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Grownmenchoppingitup

106 episodes - English - Latest episode: 4 months ago - ★★★★★ - 10 ratings

A weekly podcast delving into the ups and downs of relationships, sex and love and how you can navigate the waters more safely. The show contains valuable information that couples young and old will find useful.

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Episodes

Creepy Or Not

December 31, 2023 09:42 - 18 minutes - 17.1 MB

Kerry Witta K delves into things that women find creepy from the opposite sex.

Fair Use Parody Song / Carry Everywhere

November 07, 2022 05:19 - 3 minutes - 8.73 MB

Kerry Witta K made a parody song about self preservation.

Seek and you shall find / Worldwide Penis Size

August 10, 2022 01:20 - 32 minutes - 27.6 MB

Signs Your Relationship Isn't Going To Last / Relationship Goals That Will Make Your Love Stronger

March 26, 2020 08:18 - 39 minutes - 55.9 MB

The fellas are back in the saddle like they never left with how you can recognize when your relationship is headed nowhere but also relationship goals that will be sure to make your love stronger. 

Nino Finds His Swag (continued)

September 05, 2019 04:25 - 42 minutes - 49.2 MB

If you haven't heard the Case Of The Lost Swag or need to be refreshed about the episode please go back and take a listen so this episode makes more sense to you. Kerry witta K caught up with Latino Nino for an update on his situation. We apologize for the long wait between shows and we can tell by the downloads that there are lots of listeners that love the show. We will be gearing up for more episodes soon.

Positive Black Father Stats / How to Love a Black Man

May 05, 2019 05:21 - 38 minutes - 42.1 MB

KerrywittaK gives positive Black father statistics that we didn't know. JR Rydha tells you the ways you can love a Black Man. The fellas also discuss celebrity relationship advice.

The Rape Culture Discussion

March 24, 2019 01:27 - 50 minutes - 53.8 MB

Kerry Witta K takes on a full discussion of rape culture with guests Millz and J Source. 

Masturbation Encouragement / Black Marital Failure

January 15, 2019 14:45 - 41 minutes - 60.2 MB

Kerry witta K explains what Masturbation Encouragement porn is while JR Rydha offers some new age dating tips. The fellas also answer a few listener questions and discuss Black Marital Failure and how to combat it.

5 Date Ideas / Loving More Than 1 Person

January 02, 2019 06:34 - 37 minutes - 53.6 MB

Contact info: Kerry witta K - 510 688-9508 [email protected] FB:grownmenchoppingitup webpage: www.grownmenchoppingitup.com Twitter: grownmenchoppin Instagram: grownmenchoppingitup       Kerry witta K gives fellas 5 date ideas to consider when taking a lady out and JR Rydha discusses if it possible for men and women to love more than 1 person.

The Jezebel Stereotype and Objectification of the Black Woman

December 24, 2018 05:00 - 33 minutes - 37.1 MB

Kerry witta K along with Millz and J Source discuss a study on the Jezebel Stereotype and the past and current objectification of the Black Woman. You may need to pull out a dictionary to recognize some of the words used in this podcast. Lots of highbrow humor used.

The Case of the Lost Swag

November 21, 2018 05:00 - 36 minutes - 37.6 MB

Kerry Witta K gets a call from long friend and old music partner Latino Nino with an issue about how he feels he has lost a step when it comes to dealing with women.

Gimme A G !!! (How to find her G-Spot)

October 24, 2018 16:00 - 30 minutes - 37.1 MB

In this episode Kerry Witta K attempts to enlighten our listeners and tell gentleman and Roombas (lesbians) how to find a womans' g-spot.    https://www.glamour.com/story/how-to-find-g-spot

8 Relationship Problems U Can't Fix / Listener Questions Answered

October 17, 2018 16:00 - 38 minutes - 39.3 MB

Kerry witta K talks about 8 relationship problems that can't be fixed and answered listener questions. Guest hosts are Triple D members JDub and MDeezy.

How To Be Her Greatest Lover

September 22, 2018 02:00 - 17 minutes - 18.2 MB

Kerry Witta K gives men a few great ideas to be their womans' superstar once again.

Uber bae update / Bad Animal Fathers

July 12, 2018 22:29 - 34 minutes - 50.6 MB

The listener behind Uber Bar wrote is with am update on her situation and its getting juicy. Also Kerry witta K lets us know that human males aren't the only bad fathers.

Happy Ladyparts / Swapping Phones

June 27, 2018 18:56 - 34 minutes - 51 MB

In this episode Kerry witta K gives you 11 ways to keep your vagina happy while JR Rydha tries to come up with a solution for a guy whose lady falls asleep right after having an orgasm. The fellas also discuss the dangers of birth control causing fibroids.

