love, dating, commitment, and everything else under the sun. Whether focusing on a specific subject, reviewing a trashy reality show, or commenting on hot topics in society, psychology, and pop-culture, this couple hopes to make you smile while offering helpful advice on how to make the most of any type of relationship! 

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Episodes

I Definitely Do: Episode 39

January 26, 2022 04:00 - 41 minutes - 28.7 MB

It feels so good to get back on the mic with my super hot husband, Mr.B.  This week, Mr.B and I discuss: A man who gets depressed when his girlfriend has fun without him A woman who hates her "special" engagement ring.  A young lady questions whether her "boyfriend" is showing red flags AITA: Disagreements about the kids. As always, we hope you enjoy listening as much as we enjoy recording.  Make sure to give us a great review and follow our podcast so you never miss an episode! Subsc...

I Definitely Do: Episode 38

December 16, 2021 05:00 - 50 minutes - 34.9 MB

Please forgive the mild audio glitches in this episode. We had a corrupted file issue. Apologies for the delayed episode (again) but I was out of town for a long weekend and we weren't able to get everything edited and posted on Tuesday.  This is our final episode of 2021 and we did our best to make it as fun and exciting as possible!  This week, Mr.B and I discuss:  Same sex bathing rituals [?] Things women do that men don't like. My Fiancé is expecting and her ex is offended.  AITA...

I Definitely Do: Episode 37

December 09, 2021 05:00 - 45 minutes - 31.2 MB

I know it is Wednesday but I had a hair emergency last night and could not get the podcast up in time.  Luckily, my homegirl Tatiana was able to squeeze me in for an evening appointment and my hair can breathe easy once again.  Hope you forgive a little delay, but I promise I'd never leave you hanging. Since it's the first full week of the month, we're coming with an advice episode that has some meaty topics:  Should I be concerned about my husband's reaction? I'm paranoid about my girl...

I Definitely Do: Episode 36

December 01, 2021 04:00 - 43 minutes - 30.2 MB

Seasons Greetings! We are officially into holiday mode and we hope you all had a wonderful Thanksgiving (if you celebrate).  This week we are back on our usual BS, bringing a few fun topics we've found over the last couple weeks.  Mr. B and I discuss:  Do men get "angry" when they get "caught"? KimYe and the return of the skinny punk white guy. & another lesson in building communication skills with Mr.B. As always, we hope you enjoy listening as much as we enjoy recording.  Make sure ...

I Definitely Do: Episode 35

November 17, 2021 05:00 - 40 minutes - 27.7 MB

This week, Mr.B and I discuss:  Why men get so invested in their sports teams.  It is okay to be tired of parenting?  Respect & the sloppy topping.  As always, we hope you enjoy listening as much as we enjoy recording.  Don’t forget that we take episode suggestions as well as audience submissions for our above-average advice.  Email Us @: [email protected]  Please be sure to checkout Mr. B’s new travel business @ “Travel Blasts”.  You can also check out our podcast website here. ...

I Definitely Do: Episode 34

October 26, 2021 21:00 - 53 minutes - 36.4 MB

As promised, this week will be our 2nd "advice only" episode. If you're new here, this just means that instead of our usual, random topics, this week will we focus on answering real relationship questions and giving our 'above average' advice!  Today's topics include: Should I tell people I'm dating about my abortion? Am I overreacting to my boyfriend's comments?  Can I ask for more details about my boyfriend's past?  AITA for being angry with my wife?  Don't forget to leave comments o...

I Definitely Do: Episode 33

October 20, 2021 05:00 - 46 minutes - 32.1 MB

This week, Mr.B & I discuss:  Why are people so bad at first dates? Couch Guy (viral on TikTok)  & Active Listening  Don't forget to leave comments on the blog @ www.becomingwifeyblog.com You can subscribe while you're at it! ;-) Follow us on social media: Twitter: KcShoegal22 + Mr_B_IDD IG: @becomingwifeyblog Create Your Own Podcast: https://www.buzzsprout.com/?referrer_id=1532669 Featured Music - Left Handed Traffic Performed By Trebulance Ahead - Tiki Tiki Performed By Dresden The ...

