Girls Ask Guys Show
151 episodes - English - Latest episode: about 1 year ago - ★★★★★ - 40 ratingsThere's no guidebook to finding love - until now. Welcome to the Girls Ask Guys Show where we answer your questions and talk about what you want to hear.
John and Ashley have over 30 years of combined experience in the dating, love, and relationship industry. They answer questions and discuss topics sent in by you, the listener. No topic is off the table.
Anxiety, meeting someone, dating, relationships, mental health, love, how to be authentic, and much more. Time tested and backed up by scientific research.
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The Search for Love: Get the Answers to the Last Five Dating Questions
April 11, 2023 10:00 - 33 minutes - 78.5 MBDo you feel lost in the world of dating? In this episode of I know Cupid, we dive into the last five questions people ask about dating in order to find true love. From evaluating your needs and wants to understanding the importance of compatibility, we cover it all. Get answers to finding your perfect match and get the answers you need to start your journey to true love. https://iknowcupid.com Title Song: "Kiss Chase" by Chloe Adams.
Finding Love in the Age of Apps: Your Burning Dating Questions Answered
April 04, 2023 10:00 - 36 minutes - 85.2 MBAre you struggling to navigate the dating world in the digital age? You're not alone! In this episode, we've gathered your most pressing dating questions. From what to say on a first date to what you want in a relationship, we cover it all. We'll dive into the top 10 questions that singles everywhere are asking, and provide actionable advice to help you find the love you're searching for. Whether you're new to the dating game or a seasoned pro, you'll find something valuable in this episod...
Manipulation in Romance: Protecting Yourself in a Dangerous Dating Landscape
March 24, 2023 10:00 - 32 minutes - 76.1 MBDo you think you might be dating a manipulative person? In this episode, John and Ashley explore Machiavellianism and its associated traits, revealing the risks and dangers of developing romantic relationships with individuals who possess such traits. Join us to discover the warning signs and their clever strategies to protect yourself from being misled or taken advantage of. https://iknowcupid.com Title Song: "Kiss Chase" by Chloe Adams. Used with permission.
Discover The Secrets of Machiavellianism in Dating
March 21, 2023 10:00 - 26 minutes - 61.2 MBCome explore the depths of the mind with John and Ashley: How can a person become so focused on controlling their partner, and what are the consequences? We discuss the manipulative tactics that these people use and how to spot them so you can protect yourself. Avoid the temptations of power and deception - listen and learn how to spot a Machiavellian before you fall into their emotional trap. https://iknowcupid.com Title song: "Kiss Chase" by Chloe Adams. Used with permission.
Connecting On A Date: Keeping It Simple But Memorable
March 09, 2023 11:00 - 24 minutes - 56.9 MBSpending quality time with the person you are interested in is one of the best ways to build a relationship that is strong and loving. But it's not always easy to come up with creative date ideas. On this episode of "I Know Cupid," we're discussing how to make date nights simple, yet memorable. We'll explore the importance of thinking outside the box and how to avoid confusion and tension. Then we wrap up by providing tips and ideas to create unique, transformational, and memorable date nigh...
The Dark Psychology Behind Dating Mind Games
March 07, 2023 11:00 - 53 minutes - 123 MBJohn and Ashley reveal the hidden psychological power plays that make navigating the dating landscape much more tricky. In this episode, we look at the dark psychology behind dating mind games while exploring the motivations in seemingly innocent interactions and investigating techniques to recognize and counteract this manipulative behavior. They reference the Hulu documentary mini-series "Stolen Youth" for real examples of how powerful manipulation can be. Tune in to learn how to protect y...
Emotions and Sexuality Part-3
March 02, 2023 11:00 - 29 minutes - 69.7 MBJohn and Ashley wrap up their discussion on Emotions and Sexuality while giving candid pointers on how it can help you develop better relationships and connections. https://iknowcupid.com Title Song: "Kiss Chase" by Chloe Adams. Used with permission.
Emotions and Sexuality Part-2
February 28, 2023 11:00 - 21 minutes - 50.6 MBJohn and Ashley continue discussing emotions and sexuality while sharing some of their own experiences and dating lives. Https://iknowcupid.com Title song: "Kiss Chase" by Chloe Adams. Used with permission.
Emotions And Sexuality - Part 1
February 23, 2023 11:00 - 21 minutes - 51.4 MBJohn and Ashley talk about the progression of expressing emotions and sexuality. They also cover recent dates and people they have met and how those interactions went along with insights into why these interactions worked.
Part 2, Finding Love At Home Depot?
