Girl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship Stories
494 episodes - English - Latest episode: 5 days ago - ★★★★★ - 231 ratingsA spicy blend of personal stories, in-depth reporting and inspiration! Journalist August McLaughlin explores sexual empowerment and pleasure, featuring a range of voices.
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Episodes
What You Need to Know About Herpes
January 19, 2017 08:56 - 36 minutes - 33.6 MBDr. Sheila Loanzon joins August to discuss her personal journey with herpes, how the STD can affect sex and intimacy, talking to partners about STDs and more. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who is scared to tell her new partner about her diagnosis.
Premature Ejaculation + a Comedian's Life
January 12, 2017 18:52 - 1 hour - 59.9 MB"She Comes First" author and psychotherapist Ian Kerner PhD weighs in on PE and oral pleasure. Megan Fleming PhD responds to a listener whose boyfriend orgasms too quickly. Courtney Black joins August for a chat on comedy, racism and dating.
Sensual Photography + Body Positivity
January 05, 2017 09:12 - 49 minutes - 67.3 MBNude photo shoots, body acceptance and more! August interviews Ricardo Scipio of Sex Goddess Project and adult film star, Alison Tyler. Dr. Megan explores ways to feel sexy.
150th Episode with Comedian Shawn Pelofsky!
December 22, 2016 03:34 - 58 minutes - 56.3 MBMasturbation, meditation and self-care make awesome alternatives to typical pass/fail New Year's resolutions. Hear empowering tips from previous Girl Boner® guests and more as August interviews renowned comic Shawn Pelofsky.
Punany Poets and Sultry Sex Ed
December 15, 2016 03:34 - 47 minutes - 45.3 MBSexual education can be fun, erotic and even life-saving. August interviews Jessica Holter, who created The Punany Poets after rapper Eazy-E died of AIDS complications, in anticipation of rapid spread of the disease among Black/African American women. Dr. Megan weighs in on erectile dysfunction.
Do You Really Know Who You're Dating?
December 08, 2016 09:04 - 55 minutes - 105 MBRalph Sutton of the SDR Show joins August for a chat on relationships gone wrong and why you may want to wait a bit before committing! Dr. Megan weighs in for a listener, who discovered her boyfriend has been lying about his age and name.
Female Sexual Pain
December 01, 2016 08:04 - 46 minutes - 43.5 MBPainful sex is relatively common and treatable. Therapist Kayna Cassard joins August for a chat on the causes, common myths, solutions and more! Dr. Megan answers a Q from a listener who loves a bit of kinky/BDSM pain, but wants to move past vaginal strain during intercourse.
A Latina Lesbian Comic's Journey
November 24, 2016 05:55 - 53 minutes - 73.9 MBComedian Sandra Valls joins August to discuss her work, dating, phone sex and more! Plus, learn spicy date and gift ideas for the holidays.
Sex After Trauma + Post-Election Hope
November 17, 2016 21:42 - 58 minutes - 79.7 MBTrump won, so now what? August responds to the presidential election, explores intimacy after sexual assault with Catriona McHardy, and shares messages from allies of marginalized groups. Dr. Megan weighs in for a rape survivor who’s felt triggered by the election.
Orgasmic Yoga in Public
November 11, 2016 01:16 - 38 minutes - 52.6 MBBreathe, stretch, climax! Dr. Victoria Reuveni joins August for a chat on the orgasmic yoga circles she leads and mighty potential perks of the practice. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in on sexual compulsivity.
Intuition, Intimacy and Safety
November 03, 2016 04:10 - 49 minutes - 65.2 MBGood lovemaking and intuition can go hand-in-hand. August interviews intuitive and healer Sophia Wise One on maximizing your intuitive skills for better sex and intimacy, healing from trauma and boosted safety. Dr. Megan answers a listener's Q: should a married woman stop fantasizing about her coworker?
What You Need To Know About Stalking
October 27, 2016 08:55 - 47 minutes - 65.1 MBLAPD veteran Paul Bishop joins August for a chat on stalking, from common myths and personal safety to what to do if it happens. Dr. Megan weighs in for a listener whose girlfriend, a stalking survivor, is experiencing its traumatic effects.