I Definitely Do: Episode 32

October 06, 2021 04:00 - 37 minutes - 25.5 MB

This week, we are trying something a little different. Today,  we are going to be fully focused on giving real advice to real people [who've asked for it].  I am pulling these questions from various sources. Hopefully, as time goes on, more of you will be willing to come to us and ask us for our thoughts on your relationship(s). Teehee  but until then, this works! This week, Mr.B and I chat about: Being creepy in the club/potentially jealous friends  Forgiving your partner for actions fr...

I Definitely Do: Episode 31

September 29, 2021 04:00 - 41 minutes - 28.5 MB

To kick things off, this week we discuss:  Why men don't practice self-care?  Saying it with a "card".  & Ways to improve your communication: know your audience Subscribe to the blog at: www.becomingwifeyblog.com Follow our kiddo on tiktok @elinorababyboo Email us at: [email protected] Featured Music Left Handed Traffic Performed By Trebulance Ahead Tiki Tiki Performed By Dresden, The Flamingo Let It Go Performed By KEV Create Your Own Podcast: https://www.buzzsprout.com/?referre...

I Definitely Do: Episode 30

August 11, 2021 03:00 - 45 minutes - 31.3 MB

I am so excited to be posting our 30th episode/season finale of this podcast! We have loved every moment of talking to and connecting with you guys and we can't wait to bring you even better content in Season 2!  This week, Mr.B and Mrs.Renai answer these thought-provoking questions: Why do relationships tend to end after 3-4 months? Why can men effectively communicate while gaming but not while dating?  What do you do if your partner disrespects your mama (or daddy or sister or cousin.....

I Definitely Do: Episode 29

August 04, 2021 03:00 - 41 minutes - 28.7 MB

This week Mr.B and I discuss: Submission  Relationship deal-breaking scenarios  And a new segment of dating in other countries (Norway) Subscribe to the blog @ www.becomingwifeyblog.com. Feel free to follow us on our socials: IG @becomingwifeyblog + @mrbarcelon  Twitter @kcshoegal22 + @Mr_B_IDD www.becomingwifeyblog.com Instagram: @becomingwifeyblog Twitter: @becomingwifeyb TikTok: @becomingwifeyblog Youtube: youtube.com/@Becomingwifeyblog

I Definitely Do: Episode 28

July 21, 2021 03:00 - 37 minutes - 25.5 MB

It's Tuesday and that means it's time to turn up! This week, Mr.B and Mrs.Renai chat about: Toilet paper positioning  Expiration Dates  Dating our financial equals  Marriage Leases  Let us know your thoughts on this week's topics! Don't forget to tell us what other topics you want to hear us discuss. We are also open to taking your questions and offering our less-than-professional advice.  Subscribe to the blog at www.becomingwifeyblog.com  www.becomingwifeyblog.com Instagram: @becom...

I Definitely Do: Episode 27

July 14, 2021 05:00 - 34 minutes - 23.6 MB

This week, Mr.B introduces his new business venture and talks with Mrs. Renai about: Awkward Dates  More relationship deal-breaking scenarios  & Getting advice from our elders.  Leave us a comment and let us know your thoughts on this week's topics.  Subscribe to the blog at www.becomingwifeyblog.com Make sure you follow the podcast on your preferred platform so you never miss an episode.  www.becomingwifeyblog.com Instagram: @becomingwifeyblog Twitter: @becomingwifeyb TikTok: @becomi...

