How To Save Your Relationship

How To Save Your Relationship

To find out the answers to this question, your host, Lyn Smith shares with you the secrets to saving your relationship. If you’re going through a break up or having problems and you truly believe that the love is still there (on both sides) and that your relationship can be saved, this episode is for you.

KEY TAKEAWAYS 
What you need to do, if you're in a situation whereby your husband or partner suddenly says that they need a break or they feel that the relationship has come to an end or there's been an argument and some disconnect, how do you cope in that situation to ensure you get the best result, if actually saving your relationship is what you truly want? 
Is the relationship worth saving to start with? Do you truly believe that this man is a good man? Answer that question honestly, first of all, you've got to feel that this relationship has got the potential to be a really healthy, fulfilling relationship that's going to be great for both of you. It's not good if one of you is out of flow.
Are you the one that's a lot more invested in the relationship? If that's the case, there needs to be from his perspective more investment or equal investment from him for this to work well for you both.
To create an environment for him to become more invested, you need to switch your focus from him to you. He needs to feel that he's an added bonus to your already fabulous life. If you've not really been looking after or taking responsibility for your own happiness, health and well-being, you need to focus on that and start getting back into hobbies and interests that are solely for you and do things that are actually going to fill up your self-care cup to the brim.
Do you still feel that he has feelings for you because you'll know in your heart if he genuinely does? 
When you're going through a bad patch or potentially a bit of a breakup, for women what I advise you to do is to actually give men more time and space because our immediate reaction normally is to do the opposite. Generally as women, we want to share and find out what's going on with him and get to the root of his feelings.
We feel that if we're not connected to him, then he's going to forget about us or think we don't care and that's not the case because that's just us thinking from a woman's perspective.

What men actually need in this situation is the time and space to feel what it's like to be away from you, to really miss you, that's what's going to ultimately make him want to get back in touch and reach out and rekindle your relationship. If you're the one that's doing all the chasing, rather than allowing him to pursue you, then you risk making him want to pull away even more. 
If you're a man and you are in this situation where the relationship is at a point where it needs rescuing and to be saved, then the opposite is true. Men tend to think that women need more time and space but that's not the case because that's just you thinking from a man's perspective. It's time to show your woman how much she means to you and that you're prepared to fight for the relationship. 
Women you need to give men space, the freedom and the time to really miss you. Men you need to fight for the relationship and prove by your words and actions that you're willing to do anything to protect and save it.

 

BEST MOMENTS 
“There needs to be equal investment from both partners in a relationship for it to be operating at it's healthiest highest level.” 
“The best gift you can ever give to a man is to give him that time and space to really miss you not being in his life.” 
“True love starts with opening our hearts.” 

VALUABLE RESOURCES

Hearts Entwined Podcast
-Apple Podcasts (iTunes)
-Spotify
-Stitcher

ABOUT THE HOST 

Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert   

Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now being in a soul fulfilling relationship which makes her feel alive, is full of passion and gives her inner peace.   

She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert / Trainer / Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts.   

Understanding the polarisation of masculine & feminine energy resulted in her creating massive attraction and a passionate, intimate, fulfilling relationship – that inspired her to design & present her own course programmes to share these break-through relationship techniques with women across the globe.     

HEARTS Entwined is a world-class service based on care and understanding, which is committed to providing step-by-step high-value love, dating and relationship solutions.   

Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale – to create a lasting legacy of safety, dignity and opportunity for children and women who have survived rape, abuse and severe trauma as a result of war crimes and sex trafficking – through the setting up of worldwide – ‘you can heal your life’ centres.     

CONTACT METHOD 
[email protected]  

 

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How To Save Your Relationship

To find out the answers to this question, your host, Lyn Smith shares with you the secrets to saving your relationship. If you’re going through a break up or having problems and you truly believe that the love is still there (on both sides) and that your relationship can be saved, this episode is for you.

KEY TAKEAWAYS 

What you need to do, if you're in a situation whereby your husband or partner suddenly says that they need a break or they feel that the relationship has come to an end or there's been an argument and some disconnect, how do you cope in that situation to ensure you get the best result, if actually saving your relationship is what you truly want? 

Is the relationship worth saving to start with? Do you truly believe that this man is a good man? Answer that question honestly, first of all, you've got to feel that this relationship has got the potential to be a really healthy, fulfilling relationship that's going to be great for both of you. It's not good if one of you is out of flow.
Are you the one that's a lot more invested in the relationship? If that's the case, there needs to be from his perspective more investment or equal investment from him for this to work well for you both.
To create an environment for him to become more invested, you need to switch your focus from him to you. He needs to feel that he's an added bonus to your already fabulous life. If you've not really been looking after or taking responsibility for your own happiness, health and well-being, you need to focus on that and start getting back into hobbies and interests that are solely for you and do things that are actually going to fill up your self-care cup to the brim.
Do you still feel that he has feelings for you because you'll know in your heart if he genuinely does? 
When you're going through a bad patch or potentially a bit of a breakup, for women what I advise you to do is to actually give men more time and space because our immediate reaction normally is to do the opposite. Generally as women, we want to share and find out what's going on with him and get to the root of his feelings.
We feel that if we're not connected to him, then he's going to forget about us or think we don't care and that's not the case because that's just us thinking from a woman's perspective.

What men actually need in this situation is the time and space to feel what it's like to be away from you, to really miss you, that's what's going to ultimately make him want to get back in touch and reach out and rekindle your relationship. If you're the one that's doing all the chasing, rather than allowing him to pursue you, then you risk making him want to pull away even more. 

If you're a man and you are in this situation where the relationship is at a point where it needs rescuing and to be saved, then the opposite is true. Men tend to think that women need more time and space but that's not the case because that's just you thinking from a man's perspective. It's time to show your woman how much she means to you and that you're prepared to fight for the relationship. 
Women you need to give men space, the freedom and the time to really miss you. Men you need to fight for the relationship and prove by your words and actions that you're willing to do anything to protect and save it.

 

BEST MOMENTS 

“There needs to be equal investment from both partners in a relationship for it to be operating at it's healthiest highest level.” 

“The best gift you can ever give to a man is to give him that time and space to really miss you not being in his life.” 
“True love starts with opening our hearts.” 

VALUABLE RESOURCES

Hearts Entwined Podcast
-Apple Podcasts (iTunes)
-Spotify
-Stitcher

ABOUT THE HOST 

Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert   

Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now being in a soul fulfilling relationship which makes her feel alive, is full of passion and gives her inner peace.   

She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert / Trainer / Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts.   

Understanding the polarisation of masculine & feminine energy resulted in her creating massive attraction and a passionate, intimate, fulfilling relationship – that inspired her to design & present her own course programmes to share these break-through relationship techniques with women across the globe.     

HEARTS Entwined is a world-class service based on care and understanding, which is committed to providing step-by-step high-value love, dating and relationship solutions.   

Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale – to create a lasting legacy of safety, dignity and opportunity for children and women who have survived rape, abuse and severe trauma as a result of war crimes and sex trafficking – through the setting up of worldwide – ‘you can heal your life’ centres.     

CONTACT METHOD 

[email protected]  

 

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.