How To Be Confident Dating - Lyn Smith & Stefani Havel

Lyn discusses the topic of how to be confident dating, with guest Stefani Havel, an ambassador of affirmations. Stefani shares one of her unique approaches to building confidence through positive affirmations that start with the letters of your name, they also discuss and emphasise the importance of being authentically you, so you can achieve long term success by attracting the right partner. 

KEY TAKEAWAYS

Use affirmations: Create a powerful affirmation statement, using positive words or phrases that start with the letters of your name. Choose words or phrases that align with your strengths and repeat them daily to build confidence.
Embrace your authenticity: Be true to yourself and don't try to change who you are to impress/ please someone else. Love your quirks, know your own worth and value and show up as your authentic self when dating.
Embrace setbacks as opportunities: View temporary setbacks as a natural part of life and an opportunity for growth. Learn from them and know that you will come back stronger.
See rejection as protection: Instead of seeing rejection as a personal failure, see it as protection. Trust that it is guiding you towards someone/ something that's a better match for you.

BEST MOMENTS

"Make your mess your message."

"Stand up and just be a strong, confident person."

"Be your authentic self, embrace all your quirks."

"Just be who you are, embrace your quirkiness, the movies, the food, the look, whatever you like, be confident in that."

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ABOUT THE GUEST - Stefani Havel - Ambassador of Affirmations

As an Ambassador of Affirmations, Stefani’s proven mindset system transforms audiences and helps them breakthrough self-limiting beliefs by learning to take actions, overcome self-doubt, and enable change within.  She is passionate about empowering others through affirmations.

As a Master of Communication and visionary leader in workplace communication Stefani helps you unlock true potential through powerful communication strategies and create a connected, engaged & thriving workforce.

She recently collaborated and coauthored an Amazon best-selling book about overcoming objections and breaking through self-limiting beliefs with a God centered life.

She is a lifelong resident of Minnesota, where she attended the U of M in Duluth studying public relations and communications.  Her favorite role in life is being an Aunt to 9 nieces and nephews and 3 great nieces and nephews.

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/stefanihavel/

ABOUT THE HOST

Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert

Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now being in a soul fulfilling relationship which makes her feel alive, is full of passion and gives her inner peace.

She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert / Trainer / Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts.

Understanding the polarisation of masculine & feminine energy resulted in her creating massive attraction and a passionate, intimate, fulfilling relationship – that inspired her to design & present her own course programmes to share these break-through relationship techniques with women across the globe.

HEARTS Entwined is a world-class service based on care and understanding, which is committed to providing step-by-step high-value love, dating and relationship solutions.

Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale – to create a lasting legacy of safety, dignity and opportunity for children and women who have survived rape, abuse and severe trauma as a result of war crimes and sex trafficking – through the setting up of worldwide – ‘you can heal your life’ centres.

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