All Fair In Love...

May 20, 2018 09:19 - 42 minutes - 62.4 MB

JR Rydha and Kerry witta K delve into topics about love and relationships.

We Don't Need No Stinkin Topic Part 2

May 02, 2018 16:00 - 34 minutes - 49.6 MB

....more stories and hijinks with the guys and special guest D.

Topic ? We Don't Need No Stinking Topic featuring D

April 19, 2018 00:14 - 41 minutes - 60.4 MB

We tried to do a professional show as we always do with topics but we got so far off track telling stories i doubt if we got much out. This is Part 1 of a two part podcast with special guest D who has known both of us for almost 30 years. He stops by to verify some of the stories we have told on the show.

Womens Mindset / Married Black Men.

March 22, 2018 18:00 - 38 minutes - 59.8 MB

Kerry witty K talks about certain mindsets that hinder relationship success for Black wome, JR Rydha has another great question that is answered by his listeners.

Relationship Books / Introducing Sex Toys

March 09, 2018 17:52 - 34 minutes - 51.5 MB

JR Rydha asks what is the best way to introduce sex toys to your mate. Kerry witty k gives listeners a few relationship books that will change their lives. A listener writes in with a common issue of outgrowing her mate.

Futuristic Masturbating

January 25, 2018 22:29 - 40.5 KB

Kerry witta  K gives you whats coming up in the near future and now with computer synchronized masturbating in this grownmenchoppingitup snippet.   https://gizmodo.com/pornhub-is-making-smart-sex-toys-that-sync-with-porn-an-1822341727

Uber Hubby / Red Flags

November 10, 2017 20:52 - 35 minutes - 49.8 MB

Kerry witta K reads a listeners question about how to get her hubby to be more invested in contributing to the relationship besides sex. JR Rydha talks about red flags during a relationship.

Top 10 Mistakes Men Make In A Relationship

September 23, 2017 23:38 - 13 minutes - 11.9 MB

Kerry witta K gives you the top 10 mistakes men make ln a relationship and fields a listener question.

Chicks Dig Pretty Dicks / Should Women Propose?

July 30, 2017 22:06 - 30 minutes - 45.8 MB

Kerry witta K goes over in order of importance what women find most attractive about penises. JR Rydha talks about why women should propose sometimes. The fellas discuss the perils of a sex less marriage and solutions.

Grownmenchoppingitup Shea Moisture comnmercial

July 01, 2017 03:07 - 37 seconds - 73.6 MB Video

 Commercial Kerry witta K did for Shea Moisture

Is She Really Old School / Micropenis Issues

June 17, 2017 01:31 - 31 minutes - 46.7 MB

JR Rydha talks about first date etiquette and if women are really.old school like some say they are. Kerry witta K explains what a Micropenis is and reads an interview from a man suffering from it. The fellas also go over listener feedback

Social Media Self Control / Black Couple Therapy

May 05, 2017 17:15 - 36 minutes - 54.4 MB

Is it OK for your spouse or significant other to tell you who you csn be friends with or talk to on social media ? The fellas discuss this and new age vibrators.  

Dating Out Of Your Type / Batwing Labia

March 30, 2017 23:14 - 37 minutes - 56.6 MB

JRYDHA talks about people that date out of their normal type man how it makes them feel. Kerry Witta K sets the record straight about women with outer labia that look like pastrami.   

Candid Discussion About Manparts

March 01, 2017 01:33 - 36 minutes - 39.7 MB

Kerry witta K goes on a trip to Oklahoma to have a life changing surgery on his manbits.

Jedi Mind Tricks / Relationship Stats / Sex Foods

February 04, 2017 03:15 - 42 minutes - 64.5 MB

JR Rydha addresses the many issues of one of our female listeners including issues such as he never helps around the house and ways that you as a woman have to use jedi mind tricks on men. Kerry witta K gives some relationship stats. JR Rydha goes over foods that you can eat to improve sexual functions.

The Best of Grownmenchoppingitup

January 26, 2017 07:10 - 45 minutes - 41.8 MB

Is Spicing Up The Bedroom Overrated / is Squirting Really Pee

January 04, 2017 20:53 - 38 minutes - 54.5 MB

Kerry witta K tackles a listener question about is spicing up the bedroom overrated. JR Rydha talks about how to te) a coworker that you're interested.

How Freaky Is Freaky ?/ Rebound Love

December 28, 2016 17:00 - 47 minutes - 71.3 MB

JR Rydha talks about how long you should wait from the time a relationship ends until you get into another one. Kerry Witta K talks about things men look for in a relationship.