I Definitely Do: Episode 26

July 07, 2021 05:00 - 34 minutes - 23.5 MB

Happy Tuesday! This week, Mr.B and I discuss:  Filling in the blanks  STD/STI Check-ins  Are men always trying to get something from you?  & our final set of Gen Z dating terms  Give us a listen and don't forget to tell us what you think!  Check out the full blog at www.becomingwifeyblog.com www.becomingwifeyblog.com Instagram: @becomingwifeyblog Twitter: @becomingwifeyb TikTok: @becomingwifeyblog Youtube: youtube.com/@Becomingwifeyblog

I Definitely Do: Episode 25

July 02, 2021 04:00 - 36 minutes - 25.2 MB

This week, Mr.B and Mrs.Renai  discuss:  Do women actually cheat more than men?  Relationship deal-breaking scenarios  Bisexuality & Open Relationships (an audience question) www.becomingwifeyblog.com www.becomingwifeyblog.com Instagram: @becomingwifeyblog Twitter: @becomingwifeyb TikTok: @becomingwifeyblog Youtube: youtube.com/@Becomingwifeyblog

I Definitely Do: Episode 24

June 23, 2021 02:00 - 26 minutes - 18 MB

This week, Mr.B & Mrs. Renai ask: Would you cosign a loan for your partner? What are some of our green flags?   and we tackle another awesome question from one of our fantastic listeners!  www.becomigwifeyblog.com  www.becomingwifeyblog.com Instagram: @becomingwifeyblog Twitter: @becomingwifeyb TikTok: @becomingwifeyblog Youtube: youtube.com/@Becomingwifeyblog

I Definitely Do: Episode 23

June 16, 2021 05:00 - 38 minutes - 26.8 MB

This week, Mr.B and I discuss:  Is it EVER ok to date a friend's ex?  Are women wildly attracted to a dominant man?  Father's Day vs. Mother's Day Leave us a great review and don't forget to subscribe to the full blog at  www.becomingwifeyblog.com :-) <3  www.becomingwifeyblog.com Instagram: @becomingwifeyblog Twitter: @becomingwifeyb TikTok: @becomingwifeyblog Youtube: youtube.com/@Becomingwifeyblog

I Definitely Do: Episode 22

June 09, 2021 03:00 - 39 minutes - 27.2 MB

We're back at it again this week with our typical format, plus a few treats mixed in.  On this episode we discuss:  What do you do when your partner is constantly negative or pessimistic?  Times we dodged a romantic bullet  Would you leave your partner if you knew someone better was out there?  & more Gen-Z terms that Mrs. Renai does not know.  www.becomingwifeyblog.com www.becomingwifeyblog.com Instagram: @becomingwifeyblog Twitter: @becomingwifeyb TikTok: @becomingwifeyblog Youtube:...

I Definitely Do: Episode 21

June 02, 2021 06:00 - 32 minutes - 22.6 MB

It's podcast Tuesday, ya'll! Welcome back.  In this week's episode we ask ourselves: What would you do if your partner speaks disrespectfully to you in public?  Is there more to marriage than love? and... What do these weird Gen-Z relationship/dating terms actually mean? Be sure to check out the full blog at www.becomingwifeyblog.com.  www.becomingwifeyblog.com Instagram: @becomingwifeyblog Twitter: @becomingwifeyb TikTok: @becomingwifeyblog Youtube: youtube.com/@Becomingwifeyblog

I Definitely Do: Episode 20

May 26, 2021 02:00 - 25 minutes - 17.9 MB

This week, we reflect on losing our first fur-baby and how it feels to miss him these past two years. We also discuss these more light-hearted topics: Are Moms to blame when their sons act up in relationships?  Why do quiet, laidback men tend to go for loud, more aggressive women?  Can we really help who we love?  check out the full blog at www.becomingwifeyblog.com www.becomingwifeyblog.com Instagram: @becomingwifeyblog Twitter: @becomingwifeyb TikTok: @becomingwifeyblog Youtube: yout...

