Exploring Yourself through Sex After Divorce with Sexologist Dr. Joe Kort

How to Split a Toaster: A Divorce Podcast About Saving Your Relationships

English - November 02, 2021 06:00 - 39 minutes - 37 MB - ★★★★★ - 8 ratings
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How has divorce impacted your sex life? Have you noticed a difference in intimacy as you move through your separation, dating, and even sex in your subsequent marriages? How has your experience communicating about your sexual interests and experience changed through divorce?

Dr. Joe Kort is a psychotherapist and founder of The Center for Relationship and Sexual Health and a board certified clinical sexologist. He’s here today to help us navigate the uncertain waters of your post divorce sex life.

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(00:00) - Welcome to How to Split a Toaster
(00:33) - Meet Dr. Joe Kort
(01:38) - The Changing Landscape of Sex
(02:23) - The Love Bomb
(03:12) - Healthy Sex Conversations
(07:15) - Changes in Post-Divorce Sex
(08:30) - What Is the Love Bomb?
(11:09) - Negotiating Sexual Differences
(14:10) - From Relationship to Relationship
(15:25) - Finding Yourself
(17:01) - Sexual Identities That Change
(18:42) - The Taboo of Sex Talk
(22:31) - Rebalancing Power in a Sexual Dynamic
(24:08) - Profiling Your Partner
(27:00) - Different Backgrounds
(28:38) - Practice
(29:53) - Discussing Previous Sexual Relationships
(34:21) - How the First Time Shapes Things
(35:42) - Priorities
(37:37) - Wrapping Up