Ghosts, Sex & Sexual Trauma
October 22, 2016 07:00 - 40 minutes - 57.7 MBSpectrophilia is the belief that spirits and ghosts have sex with humans. August interviews Erik Vanlier on his work investigating the paranormal, sex with ghosts and his own experience being raped a demon. Dr. Megan answers a Q on regaining wetness during arousal. August reviews the Njoy Fun Wand!
Sex, Shame and Religion
October 13, 2016 07:33 - 40 minutes - 53.1 MBMasturbation, queerness, sex before marriage and even pleasure are shunned by many religious denominations. August chats with Lana Fox, erotica author and cult survivor, on her own experience and how she cultivated healing and empowerment. Dr. Megan Fleming answers a Q on moving past sexual shame without giving up your church.
Asexuality Myths and Allies
October 06, 2016 08:33 - 41 minutes - 55.7 MBLauren Jankowski returns for a chat on asexuality, ways (and why) to be a strong ally, Asexual Artists and more. Dr. Megan answers a listener's Q: Can you become asexual after trauma?
Sex Ed, Dudes and Dating
September 29, 2016 07:32 - 49 minutes - 67.6 MBDave Booda of Dude Panel Radio joins August for a chat about sex education, masturbation, dating and more! Dr. Megan shares what she feels boys should learn in sex ed.
Sex Ed, Dudes and Dating
September 29, 2016 07:32Dave Booda of Dude Panel Radio joins August for a chat about sex education, masturbation, dating and more! Dr. Megan shares what she feels boys should learn in sex ed.
Solo Play, Healing and Uncoupling
September 22, 2016 21:05 - 54 minutes - 75.1 MBMasturbation with toys can be awesome, but can vibrators be too much? August interviews Trish Causey, a writer, activist and musician, on her journey to really experiencing pleasure, surviving sexual trauma and more. Dr. Megan weighs in on a listener's troubled marriage.
Bladder and Sex SOS
September 15, 2016 02:49 - 32 minutes - 44.7 MBUTIs, squirting, urinary incontinence and more! Learn about common bladder-related health issues and how they interplay with sexuality with August and Missy Lavender, of the Women's Health Foundation. Dr. Megan replies to a listener who experiences pain when she attempts to place anything in her vagina.
Sex Myths and Empowerment
September 08, 2016 07:49 - 45 minutes - 61.9 MBWomen's sexuality, and sexuality as a whole, are deeply influenced by cultural beliefs, religion and upbringing. August chats with coach and author Lauren Brim about her journey from a costly search for "the one," to a whole new view of sex and relationships. Learn the real meaning of "sodomy," facts about anal play, why you should love flaccid penises and sex-positive parenting. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener, whose boyfriend can't maintain an erection without porn.
Baring it All and Healing the Soul
September 01, 2016 17:13 - 54 minutes - 48.2 MBNakedness, self-acceptance and more! August chats with Sandra La Morgese, PhD about comfort with nudity, her recent dominatrix photos and her new memoir. Joanna Harcourt-Smith, author of "Tripping the Bardo with Timothy Leary," joins in to explore living with poignancy and tenderness. Dr. Megan answers a Q on jealousy: how do you move on when your partner kissed someone else and confessed?
Mind-Body Sexuality
August 25, 2016 19:05 - 39 minutes - 54.2 MBBack-gasms, body image, mismatched libido and more! August chats with Dr. Shannon Chavez about her holistic approach to sex therapy and education. Dr. Megan Fleming answers a listener's Q about orgasming during massages.
Sex Work, Non-Monogamy and Communication
August 18, 2016 07:34 - 42 minutes - 58.2 MBDr. Laurie Bennett-Cook shares her journey from law student to sex worker to sex educator. This dynamic chat touches on unconventional marriages, jealousy in any kind of relationship, myths about working in brothels and more. Dr. Megan Fleming discusses what to do about discomfort over a partner's bisexuality.
Passionate Monogamy
August 11, 2016 06:04 - 52 minutes - 47.9 MBSpicy pleasure should carry on! Learn simple ways to keep a monogamous relationship hot, plus thoughts on "normal" sex frequency and circumcision, as August chats with sex educator Kait Scalisi, MPH. Dr. Megan Fleming answers a listener's Q on sexless marriage.