I Definitely Do: Episode 19

May 10, 2021 22:00 - 50 minutes - 34.5 MB

Mr.B and I decided to record a special podcast episode in honor of my first Mother's Day! This week, we discuss our parenting journey thus far and spend some time reflecting on the ups and downs and parenthood. We really hope you enjoy it, no matter how you celebrate (or opt out of) this particular day. *note, this episode will be uploaded the day AFTER Mother's Day.  www.becomingwifeyblog.com Instagram: @becomingwifeyblog Twitter: @becomingwifeyb TikTok: @becomingwifeyblog Youtube: youtu...

I Definitely Do: Episode 18 (TI3)

April 29, 2021 05:00 - 57 minutes - 39.6 MB

This week: Kendal takes lemons and tries to make nasty-ass, weird-ass lemonade, Chelsea wonder's what she's doing here, Kristen says yes 1000x, and Mrs. Renai LIVES for a good reunion special...especially her own.  Overall, we thought this was a good finale and a pretty interesting season. What did you guys think? Check out the full blog at www.becomingwifeyblog.com  www.becomingwifeyblog.com Instagram: @becomingwifeyblog Twitter: @becomingwifeyb TikTok: @becomingwifeyblog Youtube: youtu...

I Definitely Do: Episode 17 (TI3)

April 22, 2021 05:00 - 42 minutes - 29.1 MB

Season Finale Pt.1 We got here so quickly!  This week: Corey wants to feel big, Kendal has poor decision-making skills, Erin is angry but still has needs, and Erica has a few questions for her man.  Enter the giveaway and check out the full blog at www.becomingwifeyblog.com www.becomingwifeyblog.com Instagram: @becomingwifeyblog Twitter: @becomingwifeyb TikTok: @becomingwifeyblog Youtube: youtube.com/@Becomingwifeyblog

I Definitely Do: Episode 16 (TI3)

April 15, 2021 04:00 - 39 minutes - 27 MB

It's the final date week and while we have a few dates that are truly...dates, this week: Erin, Kristen, and Corey all have respectful and (frankly) repetitive conversations, Alexis questions her positions with Kendal outside of the bedroom, and Erica's hair struggles in the Hawaii humidity. Follow the full blog @ www.becomingwifeyblog.com www.becomingwifeyblog.com Instagram: @becomingwifeyblog Twitter: @becomingwifeyb TikTok: @becomingwifeyblog Youtube: youtube.com/@Becomingwifeyblog

I Definitely Do: Episode 15 (TI3)

April 10, 2021 03:00 - 46 minutes - 32 MB

This week: USA is stealing our ideas and hearing our prayers, Kendal is compassionate trash, Tula is the homie homie, Alex is too honest, Corey is a lot like toast, and Nickole just has a lot of feelings.  This episode is pretty boring in the grand scheme, but we aren't mad at it.  *shrug* Don't forget to follow the blog at www.becomingwifeyblog.com.  www.becomingwifeyblog.com Instagram: @becomingwifeyblog Twitter: @becomingwifeyb TikTok: @becomingwifeyblog Youtube: youtube.com/@Becoming...

I Definitely Do: Episode 14 (TI3)

April 01, 2021 00:00 - 52 minutes - 36.4 MB

This week Chelsea is a toxic, broken record, Mya loses her chili over some grilled chicken, Kendal gets thrown a few curve balls, and Erin is way overthinking!  We are a little extra and goofy this week. These late nights are starting to wear on us, but we hope you still enjoy our antics... www.becomingwifeyblog.com Instagram: @becomingwifeyblog Twitter: @becomingwifeyb TikTok: @becomingwifeyblog Youtube: youtube.com/@Becomingwifeyblog

I Definitely Do: Episode 13 (TI3)

March 25, 2021 03:00 - 47 minutes - 32.5 MB

Another week, another episode of couples doing questionable things on Temptation Island.  This week: we spend way TOO LONG on date scenes, Thomas wants Sophia to be in his life forever, Kendal thinks he's in a throuple, and both Juwan and Mr.B are trying to be 'on trend' with those GOT DAMN beads! What did you guys think?  Check out the full blog at www.becomingwifeyblog.com www.becomingwifeyblog.com Instagram: @becomingwifeyblog Twitter: @becomingwifeyb TikTok: @becomingwifeyblog Youtub...