February 21, 2023 11:00 - 27 minutes - 63.7 MBJohn and Ashley continue discussing their own views on dating and their dating lives. https://iknowcupid.com Title song: "Kiss Chase" by Chloe Adams
Finding Love At Home Depot?
February 16, 2023 11:00 - 16 minutes - 38.8 MBJohn and Ashley discuss a TicTok trend of women looking for single guys at Home Depot. Then start to discuss their own dating lives and the challenges they face.
Secrets Revealed
February 14, 2023 11:01 - 44 minutes - 104 MBJohn and Ashley explain what they have been up to over the past year. They give away some details that have never been revealed on the show. Then they go into detail about their own dating life, what has changed, and some interesting challenges they have faced. https://iknowcupid.com Opening Song: Kiss Chase by Chloe Adams
How To Find Your Soul Mate
February 09, 2023 11:01 - 28 minutes - 67.5 MBJohn and Ashley answer the question of where you start when searching for your soul mate. This answer comes from the first lesson of their soon-to-be-released course. They go into why this is the most important step in finding true love. This is the step most often missed by so many people. https://iknowcupid.com Opening Song: Kiss Chase by Chloe Adams
Relaunch of Girls Ask Guys Show
February 07, 2023 11:01 - 20 minutes - 48.3 MBJohn and Ashley return after a year of taking time off to restructure and rebuild. They launch into Season 5 version 2 with updates on what has taken place and what you can expect from the show moving forward. https://iknowcupid.com Opening Song: Kiss Chase by Chloe Adams
Choosing Someone
January 11, 2022 15:01 - 24 minutes - 56.6 MBChoosing a partner or deciding on a partner? The answer can have a dramatic effect on a romantic relationship. If you are not choosing, and allowing them to choose you, it can cause problems later on. John and Ashley touch on some points for you to consider in your own relationship. Theme song: "Kiss Chase" by Chloe Adams Leave a review at Podchaser Website: https://iknowcupid.com
Confidence and Egotism
December 30, 2021 15:00 - 38 minutes - 89 MBConfidence is a belief in oneself. A feeling or belief that you can do something well or succeed at something. Confidence is a general sense of belief and trust in your own ability to control your life. Egotism is the practice of talking and thinking about oneself excessively because of an undue sense of self-importance. A drive to maintain and enhance favorable views of oneself in regard for one's own talents or achievements; conceit, self-importance; acting with only one's own interests...
Egotism
December 28, 2021 19:16 - 17 minutes - 38.9 MBWant to know what egotism is? How about the difference between having a big ego and confidence? John and Ashley discuss different stories about what ego and confidence look like in this episode. Get a primer before listening to Thursday's episode. Licensed theme song: "Kiss Chase" by Chloe Adams. Site: https://iknowcupid.com Leave a Review: Podchaser
New Dating Podcast
December 23, 2021 09:00 - 23 minutes - 52.8 MBThe Girls Ask Guys Show is back with Season 4. John and Ashley give you background on what they have been up to while on their break. Both John and Ashley share about their relationships and some embarrassing moments. They discuss online dating and some changes happening there. Then they share some of what is coming up in the future. Visit our new site: https://iknowcupid.com Leave Us A Review: Podchaser
Girls Ask Guys Show Season 4 Launch
December 21, 2021 09:00 - 11 minutes - 26.6 MBThe Girls Ask Guys Show dating and relationship podcast Season 4 is launch is here. Learn what the new season has in store with a full ground-up rework based on your requests. Everything you asked for is here. Our new website: https://iknowcupid.com Leave a Review: Podchaser
Relationships and Attachment Styles
September 10, 2021 00:37 - 32 minutes - 74.3 MBIn any relationship, there is immense value to creating a strong foundation from which you can grow together. In this episode, we examine the different theories that have been developed regarding adult attachments. References are posted on our website. References are posted on our website. https://iknowcupid.com/relationships-and-attachment-styles/
Attachment Theory and Relationships
September 07, 2021 21:30 - 12 minutes - 28.2 MBGet an introduction to attachment theory, or attachment styles, and how they relate to your romantic relationships. These theories can be applied to any relationship you have. Friendship, business, professional, or family can all be affected by your relationship attachment style. These theories were originally thought of by British psychoanalyst John Bowlby and later expanded upon by his colleague Mary Ainsworth in the late 1960s and 1970s. In the 1980s the work was further expanded by Cin...
Child Marriage - Help The Kids Say No
August 24, 2021 08:00 - 50 minutes - 116 MBYou asked for more information on Child Brides and Child Grooms. John and Ashley do a deep dive into child marriage. In this episode, John and Ashley go into the history, statistics, psychology, death and divorce rates, and child marriage's toll on society and the economy. Go to our new site, I Know Cupid.com, to link the materials we used for this episode. Would you mind helping stop this travesty against kids? Find an organization you like and support them. Write or call your gov...