Do You Know Your Kids featuring Miss K (PART 2)

December 20, 2016 17:00 - 23 minutes - 33.9 MB

JR Rydha continues his conversation with Miss K about subjects such as Hide and Go Get It, very first orgasm and sexual myths. They also tall about it birth control.

Do You Know Your Kids ? Featuring Miss K (PART 1)

December 16, 2016 04:34 - 31 minutes - 47.3 MB

JR Rydha talks to special guest host Miss K,  who has over 20 + years working with middle school students, about middle school sexual orientation,  dating and body consciousness. She also drops the bomb that in California children 12 and over don't need parental consent for sensitive services such as abortion and condom distribution. 

Where Are All The White Women At / Settling For Bad Sex

December 06, 2016 18:47 - 34 minutes - 31.2 MB

Kerry Witta K discusses a study that talks about white women fantasizing about Black men. JR Rydha discusses reasons why some people settle for bad sex.

The Flatland Diva episode

November 19, 2016 02:48 - 31 minutes - 28.5 MB

JR Rydha interviews Andrea Jones aka Flatland Diva. They talk about dating rules, superstitions, cunnilingus tips, world class head and interracial dating.

Grownmenchoppingitup Lost Episode

November 02, 2016 16:00 - 29 minutes - 27.1 MB

We recorded this episode after the episode talking about the Oedipus Complex where we were saying some mothers treat their sons like their man or boyfriend. It was lost in the archives until we found it. Go back and check out that episode.

Vaginal Odor / Social Media Relationships

October 26, 2016 02:37 - 40 minutes - 36.8 MB

Kerry witta K talks about a few things that can cause vaginal odor. JR Rydha talks about if Facebook or Instagram bad for relationships and what happens when your friends get involved in what you post about your relationships.

The Return of Grownmenchoppingitup

October 15, 2016 21:53 - 13 minutes - 12.7 MB

Kerry witta K returns with good news for GMCU fans, the show is back in production. He leads us off talking about things that should be a dealbreaker in relationships.

Giving Husband Privileges to Boyfriends / Why Women Fake Orgasm

August 10, 2016 01:16 - 42 minutes - 39.2 MB

JR Rydha talks about the rules when traveling with the opposite sex. Kerry Witta K gives us things women wish men knew about them sexually and the fElla discuss reasons why women fake orgasms.

Best Condom Brands / Weird Animal Mating Rituals

July 23, 2016 03:47 - 33 minutes - 30.7 MB

Kerry Witta K gives you the best condom brands depending on your preference. JR Rydha asks the fans what men and women want in a relationship. Then there is a rare Q & A with Kerry Witta K when he answers 6 personal questions.  

Expectation of Privacy / Men Want to Feel Wanted

July 13, 2016 03:32 - 38 minutes - 34.8 MB

JR Rydha talks about the reasons and consequences of going through your mates phone. Kerry witta K speaks on effective ways to get the ought an argument. 

2 Girlfriends / Strengthen Your Relationship

June 18, 2016 14:27 - 37 minutes - 34.6 MB

JR Rydha talks about if men can handle 2 girlfriends. Kerry witta K discusses ways you can strengthen your relationship.

Is Arguing Natural ? / Online Dating Obsession

June 10, 2016 00:06 - 28 minutes - 26.2 MB

Kerry witta K discusses if arguing in a relationship is natural or not. JR Rydha talks about the perils of online dating. The fellas also discuss 3 things couples should talk about before it's too late 

Relationship Appreciation / How The World Defines Beauty

June 02, 2016 03:21 - 45 minutes - 41.7 MB

JR Rydha poses the question of how do you keep from getting to the point of not being appreciated in a relationship and goes over ways you can fall in love deeper. Kerry witta K talks about definitions of beauty around the world and the traditions of it's people. 

Why Hoes Are Winning / Desensitized Penis Remedy

May 21, 2016 02:50 - 16 minutes - 15.3 MB

Due to computer uploading issues Kerry witta K handles this week's episode solo. He talks about why h is s are winning and gives fellas a remedy for desensitized a penis.

Domesticated Women / One Night Stands

May 12, 2016 00:11 - 42 minutes - 39.3 MB

Kerry witta K talks about 5 things that ruined American Women while JR Rydha asks his listeners if they have ever had a one night stand. The fellas discuss the wonders of domesticated women in this hilarious episode. We apologize for the short absence, we have been having computer issues.

Happy Mothers Day Audio 4 Mom

May 08, 2016 00:14 - 9 minutes - 8.61 MB

Kerry witta K recorded an audio card to his mother for Mothers Day because she is 1000's of miles away. Love you Mom.

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