Navigating Conflicts In Relationships

Hearts Entwined Podcast

English - July 22, 2020 23:00 - 35 minutes - 32.1 MB - ★★★★★ - 4 ratings
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Previous Episode: Creating Lasting Partnerships - Lyn Smith & Rob Moore (Disruptors)

Next Episode: Unrealistic Expectations in Relationships

Lyn is joined this week by special guest, Nicolas Canon, to discuss navigating conflicts and confrontation in relationships, how our instincts and attitudes towards others is often the result of our upbringing and education, which then leads to conflicting energies, and what we can do to successfully and constructively work through this.

KEY TAKEAWAYS
Our upbringing can shape our ideas and thoughts about what masculinity and femininity feels like and looks like. We can sometimes have our natural impulses regarding these things suppressed or encouraged depending on our environment.
Men are often brought up to believe that women are there to be conquered, and that they are someone to exploit for their own gain. We must seek to change these negative unhealthy attitudes.
Conflict often surfaces when our energies clash. Toxic unhealthy masculine and feminine energies exist in both men and women, and whilst we can work on decreasing it, in general, they are often the main source of confrontation in relationships.
The first step in resolving any kind of conflict, is to take responsibility for our part in its creation, and not seek to lay the entire blame on another.
The key to resolving confrontation, is to take a step back and remind ourselves that we love each other, and that both of us want to make things work.

BEST MOMENTS

‘A life without those… I don’t know if you can even call it a life’

‘I realised that there had to be a better way’

‘I started focusing on what makes a conscious relationship work’

‘When we take responsibility for our part, the rest becomes smoother'

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ABOUT THE GUEST

Nicolas Canon has worked with hundreds of men in helping them heal and transform their relationship to their masculine energy and their connection and openness towards the feminine.

In his work he incorporates yogic traditions with modern coaching techniques and the wisdom of ancestral teachings - especially the shamanic plant medicine use of the Amazonian jungles.

To dive deeper into his work sign up to his Mindful Mondays Newsletter at www.nicocanon.com/newsletter

Or insta @nicocanon_

ABOUT THE HOST

Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert

Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now being in a soul fulfilling relationship which makes her feel alive, is full of passion and gives her inner peace.

She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert / Trainer / Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts.

Understanding the polarisation of masculine & feminine energy resulted in her creating massive attraction and a passionate, intimate, fulfilling relationship – that inspired her to design & present her own course programmes to share these break-through relationship techniques with women across the globe.

HEARTS Entwined is a world-class service based on care and understanding, which is committed to providing step-by-step high-value love, dating and relationship solutions.

Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale – to create a lasting legacy of safety, dignity and opportunity for children and women who have survived rape, abuse and severe trauma as a result of war crimes and sex trafficking – through the setting up of worldwide – ‘you can heal your life’ centres.

CONTACT METHOD

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KEY TAKEAWAYS

Our upbringing can shape our ideas and thoughts about what masculinity and femininity feels like and looks like. We can sometimes have our natural impulses regarding these things suppressed or encouraged depending on our environment.
Men are often brought up to believe that women are there to be conquered, and that they are someone to exploit for their own gain. We must seek to change these negative unhealthy attitudes.
Conflict often surfaces when our energies clash. Toxic unhealthy masculine and feminine energies exist in both men and women, and whilst we can work on decreasing it, in general, they are often the main source of confrontation in relationships.
The first step in resolving any kind of conflict, is to take responsibility for our part in its creation, and not seek to lay the entire blame on another.
The key to resolving confrontation, is to take a step back and remind ourselves that we love each other, and that both of us want to make things work.