Shocking Child Marriage Statistics
August 11, 2021 01:47 - 7 minutes - 17.2 MBChildren are being married off at an alarming rate in the United States and around the world. By popular demand John and Ashley follow-up the last Child Marriage episode with even more child marriage information. For more information visit https://iknowcupid.com
Child Marriage In U.S.
July 29, 2021 08:00 - 39 minutes - 90.5 MBSix per thousand minors in the United States have been married between 2000 and 2015 according to a 2018 study. Roughly 11.96% of the 200,000 child wedding that took place were girls under the age of 18. In the U.S. there were marriage licenses issued for children as young as 12 and 13-years-old. Worldwide there are over 41,000 child brides per day. Roughly 15 million per year.
Inescapable Legal Hell Child Marriage In America
July 27, 2021 08:00 - 10 minutes - 23.3 MBChild marriage is still happening in the U.S. It is still legal in 45 states. There were approximately 200,000 legally married in the United States between 2000 and 2015. But, there's more. People can get Federal Government approval for marrying a minor as young as 13-years-old simply by going to another country and applying for a petition to bring the child bride into the United States. This continues to happen today in 2021.
Talking With Coach Anwar
July 15, 2021 20:00 - 58 minutes - 135 MBToday we talk with dating coach Anwar White from Get Your Guy Coaching podcast. We cover some of the more popular questions people have about getting back into dating as some of the covid restrictions are lifted. There are also have some pointed tips, suggestions, and explanations that just may help you get back into the dating scene in a successful manner.
Get Your Guy
July 13, 2021 09:18 - 12 minutes - 27.7 MBJohn and Ashley discuss an upcoming show where they talk with Anwar White. Anwar is a dating coach out of California and he coaches successful women who are looking for love. Listen in as John and Ashley give a few additional insights that were not covered in the discussion with Anwar.
Online Dating
July 02, 2021 17:00 - 35 minutes - 82.2 MBJohn and Ashley tackle some of the problems of online dating. Some of the things that dating companies and apps do to keep you hooked. A few problems that also take place when a person gets turned down online. There are also a few stories that John and Ashley share about their dating lives.
Online Dating Stories
June 29, 2021 20:41 - 14 minutes - 34 MBToday we start talking about online dating. We have a couple of online dating stories that were published earlier that will make you cringe. Plus, there are some inside moments shared about what takes place behind the scenes.
We Have An Announcement
June 23, 2021 00:48 - 12 minutes - 29 MBThe Girls Ask Guys Show has an announcement. We are going to be making a few changes so we can provide better service to our listeners and the clients we work with. This isn't a major change but it's one that is important to best serve everyone. Enjoy the show and listen for what is coming up next.
What Is Wrong With These Men?
June 18, 2021 00:58 - 47 minutes - 108 MBIn this episode, John and Ashley continue from Tuesday into looking at how two different men think about women. These two individuals are not alone, there are many men who think the same way. The way they think is spreading like rapid cancer and it is affecting the dating and relationships people experience. If you think you have it bad, just listen to what these two men have to say. Then think about the people who follow them and agree with them.
People We Don't Work With
June 15, 2021 21:03 - 12 minutes - 27.8 MBIn today's episode, John and Ashley give a preview of what is coming up. They give you some insights into how some people think and act who are a prime example of the type of people they will not coach. A definition of coaching is also given so people know what to expect.
Find Your True Love Language
May 27, 2021 08:00 - 22 minutes - 30.6 MBPeople express love and desire differently. If you don't know how you or another person express love and desire it can cause problems and frustration in the relationship. In this episode, John and Ashley explain how to find your true love language. They give you an exercise to find your partner's love language, and how to adapt to understand and speak so your partner knows what you are saying.
Fun Dates and Love Languages
May 25, 2021 12:13 - 14 minutes - 19.6 MBA special shout-out to a Capricorn, some discussion about a really fun date, and a little bit about knowing something about your love language. This isn't the love language you may be thinking of.
Will This Relationship Work?
May 20, 2021 08:00 - 36 minutes - 49.5 MBYou asked the question to know when a relationship will work or not. John and Ashley give you an in-depth answer along with some tools that you can use to figure out the answer for yourself. Know the four killers of relationships. A few of the warning signs and how they can creep into your relationship.
Indifference
May 18, 2021 09:33 - 13 minutes - 18.2 MBIn this episode, John and Ashley give you one of the four most common things they see that signals when a relationship is not going to work. Indifference is a warning sign that a breakup or divorce is about to happen.