Finding Your Spiritual Match
August 04, 2016 06:39 - 45 minutes - 42.8 MBAngels, ouija boards, and sex! Can you attract a soulmate using spiritual "magic"? August gabs about it all w/matchmaker and author Marla Martenson. Dr. Megan weighs in on initiating sex.
Sex Drive Differences: When Yours Is Lower
July 28, 2016 07:43 - 43 minutes - 39.4 MBAugust chats with sex and relationship coach Pam Costa about mismatched libido, masturbation classes, penis polishing, and more. Dr. Megan answers a Q for a listener who hasn't had sex in years: Will her Girl Boner ever return?
Spicy Perks of Exercise + Sex Toys for People with Disabilities
July 21, 2016 00:26 - 38 minutes - 35.9 MBAugust interviews Natalie Dale, founder of Style PB, about the pelvic floor and empowering benefits of exercise. Nick Mahler, the owner of Dallas Novelty, highlights toys for people who are disabled. Dr. Megan shares advice for listener experiencing pelvic pain during sex.
Is Menopause Really That Bad?
July 15, 2016 19:12 - 32 minutes - 44.9 MBAugust interviews Dr. Megan and Dr. Barb DePree, a gynecologist and menopause specialist, on the potential challenges and benefits of menopause. Learn how it can affect sex and intimacy, how to manage common symptoms and more.
A Pakistani Adult Star and Feminist Porn
July 13, 2016 00:41 - 47 minutes - 64.6 MBAugust interviews adult film star and practicing Muslim, Nadia Ali, and answers a listener's question on feminist porn.
Sex Toy Extravaganza
July 08, 2016 18:49 - 46 minutes - 42.5 MBLearn how to rock your Girl Boner with recommended sex toys, alone or with a partner, as August interviews Sarah Tomchesson of The Pleasure Chest. Sarah and Dr. Megan also weigh in with important facts about female/estrogen-based-body sexual pleasure.
Learning to Thrive After an Eating Disorder
June 23, 2016 09:57 - 42 minutes - 58.3 MBAugust chats with Nicole LaBonde, a dancer, actor and Pilates instructor, about eating disorder recovery, dance as a healing tool, her recent experience with cancer and how all of this has affected her intimate life. A listener asks how to help her daughter, who has bulimia and is having unprotected sex with a controlling boyfriend. You'll also hear a special tribute to Orlando shooting victims, featuring singer Arielle.
Myths About Slut-Shaming
June 15, 2016 08:38 - 38 minutes - 52.2 MBAugust explores common misperceptions about "slut"-shaming with Emily Lindin of the UnSlut Project. Dr. Megan Fleming shares advice for a woman whose boyfriend is disturbed by the number of sex partners she's had.
When Breast Cancer Returns
June 10, 2016 00:36 - 50 minutes - 70 MBElle the Author returns to discuss breast cancer recurrence. Learn how her journey with cancer has changed her and her hopes moving forward. Dr. Megan shares advice for anyone enduring difficult times.
Disabilities, Relationships and Sexual Self-Esteem
June 02, 2016 09:22 - 33 minutes - 31 MBAugust interviews Lachrista Greco, a writer, speaker, activist and founder/CEO of Guerrilla Feminism, on her experience with learning disabilities. Dr. Megan Fleming shares thoughts for the wife of a wounded war veteran.
She Survived Child Sex Trafficking
May 26, 2016 06:52 - 1 hour - 64.2 MBAugust interviews Angela Featherstone, an actress, writer and lecturer who was sex trafficked as a teen. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in on sexual trauma and PTSD that interfere with physical intimacy.
Boobs, Body Image & the Breast Cancer Gene
May 19, 2016 07:36 - 38 minutes - 35.6 MBAugust interviews Tiffany Bailey, a singer who has opted for a double mastectomy and hysterectomy, after losing several family members to breast cancer and learning that she has the BRCA-1 mutated gene.
Period Panties, Menstrual Shame and Sexy Monogamy
May 12, 2016 18:36 - 22 minutes - 20.6 MBAugust talks periods, socially conscious entrepreneurship and more with THINX creator Miki Agrawal. Dr. Megan Fleming shares what to do when you crave sex with others, but no longer your partner.
Orgasmic Yoga and Masturbation Tips
May 05, 2016 08:25 - 41 minutes - 39.7 MBAugust interviews clinical sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee on orgasmic yoga and bringing yourself to climax, in celebration of National Masturbation Month. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who orgasms with ease solo, but not with her partner.
