Help! I Have a Narcissist In My Life
59 episodes - English - Latest episode: 2 months ago - ★★★★★ - 219 ratingsDue to the overwhelming demand for the knowledge in Don’t Let Their Crazy Make You Crazy, How to stay sane and strong when the narcissist in your life is trying to control or abuse you, in this podcast I will be discussing tools and strategies from the book. There are several individuals who have reached
out to me who are in need of counseling or phone advice appointments, yet cannot afford it. Additionally, there are some persons who cannot purchase the book for fear of their controllers or abusers finding the material. I believe this knowledge needs to be made available to whomever may need it, thus the launch of the podcast.
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How Narcissists Use the Concepts of Biblical Submission and Obedience to Control and Abuse Their Victims
February 20, 2024 11:18 - 23 minutes - 32.5 MBLearn how narcissists manipulate and control their victims by twisting Biblical concepts of submission and obedience. This eye-opening podcast episode, Laurel Slade-Waggoner exposes the tactics used by narcissists in relationships and offers advice on how to break free from their control. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subcribe, and leave a rating and a review to help us reach more people. Laurel's Books: https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/shop
Narcissistic FOG-ing - How Narcissists Use This Form of Manipulation to Get What They Want from Others
October 17, 2023 11:00 - 19 minutes - 26.8 MBOn this episode of the Help! I Have a Narcissist in my Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner discusses Narcissistic FOG-ing. Narcissistic FOG-ing is a powerful and effective form of manipulation in which narcissistic individuals use language and gestures that invoke fear, obligation, and/or guilt in their victims to ensure that their demands are met with compliance. Thanks for listening! Laurel's Books: https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/shop
Coercive Control - How to Recognize It and Guard Yourself Against It
October 12, 2023 11:00 - 22 minutes - 31.3 MBOn this episode of the Help! I Have a Narcissist in my Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner discusses coercive control and how to recognize it and guard yourself against it. Narcissistic control and abuse are being talked about and dealt with more than ever before. And so is coercive control. Thanks for listening! Laurel's Books: Don't Let Their Crazy Make Your Kids Crazy: https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/product-page/don-t-let-their-crazy-make-your-kids-crazy Do...
Unconditional Love and Unconditional Support - They Are Not One and the Same
May 30, 2023 09:53 - 14 minutes - 19.8 MBUnconditional Love and Unconditional Support- They are not one and the same Narcissists can be extremely charming, nice, apologetic, and cooperative- as long as circumstances and other people are providing them with exactly what they believe they are entitled to, without any conditions. Through my years of counseling, I have met with hundreds of clinically narcissistic, Biblically foolish individuals who were masters at articulating false narratives of wanting to work on themselves ...
How Narcissists Use Niceness to Control and Manipulate Their Partners.
April 05, 2023 09:59 - 22 minutes - 31 MBOn this episode of the Help! I Have a Narcissist in my Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner discusses how narcissists use niceness to control and manipulate their partners. Narcissists use niceness to control and manipulate their partners throughout the entire course of their relationships. And narcissistic niceness can be just as toxic to one's heart and soul as narcissistic nastiness is. Thanks for listening! https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/
Wise People vs. Foolish, Narcissistic People-A Biblical Comparison
February 11, 2023 11:45 - 20 minutes - 27.6 MBThe Bible is packed with descriptions of wise people and even more packed with descriptions of foolish people. In this episode, Laurel Slade-Waggoner discusses the fruit, or personality trait patterns, of wise people as well as foolish, narcissistic people. Thanks for listening! Follow Laurel Slade-Waggoner on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sladewaggoner/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sladewaggoner YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@helpihaveanarcissistinmyl...
Common Malignant Attitudes of the Narcissist and How They Develop - Part Two
November 29, 2022 10:15 - 22 minutes - 30.5 MBIn part one, the focus revolved around the internal world of a narcissist and what leads to the creation of a narcissistic malignant attitude. In this episode, part two, the focus will be on a few of the common, narcissistic, malignant attitudes and how they can be recognized. Thanks for listening! https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/
Common Malignant Attitudes of the Narcissist and How They Develop - Part One
November 22, 2022 10:29 - 18 minutes - 25.2 MBOn this episode of the Help! I Have a Narcissist in My Life Podcast, the focus will be on the internal world of a narcissist and what leads to the creation of a malignant narcissistic attitude. Thanks for listening! https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/
Staying Anchored in Your Calm When You're Faced with a Narcissistic Storm
November 15, 2022 11:26 - 16 minutes - 22.3 MBOn this episode of the Help! I Have a Narcissist in my Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner discusses how to stay anchored in your calm when your faced with a narcissistic storm. Thanks for listening! https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/
What is a Narcissistic Pastor?