How To Build Long Term Intimacy
May 13, 2021 08:00 - 52 minutes - 72.4 MBA highly requested episode on how we are able to build deeply intimate relationships so quickly. In this episode, John and Ashley give you all the information you need. Step-by-step and in-depth from beginning to end. Whether you are married and looking to add the spark back in, or you are dating this episode has everything you need.
Love And Desire
May 11, 2021 08:00 - 10 minutes - 14.4 MBJohn and Ashley give a few details of a highly requested follow-up to their "Relationship Fundamentals" episode.
What Makes Us Different
May 06, 2021 08:00 - 47 minutes - 65.5 MBA lot of questions are being asked about our new website and course. John and Ashley answer these questions while giving an overview of what their new course covers. They explain some details of what makes their course so different and effective from some of the other dating and relationship experts or gurus out there. What is contained in this episode can help many of you set your dating or love life on the right track. Enjoy.
Why Is It Taking So Long?
May 04, 2021 08:00 - 12 minutes - 18.4 MBMany of you are asking what is taking so long with our new site and upgraded course. What does the course cover and what will you get out of it? John and Ashley give a quick overview and answers in this episode of the Girls Ask Guys Show.
Secret Sauce Relationship Fundamentals
April 29, 2021 08:00 - 45 minutes - 63.5 MBIn this episode of the Girls Ask Guys Show, John and Ashley give you the fundamentals that every relationship needs if you want it to be successful. This is the secret sauce that makes us so different from everyone else. You may want a pen and paper for this one.
Our Secret Sauce
April 27, 2021 08:00 - 12 minutes - 18.3 MBYou are asking us "What makes you so different?" In this episode of the Girls Ask Guys Show, we start to reveal to you what sets us apart. In Thursday's show, we will take reveal the core of what makes us so different from every other dating, relationship, and love coach out there. If you want soul-shaking love don't miss this episode or Thursday's.
How To Turn A Conversation Sexual
April 22, 2021 08:00 - 42 minutes - 59 MBWe were asked how to take a conversation from "average" to a more flirtatious and sexual one. In this episode, John and Ashley give the details and steps to just that. Each step is explained along with a few additions to be aware of. Such as the five key signals to watch for to see if someone likes you.
Preview-Turning A Conversation
April 20, 2021 08:00 - 9 minutes - 9.59 MBHow do you turn any conversation into a more flirtatious or sexual conversation? John and Ashley give a preview of what is coming up this Thursday. They will be covering how to flirt with any topic and then take that topic and increase the sexual tension.
Why Pick-Up Doesn't Work
April 15, 2021 08:00 - 30 minutes - 29.1 MBIn this episode, John and Ashley explain in detail pick-up does not work. They explain why using the teachings of pick-up artists, and most dating gurus and dating experts is bad and the common results. Then you get to hear about a test that John conducted between a dating gurus advice and what is taught by the Girls Ask Guys Show.
Dating Guru Feedback
April 13, 2021 16:49 - 9 minutes - 9.92 MBThe response rate from our two-part episode of Dating Gurus blew us away. In this episode, John and Ashley answer a few questions and let you know what you can expect in the future with dating, relationships, and love in the Girls Ask Guys Show.
Porn Addiction with Powerful Eric
April 08, 2021 08:00 - 43 minutes - 60.5 MBJohn and Ashley take a look at porn addiction with coach Powerful Eric from PowerfulEric.com and the podcast Porn Talk. Eric, John, and Ashley discuss porn addiction and the effects it can have on relationships. There are some surprising facts and details unveiled when too much porn comes into your life.
Dating Gurus Part 2
April 06, 2021 08:00 - 44 minutes - 62.6 MBJohn and Ashley continue with their deep dive into looking at Dating and Relationship gurus and what they say they offer. Do they actually teach you what you need to know to improve your dating and relationship love life? Or is it just a bunch of very expensive feel-good theory? Find out in part 2 of Dating Gurus.
Dating Guru's
April 02, 2021 00:10 - 45 minutes - 63.8 MBIn this episode of the Girls Ask Guys Show, John and Ashley take a deep look into some relationship and dating gurus. They look at what they claim to teach and prices the prices they charge. Is your love life worth the cost of a house?
Boyfriend Is More Interested In Porn Than Sex
March 30, 2021 18:22 - 16 minutes - 23 MBA question from a listener asks John and Ashley what to do about her boyfriend. She says he is more interested in porn than actual sex. Listen in as John and Ashley get into the question and answer a few more related questions.