Sex After Baby and Libido Differences
April 28, 2016 07:36 - 36 minutes - 67.3 MBAugust chats with Sarah J. Swofford, MPH, an author and sex educator for moms, on sexual changes and after childbirth and ways to boost moms' self-esteem. Then Dr. Megan weighs in on Girl Boner® blog readers' FAQ on sex drive differences, timing sex and more.
Dating to Find Love
April 21, 2016 16:50 - 56 minutes - 53.2 MBAugust interviews Christina Weber of Undergound Unattached about dating dos and don'ts when you desire a serious relationship. Dr. Megan Fleming answers a listener's Q: What if your partner wants children, but you don't?
Porn Versus Real Sex
April 14, 2016 08:20 - 43 minutes - 41.6 MBAugust interviews exotic porn star Jayden Lee on the differences between sex in pornography and reality and Dr. Megan answers a listener's Q on oral sex: what if you don't enjoy going down on your partner?
What Girls and Women Need to Know About Pelvic Health
April 07, 2016 00:23 - 29 minutes - 28.8 MBAugust interviews Missy Lavendar, Founder and Executive Director of the Women's Health Foundation and coauthor of Below Your Belt: How To Be Queen of Your Pelvic Region. Dr. Megan weighs in for a single dad whose 5-YO daughter has sex questions. August shares a special gift for all listeners!
The Power of Cuddling + the "Bathroom Bills"
March 31, 2016 08:27 - 50 minutes - 46.1 MBAugust interviews writer Casey Brown on bathroom discrimination against trans people, then explores cuddling with Jean Franzblau, founder of Cuddle Sanctuary. Learn about cuddle parties, finding a cuddle partner and more! Dr. Megan Fleming answers a listener's Q about PDA: she loves it, her guy detests it.
Empowering Ways to Talk Sexy
March 24, 2016 01:23 - 38 minutes - 35.4 MBAugust chats with feminist, cannabis-friendly sex educator Ashley Manta. Learn about her personal journey, how smoking weed affects sex and orgasm and effective ways to talk "dirty." Dr. Megan Fleming answers a listener's Q: what if your partner is a lot more sexually adventurous than you are?
How to REALLY Get Body-Positive
March 17, 2016 07:02 - 44 minutes - 41.2 MBAugust interviews Melissa Toler, a body image coach who healed from decades of compulsive dieting. Learn about self-compassion, getting off the dieting train, body-positivity myths and more. Then August and Dr. Megan Fleming answer questions from listeners. Can a "lifestyle plan" damage sex drive? And what sex positions are ideal for women with a retroflexed uterus?
Funny Period Stories and Menstrual Shame
March 11, 2016 04:12 - 21 minutes - 19.5 MBAugust addresses menstrual shame and shares funny period stories from listeners' and her own life. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in about period sex, talking to girls about menstruation and more.
Sex, Grief and Abundance
March 03, 2016 04:38 - 49 minutes - 45.8 MBAugust interviews Lauren Marie Fleming, creator of #BawdyLove, on her journey to self and body acceptance, how grief affected her sexuality and the link between body image and money views. Dr. Megan Fleming answers a listener's Q: How can a woman regain her sex drive after sudden heartbreak?
Sexuality and Eating Disorders
February 25, 2016 04:08 - 54 minutes - 74.2 MBAugust interviews nutritionist Tye Riviera Handley about eating disorders in men, then explores sexuality, eating disorders and Christianity with Kendra Tanner of The True You Project. August and Dr. Megan Fleming reply to a listener's question about bulimia and sex drive.
Adult Star and Comic Book Creator Dillion Harper
February 18, 2016 07:13August interviews porn-star Dillion Harper about her personal journey, career, common sex questions she hears and more. Then Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in on multiple orgasms.
How Sexual Energy Helps Arouse Our Creative Genius + Sexy Self Care
February 11, 2016 09:51 - 40 minutes - 37.9 MBAugust interviews Sandra LaMorgese, PhD, a holistic sexuality expert and author who became a dominatrix later in life, on sex and creativity. Then Dr. Megan Fleming calls in to discuss sexy self-care and how to cultivate it even when you're stressed or depressed.