I Definitely Do: Episode 12 (TI3)

March 17, 2021 17:00 - 49 minutes - 33.8 MB

We have officially reached the 1/2 way mark in our Temptation journey and the new crew does not disappoint! Join us as we experience our first round of eliminations, suffer through Shaquille's cringiest moments, and become a part of the first real three-way to go down on the island.  What did you guys think of this week's episode?  www.becomingwifeyblog.com Instagram: @becomingwifeyblog Twitter: @becomingwifeyb TikTok: @becomingwifeyblog Youtube: youtube.com/@Becomingwifeyblog

I Definitely Do: Episode 11 (TI3)

March 11, 2021 01:00 - 45 minutes - 31.3 MB

On this week's episode: Shaq is a cringey lap-dog, Alexis-eaze shows off her many talents, Blake the dentist might not be the only one who's fake, Erica reminds us not to come for her, and Kendal is going to be single now and ask questions later!  Don't forget to check out the full blog at www.becomingwifeyblog.com. www.becomingwifeyblog.com Instagram: @becomingwifeyblog Twitter: @becomingwifeyb TikTok: @becomingwifeyblog Youtube: youtube.com/@Becomingwifeyblog

I Definitely Do: Episode 10 (TI3)

March 04, 2021 01:00 - 43 minutes - 29.8 MB

This week: man bun Jesse is in popular demand, Kendal thinks the single guys are still in the "interview stage", Blake the dentist is the "dad" of the group, Nickole worries about how dumb she looks, and everyone at the girls villa came prepared with 70s themed costumes. Also...beads. Lots and lots of beads Don't forget to follow the full blog at www.becomingwifeyblog.com.  www.becomingwifeyblog.com Instagram: @becomingwifeyblog Twitter: @becomingwifeyb TikTok: @becomingwifeyblog Youtube...

I Definitely Do: Episode 9 (TI3)

February 25, 2021 06:00 - 46 minutes - 32.2 MB

It's episode 2 of Temptation Island 3 and we are ready to separate the couples (FINALLY) and get started on this life changing journey *cue eye roll*. Kristen flips out about Clorox wipes, Chelsea pops her regular booty, and Thomas wants to flirt and tease (respectfully). Mrs. Renai also keeps you updated on the various beads and the trendy men who wear them.  Check out the full blog at www.becomingwifeyblog.com.  www.becomingwifeyblog.com Instagram: @becomingwifeyblog Twitter: @becomingw...

I Definitely Do: Episode 8 (TI3)

February 18, 2021 05:00 - 43 minutes - 29.9 MB

The new season of Temptation Island kicked off last night. Listen as Mr.B and Mrs. Renai provide a recap of the first episode, with their colorful commentary mixed in.  This week Mr.B & Mrs.Renai meet the four new couples and the singles who are there to tempt them! They unpack each couple and their issues, drink the koolaid from Mark Walberg, and judge the hell out of Blake the dentist...or is it Griffin?  Also...Mrs. Renai needs to know...what's up with the beads, bro? Don't forget to c...

I Definitely Do: Episode 7

February 10, 2021 04:00 - 29 minutes - 20.5 MB

Mr. B & Mrs.Renai discuss all things Valentine's Day!  www.becomingwifeyblog.com Instagram: @becomingwifeyblog Twitter: @becomingwifeyb TikTok: @becomingwifeyblog Youtube: youtube.com/@Becomingwifeyblog

I Definitely Do: Episode 6

February 02, 2021 21:00 - 31 minutes - 21.6 MB

This week's topics include: Does a real man stand by his woman when she gets pregnant by someone else? (& what does that even mean?) Should "females" stop being samples and start acting like full sized products?  Are you tired of "gold digger" videos?  What colors should you choose when trying to attract a potential partner?  Don't forget to follow the full blog at www.becomingwifeyblog.com. Enjoy!  www.becomingwifeyblog.com Instagram: @becomingwifeyblog Twitter: @becomingwifeyb TikTo...