November 08, 2022 10:21 - 24 minutes - 34 MBNarcissistic Pastors - what to look for and what to do if your Head Pastor is narcissistic with Dr. David Clarke. Thanks for listening! https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/
20 Lies That Keep You With Your Abuser with Dr. David Clarke
September 20, 2022 09:27 - 34 minutes - 46.9 MBOn this episode of the Help! I Have a Narcissist in my Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner has another great conversation with Dr. David Clarke about his new book, 20 Lies That Keep You With Your Abuser--Reclaiming Your Identity, Your Worth in Christ, and Your Freedom. https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/
Psychological Splitting - How Narcissists Can Go from Loving Someone to Discarding or Hating Someone
September 13, 2022 09:52 - 21 minutes - 29.2 MBOn this episode of the Help! I have a Narcissist in my Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner discusses Psychological Splitting - How Narcissists Can Go from Loving Someone to Discarding or Hating Someone Without Feeling. Bad About It. For more resources on how to deal with the narcissist in your life visit: https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/
What Your Children Need From You If Their Other Parent Is Narcissistic
July 05, 2022 09:28 - 15 minutes - 21.4 MBOn this episode of the Help! I Have a Narcissist In My Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner discusses what your children need from you if their other parent is narcissistic. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/
Gaslighting - Indicators, Impacts, and an Immunity Plan
June 28, 2022 10:15 - 20 minutes - 28 MBOn this episode of the Help! I Have a Narcissist In My Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner discusses gaslighting. Laurel's hope and prayer is that after listening, you Precious Listeners will have a renewed reverence for the annihilation gaslighting causes, a more thorough understanding of its indicators and impacts, and a new arsenal of verbal responses to use that lead to immunity for your heart and soul should the narcissist in your life attempt to gaslight you with his or her insidious d...
Placating a Narcissist vs. Healthy Acceptance of Your Circumstances - What's the Difference?
June 21, 2022 09:38 - 20 minutes - 28.3 MBOn this episode of the Help! I Have a Narcissist In My Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner discusses the difference between placating a narcissist vs. healthy acceptance of your circumstances. Thanks for listening! You can also listen to this podcast on Laurel's YouTube channel. Visit https://www.youtube.com/c/HelpIHaveaNarcissistInMyLifePodcast to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!
Narcissistic Reactivity - Why Narcissists Overreact and What You Can Do When You Are Exploded Upon
June 14, 2022 10:00 - 19 minutes - 27.4 MBOn this episode of the Help! I Have a Narcissist In My Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner discusses why narcissists overreact and what you can do when you are exploded upon. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.
Don't Let Their Crazy Make Your Kids Crazy with Dr. David Clarke
May 31, 2022 10:03On this episode of the Help! I Have a Narcissist In My Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner has a great discussion with Dr. David Clarke about her new book Don't Let Their Crazy Make Your Kids Crazy. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.
Equip Your Children To Stand Up To Their Narcissistic Parent's Enmeshment and Toxic Neediness.
May 10, 2022 10:00 - 29 minutes - 40.3 MBOn this episode of the Help! I Have a Narcissist In My Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner discusses how to equip your children to stand up to their Narcissistic Parent's enmeshment and toxic neediness. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.
Covert Narcissists
April 26, 2022 09:55 - 21 minutes - 30.1 MBOn this episode of the Help! I Have a Narcissist In My Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner discusses Covert Narcissists - Who They Are, What They Do, And What You Can Do If You Have One With Whom You Are Contending. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/
How to Protect Your Children if Their Narcissistic Parent is an Alcohol or Drug Abuser
April 19, 2022 10:00 - 25 minutes - 34.3 MBOn this episode of the Help! I Have a Narcissist in my Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner discusses how to protect your children if their narcissistic parent is an alcohol or drug abuser. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.
Narcissistic Delusion - Do Narcissists Really Believe What They Project?
April 12, 2022 09:59 - 18 minutes - 25.5 MBOn this episode of the Help! I Have a Narcissist in my Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner answers this question which is repeatedly asked in her counseling sessions. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate , and leave a review.
Equipping Your Children to Resist Narcissistic Bribery.
February 15, 2022 11:00 - 22 minutes - 30.8 MBOn this episode of the Help! I Have a Narcissist in my Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner discusses how to equip your children to resist narcissistic bribery. Having one's children lavished with expensive gifts, trips, and baseless freedoms by their narcissistic other parent may not sound like control and manipulation. But, it is. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. For more resources from Laurel Slade-Waggoner, visit her website at: https://www...
