Seth lost his mom. Pete lost his dad. And both are working through the experience of grief that comes with the impact on their lives and families.

This is not an episode that answers all your grief questions. There are far better topical podcasts with experts to help with that. This show is an exploration of the experience with two guys living through it, and a reflection on how grief — whether from the loss of a beloved family member to the loss of a family through divorce — wrecks havoc on your system, your senses, and your reality. If you’re going through it, we simply want to share: you are not alone.

Thank you for listening along with us this week. As you can imagine, it’s not an easy conversation to have. But if we’ve learned anything in our experience so far, you can’t hide from it. So, here you go… Pete and Seth devoutly not hiding.


(00:00) - Sponsor: Soberlink
(01:34) - Welcome to How to Split a Toaster
(02:01) - Dealing with the Grieving Process
(03:53) - Grief Is Grief Is Grief
(06:49) - Impact
(15:10) - Moving Past the Divorce
(17:08) - Support
(20:39) - Numbing
(26:48) - Go-To Memories
(29:11) - Getting Help
(34:33) - When Divorce Isn't Your Choice
(37:41) - Grieving Kids
(39:57) - Making Room
(41:34) - Memories
(46:42) - Wrapping Up
(47:09) - Listener Question