I Definitely Do: Episode 5

January 26, 2021 19:00 - 32 minutes - 22 MB

This week we discuss:  Can someone find true love on reality TV? What do we do when we feel like our bestie is getting close to someone else?  Can you absorb negative energy from "good" D? Mr.B closes out the episode with our 3rd round of 'agree or disagree' when it comes to specific relationship advice.  Let us know what you think about these topics and don't forget to check out the main blog at www.becomingwifeyblog.com.  www.becomingwifeyblog.com Instagram: @becomingwifeyblog Twitte...

I Definitely Do: Episode 4

January 20, 2021 05:00 - 35 minutes - 24.7 MB

In this week's episode Mr.B & Mrs. Renai discuss:  Can a relationship be based off of mutual hatred? Can men do anything right? Are second chances after a break-up toxic? We close out the conversation with a second round of past relationship advice with Mr. B. Do you agree with us? Let us know and don't forget to check out the main blog at www.becomingwifeyblog.com.  www.becomingwifeyblog.com Instagram: @becomingwifeyblog Twitter: @becomingwifeyb TikTok: @becomingwifeyblog Youtube: you...

I Definitely Do: Episode 3

January 12, 2021 01:00 - 46 minutes - 32 MB

 This week we'll be talking about:  Is it okay to keep gifts and trinkets from a past relationship when entering into a new relationship?  Is there such a thing as "bad timing" when it comes to finding "the one"?  Do women force men into monogamy only to later withhold sex?  Mr.B also shares a few pieces of relationship advice that others have received. Do we agree or disagree? Find out and let us know your thoughts!  Don't forget to check out the full blog at www.becomingwifeyblog.com

I Definitely Do: Episode 3

January 12, 2021 01:00 - 46 minutes - 32 MB

 This week we'll be talking about:  Is it okay to keep gifts and trinkets from a past relationship when entering into a new relationship?  Is there such a thing as "bad timing" when it comes to finding "the one"?  Do women force men into monogamy only to later withhold sex?  Mr.B also shares a few pieces of relationship advice that others have received. Do we agree or disagree? Find out and let us know your thoughts!  Don't forget to check out the full blog at www.becomingwifeyblog.com ...

I Definitely Do: Episode 2

December 22, 2020 01:00 - 51 minutes - 35.2 MB

This week we discuss:  Why don't marriages last like our grandparents' generation? Is your partner supposed to be a pain in the ass? Reasons why you should get married.  and more!  Don't forget to check out the full blog on www.becomingwifeyblog.com www.becomingwifeyblog.com Instagram: @becomingwifeyblog Twitter: @becomingwifeyb TikTok: @becomingwifeyblog Youtube: youtube.com/@Becomingwifeyblog

I Definitely Do: Episode 1

December 21, 2020 21:00 - 26 minutes - 18.4 MB

In this week's episode, we take it back to a old topic that was buzzing a few months ago:  Is it okay to see other people if you're married but separated? (RE: Will Smith & Jada P Smith & August Alsina Scandal)  Can you forgive your friend for having an affair with your partner?  Is it a good idea to hook up with your bestie? What if you're lonely during lockdown? Listen as we tackle these topics and more! Also check out the full blog at www.becomingwifeyblog.com  www.becomingwifeyblog...

I Definitely Do: Episode 1

December 21, 2020 21:00 - 26 minutes - 18.4 MB

In this week's episode, we take it back to a old topic that was buzzing a few months ago:  Is it okay to see other people if you're married but separated? (RE: Will Smith & Jada P Smith & August Alsina Scandal)  Can you forgive your friend for having an affair with your partner?  Is it a good idea to hook up with your bestie? What if you're lonely during lockdown? Listen as we tackle these topics and more! Also check out the full blog at www.becomingwifeyblog.com 

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