If someone has narcissistic traits, does that mean they have narcissistic personality disorder?
February 08, 2022 11:00 - 18 minutes - 24.8 MBOn this episode of the Help! I Have a Narcissist in my Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner answers a question that she has been asked several times when she is on call-in radio programs. The question is this: "If someone has narcissistic traits, does that mean they have narcissistic personality disorder?" Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.
Reality Acceptance - 11 Things Narcissists Will Not Do
February 01, 2022 11:00 - 15 minutes - 21.4 MBIn prior episodes,, Laurel Slade-Waggoner has outlined what narcissism is and what narcissists will do. In this episode, Laurel will discuss what narcissists will NOT do. Thanks for Listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.
Get in Touch with Your Righteous Anger
December 14, 2021 11:00 - 16 minutes - 23.2 MBOn this episode of the Help! I Have a Narcissist in my Life Podcast, Laurel discusses how to get in touch with your Righteous Anger. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/
Narcissistic Manipulation and How to Counter It
December 07, 2021 11:00 - 13 minutes - 18.6 MBOn this episode of the Help! I have a Narcissist in my Life Podcast, Laure Slade-Waggoner discusses how to counter narcissistic manipulation. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/
Overt Narcissism versus Covert Narcissism
November 30, 2021 11:00 - 14 minutes - 20 MBIs the narcissist in your life primarily overt or covert? On this episode of the Help! I Have a Narcissist in my Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner discusses overt narcissism versus covert narcissism. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.
Narcissistic Extended Family Members - Toxic Giving vs. Godly Giving
November 23, 2021 11:00 - 15 minutes - 20.6 MBOn this episode of the Help! I Have a Narcissist in my Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner discusses how to deal with Narcissistic Extended Family Members. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/
Narcissistic Personality Disorder Described and Defined
November 02, 2021 10:00 - 15 minutes - 21.3 MBOn this episode of the Help! I Have a Narcissist in my Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner describes and defines Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/
Narcissistic Hoovering
October 26, 2021 10:00 - 12 minutes - 17.7 MBOn this episode of The Help! I Have a Narcissist in my Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner discusses Narcissistic Hoovering. Your narcissist will not only suck the energy and sanity out of you if given the opportunity, he or she will suck your freedom to detach from him or her. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/
The Narcissistic Relationship Cycle
October 19, 2021 10:30 - 13 minutes - 18.8 MBOn this episode of the Help! I Have a Narcissist in my Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner discusses the relationship cycle with a narcissist. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/
Forgiveness - What It Is and What It Isn't
September 21, 2021 09:30 - 13 minutes - 18.2 MBOn this episode of the Help! I Have a Narcissist In My Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner discusses what true forgiveness is and what it isn't. Forgiveness is a progressive process. And in her opinion, one so difficult that it can be completely experienced only through the empowerment of the Holy Spirit. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.
Reclaiming Your Self-Worth
September 14, 2021 09:30 - 13 minutes - 18.7 MBOn this episode of the Help! I Have a Narcissist In My Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner discusses how to reclaim your self-worth. A vitally important step in your journey to maintaining your sanity and strength in the face of narcissistic control and abuse is breaking through your denial to get to the place of acceptance that you are indeed precious...so very, very precious. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.
What Does Your Narcissist Really Want? Understanding Narcissistic Currencies
September 07, 2021 09:30 - 15 minutes - 21.2 MBOn this episode of the Help! I Have a Narcissist in my Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner discusses the underlying motivations of narcissistic behavior and the “currencies” which narcissistic individuals are ferociously seeking. Click the link in the bio to listen to this episode. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.
Do Not Go to Marriage Counseling With Your Narcissistic Spouse
August 31, 2021 09:30 - 13 minutes - 18.8 MBOn this episode of The Help! I Have a Narcissist In My Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner discusses why you should not go to marriage counseling with a narcissistic spouse. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.
What If Your Narcissist Is Your Adult Child or Sibling?
August 17, 2021 09:30 - 17 minutes - 23.5 MBOn this episode of the Help! I Have a Narcissist In My Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner discusses what to do if you have a narcissistic adult child or sibling. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.
Narcissistic Co-parenting and Parenting Patterns
August 10, 2021 09:30 - 14 minutes - 20.3 MBOn this episode of the Help! I Have a Narcissist In My Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner discusses what to do if you're co-parenting with a narcissist. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.
How To Confront A Narcissistic Or Addicted Person On Their Behavior
August 03, 2021 09:30 - 13 minutes - 18.7 MBOn this episode of The Help! I Have a Narcissist In My Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner will discuss how to confront a narcissistic or addicted person on their behavior. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. For more resources from Laurel Slade-Waggoner visit: https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/
Preventing Narcissistic Blindsiding
June 15, 2021 09:30 - 15 minutes - 20.9 MBOn this episode of the Help! I Have a Narcissist in my Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner discusses how to prevent narcissistic blindsiding. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.
Take Back Your Power - Serenity Prayer Living
June 08, 2021 10:00 - 14 minutes - 19.7 MBOn this episode of the Help! I have a Narcissist In My Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner discusses the Serenity Prayer and how you can use it to stay sane and strong while dealing with the narcissistic controller and abuser in your life. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. For more resources visit: https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/
Narcissistic Triangulation - Recognize It and Nullify Its Power
June 01, 2021 09:30 - 16 minutes - 23.3 MBOn this episode, Laurel discusses narcissistic triangulation which involves pulling another person, or many other persons, into the circumstance and their relationships with their victims. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. For more resources from Laurel, check out her website:https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/
My Spouse Wants Out With Dr. David Clarke
May 11, 2021 10:00 - 24 minutes - 34 MBOn this episode of the Help! I Have a Narcissist in my Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner once again sits down with Dr. David Clarke to discuss his book My Spouse Wants Out. Thanks for listening Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.
Dialoging Effectively With a Narcissist
May 04, 2021 10:00 - 23 minutes - 31.8 MBOn this episode of the Help! I Have a Narcissist in my Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner sits down with Dr. David Clarke once again, to discuss skills to use when dialoging with someone who is narcissistic. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.
Talking Points for Helpers Who Perpetuate Abuse
April 27, 2021 10:00 - 25 minutes - 34.7 MBOn this episode of The Help! I Have a Narcissist in my Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner joins author and psychologist Dr. David Clarke to discuss the classic and harmful advice that Christian "helpers" give to abused spouses. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.
Narcissistic Weaponry - Understand Your Narcissist's Resources and Vulnerabilities
April 17, 2021 10:30 - 18 minutes - 25.8 MBOn this podcast episode, Laurel will be discussing how to become aware of your narcissist’s weaponry (narcissistic strengths and narcissistic vulnerabilities) so that you can be victorious in maintaining your sanity and preserving your strength in the presence of narcissistic control and abuse. Evil doesn’t win. Foolishness doesn’t win. Narcissism doesn’t win. God wins. And you can, too, with these awarenesses and His Direction. Thank for listening! Please remember to subscribe, ra...
Narcissistic Stonewalling - What Is It and How Can You Empower Yourself When You Experience It?
March 27, 2021 21:01 - 14 minutes - 19.7 MBOn this episode of The Help! I Have a Narcissist in my Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner discusses Narcissistic Stonewalling - What Is It and How Can You Empower Yourself When You Experience It? Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/
Decide Out of Your Wise Mind
March 27, 2021 10:30 - 10 minutes - 14.9 MBDecide Out of Your Wise Mind - What to Do When Your Controlling and Abusive Narcissist Makes Unilateral Decisions. Narcissistic controllers and abusers do not possess high Emotional Intelligence. They are not capable of contributing to the emotional health and demands of relationships and responsibilities. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. For more resources from Laurel Slade-Waggoner visit her website at: https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservi...
Interactional Patterns of a Narcissist - What to Expect
March 13, 2021 11:00 - 12 minutes - 17.4 MBIf we can learn to recognize narcissistic interactional patterns, we can then learn to interact with them, if life necessitates it, in a healthy way. Others' narcissism is not our faults, however it is ours to deal with and interact with. If you would like to purchase a copy of my book Don't Let Their Crazy Make You Crazy, click the link below. https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/product-page/don-t-let-their-crazy-make-you-crazy
What Does It Mean to Detach?
March 06, 2021 12:00 - 11 minutes - 16.2 MBNarcissistic Personality Disorder: The only disorder wherein everyone else in the family is in counseling, except for the narcissist. Your goal cannot be changing your narcissist. That goal will render you sick. Sick in heart. Sick in spirit. And, often times, sick in physical health. The great news is YOU are the one allowing this to happen. Which means that You have the power to stop allowing it to happen. How? You learn how to DETACH. Don't Let Their Crazy Make You Crazy Book h...
Pick Your Battles
February 27, 2021 11:00 - 11 minutes - 16.2 MBOn this episode of The Help! I Have a Narcissist in my Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner will discuss a key component to help you maintain your sanity and preserve your strength by learning how to pick your battles. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/